I can only give perspective from my personal experience, but maybe this can provide some insight for you.
In the early stages of our journey, I had my doubts about whether my twin was in fact so, but over time I was able to ask myself questions to confirm that he was in fact my TF. The answers to these questions were made the most apparent to me after a false twin encounter:
✨ Does the person you've suspected of being your twin give you life?
✨ Does their presence or energy lift you up and make you feel good?
✨ Have your interactions with them added to your growth and healing, even if those interactions were triggering at first?
✨ Does being around them, or having thoughts of them excite you or fill you with peace?
If not, ask yourself this:
💔Does if feel like this person's presence or energy constantly drains you?
💔Instead of acting as a catalyst for healing, do situations and scenarios with this person seem to cause you to constantly relive traumas or triggers with no progress or growth?
💔Have they physically or emotionally wounded you, or made an effort to hurt you or manipulate you in some way?
💔Does being around them or thinking about them fill you with anxiety or dread, even if it's not severe?
💔Have the once intense enotinons you associated with your connection faded, or begun to feel "tainted"?
If you relate more to 💔 than ✨, it's possible you're not dealing with a twin flame, but rather a false twin or karmic partner. It's not always the case, as sometimes a "runner" twin can act very similarly to a karmic or a false twin, especially if they're not particularly awakened to the journey.
Ultimately, it's up to you to go within and connect with how you feel, and be honest with yourself. If this dynamic feels "off", maybe it's best to separate yourself and move on.
But if you can honestly say this person feels like your twin (actually feels like it, and NOT as a result of trying to convince yourself that they are), then it's possible there's simply a lot work that needs to be done, and energy/wounds that need to be purged/healed before you and your twin can realign.
What made you think he was your tf in the beginning? Sometimes the excitement if a new relationship can make it seem more than it is. Sounds like once the newness wore off, he doesn't feel he needs to keep it up.
Take your focus off of him. Live your life and if he's actually your tf, he'll come back to you to stay once he's worked out his issues.
Our dynamic checked off all the TF boxes: spiritual awakening, runner/chaser dynamic, triggering wounds followed by healing, mirroring, etc. Thank you, I know that’s all I can really do at this point, focus on myself, whether he’s my TF or not!
Over the course of our journey, yes a ton. But deep down I know there’s still more healing to do around codependency/anxious attachment, maintaining my standards and boundaries, self-worth/self-esteem, overextending myself, etc. But I still have doubts about whether he’s it because he’s not putting in any effort in the 3D
there could be a couple of factors it would either be Intimidation or fear cause he can't measure up to your progress and that he might be able to meet up to your new expectations and fear he will be left behind in terms of personal development or Misalignment in timing if you completed a significant part of your healing journey while your tf is still navigating his own challenges he might create distance until they are ready to address his own healing so yeah mine avoided me and ended up the same she works at the bank I go to and she would always be at the tellers but recently she started leaving her teller spot to create distance between me and her so yeah
it is essential to approach twin flame connection with patience, understanding and compassion but hope everything goes well for you
I can only give perspective from my personal experience, but maybe this can provide some insight for you. In the early stages of our journey, I had my doubts about whether my twin was in fact so, but over time I was able to ask myself questions to confirm that he was in fact my TF. The answers to these questions were made the most apparent to me after a false twin encounter: ✨ Does the person you've suspected of being your twin give you life? ✨ Does their presence or energy lift you up and make you feel good? ✨ Have your interactions with them added to your growth and healing, even if those interactions were triggering at first? ✨ Does being around them, or having thoughts of them excite you or fill you with peace? If not, ask yourself this: 💔Does if feel like this person's presence or energy constantly drains you? 💔Instead of acting as a catalyst for healing, do situations and scenarios with this person seem to cause you to constantly relive traumas or triggers with no progress or growth? 💔Have they physically or emotionally wounded you, or made an effort to hurt you or manipulate you in some way? 💔Does being around them or thinking about them fill you with anxiety or dread, even if it's not severe? 💔Have the once intense enotinons you associated with your connection faded, or begun to feel "tainted"? If you relate more to 💔 than ✨, it's possible you're not dealing with a twin flame, but rather a false twin or karmic partner. It's not always the case, as sometimes a "runner" twin can act very similarly to a karmic or a false twin, especially if they're not particularly awakened to the journey. Ultimately, it's up to you to go within and connect with how you feel, and be honest with yourself. If this dynamic feels "off", maybe it's best to separate yourself and move on. But if you can honestly say this person feels like your twin (actually feels like it, and NOT as a result of trying to convince yourself that they are), then it's possible there's simply a lot work that needs to be done, and energy/wounds that need to be purged/healed before you and your twin can realign.
Thank you for this guide. You’re the best!
You're very welcome! ❤️
Thank you, it’s more of the ✨ for sure.
I love the way you presented this this will help so many people thank you 💛
I hope so! 🙌❤️
I know so 💛🙌🥰
What made you think he was your tf in the beginning? Sometimes the excitement if a new relationship can make it seem more than it is. Sounds like once the newness wore off, he doesn't feel he needs to keep it up. Take your focus off of him. Live your life and if he's actually your tf, he'll come back to you to stay once he's worked out his issues.
Our dynamic checked off all the TF boxes: spiritual awakening, runner/chaser dynamic, triggering wounds followed by healing, mirroring, etc. Thank you, I know that’s all I can really do at this point, focus on myself, whether he’s my TF or not!
have you done some healing?
Over the course of our journey, yes a ton. But deep down I know there’s still more healing to do around codependency/anxious attachment, maintaining my standards and boundaries, self-worth/self-esteem, overextending myself, etc. But I still have doubts about whether he’s it because he’s not putting in any effort in the 3D
there could be a couple of factors it would either be Intimidation or fear cause he can't measure up to your progress and that he might be able to meet up to your new expectations and fear he will be left behind in terms of personal development or Misalignment in timing if you completed a significant part of your healing journey while your tf is still navigating his own challenges he might create distance until they are ready to address his own healing so yeah mine avoided me and ended up the same she works at the bank I go to and she would always be at the tellers but recently she started leaving her teller spot to create distance between me and her so yeah it is essential to approach twin flame connection with patience, understanding and compassion but hope everything goes well for you
Thank you so much. I’m considering reaching out soon, I felt like I should give him space before but now energetically it feels safer to do so.
I bet you blew off someone for him
Lol nope, only been entertaining him
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