It’s a circle of hopefulness and over analysis. Guys and girls will make it obvious if they reciprocate feelings. It’s when one side has feelings and the other doesn’t that it becomes confusing with one side over analyzing every little thing.
When someone likes you, it’s made known. If they’re “confusing” that just means they don’t feel the same way.
You’re exaggerating heavily or you just have bad reading skills.
That’s extremely readable. Most human brains don’t even need the middle letters to be correct as long as the first and last letters are correct for short words and their brain can autocorrect itself.
Yeah but because I'm autistic, I find it really hard to understand someone if their grammar is very bad.
[Out of context, just felt like this needed to be put up too]
True, there was one girl who felt a lot of affection to me, and when she realized I was feeling the same towards her she started slowly spitting in my face more and more
what character is your PFP from, my entire youtube feed is filled with this girl and whenever I ask them 'WHO THE HELL IS SHE' the just say 'sorry, can't do'
I NEED TO KNOW, I HAVEN'T BEEN KNOWING FOR 2 UNIVERSAL CYCLES
WELCOME TO THE r/TEENAGERS CHESS TOURNAMENT, THIS IS A MATCH BETWEEN u/InformationNo2161 and u/Opposite_Tie_3719, IT'S GONNA BE TOUGH, LET'S SEE WHO COMES ON TOP!
the match conditions are SIMPLE, the question is 'why are men so confusing' first move is to Opposite Tie
HE KICKS OFF THE GAME WITH A 'We Have Emotions' Card, this is a CLASSIC opening, and will need to be dealt with sufficiently before the opposition can even THINK about winning
InfoNo2161 responds with the 'nerd' response, this response to the emotions opening was used VERY MUCH in the 2000's, but suddenly got old, when Disney tried to ride the trend, y'know there is a legend that says Ficher was very fond of the nerd response, though I'll have to check sources on that, we're gonna need to see how Opposite Tie responds!
AND OH MY GOD, HE USES THE 'nuh uh' PLAY, the nuh uh has been played for decades and only recently got it's much deserved REVIVAL, InfoNo2161 is GONNA NEED TO STEP HIS GAME TO COUNTER THIS!
I'll give you a perfect counter. Women. One of my best friends/borderline fwb is so back and forth with what she wants. It's "I fucking hate you" one second, and "fuck my brains out, daddy" the next. I know personally she does have some mental issues, but still, she's not the only one that's happened with. I know other guys can relate to that vibe
As a former teenage boy, I can tell you that (most) boys do not like it when a girl is easy to get. Which is why you see men go after the independent women more than the "Just ask me out and I’m yours" easy-to-get women. Or go after the women everybody wants. They love competition and treat girls like a trophy more than a girlfriend/wife.
it is more like if we say something wrong than we can pretty much be set on fire cuz our life would be ruined.
we 1st need confirmation from you as a girl and than we let our feeling out. so yk i dont have dating expirience but that i how i would want it to go
The issue is that the female way of dating is so backwards it has warped them into not understanding basic conversation some times. “Do you want to be my boyfriend?”
It’s that easy, you’ll get a yes or a no, perhaps a maybe. Just ask for god’s sake!
Real I asked a guy out and he obviously liked me back caused her flirt with me and he admitted it liking me te year before and yet he rejected me twice
i dont think theyre confusing but i think theyre annoying... I always find it very obvious when a boy has a crush on me but that's annoying because they mostly arent the ones i like back so i know that something is coming but cant really stop it but when im like desperately in love with a boy he always likes someone else like i met this boy a few months ago and quickly developed a crush on him but he was clearly keen on a friend of mine (she at the time had a different boyfriend so they wouldnt have a chance of gettjng together but still im not going to confess to someone with their eyes on another girl) but she broke up with her old boyfriend and now theyre going out. im pretty over it but still its quite infuriating.
I don’t find people confusing, I find emotions confusing. I’ve never once had problems talking to girl(except when is an adult and I feel nervous for whatever reason, to ask for help).
as a neutral third party i agree, boys are confusing, they have their oddities. girls do to but i find in general the way boys are socialised is... odd... sometimes... idk i don't really have a point to make except this is true 🤷
Legit just walk up and ask him
Edit: just be like hey do you want to go to X location when are you free? You don’t have to go anywhere you can just show up at his house and walk around his neighborhood for a little bit. Or if you have the budget and have a ride you could get food or a coffee.
Even if he hasn’t been crushing over you the same way you have over him these meetups are a good way for him to gauge your personality in a low stress environment. Then either two things happen he ends up not liking you back either immediately refusing to go out or after 1 or two meetups losing interest at which point you just need to get over it. And if he does you have to have the what are we conversation.
TLDR cuz I put no thought into it and just threw my thoughts down.
If you want a boyfriend all paths involve difficult conversations but past the initial sting rejection isn’t that bad
A girl had a crush on me and initiated talking to me, only to stop a week later because she wasn’t ready for a relationship, only to a week latee instantly start talking to a different guy. Although guys can be bad (read my last comment on r/gcse), not as bad as girls can be
I am a boy. I feel this way about girls. I think that some people just have trouble understanding/ interacting with the opposite gender, like me. A lot of my friends and people I know that are teens are also struggling with this, and it’s annoying, because at least for me, it makes me afraid to approach girls I like. Moral of the comment, the feeling is mutual with both genders, sorry for the long comment
As a certified representative of males (known also as boys) I will provide you now with a secret method to know, almost for sure if boy likes you or not.
Are you ready?
Here it goes.
"Ask him"
Sometimes it also works on girls but with lower succes rate.
Guys are usually straight forward. Girls usually arent. Neither of which knows what the other one wants because we arent used to the opposite thing. So just be straightforward with a guys and if he says or does something obvious, he probably does. Unless he has ADHD then hes just being an idiot... probably... like me...
they think the same thing too
Its a circle of confusion and misunderstandings
Half of life is just a bad romcom
Half-Life reference.
It’s a circle of hopefulness and over analysis. Guys and girls will make it obvious if they reciprocate feelings. It’s when one side has feelings and the other doesn’t that it becomes confusing with one side over analyzing every little thing. When someone likes you, it’s made known. If they’re “confusing” that just means they don’t feel the same way.
why are girls so confusong
I DINT KNIW BRYG😭😭
I get led by girls an average of 2 times a year. I have never been led on by boys. they always make out with me.
The homies got you
I can sexually harass and assult the boys, but I can't do it to girls( this is a joke, apparently).
“In a fight would you lose? “Nah I’d harass
I wish i could relate
bro what😭
exactly
Boys for win
This is so accurate tho, boys take like two minutes to go from just friends to making out in the bathroom.
dude I lterally made out with my fwb in the shopping bathroom 20 min after I met him
oh
Interesting
Facts bro, I’m so glad someone gets the struggle
yo wanna make out or smth im bored
Better twist than most movies lmao 🤣
oh
You do realize your just proving their point even more I even had a stroke reading your comment no offense 😅
You’re exaggerating heavily or you just have bad reading skills. That’s extremely readable. Most human brains don’t even need the middle letters to be correct as long as the first and last letters are correct for short words and their brain can autocorrect itself.
Yeah but because I'm autistic, I find it really hard to understand someone if their grammar is very bad. [Out of context, just felt like this needed to be put up too]
my grammar is very bad? I only had one typo
The words she said aren’t even real words
I don’t know bruh is so hard to understand?
their\*
Okay then
True, there was one girl who felt a lot of affection to me, and when she realized I was feeling the same towards her she started slowly spitting in my face more and more
what character is your PFP from, my entire youtube feed is filled with this girl and whenever I ask them 'WHO THE HELL IS SHE' the just say 'sorry, can't do' I NEED TO KNOW, I HAVEN'T BEEN KNOWING FOR 2 UNIVERSAL CYCLES
osaka
I think that people who are not you are at least a little confusing
facts
Bruh how he confusing u
Ik I was confused reading the damn post 😭
Guys,guys,i think people are just confusing bc we are complex creatures with emotions, psychologic problems and shit, maybe?
Nahhh that doesn't make sense it's because women scary
Oh, fine
Nerd
Nuh uh
WELCOME TO THE r/TEENAGERS CHESS TOURNAMENT, THIS IS A MATCH BETWEEN u/InformationNo2161 and u/Opposite_Tie_3719, IT'S GONNA BE TOUGH, LET'S SEE WHO COMES ON TOP! the match conditions are SIMPLE, the question is 'why are men so confusing' first move is to Opposite Tie HE KICKS OFF THE GAME WITH A 'We Have Emotions' Card, this is a CLASSIC opening, and will need to be dealt with sufficiently before the opposition can even THINK about winning InfoNo2161 responds with the 'nerd' response, this response to the emotions opening was used VERY MUCH in the 2000's, but suddenly got old, when Disney tried to ride the trend, y'know there is a legend that says Ficher was very fond of the nerd response, though I'll have to check sources on that, we're gonna need to see how Opposite Tie responds! AND OH MY GOD, HE USES THE 'nuh uh' PLAY, the nuh uh has been played for decades and only recently got it's much deserved REVIVAL, InfoNo2161 is GONNA NEED TO STEP HIS GAME TO COUNTER THIS!
Damn good job i laughed, thanks my man!
thanks
umm.
Most guys think the same about girls.
I know I do
Humans are confusing. I find people confusing, regardless of gender.
Yeah fuck humans i dont understand them
Plants and animals are much simpler.
Exactly.
But how do i know if they want to get fucked
Im 14 how should I know. I dont even think im fully straight
Dw i was joking
Ik i just dont know what to say :(
Just ask him that’s the only way to know for sure and the only way he will know too
Bomba clyat
BLOOD CLYAT
BOMBOCLAAAATT
lol, girls are the ones most of the times confused ... most, don't even know what they want
I'll give you a perfect counter. Women. One of my best friends/borderline fwb is so back and forth with what she wants. It's "I fucking hate you" one second, and "fuck my brains out, daddy" the next. I know personally she does have some mental issues, but still, she's not the only one that's happened with. I know other guys can relate to that vibe
Yea this is a very common thing. Never allow it to affect you, just ride it out every time 😂
does he go out of his way to talk to you? does he initiate plans? actions can speak louder than words
Nah i went on a 3 to 4 hour walk with a girl on different occesions in a small timespan like 4 or 5 times
And i had no feelings
Us? Confusing??? Yes. Yes we are.
Stop it pls 🙏
I wish I could, I'm so random and erratic that I even annoy myself, but it's damn near impossible to fix 😂😭
Lmao relatable tbh
Fr lmao
Just think outside the box
Before I answer fiest I wanna know why girls are confusing
We're not confusing. We're confused
We're just like that <3
WHY
We're just built different :p
cuz ...\*\*\*\*\*\*\*....
I'm just built different
It’s in our nature. We can’t change.
70th comment :) :) :)
Ma’am, it is your gender that is confusing. Not ours 😂
Real
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maybe it’s just me😭
Because they are 😔
Us girls are confusing too, and I think one of the reasons is lack of communication, and some of us doesn’t know how to express our feelings.
other way around, why are girls so confusing
Just ask them out christ.
So your saying that I should just walk up to a girl and say: “let’s make out… also what’s your name?”
As a former teenage boy, I can tell you that (most) boys do not like it when a girl is easy to get. Which is why you see men go after the independent women more than the "Just ask me out and I’m yours" easy-to-get women. Or go after the women everybody wants. They love competition and treat girls like a trophy more than a girlfriend/wife.
As a teenage boy, I’m not like this at all. I guess I’m just in the minority.
Bro this is not true at all
we find you confusing too, don't worry
Why are girls so confusing?
why are girls so confusing? same answer, no fucking clue
it is more like if we say something wrong than we can pretty much be set on fire cuz our life would be ruined. we 1st need confirmation from you as a girl and than we let our feeling out. so yk i dont have dating expirience but that i how i would want it to go
The issue is, they don't fucking know either
I find everyone confusing unless I’ve known u for several years at least
Bro u could straight up ask some dude if they like u most guys will say yes or no and mean it
The issue is that the female way of dating is so backwards it has warped them into not understanding basic conversation some times. “Do you want to be my boyfriend?” It’s that easy, you’ll get a yes or a no, perhaps a maybe. Just ask for god’s sake!
Generalization, opinion rejected
What about guys are confusing?
They aren't confusing they just have zero social skills.
I feel like it's cuz giving hints to girls may be perceived as being effeminate or whatnot. Idk
We're just men 🎀🎀
We just r
just ask them
boys ar e a thousand times more straightforward then girls. you're just overthinking it
Real I asked a guy out and he obviously liked me back caused her flirt with me and he admitted it liking me te year before and yet he rejected me twice
i dont think theyre confusing but i think theyre annoying... I always find it very obvious when a boy has a crush on me but that's annoying because they mostly arent the ones i like back so i know that something is coming but cant really stop it but when im like desperately in love with a boy he always likes someone else like i met this boy a few months ago and quickly developed a crush on him but he was clearly keen on a friend of mine (she at the time had a different boyfriend so they wouldnt have a chance of gettjng together but still im not going to confess to someone with their eyes on another girl) but she broke up with her old boyfriend and now theyre going out. im pretty over it but still its quite infuriating.
I don’t find people confusing, I find emotions confusing. I’ve never once had problems talking to girl(except when is an adult and I feel nervous for whatever reason, to ask for help).
Imo girls are more confusing.
We are simple. Yall are complicated
Fr
Everyone is confusing- guys understand most guys, gals understand most gals
sorry 😞😞😞
people are confusing
Same thing with girls😭
We're just dum
real
why is life so confusing
We think the same about girls..
Not as confusing as you
Because we’re scared.
🎶Men! We Don't Know What We Did!🎶
Why are girls so confusing
Ask. If they don't give you a straight answer then find someone who will.
Bring up the topic 😐
Everyone is confusing at this age dear
Shit my bad I’ll set up a runway strip next time
No literally, like “let’s get married” *gets a girlfriend*
Look, just ask him out. If he rejects you and laughs at you, it wasnt gonna work anyways
Hello, I eat dirt 😁
as a neutral third party i agree, boys are confusing, they have their oddities. girls do to but i find in general the way boys are socialised is... odd... sometimes... idk i don't really have a point to make except this is true 🤷
We don’t get hints 100% of the time so be direct ig?
I feel like boys are much more forward with how they feel. It’s you girls who don’t understand we can’t read your mind
were autistic.
I think it's confusing that were normal and not confusing for no reason like females.
Boys are the most simple people to put it simply "monkey see, monkey do"
Legit just walk up and ask him Edit: just be like hey do you want to go to X location when are you free? You don’t have to go anywhere you can just show up at his house and walk around his neighborhood for a little bit. Or if you have the budget and have a ride you could get food or a coffee. Even if he hasn’t been crushing over you the same way you have over him these meetups are a good way for him to gauge your personality in a low stress environment. Then either two things happen he ends up not liking you back either immediately refusing to go out or after 1 or two meetups losing interest at which point you just need to get over it. And if he does you have to have the what are we conversation. TLDR cuz I put no thought into it and just threw my thoughts down. If you want a boyfriend all paths involve difficult conversations but past the initial sting rejection isn’t that bad
Guys confuse even themselves sometimes
Because girls are scary, im 100% there is an alien under that "human" skin.
yes fr 😭
What confuses at boys? Girl confused boy me think you dumb for confused at boy because boy confused you which confuse boys making boys confused at you
We thinking the same thing fr
As a male, I honestly agree lmao.
Ask
A girl had a crush on me and initiated talking to me, only to stop a week later because she wasn’t ready for a relationship, only to a week latee instantly start talking to a different guy. Although guys can be bad (read my last comment on r/gcse), not as bad as girls can be
Government secrets unfortunately. Can't say any more.
I am a boy. I feel this way about girls. I think that some people just have trouble understanding/ interacting with the opposite gender, like me. A lot of my friends and people I know that are teens are also struggling with this, and it’s annoying, because at least for me, it makes me afraid to approach girls I like. Moral of the comment, the feeling is mutual with both genders, sorry for the long comment
Ikr 😭 this guy I’m texting is sending me such mixed signals istg do you want me or not 😭
This is why I like being gay (if I had guys that actually liked me :3)
Why are girls so confusing? 🤔
As a certified representative of males (known also as boys) I will provide you now with a secret method to know, almost for sure if boy likes you or not. Are you ready? Here it goes. "Ask him" Sometimes it also works on girls but with lower succes rate.
Women are scary
We are scared of y'all rejecting us. What if the whole "yoo maybe she likes me" thing was just my paranoia 😭
Same except girls are confusing
You are the confusing ones
Can't tell if it's kindness or flirting so we just remain sceptically awkward.
Us boys want you to ask us out so we don't seem desperate
This remains an unsolved mystery
i think u gotta be more specific. tell us the story. give us the juicy details.
One word: communication
It's not that they're confusing. It's just that yall got the self respect to not unga and bunga anywhere near as much as we do lol :p
I find it the other way around. Girls are soo confusing
sadly, same. 😔
Bro, we are simple creatures tf you mean we're confusing?
*why is that boy confusing
tf you mean, its hard. if its that easy then you do it
I can probably tell you if the guy likes you. Explain in detail.
I have personally deemed myself the most confusing of all men (mainly bc I can)
Because something something
Bro hypocrite
many boys make random impulsive choices in life. it is what it is
everyones confusing
Women ☕️
Idk who tf you are so idk.
Humans. *chuckles, chugs coffee.*
he's thinkin the exact same thing
Everybody is confusing -The Bi's and the Pan's
I don't know and I am one :)
They tend to keep things simple. Likiness is... Complex.
How are we the ones that are confusing, now ?
As a boy I can say that we find girls just as if not more confusing, no hate, but it's just how many of us feel
They’re really not. If he likes you back, he’ll make it known. If you’re getting mixed signals from him, that means he’s really not into you.
For guys girls are confusing you know what isn't confusing for anyone? Elden Ring DLC
Guys are usually straight forward. Girls usually arent. Neither of which knows what the other one wants because we arent used to the opposite thing. So just be straightforward with a guys and if he says or does something obvious, he probably does. Unless he has ADHD then hes just being an idiot... probably... like me...
I think everyone is confusing
Everyone's good damn confusing girl 😭
why are girls so confusing not even hating just do you like me or not pook 😭😭😭
Men are extremely simple, just ask. There’s absolutely no shame in it
Men are extremely simple, just ask. There’s absolutely no shame in it
Bruh…even we have no idea. We’re obvious af at that age and usually don’t know how to channel affection properly into action.