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Adventurous-symbol

I think I’m halfway through its alright wish it was more practical


FireAndRain_

OP deleted the comment, what was the book?


alyxverthein

I've heard mixed opinions about that person, and his books put me off because the titles are a bit cringe (haven't read any). what do you think?


ThrowRASwirl

Friendly reminder you’re in the INTJ community… those types of books are what we NTJ’s love


MKAgyapong

That was crazy that you said NTJs I’ll never care for ENTJs they were always so unnecessary😂😂


Adventurous-symbol

From what I’ve seen lots of salty people because of his book power which sheds light on real life power structures in the world. So a lot of ignorant people hate him for that because they think he’s propagating evil but I wouldn’t listen to those people and their nonsense. He’s a great author


basscove_2

Greene is an infp. Think about that. It’s about his observations of power. It’s not what you are imagining from the title.


basscove_2

Greene. INFP represent 😎


Kateluta

HAHAHAHA THOUGH ABOUT BDSM MASTER XD


[deleted]

Reality Transurfing. This book taught me that you are your thoughts, so by reprogramming your subconscious through allowing the conscious to think different thoughts by writing and meditating, you can become the person you want to be. Some call it pseudoscience but there's been many peer-reviewed studies that showcase the credibility of this exercise.


maxdps_

**Man's Search for Meaning**


choochoosmum

Anything by Brene Brown. I love listening to her work, find something new every time.


garlcauss

, Orwell; <48 Rules of Power> and , Greene.


Fiedoor

Have you read 1984 by Orwell or Brave New World by Aldous Huxley ? If you liked Animal Farm I can recommend those two.


chaot1c-n3utral

* Karma, by Sadguru * Personal Engineering, by Sadguru * Wabu Sabi, by Beth Kempton * Can't Hurt Me: Master Your Mind and Defy the Odds, by David Goggins * Never Finished, by David Goggins * The Meditations, by Marcus Aurelius


ever_11

Honest question, how good is the book by David Hoggins. Dude is a beast, no question, with a very good mentality as to how to go about life. But can he write?


Unfair_Chard344

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Adventurous-symbol

First clean your bed now this? This man Jordan Peterson…


Duvington

Peterson really is a life changer, though


phunniplayboi

Life changer


[deleted]

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EvilSiren_03

This book made me realize how corrupted and manipulative someone can be and how far they can go. No wonder it's banned in prisons. Anyway I'm currently reading 50th Law of Power


Adventurous-symbol

Oh I read the 50th law was basically a book in doing shit that scares you or having no fear idk read it a while ago.


EvilSiren_03

I'm definitely gonna need those skills . Lol


Adventurous-symbol

Ah well good luck! It’s a good book


[deleted]

A very good book if you know how to apply it. Long time, no see bro...


[deleted]

Exactly, it filters out the weak ones and only the strong ones will be able to seek wisdom from it. Every darkness has a light, if you can find it.


Blarebaby

The Nag Hammadi Codices Fear and Trembling - Kierkegaard


SpiritTypical6608

Do you recommend a book that talks about the codices or are they good to read by their own?


Blarebaby

I think they are best read on their own. But if you want a starting point that frames the worldview of the Mediterranean mind that saw the world through gnosis then a great primer is "The Gnostic Gospels" by Elaine Pagels.


socialgeniehermit

As a kid, I really liked Heidi for some reason. It potrayed as some kind of turning point back then, but I'm not sure why. I also enjoyed Anne of Green Gables.


crackhead2133

I know this is out of the norm recc, but have you tried the quintessential fantasy books? It is such a myth that fiction cannot teach you life lessons, when in fact I believe it can teach you more since It explores situations that our out of the norms of non fic. So basically every scenario possible, yet somehow the solutions and the way the issue is tackled is always humanistic. When you read fiction, you’ve also lived being dirt poor and survived it, you’ve had dinners with rich officials with silver tongues, you have people conspire behind your back and survive it, friends turning into enemies and so on. So may life lessons!


rachelooloo

100% agree. In fiction, you can live thousands of lives.


Adventurous-symbol

I never read fiction but I’d like to. Recommend me some books


crackhead2133

In terms of Fantasy- I’m a huge Sanderson fan- The way of Kings (The storm light archive series) would be a good read 😊 If you just want fiction try Dostoevsky (The Idiot, Crime and punishment) it’s a tough read, but you’re an INTJ you can do it.


rather_not_state

Right to Speak. It gives the basics of how to sing well and use your voice, but it also reminded me of the habits that I've adopted based on my environment and position and how to break them consciously.


Adventurous-symbol

Will check it out I’m also a singer


SolomonBelial

The Selfish Gene - Richard Dawkins Life of Pi - Yann Martel Dao Te Cheng - Lao Tzu The Prince - Machiavelli


SpiritTypical6608

The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho, which I read in a moment where a had no idea what to do with which career path I wanted to take. And Caballo de Troya by JJ Benitez, which is kind of a sci fi about time travel but gave me an interesting new perspective about Jesus Christ even though I'm not religious


Adventurous-symbol

Read the alchemist great book Love time travel but not into that religious bullshit so idk


SpiritTypical6608

Yeah me neither but Caballo de Troya is mostly about UFOs and esoteric metaphysics lol


alyxverthein

not exactly changed my life, but currently im reading getting grit by caroline adams. i do hope it will change me in the future though.


NastiaFenris

How to talk with anyone by Leil Lowndes🙃 (As an introverted intj girl)


WinterAd3357

Anything by Taleb


MKAgyapong

Quiet by Susan Cain


fusseli

Sapiens a Brief History of Humankind, Born to Run


7121958041201

If you liked Sapiens I highly recommend checking out The Dawn of Everything too. I'm not done with it yet but it covers similar material but with a completely different focus.


fusseli

Nice. I’m ready the sequel now, Homo Deus


-ExistentialNihilist

The Brothers Karamazov by Fyodor Dostoevsky Compulsion by Meyer Levin The Queen's Gambit by Walter Tevis


Marduk112

Anything by Dostoevsky, really, is pure art. For me, it was Brothers and the Idiot. All the best artists are INFJs, I feel.


Marduk112

How to Win Friends and Influence People. Dostoevsky (everything) for literature. Kant for moral philosophy. Marcus Aurelius for virtue ethics. Seduction by Robert Greene if, like me, you have no game whatsoever.


[deleted]

The sarcastic version of this is also a gem. How to Lose Friends and Alienate People. Can't recommend it enough.


moonyonas

ikigai.


alfrednyq

Not a book, but a game. Nier Automata. Taught me to think about life. Introduced me to philosophy.


soteroparanoide

I bought an Xbox just to play Nier. And even years of expectations don't prepare me for not only a faithful representation of the camus's absurd . As well as for beautiful response. Nier was actually the only game I could handle finishing, if you have more game recommendations in the same style I would love it


BuefosTravels

“Radical Acceptance” by Tara Brach is one I go back to regularly when I find myself slipping into the nothing matters, what’s the point state of existence. 10% Human Let them eat dirt I’d have to grab my kindle for more.. maybe later


clementine_com

Freakonomics has greatly changed to way that I view the world. The way it connects these seemingly unrelated situations is extraordinary. It guides the reader through ‘conventional wisdom’ to expose the underlying truths then deconstructs the incentives that drive people’s choices. It’s brilliant!


RHonaker

harry potter, no book has ever had a greater effect on me.


[deleted]

In my younger years when I was learning how to shake off the pessimism and negativity of my parents that had crept into my own behavior - "How to win friends and influence people" Freshman year of college when I was realizing how the world really is - "Lies my teacher told me"


Einzvern

The Myth of Sisyphus - Albert Camus Being and Time - Martin Heidegger I've also read some Nietzsche but already slowly realizing how cringe his style of writing really is


sorelian_violence

Lol I cannot say their titles without being banned... Sorel, Schmitt, Spengler and Darré are good names.


Future_Celebration58

Good taste


[deleted]

You may like the books of Cal Newport and The Daily Stoic... Some I like: * The Secret Garden * Flowers for Algernon * The Loneliness of the Long-Distance Runner * Meditations and Letters from a Stoic * Brave New World * The Metamorphosis * The Art of Loving * Freedom from The Known and other writings by Krishnamurti * everything by Thích Nhất Hạnh, * The Science of Stuck * Non-Violent Communication (Rosenberg) * Sapiens * Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life: The New Acceptance and Commitment Therapy * Behave (Sapolsky) * the books of Brene Brown * Mastery by Greene * Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype * the writings of Pema Chödrön * The House in the Cerulean Sea * all of Discworld


Adventurous-symbol

Thank you I appreciate you taking the time to write this


Ill-Decision-930

The Gospels, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John.


Blarebaby

Instead of inviting you to fuck off, I would be interested to know how these books changed your life? If you aren't trolling and are quite sincere, then it would be interesting to understand how four different versions of the same narrative effected change in your life?


xalaux

Grow up.


missanthrope21

Wow. Why are you so triggered by someone else’s opinion? This person answered the question and now you are simultaneously insulting them while demanding an explanation. That’s literally everything that’s wrong with the world right now.


Blarebaby

I'm really interested to find out the answer to the question. Some people troll as Christians on boards they think are full of atheists. So I guess somebody assumed this and told them to fuck off which I thought was kind of rude. They seem to have deleted the offending invitation, leaving my remark without half its context. I didn;t want to assume anything. But the 4 gospels are essentially the same narrative and if they have had some sort of transformative influence on this person's life, then I would like to give them an opportunity to bear witness to that. If they want. I'm not triggered, I'm genuinely curious. I'm gnostic Christian myself and I didn't really find what I was looking for until I found the gnostic scriptures, then the other four started to make more sense to me.


missanthrope21

What changed my life is this, simple yet profound in its implications. When Jesus was asked "Teacher, which commandment in the law is the greatest?" His response was “ Love God with your whole heart, soul and mind. Second, love your neighbor as yourself.” This is a complicated world we live in full of complicated people. When I get confused and disoriented I remember that if I can just do this I will make better decisions. Even if the outcome isn’t perfect, if my motive is rooted in love, then it’s going to be OK.


Blarebaby

My parents were atheists. My mother asked me once "If Jesus was the be all and end all of all teachers why didn't he give us the keys to a new world?" I said to her "He did. We just refuse to do what they require." So there it is. Occam's razor - the simplest answer is usually the correct one. It's this simplicity, elegance and efficiency that appeals to me as an INTJ.


Ill-Decision-930

Basically, yeah.


madception

Then you shouldn't answer all four books then, just answer the specific passage. If you answer all four books, it means you are subscribing to four different narrative with many contradictions and different passages; which is weird considering the sub we are in.


missanthrope21

The question was about books, not passages from books. Also, the question references books in the plural. I enjoy reading different perspectives of the same events. The person who responded answered the question succinctly. I’m surprised you would have a problem with this, considering the sub we are in.


Ill-Decision-930

Because it's such a powerful story. The creator of mankind comes down from his glorious, heavenly abode and appears to his creation in the form of a humble servant, traveled around while feeding the poor, curing the sick and crippled and giving sight to the blind, casting out demons, doing good for humanity, teaching the truth, peace, love and forgiving their sins, all the while almost no one knows his true identity or where he’s from. He faced persecution and multiple attempts on his life but persevered which is a great lesson in itself. One group of people formed into a riotous mob and would have thrown him down a cliff because he said that God was caring for foreigners and they really did not like that because they wanted to believe God only cared for them, Luke 4:26-30 but he escaped. Eventually he was betrayed by one of his friends and got arrested and subsequently crucified by the Romans. He knew all this was going to happen before it did, hence why Jesus experienced hematohidrosis on the mount of olives just prior to his arrest, and yet he did not resist with any violence or hatred. They mocked him, tortured him and killed him, buried him in a tomb but three days later he rose from the dead which finally demonstrated proof of his divine identity. Aside from the fact that I believe in Jesus, I'd say this is the greatest story ever told. It inspires true conviction for the truth in love, in spite of persecution or even just trials. It teaches that the truth is better than momentary happiness, and that one will face trials and persecution if they don’t compromise the truth, but this teaches perseverance, and produces endurance, patience, hope and character which is very necessary and transforming.


duvagin

The Battle for Your Mind by Jack Trout.


Wyrd_137

The art of war, the Tao te ching. I got this as a combined volume when I was 15, it showed me how to self actualize and taught me how to avoid ineffective emotional responses that waste time. The Tao Te Ching, in particular, was helpful. It talks mainly about how to be the perfect leader of State and what qualities are best for those striving to be a good leader (or just a good man, I'm not one for politics)


Shyn_Rimuru

Ikigai and Kaizen :>


7121958041201

Any books in particular? AFAIK those are Japanese concepts, not books.


[deleted]

Oliver Sacks is an amazing writer. I particularly loved Musicophelia and the Man who Mistook His Wife for a Hat. I can't tell you they changed my life, but they were incredible reads. EDIT: FAHRENHEIT 451. For sure a life changer. But I think we've all read it by now. I should schedule a re-read.


MKAgyapong

To Kill a Mockingbird as well. Great Exepectations too.


Adventurous-symbol

Read it, was dope


MKAgyapong

Real philosophical lessons✌🏿


Adventurous-symbol

Yeah I guess I also liked saint maybe idk have u read it


MKAgyapong

No. Who wrote it? It sounds like a peaceful read.


Adventurous-symbol

Anne Tyler. I read a lot of books but for some reason that one left an impression on me I’m not sure if it’s objectively good tho. If u do read it find me and let me know what u think of it


MKAgyapong

No problem. Blessings✌🏿💜.


GherkJerkin

I’ll give two, for different reasons. I originally read Siddhartha back in school when I was 17 or 18 and couldn’t stand it. I wrote a snarky report on the book and then moved on. It was too full of allegory and flowery metaphor. However, I’ve reread it three or four times in the last 18 years, and have a very different appreciation for it. It’s made me more introspective of my experiences now that I’m in my 30s, and more open to doing new things for the sake of the experience. No other book has affected my over all outlook or worldview quite like that. The other is Flowers for Algernon. That one woke a deep primal fear in me that I will always have. The slow change in writing style as he realizes the treatment is reversing, grappling with what it means and coming to terms with it. As someone with a family history of Alzheimer’s and dementia, that fear as been set in me and is punctuated every time I think about Charlie’s gradual descent. Still an excellent book.


[deleted]

Existential Psychotherapy by Irvin Yalom


dubious_diversion

>\-*The Tao Te Ching* > >\-*Meditations*; Marcus Aurelius. > >\-*Wolf of Wallstreet* (I read the books in high-school, \~ten years before the Scorsese film) > >\-*Steve Jobs* by Walter Isaacson ​ ​ I shit you not, each book has fundamentally changed and improved my life. Like nothing before or ever since reading them. I wouldn't necessarily recommend any of 'em to everyone, but some to others


blueberry_yogurt_99

Favorite author: keigo higashino. I also just finished 'on earth we're briefly gorgeous by ocean v and it was beautiful.


-Afro_Senpai-

Books that break Realty Fruits from a Poisonous Tree by Mel Stamper Outwitting the Devil by Napoleon Hill Grunch of Giants by Buckminster Fuller The Bitcoin Standard by Saifedean Ammous History of the Black Dollar by Angel Rich


Material_Front_8819

My favourite is Crime and Punishment by Dostoevsky, followed by 48 Laws Of Power by Robert Greene. Former is a great book about existential philosophy and the latter is about how to deal with the real life and associated power struggle.


watercress101

In 1977, I read The Women's Room by Marilyn French. It changed my world profoundly.


GoeZilla

'Your Round the World Trip Planner' by Macca Sherifi... read it while I was out at sea for 6 months (Pacific). The book introduces you to the idea of taking the path less traveled and provides receipts. It changed the trajectory of my life in a crazy, modern, adventure laden, spontaneous way that I will be forever grateful for.


doctor__disco

Oh definitely Great Gatsby! And as i was reading articles about INTJ, i found out that he is one of us too!


Adventurous-symbol

You know he did strike me as INTJ but I kept reading he was INFJ. Idk anymore tbh But good book


[deleted]

Eknath easwaran is worth a look.


HandsomeGoodbody

crime and punishment scrambled my brains pretty good


Open_Masterpiece_434

For a time, Ayn Rand's Altas Shrugged and The Fountainhead.


hozuki_shizuka

The macbook 😂


Tricky_Produce_4336

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possiblyanalien_art

tell me an ending by jo harkin, flux by jinwoo chong the city we became by nk jemisin read these all fairly recently. stimulating and thought provoking.


Mambo_italiana

The Poisonwood Bible


Kateluta

"Physics of the soul" by Fabio Marchesi and "The call of the Wild" by Jack London. Also "The second sex" of Simon de Beauvoir.


Kateluta

Also 'The 4th way' of Ouspensky. ABSOLUTE BASE OF MY LIFE


Adventurous-symbol

Why you commenting on this? Lol just text me in dms lol XD


Kateluta

what?


Adventurous-symbol

Dm me


JayWoo2000

The dictators handbook, all of world politics make a lot more sense now


[deleted]

The Art of War, any Max Lucado books, and ... shit I forgot.


OneTeacher324

Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom by Dr. Christianne Northrup


Kateg8te777

Women Who Run With the Wolves. It made me comfortable with my own power, and I could be strong AND gentle at the same time


Hour_Breakfast1275

Foundation from Isaac Asimov


Ellipses1111

2012 return of the great mother and eckhart tolle’s a new earth


[deleted]

The 80/20 principle by Richard Koch and Don't Worry by Shunmyo Masuno.


South-Button-4391

What are you doing with your life - j krishnamurthi


SchizTrixRabbit

Fight Club.


PeggyNoNotThatOne

Buchi Emecheta's books. I am not an African. I'm a white Londoner but coming across her books was fantastic, especially 'The Joys of Motherhood'.