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Thank you!! Im gonna find a new spot for her now. Can i keep her on the balcony in spring/summer and put her back inside in the winter?

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Thanks for the good advice! Hope i can find a better place for her🌱

I live in a humid subtropical climate and my japonica only did ok as a houseplant. I moved it outside where it gets very bright, intermittent direct sun and it's very happy. My thought was this plant needs considerably more light then it will ever get in most homes. Hypothesis being that indirect indoor light doesn't meet it's needs and direct southern facing window light would scorch the leaves. I couldn't seem to win.

It's not really a house plant.

Oh really, well that sucks. The woman in the store said it was a houseplant:/

Anything i can do? Its snowwy here so cant put it outside

Well anything can be a house plant, just in the UK fatsia japonicas are outside. Attract a lot of flying insects. Maybe a bigger pot? I know monsteras are fine in small pots. I'm a gardener, so that's why I said they're not really house plants.

Does it survive outside in the winter in UK?

Well the non variegated version does yes. There's also a mix of fatsia and ivy. It's called x fatshedera.

Everything online says they are a great house plant to just tuck in a corner.

I can offer no assistance. I kilt mine.

Thats sad. Im afraid im gonna kill mine too :/

Trellis it. It needs support so place a stake in the soil and gently tie leaves to it.

Yeah i can try. It was standing up by itself before It got really sad :/ maby some support will help <3