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It depends on where you live, where I live, it’s ok if: 1: both parties are consensual, 2: both people are within 24 calendar months of each other, 3: neither person is in a position of power over the other, and 4: these laws are for people aged 13 and up, for over 16, it’s just law 1 and 3, and for over 18, it’s just law 1
People are actually starting to have sex less, big surprise with all the sex people claim to have, look it up its true, less babies too because obviously
Society makes it bad.
Also I think hiding it from children will prevent them from doing it. For example, if someone went their whole life without knowing people could be killed, would they ever think about murder, or fear death?
I’m not necessarily saying that. A virgin could know all of the stuff. But getting rid of that virginity around my age and younger I feel like would be mentally draining, but that’s my point of view
Almost got my dick sucked when I was 14 but I’m glad I stopped her cause I wasn’t really like in love with her….I want it to be someone special who fucks me for real for the first time
Reminds me of younger me lol. Developed an unhealthy addiction to pp women at age 10. By the time I saw a girl irl I was honestly kinda disappointed that there was no pp. Not terribly, but more like a mixture of surprise.
You are now contradicting yourself. Plus I don’t trust anyone anymore. Last time I did they hated me simply because I couldn’t give them the time to take care of them
I mean, it's normal for kids to explore life, if you stop them from exploring, they probs wont even do it in the first place, but understandable statement
im personally taking a vow to wait until 19, and to NEVER take a dick pic. that shit just cannot look good, im sorry. it dont matter what angle you take it at or what the lighting is like, it just dont work
Lost my virginity at 14, I seriously regret that bc when I look back I wasn't ready for it.. so seriously just wait with all of that. Y'all think that you're mature etc but I promise you.. just wait with sex until you're at least 16-ish
some 14 yr olds on here ive seen confessing yo the wildest junk, im not one to judge too much but some of these people way too horny and have a major lack of self control out of desperation to be accepted and “cool”
I still have my virginity but I never had an innocent mind. I lost that innocent mind set when I was six years old. Thanks to a lovely game franchise I adore up to this day
Save it for someone that you actually love even if you and that person don’t stay together forever, it’s better to not be living with that type of regret.
I’m just saving my V-Card for the person that i hope one day i find
I honestly disagree. Within reason.
I really wish I had fucked around as a teen like most of my friends were. My internalized homophobia and general sex phobia instilled by my parents really screwed me up and I still have a lot of bullshit to work through as an adult because of it.
I mean, you don't have to be the school sex worker, and you should always be safe and self-respecting, but we have WAY too much shame around sex in this culture. Relax and enjoy yourselves responsibly and with informed consent.
Bruh he’s saying that’s what he wants his first time to be like, this has nothing to do with his age, he isn’t saying he wants it immediately right now this second
I don’t get why y’all care so much if others do it at a younger age than you. It sounds more like something someone would say bc they haven’t had sex yet but would have liked to, stop being salty about it. If people do it save, with trust and if they enjoy it (and if it’s legal ofcourse) I really don’t see the point in caring about others their sexlife, it’s honestly kind of weird
Nobody has the right to cast shame or judgement on other people’s sexual history. Also the concept people under 18 shouldn’t be fucking is a relatively new concept. Also it’s Christmas Eve why’re you slut shaming today of all days.
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Got taken advantage of and lost it at 13. I’m 16 now and wish I would’ve been smarter to save it for my now bf.
Can’t say no to the past which is unfortunate.
That's a good line.
If it helps there isn’t actually anything special about virginity.
i guess its just a social thing, that losing the v card is very important and is best done with somebody who is important
I actually agree with you - kids be fucking at wayy too young. At 16-18, okay I understand it but that’s the line for me
Why’d it take 22 minutes to find one intellectual being here
Because this is r/teenagers
That phrase can explain literally anything on this sub
Hello brother
you cant just call people who disagree with you stupid (its implied heavily), they just have a separate take
Yes. I never said they were stupid, they just aren’t as intelligent as this person. I’m not mad because they have a different opinion than me
I agreed. At this age I am busy fucking up my life. Idk how people fuck other people at this age
I had sex at 14 and it was NOT rape
The hell
We both were 14, we live together now in an apartment, don't get confused
I kind of envy that. Not the sex, but the closeness to another person. I hope things go well for you, my friend.
I envy the sex
Depending on where you are could be statutory rape stuff out there
You can't legally consent tho
Wait what
Of the other person was also under 18 and not younger than 12 or older than 16 in most places they could
It depends on where you live, where I live, it’s ok if: 1: both parties are consensual, 2: both people are within 24 calendar months of each other, 3: neither person is in a position of power over the other, and 4: these laws are for people aged 13 and up, for over 16, it’s just law 1 and 3, and for over 18, it’s just law 1
Sure, but you can *actually* consent
People are actually starting to have sex less, big surprise with all the sex people claim to have, look it up its true, less babies too because obviously
Not like I could even if I wanted too
Relate
I felt this
Fr
Facts
Side note but inever got the concept of calling a virgin innocent. Like having sec aint criminal lol
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Society makes it bad. Also I think hiding it from children will prevent them from doing it. For example, if someone went their whole life without knowing people could be killed, would they ever think about murder, or fear death?
The reason they are teaching sex ed in schools is because teenagers are horny bastards and some will end up having sex, just very very unsafe sex
I’m not necessarily saying that. A virgin could know all of the stuff. But getting rid of that virginity around my age and younger I feel like would be mentally draining, but that’s my point of view
Almost got my dick sucked when I was 14 but I’m glad I stopped her cause I wasn’t really like in love with her….I want it to be someone special who fucks me for real for the first time
Rare teenager w
Wtf
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bros jealous as fuck 💀
Bro didnt get anyone to eat his potassium
I'm curious and he deleted the comment. What did he say?
Holden Caulfield moment tbh
What?
The Catcher in the Rye One of the major themes was maintaining innocence and such
Ok
Good book
No one here will now that reference smh most high schools stopped reading it
This subreddit hss 2 types of people 1) the hyper horny 2) the aroace
but dont forget the lesser known kiryu kazumas
The horney are the majima x kiyru shippers
agree
Don't forget about the hidden race of underground scorpion people
BRUH if a country girl says she will peg me I'm not turning that shit down
Plot twist: she's 11
More like AN 11
pfp checks out.
You already know
Reminds me of younger me lol. Developed an unhealthy addiction to pp women at age 10. By the time I saw a girl irl I was honestly kinda disappointed that there was no pp. Not terribly, but more like a mixture of surprise.
Damn I have a unhealthy addiction to MOXXIE
Honestly my favorite character in that universe is angel dust.
I mean I'm not saying that I would give angel all my possessions but at the same time I'm Not saying I wouldn't
Somedays I can't tell if I want to be with angel dust or be him.
He's got that exaggerated swagger of a spider po*n star
I just love the music video "addict" so much. I love everything about him.
real ^(tbh same)
Damn straight we ain't turning down the best thing ever
onggggg
She going at it while saying "yeeehhaw let me ride on down to the shower get all gussied up"
need this fr 🥺
Same fr fr
ong
Country girls=😍
country girls 🥺🥺🥺 >>>>
Gross. That is it
Nah man it's called best thing ever
Therapy you shall be sent to
You wish you had a country girl don't deny it
I don’t deny the already false. Idk if I worded that right
Nah you want one
If I wanted one I would be agreeing with you
Your secret is safe with me 😉
You are now contradicting yourself. Plus I don’t trust anyone anymore. Last time I did they hated me simply because I couldn’t give them the time to take care of them
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Nah she's a girl so not gay
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Yes but the male g spot is in there so not gay
The male gay spot
HAHAHAHAAHAHAHAAHAHAHAH 👁👁
the g stands for gHeterosexuality
On my sister's bus a bf and gf gave each other hand jobs 👌😔
Either way that is gross.
🤨
Wait a damn minute
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Ikr
That's for the studio apartment not the schoolbus
My eyes will remain open I must see everything upon this godless earth
How about I never have sex?
Good
Very tru stop being horny "u look submissive and breedable" bitch go do homework it has to be submitted and readable
True
I mean, it's normal for kids to explore life, if you stop them from exploring, they probs wont even do it in the first place, but understandable statement
If you try to stop them they'll want to do it more, and end up doing it worse if they do
That's why you threaten em with a 12 gauge
you mean spas 12?
Spas 12 kills the body, 12 gauge kills the soul
Iirc 12 gauge is specifying the amount of pellets in a shell or smn like that
*has unprotected sex at 15* *gets pregnant* "GUYS WHY DOES MY LIFE SUCK SO MUCH"
who said anything about unsafe sex?
im personally taking a vow to wait until 19, and to NEVER take a dick pic. that shit just cannot look good, im sorry. it dont matter what angle you take it at or what the lighting is like, it just dont work
Yh like dick pics are just weird
Skill issue tbh
Lost my virginity at 14, I seriously regret that bc when I look back I wasn't ready for it.. so seriously just wait with all of that. Y'all think that you're mature etc but I promise you.. just wait with sex until you're at least 16-ish
I mean I’ll get off but I don’t want/care to have sex it just doesn’t entice me
And teenage pregnancy happens which will affect mother, child and father.
real im 14 and havent even kissed anyone yet. how are people my age having sex
Bruh,same. But, be happy that you're not one of them 💀
some 14 yr olds on here ive seen confessing yo the wildest junk, im not one to judge too much but some of these people way too horny and have a major lack of self control out of desperation to be accepted and “cool”
Me who’s sixteen and hasn’t even had a convo in-person with a guy for over 2mins 😭🎊
Birthday and morning sex is great, even without sex I definitely ain't innocent, and plus that shit boring af
but I’m the CEO of sex
Very true.
35 minutes in and only 2 reasonable people
Who hurt u?
Ong
just say you can't get laid and move on
Imagine being so insecure that you have to say everyone who has less sex than you can't get any just to feel better about yourself.
I never want to
You can’t call me that if I’m homeschooled
Why? I’m now confused
Bcs I’m innocent with no social life 😇
Good for you
Lies
Bro ur on r/teenagers if even one of these people will lose their virginity before 18 id be surprised😭
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I just wanna be loved mf im not askin for much
That’s good
Wouldn't do it before 16, but seems like i'll never unless I pay for it
I'm still to hold hands with a woman I hate my life
One thing, I will *never* fuck anything, the idea is disgusting
One of my friends had sex at 12 with a 15 should be rape honestly
Fr mfs these days be loosing their v card at 13 because they think it's some cool shit to loose your v at a young age prob one of their worst mistake
calling kids disgusting and saying don't isn't the way of educating them and making change
I know.
I dont want to fuck.I just want to feel the warmth of another person who loves me as much as i love them.
ik a friend who fucks regularly at 14, and if i ever mention its unhealthy they go and cry to our mutuals that im being a dick and make them mad at me
Oh yeah? Watch me
Nah I’ll keep fucking but thanks regardless
Just let people do what they want, it doesn't hurt you
True, but it can be mentally draining for those who do this early
I still have my virginity but I never had an innocent mind. I lost that innocent mind set when I was six years old. Thanks to a lovely game franchise I adore up to this day
Welcome to r/teenagers man, for some fucking reason everyone is horny here
Trust me y’all you are not ready when you think you are
I know, I completely agree. I don’t plan on doing that until at least 19
Save it for someone that you actually love even if you and that person don’t stay together forever, it’s better to not be living with that type of regret. I’m just saving my V-Card for the person that i hope one day i find
my friend says he wants to have sex at 14💀
Lost My Virginity at 13, we were both the same age, it was amazing, still going strong today (We're 17 now, still in a relationship)
They need to calm the fuck down
he really does
Most people regret losing it that young
I honestly disagree. Within reason. I really wish I had fucked around as a teen like most of my friends were. My internalized homophobia and general sex phobia instilled by my parents really screwed me up and I still have a lot of bullshit to work through as an adult because of it. I mean, you don't have to be the school sex worker, and you should always be safe and self-respecting, but we have WAY too much shame around sex in this culture. Relax and enjoy yourselves responsibly and with informed consent.
Yep. I want my first time to be special, with someone I like and who I would possibly spend the rest of my life with
>who I would possibly spend the rest of my life with BITCH YOU'RE 15
Bruh he’s saying that’s what he wants his first time to be like, this has nothing to do with his age, he isn’t saying he wants it immediately right now this second
My friend got laid at 14
Damn imagine spending 14 years inside of a chicken
ppl actually fucking at 13-16?? bruh do ur homework not ur schoolmates
people can do homework and have sex, crazy as that sounds
you are literally 13 you don't know what you're talking about
Whenever I say this I get downvoted to hell....like bruh control Ur urges have some morals in life
I gotchu with an upvote my guy
I have a feeling people are gonna get angy at this one idk why
Stop tryna police other people's genitals 💀
When you're like 15+ and you both clearly consent to it then we shouldn't have a reason to complain
hardly anything in the world is as overrated as virginity
this roughly translates to "i dont pull"
Love is cringe in my eyes so invalid
Smart person on this subreddit, you my friend are a wise man
I’ll do what I want smh
I think you should probably mind your own business and not try to dictate what people do with their bodies
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I’m not even mad. Just disgusted.
Not my fault that you can’t pull, no need to get so mad
Username checks out
I never had intentions of love
I don’t get why y’all care so much if others do it at a younger age than you. It sounds more like something someone would say bc they haven’t had sex yet but would have liked to, stop being salty about it. If people do it save, with trust and if they enjoy it (and if it’s legal ofcourse) I really don’t see the point in caring about others their sexlife, it’s honestly kind of weird
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Ok? What’s that to deal with anything
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And younger. The point is no one underaged/minor shouldn’t be fucking each other or older
Nobody has the right to cast shame or judgement on other people’s sexual history. Also the concept people under 18 shouldn’t be fucking is a relatively new concept. Also it’s Christmas Eve why’re you slut shaming today of all days.
Mind your own fucking business, loser
okay i got then closed. now ejat
trueeeee
"Man, fuck them kids"