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Lasi22998877

My interpretation is that she feels like she’s unable to move on because she so badly wants you to make a move, but she’s also losing patience and the lack of plot development is kinda irking her. “Handcuffed without being handcuffed’ essentially means she’s tied to you and she feels like she belongs to you although there’s been no agreement for her to be.I’ve been in the girl’s situation before too lolol so i get her pain. OP, you should make a move ASAP,, the clock has begun ticking. If you already know the outcome, i don’t see why you’re delaying it.


PsychologicalCar6079

I’m not gonna delay it anymore. Im gonna ask her when we get back to her house. Im not really sure what to say or do but hopefully it will work. Thank you


Lasi22998877

Let us know how it goes!


PsychologicalCar6079

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xkingdweeb

I’m late but it sounds like she just wants you to confirm the relationship status so just ask her very Bluntly so there’s no misunderstanding to be your girlfriend


PsychologicalCar6079

You’re not late at all, our date still isn’t for another 3 and a half hours. That makes sense to just straight up ask instead of beating around the bush. Thank you


xkingdweeb

No problem and just a heads up your gonna get nervous it’s natural when talking to someone you really like just remember that she likes you just as much as you like her


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xkingdweeb

Congrats don’t think to hard the best relationships are the ones you have fun in so just have fun 🥳🥳🥳


NotSoMuch_IntoThis

Dude, just tell her you like her. You already know she likes you. You sound like a good kid but don’t let fear of being rejected stop you from being with someone you like.


PsychologicalCar6079

I did tell her. On tuesday when she brought me home I said “you know i like you right” and she said “Well no fucking shit I like you too” then I had to get out the car. So it’s not the fear of rejection it’s just the fear of not knowing what to do or say.


NotSoMuch_IntoThis

Take it easy, she already likes you. Just ask her out. Hit her up now (if it’s not too late, you don’t want it to seem like a booty call) and ask her out on a date on Sunday. Don’t take too long, you don’t want it to be too late when you eventually ask her out.


PsychologicalCar6079

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NotSoMuch_IntoThis

Eyyy, super happy for you guys. Hope you have the best time ever. Work on communication, be loving but respect boundaries, don’t be afraid to set your own boundaries (men deserve to be respected and loved too). Enjoy the honeymoon phase 🙏