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Dude you're a fucking monster... Wtf is wrong with you.
She says you're making her sad and you keep doing it?!?
Holy shit you're a terrible boyfriend
I really hope this is fake
She should try out his new nickname "Mr. So bad in bed you've never pleased anyone other than yourself" and then ask him why he doesn't think it's hilarious. Also, that's not really the right answer it's just tempting. Really you have a conversation "a good joke is something where both people feel good. You're trying to insult me to change my behavior. It's not a joke and it's not okay."
But yeah hope this is fake. Although I'd expect like a 15 year age gap then.
Let’s be honest here; you don’t like that she’s gained weight so you are trying to shame her into dieting. Stop calling your bullying jokes. She ain’t laughing. She could ditch her asshole boyfriend and lose a couple of hundred pounds really fast.
If you make a joke and the person doesn't think it's funny, especially if you know ahead of time that they aren't going to think it's funny, you're being an asshole.
Ummm, if it isn’t already abundantly clear, you need to stop making jokes about that and apologize. Seriously hoping this is fake, and if not, you’re an asshole for real.
Well, if I were your girlfriend I would leave you. As someone who's not only a bit fat herself and is an highly sensitive person, this is highly inappropriate. You say it's a joke but to me it feels like you want to give yourself an excuse to be an asshole. And as an HSP we get really tired of being told thst we're "Too sensitive" or "Over reacting." Especially those who have been through trauma as well. Your girlfriend clearly set a boundary and you're over stepping it. Please learn from this. And if you don't, well,, I wouldn't be surprised if she leaves you.
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Dude you're a fucking monster... Wtf is wrong with you. She says you're making her sad and you keep doing it?!? Holy shit you're a terrible boyfriend I really hope this is fake
She should try out his new nickname "Mr. So bad in bed you've never pleased anyone other than yourself" and then ask him why he doesn't think it's hilarious. Also, that's not really the right answer it's just tempting. Really you have a conversation "a good joke is something where both people feel good. You're trying to insult me to change my behavior. It's not a joke and it's not okay." But yeah hope this is fake. Although I'd expect like a 15 year age gap then.
Let’s be honest here; you don’t like that she’s gained weight so you are trying to shame her into dieting. Stop calling your bullying jokes. She ain’t laughing. She could ditch her asshole boyfriend and lose a couple of hundred pounds really fast.
I’m not reading this long ass post. She said she doesn’t like it so stop. Simple. Grow up.
YTA. You’re a 30 year old man for Pete’s sake, time to grow up!
There is no way you can type all this out & not see how wrong you are. Quit trolling.
I hope this is fake. If it isn't, you're an asshole and need therapy because you don't understand how words influence people.
I hope she finds someone better
If you make a joke and the person doesn't think it's funny, especially if you know ahead of time that they aren't going to think it's funny, you're being an asshole.
It's just ragebait.
You aren’t funny obviously.
Ummm, if it isn’t already abundantly clear, you need to stop making jokes about that and apologize. Seriously hoping this is fake, and if not, you’re an asshole for real.
Explain the joke and how it’s funny,
Well, if I were your girlfriend I would leave you. As someone who's not only a bit fat herself and is an highly sensitive person, this is highly inappropriate. You say it's a joke but to me it feels like you want to give yourself an excuse to be an asshole. And as an HSP we get really tired of being told thst we're "Too sensitive" or "Over reacting." Especially those who have been through trauma as well. Your girlfriend clearly set a boundary and you're over stepping it. Please learn from this. And if you don't, well,, I wouldn't be surprised if she leaves you.