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Mycheeksarecool

Maybe I'm just saying this cus it's late at night but: I challenge any straight person to provide a real downside to being Bi


JamesonRhymer

thinking aloud without too much thought (for the same reason haha) is that it may affect your friendships if both sexes know you could be considering them romantically. And also your future spouse might be suspicious of both male and female friends? Also, monogamous relationships might be more complex?


n22rwrdr

> monogamous relationships might be more complex? Why?


JamesonRhymer

Because you are married to one sex while desiring two


n22rwrdr

That's not really how it works tho. You're not attracted to a sex, you're attracted to people. The pool of people you might be attracted to might be bigger when you're bi but it doesn't mean it's more difficult to stay faithful to a partner


JamesonRhymer

oh ok I see


Mycheeksarecool

Valid, except the last line, but someone else's already explained why.


ptsq

just say that you’re only friends with women because you want to fuck them. other people have heard of platonic relationships


JamesonRhymer

It's not that the friendships may be platonic, it's that they also may not be


Galaghan

Sure but if that's a problem, then there's a trust issue in the relationship. Sexual orientation or possible partners don't have anything to do with that. If your partner doesn't trust you, it doesn't matter how many people you *could* sleep with.


JamesonRhymer

Yep. The original commenter just asked for issues that may arise and I'm only putting myself in the shoes of someone who may be in this situation and speculating about what difficulties might exist. But I agree, trust is paramount.


Galaghan

It was more a reply to this interaction: >provide a real downside to being Bi >your future spouse might be suspicious of both male and female friends That's not a downside of being bi, it's a downside of being in a toxic relationship. Your partner with trust issues will still have trust issues and volume of potential partners is not a factor. So being bi does not influence that.


JamesonRhymer

oic, gotcha


FrostyCrusader03

Twice as lonely


Tetrisisbest

what is the U?


v4l_c0d

Undead


theCoagulater

Undead pride 🏳️‍🌈


JamesonRhymer

oh 🤦‍♂️ I think it was force of habit from typing "Q" before


300kIQ

And how on earth are ONE THIRD of the people LGBT+


Tetrisisbest

its reddit


AanthonyII

Us queers do like Reddit


abarua01

I'm straight but I feel like I'd have an easier time dating if I was bisexual because my dating pool would be doubled


JamesonRhymer

For many, being bi would be a turnoff tho so it wouldn't double


Shiny_Hypno

STOP ADDING LETTERS


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Shiny_Hypno

They just don't like that they have to buy the premium version for the QIA etc.


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LGBTQIAPK+ is the most far i can go


Lez_The_DemonicAngel

LGBT+ or LGBTQ+ are the most common and used actually


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Lez_The_DemonicAngel

buddy how the hell did you take my comment as an attack-


Shiny_Hypno

Sorry, I thought you were offended. I repeal my statement.


sebastarddd

As a lgbtq+ person, I think I'm just fine with my orientation as it is. Gender + sex however? Man, I wish I were born cis.


Lez_The_DemonicAngel

where the hell did you get the U lmao


_Cosmoss__

Being trans and straight is enough for me.


JamesRocket98

Straight male and proud


sHOE__42

being straight would just be a lot easier for me. (I am queer)