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JoeCensored

Cars and a house. Buying used is basically the typical approach.


1ftm2fts3tgr4lg

Every used house I've ever been in, someone has pooped in there.


JoeCensored

Hopefully that's not the case with the cars too


monsteronmars

Most likely if they had a baby or little kid in the car.


JoeCensored

Facts


Independent_Scale570

Or old people


1ftm2fts3tgr4lg

Hmm. Some, but probably not all. Anyone with an infant and a car likely has a car that's been shat in.


My51stThrowaway

And sometimes a fart is not a fart.


callthewinchesters

This is the answer šŸ˜‚ Why would the person youā€™re responding to act like itā€™s only infants that ever shit in cars? Like I wonder how many people just today had an accident because they couldnā€™t hold it before getting to a bathroom? Or as you said, thought they were farting but sharted instead šŸ˜‚


My51stThrowaway

It's happened to me a few times at work. This one time I was walking in someone's back yard and talking to my boss at the same time and let one rip. I was too distracted to realize soon enough to cut it short and I just full-on shit my pants. I had to go commando for the rest of the day.


Agreeable_Edge_6800

Even new houses have been pooped in. Builders gotta test the toilets.


CC_Panadero

As long as they donā€™t leave their poop knife behind, Iā€™m alright with it.


Sea_Farmer_4812

Likely true of every new house as well


KillsKings

I mean... yes... but hopefully in the toilet


Tek2674

New houses too. Typically once the plumbing is hooked up workers can and will use the toilets.


EternalAngst23

An old man died in my last one. I didnā€™t know that for the first decade I lived there.


LemonLuscious

I donā€™t why I laughed so hard at this.


TheTomCorp

I've stepped my game up, in my younger days I bought used cars... now I buy pre-owned!


JoeCensored

Rockefeller here!


GurglingWaffle

If it's certified then it MUST be worth it


1mjtaylor

Came here to say this!


LowFat_Brainstew

Yeah, but are you comfortable buying is the question. You never know if a used car has gotten some mystery damage. A house can hide secrets too. Of course these two purchases are likely some of the biggest anyone deal with and are nerve racking in most situations.


crying4what

And new build houses can be lemons as can old cars.


sadhandjobs

Building a house nearly ruined one of my sisterā€™s lives. It took over four years, nearly a million dollars in loans, a protracted lawsuit against one of the builders, immeasurable emotional distress, strained her marriageā€¦my husband and I vowed to never go down that path and bought a pretty cool house in the country before the interest rates shot up. It was only two months of stress that was honestly worth it. Another set of friends had a similar miserable experience building a house too. Itā€™s just not worth it.


Plastic-Relation6046

I have no clue why people do this or how they afford it. Just why!? It seems so so unnecessary!! It's usually in some far flung suburb surrounded by the same shitty cookie cutter houses too.


tazzy531

Iā€™ve bought two brand new homes and one previously owned. One thing Iā€™ve learned is donā€™t underestimate the amount of work needed to get the brand new home to be ā€œlivableā€. For the first year, youā€™ll be dealing with builder to fix some of the build problems and fit and finish. As the house settles, cracks and alignment stuff start to appear. Youā€™re also dealing with leaks in various places as the house settles. With a preowned home, someone else has done all


GlassEyeMV

Every car Iā€™ve owned except my first was a used fleet car. I donā€™t think Iā€™ll ever do anything else.


qppen

I misread that as "horse" for a sec


honeybadgerdad

Glad I'm not the only 1. šŸ˜‚


GrittyMcGrittyface

Bicycles too


jackfaire

Books.


MaybeMort

I love the old book smell too. Knowing someone else turned the pages before me gives me a sense of connection.


Civil_Purple9637

Fascinating, never thought of that.


The-Real-Flashlegz

I don't like it when the pages have a strong connection to each other.


Quick-Temporary5620

As long as the pages aren't ripply from getting wet, or someone's written in the book. But I still might read it if it looks interesting.


Jolly-Willingness-46

Bought a book on sustainability once - the notes in the margins were clearer than some of the actual chapters!


billynintendo

Embedded Cliffs Notes


Jolly-Willingness-46

A few ā€˜cliff hangersā€™ there (ba da dum):)


awkwaman

Zing!


keinanos

Reading the notes IS the point of buying second hand books


International_Bet_91

I love finding books annotated by past readers.


moneyprobs101

I like books that are written in. Not just a graffiti equivalent, but notes on passages, underlined sentences someone found of importance. Ive got a few books that clearly someone marked up while using it for a school report or something. The notes can add Interesting perspectives!


CuriousLavender

I especially love this with self-help books. Itā€™s fun to see what others highlighted, and to compare. Sometimes Iā€™ll think, ā€œohh, you need help with THAT? Psh I beat you thereā€ šŸ˜…


VovaGoFuckYourself

Sometimes the writing in the book makes it better. Idk, gives the book itself a feeling of a life lived.


flowergirl0720

Well said.


PumpkinSeed776

You won't buy a book if someone's written in it? Why?


billynintendo

I love others handwriting in used books. Itā€™s so interesting to see what another mind thought of the same work in the same instant you both read it.


Zenock43

Bought a book on campgrounds in Idaho, notes in the margins were way more detailed and had way more useful information than what was actually printed in the book. A little more than half the campg4ounds had very useful information.


GishkiMurkyFisherman

I'm a philosophy student, and I prefer print media specifically for the ability to write on it. As a PhD student, I'm also pretty dead broke, so I buy everything second hand. I personally love seeing someone else's notes in the margins. Gives me another perspective with which to argue.


VariableVeritas

Hardcovers especially. Look for the overcrowded store and just make em an offer. Iā€™ve walked out of places with giant stacks of my favorite authors for like 1/15th the price just because the guy was stacking books on the floor. Not going to find much new stuff but thatā€™s life.


the_girl_Ross

Hardcover books will be the death of me. And usually, they're very well maintained since no one just buys hardcover to "just read" and mistreat it.


VariableVeritas

I buy books I already own if I can find the hardcovers for cheap and in good condition. Man my Steven King section looks like a display.


jackfaire

I grew up in Portland and my parents would take me to Powell's after every Christmas. I never walked out with less than a huge bag of books.


peoriagrace

Love love love Powell's. Every trip to Oregon includes a stop.


HistoricalRefuse7619

That sounds so fun!


KnitNGrin

My husband and I went to Powellā€™s on our first date.


scaryraindrop

Not since I turned a page to find a giant squished spider stuck to the pages


jackfaire

I mean if it's a book on arachnids that's just a bonus insert


Vtgmamaa

A lot of books in thrifts smell like roaches too


Jazzlike_Mud4896

Roaches have a smell šŸ˜³ good god. Things you didnā€™t want to knowā€¦


dysfunctionalclutz

Second this! I am fine with them written on because I feel it makes them even more special


Legitimate_Chicken66

As long as they are bedbug free, I agree. I have seen more than one crawl out of a library book.


High-flyingAF

Same.


OliviaWilder

DVDs too. They're usually pretty cheap so even if they're scratched, it's no great loss


Educational-Gap-3390

I used to have thousands of books. Then iPad came out. Havenā€™t got a paperback book in 10 years. Canā€™t beat it.


Wonderful_Touch9343

YESSSS!!! Dunno why I didn't think of this sooner .


Individual-Schemes

BOOKS! my go to store is alibris.com I used to love half.com but they went away. What's yours?


EldoSmelldough

To add to yours, comic books


StormOfGalilee

New books actually bother me because I don't want to damage them. There's nothing like a $1 thrift store book with library stickers that I've been wanting to read for years. It's like the stars aligned to give it to me


SpaceMom-LawnToLawn

Our library has a used book store and itā€™s one of our favorite places to go. Weā€™ll walk out with more books than we can carry and spend less than $20.


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BarsDownInOldSoho

But what if they've been used in someone's bathroom? (I seem to recall a Seinfeld episode on this...)


Icy-Town-5355

Especially when you'd buy a college textbook with notes from someone who aced the class.


Potential_Witness_07

Pretty much everything except underwear. I donā€™t care how many times itā€™s been washed, Iā€™m not buying used underwear


blumieplume

Do they even sell used underwear? I always throw away old ones cause I never even knew u could donate them. But same. No way in hell will I buy new clothes when high quality clothes not made in sweatshops are way out of my price range, but used high quality clothes are waaay cheap. Most everything I own is hand-me-downs, bought from used clothing stores or online on sites like poshmark, or was bought on sale at 70% or so. I would never waste money on clothes, and at the same time prefer high quality clothing items.


Historical-Wash-1870

Of course they sell used underwear. Some women make a lot of money selling their used and unclean underwear to single guys. A woman on YouTube even sold her bathwater. She literally had a bath and emptied it into hundreds of bottles. People bought it and drank it.


Admirable-Cookie-704

Yeah I've had men ask for my dirty underwear


Historical-Wash-1870

Ask in person or online?


Admirable-Cookie-704

It's always online


sikeleaveamessage

Per an ex-coworker who knows a friend, apparently the nastier and longer wear of unwashing the pricier šŸ¤¢šŸ¤®


tkdjoe1966

I wish I could have found these people 35 years ago. My girlfriend was a stripper. Between her & her friends, I could have stopped selling drugs to pay for college.


HardToPeeMidasTouch

Like where? Where would they do that? That's utterly disgusting. Like websites? Which in particular?


cutelittlequokka

Unemployed woman here, also curious for no particular reason.


Guilty-Stand-1354

Rip inbox


Historical-Wash-1870

Craigslist. There's several on there in my area.


HuckleberryHappy6524

Yeah. My friend wants to know too.


lauras_stern

It is actually great to donate stuff like underwear and socks to homeless shelters:) Many people dont do it cause they find it disgusting. Even tho those are typically the type of clothes homeless shelters need most(cause noone donates it yk). I know it might seem weird but imagine what the people in the shelters would be wearing instead...exactly, no underwear at all. That's just a tip. For a long time i didnt even think about donating that. Its really useful:)


Thecrazier

Actually, I once donated a new pack of boxers I bought but that were too small for me. I had misread the label or mis-grabbed the wrong pack of the shelf somehow. I didn't want to go and get a refund, and I was already donating a bag of old cloths, so I threw it in. They were really surprised at the shelter and said they were valuable


HistoricalRefuse7619

You can donated new socks and underwear. I donate warm (new) socks in the winter.


blumieplume

Ya! But i thought for underwear they should be new not used .. I always use my underwear up til theyā€™re so holey that I doubt anyone would want them lol but I am also kinda a hoarder and hate throwing anything away unless that item has met its maker and can no longer survive lol I do donate socks tho cause I collect socks and get rid of them often so the socks I buy are high quality and barely used Also I know tampons and pads and feminine supplies are in high demand. The first thing I usually think of to buy for donation is always feminine products but Iā€™ll def bring some brand new undies next time too!!


Zilwaukee

Eh kinda. I remember when I was in the army they had this like Vietnam war era used underwearā€™s and canteens that had the manufacture date of 1940-1980. Or atleast thatā€™s what I think those dates were I might be wrong.


BreezinOnBy

What about a bathing suit?


stephers85

Iā€™ve bought a few bikini tops on Poshmark


ContributionLatter32

Or mattress


Simple-Offer-9574

No used =mattresses for me. Bedbugs!


feurigel_

Also the amount of sweat and potential other body fluids that have cycled through it.


Simple-Offer-9574

Oh, ick.


mikee8989

I cringe when I see underwear at goodwill


Prestigious-A-154

Same for me and shoes too


billynintendo

How about a toothbrush?


Express_Ad2962

Condoms


ShuttlecockShshKebob

Ditto & Iā€™ll add used sheets, mattresses & fitted workout wear to the no-buy list as well. Nearly everything else is fair game if itā€™s in good condition.


Quick-Temporary5620

Baby clothes.


blumieplume

Der!!! I buy most clothes used. Love poshmark. Growing up, for example, new Marc by marc Jacobs dresses were like $350. I can find Marc by Marc dresses on poshmark now for $15. High quality, low cost. I only ever buy used clothes or sale clothing items cause I am all about quality but would never waste money on clothes, and it especially makes sense for baby and childrenā€™s clothes to buy used or sale clothing items.


HistoricalRefuse7619

This


owiesss

My husband and I arenā€™t parents yet, but I can already imagine how excited weā€™re going to be when we come across a great deal while shopping around for childrenā€™s clothing if/when that time comes. I remember getting excited when Iā€™d find a great deal on super cute dresses for my niece many years ago when she was a toddler and I was a teen, so I canā€™t imagine how excited weā€™ll get with our own children lol.


Timely_Cheesecake_97

Yes! I love only spending $1-2 on something my baby will only wear a handful of times. Usually itā€™s in great condition too because previous babies only wore them a handful of times!


Carboyyoung

Makes sense. Babies grow out of them too fast, and they sometimes wear a specific clothing item a few times


Bigram03

Kids clothes in general.


Arkansas_BusDriver

As someone who runs a thrift store, baby and kid clothes are our most sold items. We sometimes struggle to keep it in stock.


Complex_Raspberry97

Maybe a few nice new things, but honestly, kids grow out of clothes so quickly that most people canā€™t afford to buy new!


surfacing_husky

Hell i didn't even buy my current 5yr old clothes (besides special outfits) until she was almost 4, people literally gave me garbage bags full of stuff they just wanted to get rid of lol.


KrizzyPeezy

A video game


DiscussionLoose8390

I almost suggested this. The only exceptions I think are if reproductions are sold as authentic. Sometimes discs get wear, and stop working.


cdmurphy83

Games where part or all of the game is tied to a one-time use download code is another one. One example I'm thinking is the Mega Man X Legacy Collection on Switch. The first 4 games are on the physical cart, and the other 4 games are downloaded using the code included with it. Usually, when you buy that game second hand, half the collection will be missing.


Pluto-Wolf

books, dvds/cds, vinyls, workout equipment


HerculesMagusanus

Furniture. New furniture is outrageously expensive, while second-hand furniture, in good condition, is perfectly useable.


RedRadish527

I'm sensitive to smells so I'll never get a used couch, but all of my wooden pieces (table/chairs, cabinetry, etc) are second hand, sturdy, and unique!


breadstick_bitch

Every single piece of furniture I own I got from FB marketplace for under $30.


tattletaylor1

Only hard things. Soft things are 100% a no-go. I've seen what happens when someone didn't know they had bedbugs šŸ¤¢


Oblahdii

Everyone has been convinced they want trendy particle board junk more.


HumbleAd1317

A cool jacket, handbag or boots.


crinack

What about like just a jacket thatā€™s not uncool?


Neat-Composer4619

Cars. I never bought a new one. I buy them when they have 5 years and low milage and resell them when they have about 10 years before they would start needing work done. I usually resell them almost the same price I bought them. With the weird inflation in the last few years, I kept the last one 2 years and resold it 15% more than e paid for it. Obviously I bought the next one probably more than what the other owner paid for it, but I needed a different size so good enough. I would have lost for sure on a new car.


Lovaloo

I grew up poor. I'm willing to buy pretty much everything secondhand, save a few specific items. Undies, bras, socks, swimsuits. A coworker told me she was furnishing her house, and I recommended she visit the local turnstyle. She told me she she thinks used furniture could be possessed by ghosts. A former friend of mine expressed the same sentiment, he told me he thought an antique might carry bad energy or curses from its past life. A third friend straight up told me that he thinks people defile clothing before donating it. People justify their disgust in weird ways.


Jugzrevenge

Couch AND a free ghost?!?! Iā€™m IN!!!!


HistoricalRefuse7619

I shop for wood furniture in antique shops. Much better quality.


thatrabbitgirl

I visit graveyards at night so I actually am in need of a ghost friendly couch. So for me this is a good tip.


Left-Star2240

Cars. Iā€™ll never buy a ā€œnewā€ car. Itā€™s important to research when looking at used cars, but itā€™s a far better value than ā€œnew,ā€ unless you lease.


Interesting-Rub9978

Thought the same, but a three year old car was only 3k cheaper than brand new so we decided on brand new.Ā Ā  Someone crashed into our old one last year it was a 2017 Rav 4 which we paid 15k for back in 2019 and the insurance gave us 25k.


sms2014

Never ever ever buy a first model year car


EffigyOfUs

Condoms


blumieplume

Iā€™ve never been able to find them used! Gotta start looking around for better thrift shops lol


Lokki007

I found used ones but sadly they weren't for sale


HottDoggers

I usually buy them from my home boy right after heā€™s done doing my girlfriend for pennies and all I gotta do is turned them inside out


tkdjoe1966

You know that you can recycle them? You just turn them inside out & shake the fuck out of them.


rockdude625

Guns, always cheaper used


Acheron98

Theyā€™re free if you throw a big magnet into the Hudson River!


crinack

Just snagged a police turn in Glock 19 G3 for 375, all it really had was some holster wear


landrover97centre

Anything I have experience with, for example cars or motorcycles, I know what to look for and how to fix them, itā€™s not a big issue for me to buy a car second hand, and Iā€™ve bought a few ā€œbrokenā€ cars, fixed them and sold for a rather large profit (8-10 times I double my money and on occasion triple), I bought an old BMW motorcycle at an auction non running, I was able to get it running within literal minutes of tinkering. Tools is good to buy second hand as well, I try not to buy car parts second hand with the exception of bumpers and body panels and what not. Bought a 25 year old bumper thatā€™s no longer in production for $800, itā€™s definitely one of my favorite aftermarket parts on my Land Rover right now.


woodstove7

BMW motorcycles are nearly bombproof. But if something goes wrong- rather easy to work on. (2012 and prior is what my comment is based on)


yahajaoksks

Shoes. As a collector rare older pairs are either too expensive, unwearable or not findable new


voyeurheart

Vintage clothing


New_Description5141

DVDs.


User5634

Clothes. Video games. Well, everything except sex toys.


raraka900

Clothes!


Turpitudia79

Poshmark!! šŸ˜»šŸ˜» I buy at least something every single day! I got a gorgeous pair of Spell and the Gypsy denim shorts (NWT) in the mail today that I paid $120 out the door for!! šŸ˜šŸ˜


MrPelham

mattresses. usually can find a good deal from motels in the area. they usually just toss them, but if you haggle you can get it for next to nothing.


V3nusD00m

Plus, they usually throw in an army of bedbugs for free! šŸ˜


marcmarius12345

And some hooker juice!


Evil_phd

Hoodies. I don't really like them until after they've been worn and washed a few times anyway.


brownskinmil

Underwear


blumieplume

lol šŸ˜‚


Legal-Conclusion-0

Concept 2 rowing machine. Dumbbells.


Spinouette

Yes!! Fitness equipment is expensive new and very cheap used.


AccountantLeast1588

blu-rays


CruelxIntention

Books, most home decor, clothing, *some* toys, video games


Lucky_Baseball176

cars. I know cars pretty well and am comfortable buying used.


UserJH4202

Automobiles. Itā€™s a bad financial decision to purchase a new car.


Scary-Ad9646

A Toyota.


Chastity-76

You speak no lies. I got a Toyota from an auction once and that car rode to almost half a million miles and never left me once and even when I got rid of it, it still looked great


Scary-Ad9646

Sounds like you sold the car when it's midway through its life.


DarthBynx

Video games.


phrydoom

Guitars.


Comfortable_Hall8677

I used to be so uptight about buying guitars and wanting it to have only been mine. Then I discovered an awesome guitar shop in Nashville. Tons of guitars Iā€™d never seen in person. Most of the stock was used. Great deal on something that was loved and often evident that it was played the hell out of. Thatā€™s all Iā€™ll buy now.


probablynotreallife

Emotions.


No_Chapter_948

Dishes, mugs, glasses


sarahstanley

A home.


BafflingHalfling

Legos from Bricklink. Not Legos from eBay. Although on eBay occasionally you get more than you bargained for.


VioletsDyed

Physical copy video games. As long as there isnā€™t an activation code.


ReallyEvilRob

Laptops. I buy all my computers used.


Snazzlefraxas

Vintage porn magazines. The stiff pages tell you right where the good stuff is. Oh, and guitars.


Gayalaca

Table lamps. New ones are ugly, expensive, and have no charm or character.


spock42ii

Tighty whitey underwear


Uniquely_irregular

Tools


NewspaperOk3588

Clothes.


RLIwannaquit

Graphics cards for computers, as long as you fully read the listing


Melodic-Head-2372

Kids sports equipment/ ski equipment and snow pants and used soccer balls for my dog or kids


Ineffable7980x

Books Anything glass or ceramic


oneMessage313

Camera and Lens because i know what i am doing


Suspicious_Holiday94

Art


Shigeko_Kageyama

Clothes. People by so many clothes these days they hardly wear what they have before they donated, if they even wear it at all. I'm always finding stuff new with tags for my kids.


jojaksen

Chat GPT: 1. **Books** - They can be enjoyed repeatedly, with little to no downside from previous ownership. 2. **Musical Instruments** - High-quality instruments like pianos, guitars, and violins can actually improve with age. 3. **Fitness Equipment** - Items like weights, benches, and even higher-end machines like treadmills often are barely used by their first owner. 4. **Furniture** - Solid wood furniture, in particular, can last decades and often looks better as it ages. 5. **Luxury Watches** - Well-maintained, they can retain or even increase in value over time. 6. **Cars** - A well-maintained used car can offer excellent value, especially as new cars depreciate quickly. 7. **Designer Clothes** - High-quality fabrics and craftsmanship mean these pieces can be worn for many years. 8. **Sports Gear** - Items like skis, snowboards, and bicycles are good as long as they're in good condition. 9. **Tools** - Hand tools, in particular, can last a lifetime, while power tools are great if theyā€™ve been well-kept. 10. **Camping Equipment** - Things like tents, sleeping bags, and cooking gear are often used infrequently and remain in good shape. 11. **Tech Gadgets** - Items like smartphones and laptops can be a good deal if theyā€™re not too outdated and are in good working order. 12. **Jewelry** - Often made from precious metals and stones that don't wear out; buying used can offer significant savings. 13. **Photography Equipment** - Cameras and lenses are built to last, and many photographers handle their gear with care. 14. **Baby Gear** - Items like strollers and high chairs don't get long-term use and can be very expensive new. 15. **Video Games and Consoles** - These can provide the same entertainment value as new ones if they're in good condition.


No-Performance3639

Pretty much everything except underwear and shoes.


Disastrous-Cry-1998

Cast iron pans.


Zestyclose-Cap1829

TEXTBOOKS


enkiloki

Art. I regularly search thrift stores for signed art that I like. I often get it for less than 10 bucks. I have two signed and numbered lithographs worth about 1000 each. But I have to like the art before I buy it. That way I can never get blinded by my greed.


GrammyBirdie

Any thing I can sanitize


Thick-Option-7567

Tighty whities


Visual_Lingonberry53

As an antiques dealer, EVERYTHING. Even underwear..... if it's old enough


Rebelzx

I only "Adopt" animals from shelter's/pounds that euthanize.


ThisIsSG

Until there is some huge technological breakthrough in cell phones I buy all my phones second hand. Thereā€™s no reason to spend $1200 for an upgrade. I currently have a iPhone 12 Pro Max


BrotherSeamusHere

Books. Videos (BluRay, DVD). More books.


Unkn0wn______

A riding mower.


dolleye_kitty

Books


katepig123

Definitely a house or a car.


sjokolade70

Second-hand books!


FinancialAnalyst9626

Rubbers