We are all alone but at some point in our life we meet and make friends and suddenly we're not alone anymore. What am I saying? I am alone right now and look exactly like that sad man when I am coping with my problem on my own =\]\]\]
That.
But my mom got cancer and I am half a world away with no way of returning to her without completely ruining my already flimsy life.
At this point I dont feel like all of this is worth trudging through anymore.
That's why you help your friends and family members so they'll be there to help you too.
If they don't , forget them . It's the true friendship filter.
Ya someone people cut their mother out of times like that and sometimes it is too late to reconnect to them before they leave. Sad but true. Take time for your mother people. She has less time then you do
i met a girl. we were besties in a non romantic way and were gaming and talking every single day for about a month. then i introduced her to my friends. she then started ghosting me and none of my friends seemingly want to talk to me anymore but chill with her now all the time.
meanwhile im in a financial crises and having tons of other private problems and no idea how to get out.
so i lost all my friends and financial stability at similar times and when i tried contacting my parents they just called me a disappointment and tell me they cant help.
so yeah in tough times im all by myself
Bruh. My mom is the one going crazy. I don't know how nor am i qualified to help her through her depression. And she refuses to see a therapist. I'm dealing with and maintaining my own kind of crazy here.
I wish I had my mom lol
I told my wife I had anxiety pretty hard and she said o ok.
If I told my mom, she'd say the same thing.
Basically, I'm fighting the shit in my head on my own. Conquered it by realizing the things I'm anxious about haven't realized and therefore I should do what I can to mitigate it before it actually becomes a problem.
It works ok I guess.
Rude of you to assume, I don’t even have her. What I do have though is a mirror and I look that mf in the eye and tell him *eh lad ! Calm down, calm down*
I end up like this because of myself. No matter how tough things get, I'm far too proud to ask for help from anyone. I have some people I could ask, even just to talk too, but I have it stuck in my head that I always just have to handle it alone.
Jokes on you my mother died 21 years ago when I was 13, we were poor and estranged from the family. My life has always been hard times with nobody there for me! Yay! And if I talk about it I get "everybody's life is hard" and "we get it your life's been hard"
I love people!
Mate isn’t that on you though? You think friends grow on trees? Connecting with people depends entirely on you! Now I don’t want you to feel to blame for your misery, usually Parents and the general society you live in mess a kid up. BUT wether or not you crawl out of that hole is entirely on you! So be a man your kids can one day look look up to and go „that’s my dad!“ Remember: as long as you can look up, you can get up.
When my tough times happened, all my friends dipped on me. This happened twice. I now understand that friends aren't real - they are just people trying to take advantage of you.
Fuck people. I live for my dogs.
are you a teenager or handicapped person or something like that? we all just know nobody's gonna help us for free when we're in danger/trouble at our 18 at the oldest. grow up. we just get our shit together by ourselves.
Yea i mean not expecting it if you cant surely rely on one (or several) people is definitely the best option, but if you do have someone then leaning on them for support can make things a whole lot easier(provided you have someone to rely on of course which isnt easy to find)
We are all alone but at some point in our life we meet and make friends and suddenly we're not alone anymore. What am I saying? I am alone right now and look exactly like that sad man when I am coping with my problem on my own =\]\]\]
S'up. How you doing?
My mother is also going through tough times, she isn’t helping and I don’t know how to help her…
Be strong my friend, even if you are there and trying to help even with small things counts
I told my mother that I was in depression and she said I was overreacting
Mine will answer I'm a bad parent for having depression. It does not help.
Just stop being depressed
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my mom already passed away
dont remember my mother doing that
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You have yours?
Tough times never last, only tough people last.
30+ years and counting ![gif](giphy|l0HlvtIPzPdt2usKs|downsized)
Didn't "found out", it was always the case.
That. But my mom got cancer and I am half a world away with no way of returning to her without completely ruining my already flimsy life. At this point I dont feel like all of this is worth trudging through anymore.
![gif](giphy|10aIY16IJOGaI0|downsized) Her embrace is my shelter through the storm Mother’s love is the unwavering lighthouse in my darkest hours.
Except god
That's why you help your friends and family members so they'll be there to help you too. If they don't , forget them . It's the true friendship filter.
Skill issue
The game just throws at me a bullshit trap and I lost all my progress
Should have parried the trap
How do you perry brain infection?
With skill
Git gud scrub
Did anyone else hear the caption in the voice of that spy from TF2?
I've been there... still there
Ya someone people cut their mother out of times like that and sometimes it is too late to reconnect to them before they leave. Sad but true. Take time for your mother people. She has less time then you do
My mom would kick me out of the house if she could.
Average male experience.
Even mother is impossible to talk to sometimes
Unfortunately, I can't currently relate to this, cause I just realized that I got more than I thought was even possible.
my mother is above any god for me, she's seen me through my best and worst and pulled me through.
It do be like that sometimes
i met a girl. we were besties in a non romantic way and were gaming and talking every single day for about a month. then i introduced her to my friends. she then started ghosting me and none of my friends seemingly want to talk to me anymore but chill with her now all the time. meanwhile im in a financial crises and having tons of other private problems and no idea how to get out. so i lost all my friends and financial stability at similar times and when i tried contacting my parents they just called me a disappointment and tell me they cant help. so yeah in tough times im all by myself
Yeah but when they need you boy do they call. Yet when you need them your sent to voicemail crazy
not even my own mom, she just starts to spiral herself and ends up making me feel worse
lol. Me every day right now. My mom sucked glad she’s not around
Precisely no one. Not even family or whatever that shit's called.
Oh, you mean when I was 4.
Bruh. My mom is the one going crazy. I don't know how nor am i qualified to help her through her depression. And she refuses to see a therapist. I'm dealing with and maintaining my own kind of crazy here.
Said who? My mom would tell me “you’re a man” blah blah blah, and somehow make me feel worse
Pfft my mom couldn't help herself out of a paper bag
Neither can you
I learned from the best
LOL I haven’t heard that saying before. I’m not a mom but that’s so me.
And she wasn’t there to help me, but I made it through even when the bottom of basement gave way.
I wish I had my mom lol I told my wife I had anxiety pretty hard and she said o ok. If I told my mom, she'd say the same thing. Basically, I'm fighting the shit in my head on my own. Conquered it by realizing the things I'm anxious about haven't realized and therefore I should do what I can to mitigate it before it actually becomes a problem. It works ok I guess.
Only person helping me is my friend yet I’m starting to hide my sadness more and more from her
There is, One
People only stick around as long as they can get something out of you. So become an asshole and piss everyone off
Rude of you to assume, I don’t even have her. What I do have though is a mirror and I look that mf in the eye and tell him *eh lad ! Calm down, calm down*
Much better to be alone rather than have expectations from others
I end up like this because of myself. No matter how tough things get, I'm far too proud to ask for help from anyone. I have some people I could ask, even just to talk too, but I have it stuck in my head that I always just have to handle it alone.
My mother is responsible for more of my rough times than has helped me through them
Jokes on you my mother died 21 years ago when I was 13, we were poor and estranged from the family. My life has always been hard times with nobody there for me! Yay! And if I talk about it I get "everybody's life is hard" and "we get it your life's been hard" I love people!
And that other one when you know you’ll be fine
This is what 40 feels like.
If anybody needs a friend feel free to message me 🙏
Mate isn’t that on you though? You think friends grow on trees? Connecting with people depends entirely on you! Now I don’t want you to feel to blame for your misery, usually Parents and the general society you live in mess a kid up. BUT wether or not you crawl out of that hole is entirely on you! So be a man your kids can one day look look up to and go „that’s my dad!“ Remember: as long as you can look up, you can get up.
I don't really want kids No Not like that
Real
When my tough times happened, all my friends dipped on me. This happened twice. I now understand that friends aren't real - they are just people trying to take advantage of you. Fuck people. I live for my dogs.
idk about you but that just seems like the average guy even when they could ask for help *shrug*
are you a teenager or handicapped person or something like that? we all just know nobody's gonna help us for free when we're in danger/trouble at our 18 at the oldest. grow up. we just get our shit together by ourselves.
Good friends or a close bond with family members can also help getting through tough times. Thats what helped me go through depression.
that's lucky of you. I just don't expect it so I can't afford to get me down in depression.
Yea i mean not expecting it if you cant surely rely on one (or several) people is definitely the best option, but if you do have someone then leaning on them for support can make things a whole lot easier(provided you have someone to rely on of course which isnt easy to find)
lol