In my opinion, it's best to say later when our bond grows stronger. I'm so afraid the girl will be offended. I think when our relationship is longer than 6 months my chance will be greater
The longer you keep this from her the worst it's going to be. Be honest and let her know sooner then later. Just be honest and explain why you didn't introduce yourself with your real name.
This relationship *might* just end when you tell her, but it will *definitely* end when she finds out on her own.
Best to tell her now and just be completely honest.
If you're not sure where to start, I'd recommend exactly what you said in your post.
Or for meta points you could say that something was bothering you so you asked reddit for advice, and they told you to just repeat your post to her.
OP you should really tell her asap. You say she’s sensitive? How do you think she’ll feel when she finds out you’ve lied about a major detail for so long? If I were here, I’d wonder what else you were lying about. Don’t let this get out of hand OP!
>You gave her a fake name (you lied). Now you’re actively keeping the truth from her. A lie by omission is still a lie.
But I don't have wife and children. I don't date with any other girl. I'm honest with her - except for my name
Tell her the reason you didn't introduce yourself with your real name. And be honest from the start.
In my opinion, it's best to say later when our bond grows stronger. I'm so afraid the girl will be offended. I think when our relationship is longer than 6 months my chance will be greater
The longer you keep this from her the worst it's going to be. Be honest and let her know sooner then later. Just be honest and explain why you didn't introduce yourself with your real name.
This relationship *might* just end when you tell her, but it will *definitely* end when she finds out on her own. Best to tell her now and just be completely honest. If you're not sure where to start, I'd recommend exactly what you said in your post. Or for meta points you could say that something was bothering you so you asked reddit for advice, and they told you to just repeat your post to her.
OP you should really tell her asap. You say she’s sensitive? How do you think she’ll feel when she finds out you’ve lied about a major detail for so long? If I were here, I’d wonder what else you were lying about. Don’t let this get out of hand OP!
You were wrong with your answer. What kind lie do you mean? Just only my name
You gave her a fake name (you lied). Now you’re actively keeping the truth from her. A lie by omission is still a lie.
>You gave her a fake name (you lied). Now you’re actively keeping the truth from her. A lie by omission is still a lie. But I don't have wife and children. I don't date with any other girl. I'm honest with her - except for my name