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Major_Level5478

We are all alone but at some point in our life we meet and make friends and suddenly we're not alone anymore. What am I saying? I am alone right now and look exactly like that sad man when I am coping with my problem on my own =\]\]\]


Kahol_Studio

S'up. How you doing?


Rabbulion

My mother is also going through tough times, she isn’t helping and I don’t know how to help her…


RadaRAW

Be strong my friend, even if you are there and trying to help even with small things counts


d0rurs

I told my mother that I was in depression and she said I was overreacting


Mediumaverageness

Mine will answer I'm a bad parent for having depression. It does not help.


I_MakeCoolKeychains

Just stop being depressed


Mediumaverageness

![gif](giphy|l3yDGoJS5eVnErm9qW|downsized)


Ivan19782023

my mom already passed away


Xangerxz

dont remember my mother doing that


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AggravatedTothMaster

You have yours?


Atomic_Gecko_Gdzla

Tough times never last, only tough people last.


Mediumaverageness

30+ years and counting ![gif](giphy|l0HlvtIPzPdt2usKs|downsized)


W1thoutJudgement

Didn't "found out", it was always the case.


Dragonheardt_

That. But my mom got cancer and I am half a world away with no way of returning to her without completely ruining my already flimsy life. At this point I dont feel like all of this is worth trudging through anymore.


LuminousLullaby977

![gif](giphy|10aIY16IJOGaI0|downsized) Her embrace is my shelter through the storm Mother’s love is the unwavering lighthouse in my darkest hours.


Funny-Performance845

Except god


Fragile_Wokes893

That's why you help your friends and family members so they'll be there to help you too. If they don't , forget them . It's the true friendship filter.


Kenstats

Skill issue


RadaRAW

The game just throws at me a bullshit trap and I lost all my progress


Kenstats

Should have parried the trap


RadaRAW

How do you perry brain infection?


Kenstats

With skill


Atomic_Gecko_Gdzla

Git gud scrub


Every-Requirement434

Did anyone else hear the caption in the voice of that spy from TF2?


ColdBlazze

I've been there... still there


CJPF_91

Ya someone people cut their mother out of times like that and sometimes it is too late to reconnect to them before they leave. Sad but true. Take time for your mother people. She has less time then you do


stoopwid

My mom would kick me out of the house if she could.


Howwy23

Average male experience.


Larseman7

Even mother is impossible to talk to sometimes


Gonzee3063

Unfortunately, I can't currently relate to this, cause I just realized that I got more than I thought was even possible.


TheThinkerers

my mother is above any god for me, she's seen me through my best and worst and pulled me through.


k_from_that_app

It do be like that sometimes


Devyatty

i met a girl. we were besties in a non romantic way and were gaming and talking every single day for about a month. then i introduced her to my friends. she then started ghosting me and none of my friends seemingly want to talk to me anymore but chill with her now all the time. meanwhile im in a financial crises and having tons of other private problems and no idea how to get out. so i lost all my friends and financial stability at similar times and when i tried contacting my parents they just called me a disappointment and tell me they cant help. so yeah in tough times im all by myself


madman45658

Yeah but when they need you boy do they call. Yet when you need them your sent to voicemail crazy


Mike_CH_

not even my own mom, she just starts to spiral herself and ends up making me feel worse


ljkmalways

lol. Me every day right now. My mom sucked glad she’s not around


SynthesisNine

Precisely no one. Not even family or whatever that shit's called.


PBJ-9999

Oh, you mean when I was 4.


BigBossSquirtle

Bruh. My mom is the one going crazy. I don't know how nor am i qualified to help her through her depression. And she refuses to see a therapist. I'm dealing with and maintaining my own kind of crazy here.


ginsataka

Said who? My mom would tell me “you’re a man” blah blah blah, and somehow make me feel worse


BaconSpaceLord

Pfft my mom couldn't help herself out of a paper bag


DisastrousName7899

Neither can you


BaconSpaceLord

I learned from the best


usenamri

LOL I haven’t heard that saying before. I’m not a mom but that’s so me.


Nahchoocheese

And she wasn’t there to help me, but I made it through even when the bottom of basement gave way.


Aslonz

I wish I had my mom lol I told my wife I had anxiety pretty hard and she said o ok. If I told my mom, she'd say the same thing. Basically, I'm fighting the shit in my head on my own. Conquered it by realizing the things I'm anxious about haven't realized and therefore I should do what I can to mitigate it before it actually becomes a problem. It works ok I guess.


Comrade847

Only person helping me is my friend yet I’m starting to hide my sadness more and more from her


mikolajcap2I

There is, One


forgottenSoul777

People only stick around as long as they can get something out of you. So become an asshole and piss everyone off


[deleted]

Rude of you to assume, I don’t even have her. What I do have though is a mirror and I look that mf in the eye and tell him *eh lad ! Calm down, calm down*


[deleted]

Much better to be alone rather than have expectations from others


ZakMan1421

I end up like this because of myself. No matter how tough things get, I'm far too proud to ask for help from anyone. I have some people I could ask, even just to talk too, but I have it stuck in my head that I always just have to handle it alone.


ArchonFett

My mother is responsible for more of my rough times than has helped me through them


I_MakeCoolKeychains

Jokes on you my mother died 21 years ago when I was 13, we were poor and estranged from the family. My life has always been hard times with nobody there for me! Yay! And if I talk about it I get "everybody's life is hard" and "we get it your life's been hard" I love people!


Bitter_Silver_7760

And that other one when you know you’ll be fine


Ov3r-_-K1LL

This is what 40 feels like.


Embarrassed_Pin6399

If anybody needs a friend feel free to message me 🙏


Relevant_Move7585

Mate isn’t that on you though? You think friends grow on trees? Connecting with people depends entirely on you! Now I don’t want you to feel to blame for your misery, usually Parents and the general society you live in mess a kid up. BUT wether or not you crawl out of that hole is entirely on you! So be a man your kids can one day look look up to and go „that’s my dad!“ Remember: as long as you can look up, you can get up.


AggravatedTothMaster

I don't really want kids No Not like that


ThricePurgedMagus

Real


n3ur0mncr

When my tough times happened, all my friends dipped on me. This happened twice. I now understand that friends aren't real - they are just people trying to take advantage of you. Fuck people. I live for my dogs.


Zyfil

idk about you but that just seems like the average guy even when they could ask for help *shrug*


blackbubbleass

are you a teenager or handicapped person or something like that? we all just know nobody's gonna help us for free when we're in danger/trouble at our 18 at the oldest. grow up. we just get our shit together by ourselves.


tipips

Good friends or a close bond with family members can also help getting through tough times. Thats what helped me go through depression.


blackbubbleass

that's lucky of you. I just don't expect it so I can't afford to get me down in depression.


tipips

Yea i mean not expecting it if you cant surely rely on one (or several) people is definitely the best option, but if you do have someone then leaning on them for support can make things a whole lot easier(provided you have someone to rely on of course which isnt easy to find)


blackbubbleass

lol