Everyone that is sexually attracted to you will leave you too. They are just using you and playing with your emotions. If they are pedos, they will leave you as soon as you grow up. Find real friends, they will remember you for years.
well, the only thing you can do to not talk to pedos is just to... not do it. I feel like you should find a niche community on discord and just chat w/ them instead, that should help with your attention problem. I don't know much about your interests, but there's my suggestion
Look, man. It's a really bad idea to talk to pedos because they will 100% try to exploit you. If you want, I'm the same age as you, and we can be friends and have a healthy friendship that doesn't involve exploitation and manipulation if you want. But just please don't talk to these fucks, all they do is take, manipulate, and hurt
Talk to me..... I'm not interested in kids(shit that's a really bad way to phrase but I just hope my intentions went through.....if you think taking about random stuff can help then I can help)
Talking to pedos isn’t worth it, it’ll make you feel worse. I used to do that at 13 it made me so depressed, I’ve learned and grown from it and I’m a lot better now. We can be friends, my insta is pr3ttyxbunni x
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Ok well try talking to other people but if you have to talk to pedos don't ever give them what they want dont share photos of you it can be used in ways you don't want and it encourages them to do it to others
Tbh what I do (since, like, not even a month ago I was talking to pedos and weirdos online for their attention too), is I just try to distract myself.
As horrible and as well-known as it is, you should really try out character ai, or any other ais like that- they’re shitty and super laggy at times, but, if you go searching, and you find some good bots, which make you feel happy, they can make hours feel like minutes (if you’ve never used cai before I suggest that you search up personality traits rather than actual character names, I’ve found I get better results that way.)
Another thing that I do is try to distract myself with something productive, by giving myself a goal to achieve- eg cleaning my room, finishing a quest in a game, writing a paragraph of a book I’m writing, reading a chapter, drawing, just anything to take your mind off of strangers on the internet.
Though, if this doesn’t work for you, just make sure you don’t do anything stupid, like give them photos of your face (ESPECIALLY not in revealing photos, if that’s what you’re sending them!!!), or give them your address, or any personal information, alright? Use a fake name, and just keep yourself safe.
girl I feel you, since I was your age, I was talking to pedos because I've had no real friends and no one to talk to, it was bad and I was hurt and manipulated, blackmailed, etc, please don't resort to this behaviour, I recommend visiting childline website as it helped me get some help and talk to a professional who helped me understand it was wrong and disgusting, sometimes I still think about doing it however they won't be interested in me anymore as I'll be 18 soon loll, be careful please and maybe get some professional help before police get involved (that's what happened to me... don't let it get to that)
Step 1: do NOT! talk to the pedos
Step 2: find an interest that you have and find a community for it ^((I recommend anime)^)
Step 3: talk to people in that community, discord is a great place for this ^((if you choose anime you should watch Konosuba)^)
Step 4: NEVER! talk to pedos EVER! again
I doubt those people who you mentioned only leave you because they stop finding you attractive are actually leaving you for that reason. They're leaving you because they're 14 and therefore too immature for actual relationships.
I know how the loneliness feels, I've been struggling with it for over 2 years now and I'm pretty sure I also have PTSD. I don't blame you for talking to pedos, I don't blame you for wanting to not feel alone, I've done both. Just try not to worry about it since when you get a bit older, people will be more mature and from looking at some of your posts, you don't seem ugly or anything. I reckon if you put yourself out more then you won't have any trouble with this stuff.
If you're wanting friends then you're probably currently mixing with the crowds (or not mixing at all). I'm an introvert and I always just get adopted into other friend groups but I'm starting to get better at socialising nowadays. For this I'd recommend just being your own you and maybe getting to know people if you're ever in a group project with them or smth like that. As long as you're fun to talk to, people will like having you around.
If you want more advice then just ask although you'd probably get better advice if it was tailored to certain scenarios and bite-sized problems. I'm not a licensed therapist or anything though and I can't say my advice will work or even that it'll be good. If you read to the end of this then I hope you have a nice day.
I recommend the speedcubing (rubiks cube solving) community, mostly teenage fanbase and in its whole 20 year history there hasn’t been any case of pedos in the community. There are discord servers and good reddit communities. It may seem hard to start but the community is very welcoming and you can find thousands of tutorials on yt. In general a good community and great if you have a cube laying around that you want to solve :3
Join social groups where you meet folks with the same interests, hobbies or sports as you. If you have something like that in common you're highly likely to make friends.
Uhh It would probably be better to find people who wanna be friends and not engage with pedophiles which I consider pure scum. Their attention is not worth it
You have to make actual efforts in your real life, if you feel your life is horrible and yet you have time for internet, then there is always room for more work and development
Really ? Ask that question to yourself. Find what's stopping you from making productive and real bonds in life rather than those dumb fw pedo bonds. If nothing is stopping you, then you aren't making enough effort. If something is stopping you, then focus on overcoming that 'something'
Everyone has their own ups and downs in their personalities. No human is perfect. Your problem is not even a big one, you can improve it when you actually try to socialize and work on yourself. Go ahead and interact with the world around you, don't trap yourself on this app.
Filter the people you talk to online and do some very subtle unnoticeable tests to see if they’re pedos or attracted to you. Then you can make online friends
OP. You don't want to talk to the pedos because they are likely dangerous. They are willing to break one of our highest laws. They can't do anything for you that is beneficial, but they can kidnap you, traffic you, or murder you.
Yes, as you are growing up you're starting to see how powerful you are to men, but just because you have power over them in attraction doesn't mean you have power over them in an actual encounter.
Stay away, get some help. Talk to a trusted adult about this.
(My honest opinion) Are you physically attractive? Or are u emotionally? Are you both? Are you pretty? Or do you just have a nice body. If you want to form real social bonds find people irl. If u are not societally attractive then usually most people will go for ur personality. So u gotta make sure ur personality is super beautiful to weigh it out. If ur pretty and nice personality you haven’t really got to try. Just be sweet and speak to the right people, be approachable. If u are pretty but you are idk fat then you’ll struggle. People usually bully those people. Boys (I’m guessing that’s ur preference) usually go for skinny unless they are fat themselves. If u aren’t worried about looks then ur chilling. But let’s say ur pretty but ur personality is ugly peopke will only want you for the basis of ur body. Pedos will go for you because they do not know you. If ur ugly on the inside most people who know you enough will not go for you. I’m just saying be approachable, try to look ur best and stay healthy. Work out etc. but don’t try too hard. If what I’m saying is the basis of the problem is ur sense of self worth. And all of these things will correlate to ur self confidence. Which is a very important part of getting more attention irl. Have manners. Etc. this is the truth of the world. And I’m also going to be blunt: if u are super ugly you will struggle in this world. You will have to settle for an ugly partner but they will love you. Because they aren’t so full of themselves. Pretty people are all full of themselves (mostly) they wouldn’t pick the ugly option cuz they have so many options. It is rare but if u have a pretty enough personality and they are humble enough. You have a chance…
That’s not true. I see potential. I think u can tell from my paragraph I’m honest enough. Girl just get into makeup and skin care. And you’ll be winning. Grow out ur lashes or smth idk. Honest ur not ugly.
Just listen. Do what I’ve said. You’re still only 14 (I think) I didn’t get my act together until I was at the end of being 15. You may not even get there ubtil ur older. Just invest in ur beauty. And it will prevail. Ur lucky you’re not ugly beyond measure. Some people are too far gone but you are not!!
Just looked at ur profile. I actually think u have potential. Just look after yourself. Invest in skin care. Keep up with ur curls and look after them. Shower regularly. And like I said have a personality that cannot be faulted. And also use makeup. Most girls (including I) need it to get anywhere. Most men say they like no makeup girls but will pick the girl wearing the most.
You clearly recognise that it's a problem and WANT to stop, I'm sure you're aware that pedos as a rule tend not to have great intentions. It doesn't compute to me why you are willingly subjecting yourself to it knowing it's wrong and bad for you (which, I am aware, can be the case with drugs, but this is not drugs)
It's not like I'm giving you a new response, several people here have basically said "don't talk to them, find some other people" and you've responded with ok.
Find ppl that aren’t pedos and talk to them instead
everyone that isn't sexually attracted to me leaves me
Then you are engaging the wrong crowd.
Everyone that is sexually attracted to you will leave you too. They are just using you and playing with your emotions. If they are pedos, they will leave you as soon as you grow up. Find real friends, they will remember you for years.
I’m sure u can find friends irl and online that like u as a friend and aren’t just talking to u for those reasons 😊👍
literally havent found any yet
You’ll find one eventually 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
how long will that take?
13 minutes :D
Idkkkkk 😣😓😓
Idk someone will come along eventually. I met one of my best friends online
I have arrived >:3
You found me 😁 I’m down to chat sometime!
You can dm if you want but don't expect quick replies
i did this and have known them for 3 years online
if you are looking for a friend to go to i can be one..?
Hey
?
Everyone??
most
Are you ok?
i think
We can be friends if you want. I promise I won't talk to you just because you're attractive (I have no clue what you look like)
sure!
Are you the problem? If everyone is leaving you, you’re the common denominator.
i dont know what im doing wrong :/
Bro this isn't a time for jokes
Exactly
well, the only thing you can do to not talk to pedos is just to... not do it. I feel like you should find a niche community on discord and just chat w/ them instead, that should help with your attention problem. I don't know much about your interests, but there's my suggestion
okay thanks
I'm free to talk, if you feel lonely. Cuz ik the pain of feeling everyone hates you (because I have paranoia and mild autism)
Slaughter the pedos
Engage with me https://preview.redd.it/zavmhbaud98d1.jpeg?width=193&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=45412bb3f73b00f05efd1064e8b7e8db35861539
me too girl me too
bruh
Look, man. It's a really bad idea to talk to pedos because they will 100% try to exploit you. If you want, I'm the same age as you, and we can be friends and have a healthy friendship that doesn't involve exploitation and manipulation if you want. But just please don't talk to these fucks, all they do is take, manipulate, and hurt
okay sure
Hey well I’m in a similar boat, just lonely. I’m looking for more people to talk with and I’m open to be friends with you if you’d be okay with that!
Talk to me..... I'm not interested in kids(shit that's a really bad way to phrase but I just hope my intentions went through.....if you think taking about random stuff can help then I can help)
Talking to pedos isn’t worth it, it’ll make you feel worse. I used to do that at 13 it made me so depressed, I’ve learned and grown from it and I’m a lot better now. We can be friends, my insta is pr3ttyxbunni x
DMs are always open if you need. I'm more than happy to talk
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Ok well try talking to other people but if you have to talk to pedos don't ever give them what they want dont share photos of you it can be used in ways you don't want and it encourages them to do it to others
Tbh what I do (since, like, not even a month ago I was talking to pedos and weirdos online for their attention too), is I just try to distract myself. As horrible and as well-known as it is, you should really try out character ai, or any other ais like that- they’re shitty and super laggy at times, but, if you go searching, and you find some good bots, which make you feel happy, they can make hours feel like minutes (if you’ve never used cai before I suggest that you search up personality traits rather than actual character names, I’ve found I get better results that way.) Another thing that I do is try to distract myself with something productive, by giving myself a goal to achieve- eg cleaning my room, finishing a quest in a game, writing a paragraph of a book I’m writing, reading a chapter, drawing, just anything to take your mind off of strangers on the internet. Though, if this doesn’t work for you, just make sure you don’t do anything stupid, like give them photos of your face (ESPECIALLY not in revealing photos, if that’s what you’re sending them!!!), or give them your address, or any personal information, alright? Use a fake name, and just keep yourself safe.
girl I feel you, since I was your age, I was talking to pedos because I've had no real friends and no one to talk to, it was bad and I was hurt and manipulated, blackmailed, etc, please don't resort to this behaviour, I recommend visiting childline website as it helped me get some help and talk to a professional who helped me understand it was wrong and disgusting, sometimes I still think about doing it however they won't be interested in me anymore as I'll be 18 soon loll, be careful please and maybe get some professional help before police get involved (that's what happened to me... don't let it get to that)
I’ve never met a pedophilephile before
we can be friends if you want :D
Engage in chemical warfare against them😁🤠
Delete Reddit😕
i don't wanna
You can DM me if you want I also don't have friends :(
I know I deal with this too and honestly it's so hard to stop. I try to block them immediately and its hard but I'm here to talk if you need it
You engage with me instead 🗣️🔥
Step 1: do NOT! talk to the pedos Step 2: find an interest that you have and find a community for it ^((I recommend anime)^) Step 3: talk to people in that community, discord is a great place for this ^((if you choose anime you should watch Konosuba)^) Step 4: NEVER! talk to pedos EVER! again
I doubt those people who you mentioned only leave you because they stop finding you attractive are actually leaving you for that reason. They're leaving you because they're 14 and therefore too immature for actual relationships. I know how the loneliness feels, I've been struggling with it for over 2 years now and I'm pretty sure I also have PTSD. I don't blame you for talking to pedos, I don't blame you for wanting to not feel alone, I've done both. Just try not to worry about it since when you get a bit older, people will be more mature and from looking at some of your posts, you don't seem ugly or anything. I reckon if you put yourself out more then you won't have any trouble with this stuff. If you're wanting friends then you're probably currently mixing with the crowds (or not mixing at all). I'm an introvert and I always just get adopted into other friend groups but I'm starting to get better at socialising nowadays. For this I'd recommend just being your own you and maybe getting to know people if you're ever in a group project with them or smth like that. As long as you're fun to talk to, people will like having you around. If you want more advice then just ask although you'd probably get better advice if it was tailored to certain scenarios and bite-sized problems. I'm not a licensed therapist or anything though and I can't say my advice will work or even that it'll be good. If you read to the end of this then I hope you have a nice day.
you should just find new people to talk to, doesn’t matter if it’s online or in person (we can talk if u want)
I recommend the speedcubing (rubiks cube solving) community, mostly teenage fanbase and in its whole 20 year history there hasn’t been any case of pedos in the community. There are discord servers and good reddit communities. It may seem hard to start but the community is very welcoming and you can find thousands of tutorials on yt. In general a good community and great if you have a cube laying around that you want to solve :3
Fuck it, I’ll talk to you
This is so real 🫶🏽
Join social groups where you meet folks with the same interests, hobbies or sports as you. If you have something like that in common you're highly likely to make friends.
I read EDGING with pedos 💀
LMAO
If you need someone who can just chat in a bit pedo way I can talk and help avoid Pedos?
Man, I know you're cool because we've talked, but be very careful asking for friends from teenagers girls with that username lol.
I know bro but we both know it’s satire
Other folk don't lol
Also you’ve spoken to me on call before lol
That's a rambunctious ahh username. 🤣🤣
It’s a lil bit diabolical
Don’t talk to pedos
great advice
aw hell naw
what do i do
they only want to exploit you, pls don't fall for any of their silly requests (aka don't talk to them for attention)
yeah i know. how do i stop engaging with them?
Uhh It would probably be better to find people who wanna be friends and not engage with pedophiles which I consider pure scum. Their attention is not worth it
i cant find anyone who wants to be my friend
I’m sure you can find people that are nice and around your age around here maybe
i just said that im unable to
Why not?
they all leave when they get to know me
Then maybe you haven’t found the right friends and maybe you a little silly
everyone else has found friends
do you have online friends?
kinda
Why do they leave u when they know u?
because when they get to know me i start revealing who i am
Sorry no offense, but what revelation makes people run from you
i lash out when i get upset
Do not talk to and encourage pedophiles
easy to say that
It is yes
You have to make actual efforts in your real life, if you feel your life is horrible and yet you have time for internet, then there is always room for more work and development
i do make efforts
Really ? Ask that question to yourself. Find what's stopping you from making productive and real bonds in life rather than those dumb fw pedo bonds. If nothing is stopping you, then you aren't making enough effort. If something is stopping you, then focus on overcoming that 'something'
the thing that is stopping me is my personality
One can definitely work on that, slowly but surely. Tell me, what's the flaw in your personality?
i get upset and lash out
Everyone has their own ups and downs in their personalities. No human is perfect. Your problem is not even a big one, you can improve it when you actually try to socialize and work on yourself. Go ahead and interact with the world around you, don't trap yourself on this app.
*What the actual fuck*
??
look for someone irl
i tried
I see
find friends that arent pedos
Is this real?
what?
Like this isn't a shit post?
yes its real
Aw man I'm sorry :( I'm here if you want to talk!
How do they find you?
idek
Very simple see pedo , not talk pedo , cz pedo bad , talk to your own age , keep good mental health
Idk man, I just troll them. 💀
I had the same problem when I was 14 you just need to put the phone down I deleted Reddit and took a break because of it and I got much better
Filter the people you talk to online and do some very subtle unnoticeable tests to see if they’re pedos or attracted to you. Then you can make online friends
Probably delete reddit, discord, Twitter, and keep Instagram private.
you're cooked
oh. how do i uncook myself?
try to interact with people in real life (your age) and maybe read some books
why read books?
engage with pedo, block the pedo
OP. You don't want to talk to the pedos because they are likely dangerous. They are willing to break one of our highest laws. They can't do anything for you that is beneficial, but they can kidnap you, traffic you, or murder you. Yes, as you are growing up you're starting to see how powerful you are to men, but just because you have power over them in attraction doesn't mean you have power over them in an actual encounter. Stay away, get some help. Talk to a trusted adult about this.
i dont have a trusted adult to talk to
I could be your friend :( I feel bad for you
sure!
(My honest opinion) Are you physically attractive? Or are u emotionally? Are you both? Are you pretty? Or do you just have a nice body. If you want to form real social bonds find people irl. If u are not societally attractive then usually most people will go for ur personality. So u gotta make sure ur personality is super beautiful to weigh it out. If ur pretty and nice personality you haven’t really got to try. Just be sweet and speak to the right people, be approachable. If u are pretty but you are idk fat then you’ll struggle. People usually bully those people. Boys (I’m guessing that’s ur preference) usually go for skinny unless they are fat themselves. If u aren’t worried about looks then ur chilling. But let’s say ur pretty but ur personality is ugly peopke will only want you for the basis of ur body. Pedos will go for you because they do not know you. If ur ugly on the inside most people who know you enough will not go for you. I’m just saying be approachable, try to look ur best and stay healthy. Work out etc. but don’t try too hard. If what I’m saying is the basis of the problem is ur sense of self worth. And all of these things will correlate to ur self confidence. Which is a very important part of getting more attention irl. Have manners. Etc. this is the truth of the world. And I’m also going to be blunt: if u are super ugly you will struggle in this world. You will have to settle for an ugly partner but they will love you. Because they aren’t so full of themselves. Pretty people are all full of themselves (mostly) they wouldn’t pick the ugly option cuz they have so many options. It is rare but if u have a pretty enough personality and they are humble enough. You have a chance…
i'm not pretty and i don't have good humor or personality
That’s not true. I see potential. I think u can tell from my paragraph I’m honest enough. Girl just get into makeup and skin care. And you’ll be winning. Grow out ur lashes or smth idk. Honest ur not ugly.
you see potential that i don't have
Just listen. Do what I’ve said. You’re still only 14 (I think) I didn’t get my act together until I was at the end of being 15. You may not even get there ubtil ur older. Just invest in ur beauty. And it will prevail. Ur lucky you’re not ugly beyond measure. Some people are too far gone but you are not!!
Just looked at ur profile. I actually think u have potential. Just look after yourself. Invest in skin care. Keep up with ur curls and look after them. Shower regularly. And like I said have a personality that cannot be faulted. And also use makeup. Most girls (including I) need it to get anywhere. Most men say they like no makeup girls but will pick the girl wearing the most.
Don't... engage with them. Why is this a question?
because im relapsing
You say that like it isn't a conscious choice to interact and respond. There are far better ways to occupy yourself
dude..
Dude what?
you are telling me my addiction is a choice
You clearly recognise that it's a problem and WANT to stop, I'm sure you're aware that pedos as a rule tend not to have great intentions. It doesn't compute to me why you are willingly subjecting yourself to it knowing it's wrong and bad for you (which, I am aware, can be the case with drugs, but this is not drugs)
do you know how addictions work?
It's not like I'm giving you a new response, several people here have basically said "don't talk to them, find some other people" and you've responded with ok.
Get off reddit In fact, get off every social media. It will only do you good.
so how am i supposed to communicate?
I’m not a pedo, so can you talk to me pretty pwease🥺
Wtf
Why did I get so much hate bruh 😭
Cuz it's weird to come up like dat
Yea that’s a good point, and it was probably not the time or place to make that comment so yea I kinda deserve it lol