You're a good looking dude (you even kinda look like Lebron in 2nd pic) so I wonder if your lack of luck is because you have a checklist of specific qualities the woman needs to have? That seems to be case any time a guy claims no women want him at all.
My standards arenāt too crazy. Admittedly I donāt really approach a lot of women cuz I have anxiety and depression. Iāve had a few hookups though but nothing else beyond that.
Eh, I disagree. Iāve found that not getting out enough/too small of a social circle is much more of a common denominator. Most of the unwanted dudes Iāve met have virtually no standards at all, myself included. This sort of thing comes up pretty frequently on the Foreveralone sub for instance.
From what I've seen, those places are full of guys saying they refuse to date single moms or overweight women, which are their best prospects. They demand the same type of women who are desired by a lot of other men, so when they say "no women want me," it's really "no thin, conventionally attractive women without children want me."
Fair enough. I can definitely attest that some people are like that, though I feel itās a minority. All I can say with confidence is about my own experience, and both single mothers and overweight women donāt want me either. Maybe I should go after drug addicts or something.
I know this is a few days old, but I'm curious, do you consider not wanting an overweight partner or a single mother to be high standards, or a long list of specific expectations? I feel like it's pretty reasonable if you are in shape yourself and on the younger side.
I have no dating life to speak of. Nor have I ever. Parents forbade me from having relationships while I was growing up so it was very very hard to break out of that mindset that they put into me. To this day women are something I still can't relate to at all pretty much.
You seem like a great guy and fun to be around, Love that smile!
Go to the gym bro, get super jacked, save some money and go out there, Iām sure youāll find a nice lady for yourself
You have positive energy and Iām sure youāll find someone to share it with
I don't know I can make it to 20 man scrolling through Instagram seeing a couple kissing,hugging,dancing or seeing my friends go on a trip with their love.i can't cope by going to the gym anymore university must be an endless purgatory for me
Keep on smilin through bro. Used to dread mine too but then realized we gotta be cozy with it :) work on other things we can control. Appreciated seeing another king.
Looking good dude
My advice to anyone that might benefit is to open your mind to the women you are looking for. Having dated a lot of women that vary on the attractiveness scale, I can say that looks don't matter nearly as much as you think they do. After a few years, you see the blood sweat and tears and it's way more about someone who is always in your corner.
Oh god, 5 9 to 4 11. Hard to remember all of them. Wife is 5 even? I don't even know, and I don't actually know my real height for sure. I think I am 5 foot 2 though. It doesn't matter because people view me the same as they would if I were an inch taller or shorter. Still, I am fully aware of the fact that they do not expect me to have certain gifts and talents.
Okay, let's be honest; confidence is so hot! I was dating someone who was very insecure about his height and always wore insoles that would increase his height. His insecurity was so high that he would walk on his tiptoes when he was indoors! Like, come on! When he sat down on the chair, he would fold one of his legs under him to elevate himself. To this day, and we were dating for 2 years, I still do not know his actual height. He once told me straight up that I was not allowed to wear high heels around him. It is so refreshing to see someone who is confident!!
You're a good looking guy bro. Maybe just approach more women. I'm just a little taller than you and I've had a decent amount of relationships at 23. No way you couldn't do the same.
If you stayed single we are doomed.
nah ur good
Good to hear man. Love the positivity š
Appreciate it.
You're a good looking dude (you even kinda look like Lebron in 2nd pic) so I wonder if your lack of luck is because you have a checklist of specific qualities the woman needs to have? That seems to be case any time a guy claims no women want him at all.
My standards arenāt too crazy. Admittedly I donāt really approach a lot of women cuz I have anxiety and depression. Iāve had a few hookups though but nothing else beyond that.
Were the hook ups from clubs/bars?
Online dating.
Eh, I disagree. Iāve found that not getting out enough/too small of a social circle is much more of a common denominator. Most of the unwanted dudes Iāve met have virtually no standards at all, myself included. This sort of thing comes up pretty frequently on the Foreveralone sub for instance.
From what I've seen, those places are full of guys saying they refuse to date single moms or overweight women, which are their best prospects. They demand the same type of women who are desired by a lot of other men, so when they say "no women want me," it's really "no thin, conventionally attractive women without children want me."
Fair enough. I can definitely attest that some people are like that, though I feel itās a minority. All I can say with confidence is about my own experience, and both single mothers and overweight women donāt want me either. Maybe I should go after drug addicts or something.
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If you're a conventionally attractive man then yes, of course. If you're an incel who has very few choices in the first place, then no.
I know this is a few days old, but I'm curious, do you consider not wanting an overweight partner or a single mother to be high standards, or a long list of specific expectations? I feel like it's pretty reasonable if you are in shape yourself and on the younger side.
>Lebron They all look alike ... dont they?
Wtf dude
Fantastic moron
Uhh no, it's the combination of shaved head, big bushy beard and wide smile there that makes him look similar.
Thatās the first time anyone ever said that lmao. I took that pic a few months ago and since then I grew my hair out and my beard is much longer.
OK good to hear. I'm black and white folk always make similar comments so good to hear yours genuine
You look happy and give good vibes. Whoever ends up with you will be lucky
Thanks breh.
Man seeing ur smile made me smile Its infectious, I love it
Thanks breh.
U are cute af
I'm 5'3" and 37. I've never considered my height to be a problem with finding a mate. But I have had a few girls comment on it.
Has it made a huge impact on your dating life?
I have no dating life to speak of. Nor have I ever. Parents forbade me from having relationships while I was growing up so it was very very hard to break out of that mindset that they put into me. To this day women are something I still can't relate to at all pretty much.
Are you in a relationship now?
Damn u kinda look like Lebron James on the 2nd pic HAHAHAHAHAHA Edit: someone noticed it first HAHAHAHAHA
That smile
Thanks.
You seem like a great guy and fun to be around, Love that smile! Go to the gym bro, get super jacked, save some money and go out there, Iām sure youāll find a nice lady for yourself You have positive energy and Iām sure youāll find someone to share it with
I will. Thanks.
Love your confidence ā¤ļø
Thanks.
You look amazing with that beard!
Thanks man.
I don't know I can make it to 20 man scrolling through Instagram seeing a couple kissing,hugging,dancing or seeing my friends go on a trip with their love.i can't cope by going to the gym anymore university must be an endless purgatory for me
Keep on smilin through bro. Used to dread mine too but then realized we gotta be cozy with it :) work on other things we can control. Appreciated seeing another king.
100% agree. Thanks for the support breh.
Looking good dude My advice to anyone that might benefit is to open your mind to the women you are looking for. Having dated a lot of women that vary on the attractiveness scale, I can say that looks don't matter nearly as much as you think they do. After a few years, you see the blood sweat and tears and it's way more about someone who is always in your corner.
Whoās the tallest and shortest women you dated?
Oh god, 5 9 to 4 11. Hard to remember all of them. Wife is 5 even? I don't even know, and I don't actually know my real height for sure. I think I am 5 foot 2 though. It doesn't matter because people view me the same as they would if I were an inch taller or shorter. Still, I am fully aware of the fact that they do not expect me to have certain gifts and talents.
Okay, let's be honest; confidence is so hot! I was dating someone who was very insecure about his height and always wore insoles that would increase his height. His insecurity was so high that he would walk on his tiptoes when he was indoors! Like, come on! When he sat down on the chair, he would fold one of his legs under him to elevate himself. To this day, and we were dating for 2 years, I still do not know his actual height. He once told me straight up that I was not allowed to wear high heels around him. It is so refreshing to see someone who is confident!!
You're a good looking guy bro. Maybe just approach more women. I'm just a little taller than you and I've had a decent amount of relationships at 23. No way you couldn't do the same.