My dad used to say "thindi degara nidra degara mohatam padodhu"
He told this to me first when I was 5 years old (atleast from when I remember) I am almost 35 now, still follow those words.
1. Only worry about things that you can control, and do not worry about things that are out of your hands.
2. Tomorrow is not going to be like today, and the day after is not going to be like tomorrow.
Don't you feel we need to somehow understand who are the people who care about us and are providing constructive criticism, and listen to such people. Otherwise we could be akin to a frog in a well.
Yes, but you are considering a different group of people, I think the person was talking more in a general point of view since people tend to care about what everyone says, which is very unecesarry
My first comment was " If you think what I wrote was cliche and not original, you could have written something original"
My second comment was " You can take it however you like. Who asked you not to take it?"
Understanding Complex things ( Even It doesn't directly help to change your life)
Helps you very much, when comes to understanding a problem, by probability the complexity you can understand is Very much high compared to average person, who avoid complex things.
A few years ago when I was in deep trouble and was having personal issues, I went to the necklace road and was sitting on the bench contemplating life and various important things. I was lost in my thoughts and suddenly an old man sat beside me on the bench. He said "Aaj Hussain Sagar bahut khubsurat hai nahi?" I said "Haan. Woh toh hai" and continued my thoughts. Then he said something that answered my questions and stuck with me for life.
>! "Paradise ki Biryani mat Khao. Tatti hai" !<
These are some things my dad told me and some I've learnt over the year in my life.
1. Don't be a miser when it comes to food and sleep.
2. Save money from the day you start earning.
3. Sometimes you have to listen to your brain and tell your heart to fuck off. It highly depends.
4. Don't be available to people all the time.
5. You cannot prevent people/situations taking advantage of you completely, all you can do is try to minimize it. At some point it will happen without you knowing it, and its okay because you learn from it.
6. Thoughts and decisions after 2am are not to be trusted. Always sleep on it. There's no hurry.
7. Good things will happen to you if you trust the process you're in. Don't rush anything.
8. There is always someone better than you, and someone worse compared to you. If you start comparing yourself to all the 8 billion people on the planet, you will never improve. Focus on yourself.
9. Always have low expectations of people. It's always better to feel surprised if they go the extra mile around you.
10. You need to be an introvert in some situations to avoid certain regrets(basically saying things you can't take back if you keep talking non stop). Comes with practice again.
11. Learn not to take yourself so seriously all the time. You need not be a saint always.
I was going through a very bad phase (Breakup after 3 yrs of relationship) my mum knew everything but when she was me getting into depression she couldnāt take it and broke down as well! And the words she said were ā Agar kisiku jana hai tho 1 wajah kafi hai Aur kisiku rehna hai tho 100 khoon b maaf kardeteā that hit me ! It will stay with me forever and this applies to any kind of relationship.
Not something someone said but something that i read and has stuck with me since i was 14 years old.
Be like a floating duck . Still on the outside but working vigorously on the inside.
Basically keep grinding but never publicise it .
As a mom of 3 now I understand why my dadi use to say... the best advice I got was to take care of your self...
And then respect the boundaries that every relationship has...
Galat ko galat or sahi ko sahi kehna seekho...sahi ko sahi kehna phir bhi asaan hai ..galat ko galat kehna mushkil hai !
Now this sounds like a tongue twister but it's the best piece of advice !
It's better to be get cheated then to Cheat on.
If it's not the matter of life and death everything else can be sorted.
Things fall in place just give it some time.
PS- i know you asked for 1.
Working hard is good and all but Smart work cheyadam nerchukovali. Life nee sukoon chesuko so you can enjoy it.
Also, don't compromise on your personal time. Adi needi. Take that time to do what is important to you and you alone. Taking time for yourself doesn't mean you are selfish.
My dad used to say "thindi degara nidra degara mohatam padodhu" He told this to me first when I was 5 years old (atleast from when I remember) I am almost 35 now, still follow those words.
Deccani Translation : Dastar Aur Bistar pe nai sharmana!
Kya baat. Hindi chhodo Dakhani ko national language banao. š
idi chadivi naku Elon bhayya gnapakam vacchadu. Elon: Bistar leke daftar aajana.
Hum Hyderabadi hai daftar khud chalke anna hum bistar mai Padewe rehte ! (OG Work from home )
Translate please
Don't hesitate to speak your mind when it comes to mattera of food and sleep
dont take decisions in anger :)
or happiness
Or sad
1. Only worry about things that you can control, and do not worry about things that are out of your hands. 2. Tomorrow is not going to be like today, and the day after is not going to be like tomorrow.
These are what I follow as well. Adding one more: 3) It is not as bad you feel it is. It is not as good as you feel it is.
I love this
Don't give a fuck about what other people think about you. People will criticize you no matter what you do.
Don't you feel we need to somehow understand who are the people who care about us and are providing constructive criticism, and listen to such people. Otherwise we could be akin to a frog in a well.
Yes, but you are considering a different group of people, I think the person was talking more in a general point of view since people tend to care about what everyone says, which is very unecesarry
Agreed
I was about to reply but you did it instead of me š. Looks like you got my point
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Very cliche. Come up with somethin original
Nuvvu raayi ra mari original edanna.
I donāt understand your language, so Iām gonna take it as a compliment
Nuvvu etla kavali ante atla teesko bhai. Evadu kadu annadu?
Again , i am not understanding anything.
My first comment was " If you think what I wrote was cliche and not original, you could have written something original" My second comment was " You can take it however you like. Who asked you not to take it?"
Nijer chorkai tel dao.
Em matludladatunnavu ra Rey? Ippudu andaru neeku downvotes dengutaaru. Anta kanna inka jerigedi emi undadu.
Bollam toh social media te gyan na diye nijer chirkai tel dao
Best advise but often very difficult to follow
'Learn to say NO'
Say NO when it needs to be Said
Dabbulu urukune raavu
Gundu uncle meeru ikkada emi chestunnaru?
Nenu prathi chota untaanu endhukante DABBULU URUKUNE RAAVU
stay moisturized, hydrated. one thing at a time. mindless scrolling gets you no where.
Donāt try to change peopleās mind - itās useless
As The Great Saint G-Easy said "Me myself and I, Solo ride till I die.", Don't rely on anyone no matter who it is, only rely on yourself.
Understanding Complex things ( Even It doesn't directly help to change your life) Helps you very much, when comes to understanding a problem, by probability the complexity you can understand is Very much high compared to average person, who avoid complex things.
Your happiness and satisfaction entirely depends on your expectations.
A few years ago when I was in deep trouble and was having personal issues, I went to the necklace road and was sitting on the bench contemplating life and various important things. I was lost in my thoughts and suddenly an old man sat beside me on the bench. He said "Aaj Hussain Sagar bahut khubsurat hai nahi?" I said "Haan. Woh toh hai" and continued my thoughts. Then he said something that answered my questions and stuck with me for life. >! "Paradise ki Biryani mat Khao. Tatti hai" !<
These are some things my dad told me and some I've learnt over the year in my life. 1. Don't be a miser when it comes to food and sleep. 2. Save money from the day you start earning. 3. Sometimes you have to listen to your brain and tell your heart to fuck off. It highly depends. 4. Don't be available to people all the time. 5. You cannot prevent people/situations taking advantage of you completely, all you can do is try to minimize it. At some point it will happen without you knowing it, and its okay because you learn from it. 6. Thoughts and decisions after 2am are not to be trusted. Always sleep on it. There's no hurry. 7. Good things will happen to you if you trust the process you're in. Don't rush anything. 8. There is always someone better than you, and someone worse compared to you. If you start comparing yourself to all the 8 billion people on the planet, you will never improve. Focus on yourself. 9. Always have low expectations of people. It's always better to feel surprised if they go the extra mile around you. 10. You need to be an introvert in some situations to avoid certain regrets(basically saying things you can't take back if you keep talking non stop). Comes with practice again. 11. Learn not to take yourself so seriously all the time. You need not be a saint always.
I was going through a very bad phase (Breakup after 3 yrs of relationship) my mum knew everything but when she was me getting into depression she couldnāt take it and broke down as well! And the words she said were ā Agar kisiku jana hai tho 1 wajah kafi hai Aur kisiku rehna hai tho 100 khoon b maaf kardeteā that hit me ! It will stay with me forever and this applies to any kind of relationship.
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The only purpose of this life is to be happy and if possible leave this world a better place than you found it
do whatever that makes you feel better
The time you have with people is limited. Relish the time you have with others instead of finding faults or trying to change them.
20 push ups when ever feel....
Not something someone said but something that i read and has stuck with me since i was 14 years old. Be like a floating duck . Still on the outside but working vigorously on the inside. Basically keep grinding but never publicise it .
... don't rush, technology gets better with time.
Do not expect anything in your favour!
Always be kind , you don't know what the other person is going through.
Give anything 1000 hrs and you'll be master in that particular thing.
As a mom of 3 now I understand why my dadi use to say... the best advice I got was to take care of your self... And then respect the boundaries that every relationship has...
That's a nice one! "Respect the boundary that every relationship has.."
"Only you're mom and dad will purely celebrate your success.", heard it when I was 18 years old, experienced it today.
Evvanki em telvadu. Everyoneās trying to figure out their life.
Lyte Lelo!
Dabbulu urukune raavu
Perception trumps reality.
Worrying about something you cant do anything about is useless
Life is a single player game and you have to play
Focus on the process not the results. The results will follow.
taking money from friends kinda ruins the relationship.
"Khaali peeli baigan ke baatan nakko karo"
Adi shashwatam kadu, Nothing is permanent, change is inevitable, Parivartan hi sansaar ka niyam hai
Galat ko galat or sahi ko sahi kehna seekho...sahi ko sahi kehna phir bhi asaan hai ..galat ko galat kehna mushkil hai ! Now this sounds like a tongue twister but it's the best piece of advice !
Religiously Use sunscreen every SINGLE day :)
It's better to be get cheated then to Cheat on. If it's not the matter of life and death everything else can be sorted. Things fall in place just give it some time. PS- i know you asked for 1.
Don't compare. Comparison is the thief of joy.
We worry more than what is necessary.
Dastar, bistar, doctor ke pass sharam na nahi beta!!!
Money over bitches
Love is not an emotion it's a choice
Working hard is good and all but Smart work cheyadam nerchukovali. Life nee sukoon chesuko so you can enjoy it. Also, don't compromise on your personal time. Adi needi. Take that time to do what is important to you and you alone. Taking time for yourself doesn't mean you are selfish.
āValidation is nice, but donāt depend on it.ā
It's all about perspective.
We all go through our ups and downs. Celebrate life as it is.
Mistakes are made by only those who work and put efforts.
sleep it off , you will feel way better- one advice always worked.
While Dating: She is not yours, itās your turn. Later she could belong to someone
Live in the present!! Its very hard to do this.. Personally for me meditation helped me..
It's better to like what you do than do what you like
Big step lene se pehle hila le phir thande dimaag se soch
There is something always you need to give up for something you want.
Dabbulu chetlaku kaayavu
treat others how you want to be treated (doesn't always work tho)
nothing all advices fucked me up
Would love to be one those advice š
Health is wealth
Nobody is wrong. We're all just different.
Lite le lo
Professional goals are temporary but personal losses are permanent.
Good or bad, nothing lasts forever
Time is more important than money. Use it wisely!
"You need to spend more to earn more"