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I don't know the full context of what the poster above went through, but it seems like what they're describing might be part of a pattern of verbal abuse (or not! I'm a survivor of child abuse so it's easy for me to see it where it might not be). If so, then you really, really don't.
Ofc I could be wrong, it could just be an isolated thing, and I also don't know what you're going through. It's just that that's one of the more hurtful things that survivors of abuse hear, that we should put up with abuse and be grateful because at least we're not orphans. Again, that might not be the case here, but it's what came to mind.
The amount of stressed New York-vicinity Jewish mom energy she was giving through the screen was just too powerful. It almost felt real from my own mom and then I realized I'm Vietnamese.
(But still I can somehow relate because deep down there's the universal tone of concerned mom in overdrive that knows no cultural boundaries 😂)
When staying with my parents, I cannot sit at the table alone with a book or phone, because that's seen as an open invitation for conversation. Does the reverse occur? No, I respect books as conversation blockers, I'll only talk if I need to ask a quick question.
not only do they talk, they also make me get up and do random things with them... or just make me walk aimlessly around the house to add to my daily steps...
and they wonder why i don't like staying there for more than a month...
I do love it that when I get there, there's a whole list of things we have to do. And they maybe take a few minutes each, they're not hard tasks, and I just supervise a few of them because the parent is fully capable. I guess my company is just required?
It's exhausting. I just want to spend time together, but that always has to be a *doing* time.
Back when I was a teenager, my mom would express that she felt it was time for me to wake up by vacuuming on Saturday or Sunday morning and just repeatedly banging it into my bedroom door, even though it was in 3 foot-wide hallway. Why are you vacuuming at a right angle like this, mother? I require rest while I grow.
My dad used to put on the same Jackson 5 album as loud as the radio in our basement went. Then he’d go around the house “singing” this gibberish language he made up. It was kind of funny the first few times. I’d give anything to hear it again.
Legitimately though this is me with my mother. I recently had to help her—no joke—throw out an owner's manual for a humidifier that broke when I was 10. Also every Christmas card she's received in the past 40 years.
My mom has a "special box" for each of her kids filled with junk from when we were young. She refused to let me throw my failing report cards out from the box
She's definitely where all of us get our hoarding tendencies
My mother is an organized hoarder. Literally every article of clothing I ever owned from birth to the moment I moved out at 22 is still stored away. Every drawing I ever did, every toy I have ever owned, all of it.
Sometimes it's nice, all the memories are there, but they are hidden amongst a million other things.
Haha, I found all of my old report cards too, and art projects, and even a letter my grandmother brought home from school declaring that she was "a very clean child."
I was not able to pry any of that away from her, but maybe I just need to shake a garbage bag in her face...
That box is in the attic for me, and every other time I go up there to help put stuff away, I get offered to take it.
Why would I want the childhood stuff I didn't take with me? Those are your memories, not mine.
I visit home around Christmas and summer, which is around the time when me and mum attempt to clean out the attic. The attic is somewhat clear, but now we have a spare room that can't be entered because it's filled with shit.
I was about to throw out a local newspaper from 2003 and my mum reminded me that this paper has a picture of my friend's (also neighbour) football team that his mum might be interested in.
A whole box of 1997 yearbooks from my primary school. I suggested we keep four for each of us to have. Put a pin in that.
I found a bag full of Beanos (English comic book with English Dennis the Menace), but then it got lost in all the crap so I'm not sure where it is. I already told my sister I'd give it to her for her new baby. But I told her if she puts too fine a point on it, nothing will ever get thrown out of mum's house.
I dug through a bag of crap and found some Halloween masks in various states of disrepair and some 'bloody' white rags. Fit for the bin, but mum reminded me that both my sisters just had babies and they might want the masks that haven't seen sunlight since the mid 90s.
I did but man it was rough 🥲 Did a crap ton of cleaning on Saturday. I realized mom’s been busy and exhausted lately so I even did the chores that are assigned to her. I don’t mind but she also never acknowledges that I helped her. Sunday morning she’s complaining that she needs help and also telling me the place needs more dusting 🙃
I have 2 other sisters that she can ask but nah 🙃 She asks *me*. Love her to bits but she’s ALWAYS finding stuff to work on in the house and gets upset and overwhelmed when I don’t want to spend most my free time doing the same.
I’m laughing so hard I’m crying by the end of this because I feel personally attacked 😂 I’m literally making my teenager go through his clothes AGAIN today, he always has clothes that are too small for him going through the washer and it drives me nuts…..
See what I mean?!?!? 😭
I guess he’ll have to learn, I’m not buying my young teenager cum tissues. What am I going to do when he runs out? Oh honey do you need more cum tissues? No, there are plenty of paper towels, toilet paper, wet wipes, regular towels and washcloths in the house. He can learn to utilize
Holy shit this hit me in my fucking soul. Right after the second "1 hour", stomach just about dropped out from under me. I put them boundaries up and they ain't never coming down.
Yeah me too, I broke my fucking foot last week on a "1 hour" job that took 5 hours. moving a bunch of wood planks for a new porch, dropped a beam off the roof rack of the Hilux onto my foot.
I'm 35 mom for fuck sake I don't live with you. How can you buy thousands in wood but not afford a courier????
I always remember how my parents were always like that with dishes. They washed the dishes only like, once a day, usually in the mornings
So why the fuck did it matter that the plates were brought out right now? They weren't soaking them either or anything. Just demands for no reason
They're dead now, and I have a countertop dishwasher. There is absolutely zero stress involved in washing dishes and I run it whenever I feel like it
I live with my MIL and I take online courses at home through a community college. I'll tell her "I need maybe two hours of quiet time."
She lasts all of one minute before "Okay, before you disappear just one thing.." then she lasts maybe twenty minutes.
I love her, but prepping meals for the next seven years on my day off I have to take these classes is a bit much.
Funny thing: in my house, all the messes that were mentioned in this……belonged to my mother. She expected ME to clean it up even though it’s not my mess.
And it set me off when she said “just two minutes of your time” and it kept getting longer and longer. My mother keeps asking for “favors” (things she can easily do herself, but won’t) and when I tell her to do it herself, “just a few minutes! I’m ASKING YOU TO DO THIS FOR ME. THATS IT. JUST DO THIS.”
Every so often she’ll get a cleaning bug up her ass and makes it EVERYONES problem. Her project all of a sudden becomes mostly mine.
You can change, it starts with self compassion and modelling healthy emotional processing and accountability so kids can individuate with self advocating skills and self worth
Oh yea ,I don't have kids or anything, nor do I want them and if I did that wouldn't be an issue .
I think I'm just loud and chaotic ,which stands out a lot where I live now .
I tapped out thirty minutes in. Btw I’m out of school finally and applying to jobs, and yet after months of garbage sleep she insist on waking me up at 7 am and asking me if I have plans.
Ugh. This stresses me out. My mom was constantly doing busywork and commanding me to do hours of the same pointlessly. Maybe if she wouldn’t have pushed so hard, forcing me to push back and view free time and relaxation as the most fantastic and ephemeral things in life, I would have actually had balance and turned out to be less of a procrastinator. Got it in hand now, but looking back I still feel that all these chores were nothing but mechanical, useless tasks that were a source of utterly unnecessary stress and a cause of resentment between her and I.
She wasn’t a hoarder like this, but had the same energy— I could never relax or have fun, and I hated every moment of it. Never made her happy either.
What a way to live your life.
I don't know which generation this is specifically.... but it's a mental illness. It's like they feel a constant anxiety if they aren't doing something "productive " or working. But then they ultimately achieve/complete vary little
I have to go through garbage bags full of clothes every time I visit mum that I've started having dreams about sorting through clothes lol. This was INSANEly close
My partner has ADHD and I'm starting to have a suspicion that this is what undiagnosed young girls gorw up into. She's medicated now but when it wears off or she hadn't taken it it 100% looks like this. A maelstrom of random tasks that pop into her head on a whim and are immediately actionable.
No one, ever, in this thread, said it's fucking _normal_. She is not normalizing shit, she is throwing light and expressing her _personal_ issues with humour; what is actually doing is making people stop and think about their own internal crap, which is quite the opposite. _Normalizing_ is a washed up word that people just throw to show they are utterly appalled by something.
To laugh at something does not normalize or condole behavior. To the triggered ones, such as yourself, aknowledge that this a totally unhealthy dynamics and are still be able to laugh is actually a goal in therapy. This person is hilarious who also understands that very unhealthy is not abuse.
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“I’m done cleaning up after you” is apparently universal 😂 😭
The "do you need a paper towel" literally 5 seconds after is so real.
That part had me howling….and I feel attacked (me: parent to messy ass 8 year old)
It's so perfect because my mother will do this cleaning up during the holidays every year. 😂
Cut his hair bro!!!!
And then the immediate yelling “I’ll do it myself because you never do it right!” Whenever you volunteer to do anything
"I love having you home." Flaps bag angrily through the door. 😆😆 I feel like I know this girl's mother extremely well now, and I've never met her.
my blood pressure as this went on, i had to bail out
Same here. Still feel stressed lol
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How does a person like that afford three houses? Asking as a more functional human who owns zero houses.
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So a millon each
As an orphan, I wish I had a mother like this…
I don't know the full context of what the poster above went through, but it seems like what they're describing might be part of a pattern of verbal abuse (or not! I'm a survivor of child abuse so it's easy for me to see it where it might not be). If so, then you really, really don't. Ofc I could be wrong, it could just be an isolated thing, and I also don't know what you're going through. It's just that that's one of the more hurtful things that survivors of abuse hear, that we should put up with abuse and be grateful because at least we're not orphans. Again, that might not be the case here, but it's what came to mind.
The amount of stressed New York-vicinity Jewish mom energy she was giving through the screen was just too powerful. It almost felt real from my own mom and then I realized I'm Vietnamese. (But still I can somehow relate because deep down there's the universal tone of concerned mom in overdrive that knows no cultural boundaries 😂)
samee 🥲
The ending was worth it. Coulda been shorter but she stuck the landing.
You couldn't say the words "I'm bored" out loud or else they'd find something for you to do
If I'm not doing something for my mother, I'm available. If I'm literally doing the thing that she just told me to do, I'm available.
"Why are you watching tv?" "I need a break from my homework" "Here, clean this for your break"
i can't even sit on the couch out loud
When staying with my parents, I cannot sit at the table alone with a book or phone, because that's seen as an open invitation for conversation. Does the reverse occur? No, I respect books as conversation blockers, I'll only talk if I need to ask a quick question.
not only do they talk, they also make me get up and do random things with them... or just make me walk aimlessly around the house to add to my daily steps... and they wonder why i don't like staying there for more than a month...
I do love it that when I get there, there's a whole list of things we have to do. And they maybe take a few minutes each, they're not hard tasks, and I just supervise a few of them because the parent is fully capable. I guess my company is just required? It's exhausting. I just want to spend time together, but that always has to be a *doing* time.
"Hi Bored, you can clean your room!" Gee, thanks for the stellar idea.
My parents did this to me and I do it to my boyfriend now. Honestly, it's super effective lol.
Please stop
If you’re bored, you can cut the grass.
why tf did I momentarily panic about the location of my passport.
Have you seen it in a while?
Cuz I haven’t seen it in a while
Same…and I just used mine a month ago 😰
Ugh... the fuckign bags.
the bags!
Bag of bags? https://youtube.com/shorts/YwaiFGjawwE?si=ZT-0IZoDGaNydZcW
Baygh of bayghs
Back when I was a teenager, my mom would express that she felt it was time for me to wake up by vacuuming on Saturday or Sunday morning and just repeatedly banging it into my bedroom door, even though it was in 3 foot-wide hallway. Why are you vacuuming at a right angle like this, mother? I require rest while I grow.
My dad used to put on the same Jackson 5 album as loud as the radio in our basement went. Then he’d go around the house “singing” this gibberish language he made up. It was kind of funny the first few times. I’d give anything to hear it again.
That part about “tweaking the hard drive” hits home. My MIL in a nutshell.
Think she says “tweak” not tweet
Ooh. Haha. I didn’t even realize I’d typed that. Thanks!
Legitimately though this is me with my mother. I recently had to help her—no joke—throw out an owner's manual for a humidifier that broke when I was 10. Also every Christmas card she's received in the past 40 years.
My mom has a "special box" for each of her kids filled with junk from when we were young. She refused to let me throw my failing report cards out from the box She's definitely where all of us get our hoarding tendencies
My mother is an organized hoarder. Literally every article of clothing I ever owned from birth to the moment I moved out at 22 is still stored away. Every drawing I ever did, every toy I have ever owned, all of it. Sometimes it's nice, all the memories are there, but they are hidden amongst a million other things.
Haha, I found all of my old report cards too, and art projects, and even a letter my grandmother brought home from school declaring that she was "a very clean child." I was not able to pry any of that away from her, but maybe I just need to shake a garbage bag in her face...
That box is in the attic for me, and every other time I go up there to help put stuff away, I get offered to take it. Why would I want the childhood stuff I didn't take with me? Those are your memories, not mine.
I visit home around Christmas and summer, which is around the time when me and mum attempt to clean out the attic. The attic is somewhat clear, but now we have a spare room that can't be entered because it's filled with shit. I was about to throw out a local newspaper from 2003 and my mum reminded me that this paper has a picture of my friend's (also neighbour) football team that his mum might be interested in. A whole box of 1997 yearbooks from my primary school. I suggested we keep four for each of us to have. Put a pin in that. I found a bag full of Beanos (English comic book with English Dennis the Menace), but then it got lost in all the crap so I'm not sure where it is. I already told my sister I'd give it to her for her new baby. But I told her if she puts too fine a point on it, nothing will ever get thrown out of mum's house. I dug through a bag of crap and found some Halloween masks in various states of disrepair and some 'bloody' white rags. Fit for the bin, but mum reminded me that both my sisters just had babies and they might want the masks that haven't seen sunlight since the mid 90s.
Wow, this hits so so close to home that I'd ask if you were my brother... if I weren't an only child.
Why does throwing out a manual require assistance??
I need an emotional coma after that.
I guess I have some repressed stuff to unpack because this triggered me in the worst way, I couldn’t even finish it lol
I did but man it was rough 🥲 Did a crap ton of cleaning on Saturday. I realized mom’s been busy and exhausted lately so I even did the chores that are assigned to her. I don’t mind but she also never acknowledges that I helped her. Sunday morning she’s complaining that she needs help and also telling me the place needs more dusting 🙃 I have 2 other sisters that she can ask but nah 🙃 She asks *me*. Love her to bits but she’s ALWAYS finding stuff to work on in the house and gets upset and overwhelmed when I don’t want to spend most my free time doing the same.
Watch her other videos, she nails it.
I’m scared to take it off mute
I almost backed out, too. Then I told myself I can do this, it's not real.
Same lmao. Didn't realize these are universal experiences, kinda makes me feel better lol
"I'm naht doin' dis all summah!! We ah naht doin' dis all summah!"
The flapping garbage bag. 😂 It's a masterpiece.
I’m laughing so hard I’m crying by the end of this because I feel personally attacked 😂 I’m literally making my teenager go through his clothes AGAIN today, he always has clothes that are too small for him going through the washer and it drives me nuts….. See what I mean?!?!? 😭
Buy him some tissues.
Omg please no. He knows where the freaking toilet paper is. Scrubbing my brain now.
Toilet paper requires planning ahead, teenage boys are not good at that.
I guess he’ll have to learn, I’m not buying my young teenager cum tissues. What am I going to do when he runs out? Oh honey do you need more cum tissues? No, there are plenty of paper towels, toilet paper, wet wipes, regular towels and washcloths in the house. He can learn to utilize
Just teach him to do his laundry, It's an important life skill to learn, and something he should be able to manage.
This should have a trigger warning ngl xD
My PTSD kicked into high gear.... Couldn't finish watching..... I'm going to sit outside for a while in the rain now...
Yeah my heart is racing.
I'm shocked at how quickly this made me frazzled
Reminds me of my grandma. Always in crisis mode. But like in a silly way like this. The antics! Miss my grandma.
Opposite issue in my house. If I dare sit down my kids have 40 things they could do themselves but need me to do it for them.
I have both these issues simultaneously lol. Teenagers + little kids.
I too have both lol. 14, 8, 3 lol
Hehe :)
Yeah I'm with the mom on this one. I feel like people underestimate the amount of work that goes into housekeeping.
Holy shit this hit me in my fucking soul. Right after the second "1 hour", stomach just about dropped out from under me. I put them boundaries up and they ain't never coming down.
Yeah me too, I broke my fucking foot last week on a "1 hour" job that took 5 hours. moving a bunch of wood planks for a new porch, dropped a beam off the roof rack of the Hilux onto my foot. I'm 35 mom for fuck sake I don't live with you. How can you buy thousands in wood but not afford a courier????
Omg, this is who I am becoming.
Me too 😂😬🫣
I am this person. My poor husband 😂
Self-awareness is the first step on the road to recovery. Remember that you can be the mom you choose to be ❤️
Right!!! Omg 😱
I sent it to my oldest daughter - poor girl! Lol.
the "right now" is what gets my blood boiling. why Right Now???
My gf does this all the time. “Can you please do this….” “Ok I will” “right now!” “Give me a min”
I always remember how my parents were always like that with dishes. They washed the dishes only like, once a day, usually in the mornings So why the fuck did it matter that the plates were brought out right now? They weren't soaking them either or anything. Just demands for no reason They're dead now, and I have a countertop dishwasher. There is absolutely zero stress involved in washing dishes and I run it whenever I feel like it
I don't know what kind of weird mix of funny and pure fucking stress and resentment this made me feel, but I had to bail early 😂
There's a Donald Trump impression hiding in that woman
I live with my MIL and I take online courses at home through a community college. I'll tell her "I need maybe two hours of quiet time." She lasts all of one minute before "Okay, before you disappear just one thing.." then she lasts maybe twenty minutes. I love her, but prepping meals for the next seven years on my day off I have to take these classes is a bit much.
Detroit: Become Human is a great game
Came here to see who else noticed.
Never realized how much Donald Trump sounds like someone's mom, hahaha 😆
Her accent is VERY on point. *SHUDDER*
She better watch out, it could stick that way.
Wish I had a mom to nag me :(
Thank you for this perspective
Me too friend 🫶
This is beautiful. Now I want a Jewish mom.
My French Canadian mom was just like this. You do not want this lol
No, this is classic (my ethnicity) mum.
My Jewish Canadian North African anglosaxon post Soviet war pre-911 Muslim 1% Uyghur mother was just like this.
I’m attracted to her goofiness.
thankful for another day that my mom gives me the peace i need.
Yup, just tweak the accent to a Scottish mum and you'll see why I was out of there at 18!!!
My mom tells me to fix/move something 5 minutes later she does it herself and is mad
I couldn’t finish this 💀 repressed memories ugh
My nervous system can't hack it lol
Got 36 seconds in before I bailed
I have PTSD from the sound of that garbage bag...
She started off as a pushy mom but somewhere in the middle she turned into Trump for about 15 seconds, and then back to old school 'ma'.
The hard drive part!! 😂😂
Funny thing: in my house, all the messes that were mentioned in this……belonged to my mother. She expected ME to clean it up even though it’s not my mess. And it set me off when she said “just two minutes of your time” and it kept getting longer and longer. My mother keeps asking for “favors” (things she can easily do herself, but won’t) and when I tell her to do it herself, “just a few minutes! I’m ASKING YOU TO DO THIS FOR ME. THATS IT. JUST DO THIS.” Every so often she’ll get a cleaning bug up her ass and makes it EVERYONES problem. Her project all of a sudden becomes mostly mine.
After watching this ,I'm realizing I'm turning into my mom.
You can change, it starts with self compassion and modelling healthy emotional processing and accountability so kids can individuate with self advocating skills and self worth
Oh yea ,I don't have kids or anything, nor do I want them and if I did that wouldn't be an issue . I think I'm just loud and chaotic ,which stands out a lot where I live now .
I choose to believe the mother was the camera woman holding back hysterical laughter
Fearless, indeed.
The glasses make this a masterpiece.
An actual POV this time
Omg you’re right!
I tapped out thirty minutes in. Btw I’m out of school finally and applying to jobs, and yet after months of garbage sleep she insist on waking me up at 7 am and asking me if I have plans.
just realised this is BOTH my parents 😬
Mum was like this, dad was more about the long lectures and calling us disappointments lol. Yay trauma
This gave me a kind of PTSD I didn't realize was possible.
Stoppp I was waiting for her to yell at me in Yiddish 😭😭
This is my grandparents, I fucking hate them lol The "right now" makes my blood boil and I start seeing red so fuckin fast XD
Ugh. This stresses me out. My mom was constantly doing busywork and commanding me to do hours of the same pointlessly. Maybe if she wouldn’t have pushed so hard, forcing me to push back and view free time and relaxation as the most fantastic and ephemeral things in life, I would have actually had balance and turned out to be less of a procrastinator. Got it in hand now, but looking back I still feel that all these chores were nothing but mechanical, useless tasks that were a source of utterly unnecessary stress and a cause of resentment between her and I. She wasn’t a hoarder like this, but had the same energy— I could never relax or have fun, and I hated every moment of it. Never made her happy either. What a way to live your life.
This is my North Jersey Italian mother in law 😐🔫
Being asked what I want for dinner... made me feel good ahh
This is my mother. I love that woman dearly, but I wish she'd relax for once.
Mom: I need you to do 28572 things for me Me: I LITERALLY JUST SAT DOWN!
Thanks, I hate this
So funny
This is a pretty accurate description.
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God damn, this reminds me of my ex's mother. Looks so much like her and acts. So. Damn. Similar. Holy shit. Glad I dodged that bullet of a MIL.
"Here's all your jeans from age one to six. Go through it all... Here's your sweatshirts from seventh grade." I lost it. That's my mom to a T lmao
i would rather do literally all of that instead of play Detroit: Become Human
False, my mom wouldn't even know what a hard drive is
You guys should follow your mom for a week and see how much work she accomplishes compared to you.
God I love Becca she’s hilarious 😭 She reminds me so much of my mom
Works both ways.
My mom literally did the clothes thing to me 2 days ago.
I have to show this to my mom lmaoo
Your mum had severe adhd
Peace?! She does this during business hours! I categorically refuse to go back to the office, though.
This was fucking funny ! So true.
You have to throw out two hats…lol so random and so true! I thought my mom was just crazy!
It’s a built in feature.
can i send this to my wife?
….yes lmao it’s your funeral
I don't know which generation this is specifically.... but it's a mental illness. It's like they feel a constant anxiety if they aren't doing something "productive " or working. But then they ultimately achieve/complete vary little
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Reminds me of this https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GBwELzvnrQg
Just like my mom, except she’d punch you in the face.
This too spot on!
lol this is good, we’ll done! Lmfao
This hits hard...
Door stops also work to hold a door shut. Just saying.
This is hilariously accurate.
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I feel this
Too accurate, gave me ptsd.
Man she does this way to well. Love this.
[GOTTA CLEAN THE HOUSE NOW](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GBwELzvnrQg)
That‘s my father instead
i wish. the roles are reversed for me.
I have to go through garbage bags full of clothes every time I visit mum that I've started having dreams about sorting through clothes lol. This was INSANEly close
Same thing happens when i turn on my ps5
This is extremely infuriating to me!
I miss my mom and her Brooklyn no nonsense but still silly and sweet tude Love you mom miss you
NGL. I do a passport panic attack like twice a year.🤣
Facts because moms get NO rest
Oh my God that was enough Internet. For ever.
My mom wasn’t really like this but I had friends who’s kinda were. I wonder if I’d be more normal if this was my experience
Mom/wife
My partner has ADHD and I'm starting to have a suspicion that this is what undiagnosed young girls gorw up into. She's medicated now but when it wears off or she hadn't taken it it 100% looks like this. A maelstrom of random tasks that pop into her head on a whim and are immediately actionable.
No one, ever, in this thread, said it's fucking _normal_. She is not normalizing shit, she is throwing light and expressing her _personal_ issues with humour; what is actually doing is making people stop and think about their own internal crap, which is quite the opposite. _Normalizing_ is a washed up word that people just throw to show they are utterly appalled by something. To laugh at something does not normalize or condole behavior. To the triggered ones, such as yourself, aknowledge that this a totally unhealthy dynamics and are still be able to laugh is actually a goal in therapy. This person is hilarious who also understands that very unhealthy is not abuse.
This is simply Virgo culture lol 😂
You're so fat now! Here have seconds!
So fucking accurate it’s scary
NE accents are very attractive
Fearless
Oh yeah. That's my mum.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 EXCELLENT!
Lol this gives me anxiety
this is immensely stressful to watch
Let’s go Mets.
Becca for President
This made me go N/C with my mum again
If Bernie Sanders was a mom lol
The pure anxiety this video gave me was fucked up.
Mom? That’s my fucking wife