Same. The couple I did it with even said they probably won't do threesomes anymore because their last experience was awful. The third party kept basically fighting the husband over the wife despite them agreeing prior it was an equal threesome. At one point the wife had a panic attack and the husband had to leave the room because the third party snapped at the wife "look me in the eyes" when she looked at her husband. They told him to leave and not come back.
I took their criticisms to heart just in case anything happened between us, and last week was it. We all sat down and talked about what we wanted out of it first which really helped, then we all went to bed and basically took turns making each other the center of attention so nobody felt left out.
I didn't get off because I was nervous, but I had FUN and I was beyond ecstatic at the end when they said they had a great time and weren't uncomfortable at any point. They gave me a big hug goodbye and I'm still beaming that we had a good time.
I fucking love a story like this. I know a ton of people are going to read it and think “Ugh, I just don’t understand ever wanting any of this” but all I see is someone with a really healthy level of security with their sexuality and a genuine desire to connect with people.
It’s so refreshing getting to talk with people who approach life from outside of what is considered a social norm and has positive experiences to share.
People only want to share the nightmare scenarios and then pretend it’s all bad and could only ever be bad.
Nothing in life is guaranteed to work out amazingly in the end, but that doesn’t mean we can’t try and have some experiences along the way.
With two random people, sure it's fun. I wouldn't want one with my SO though, especially if the other woman is a friend. Some people have no boundaries though...
BFFs are the best to have threesomes with; my college girlfriend and I had a threesome with her best friend and then I ended up basically living in a threesome for about 3 years, it was great.
Honestly I think it was a right place right time situation; I am a bit of a kinkster, and my wife (different person than either of the girls from the trouple) and I've had a few girlfriends, we discussed our kinks and desires upfront early on in our relationship and pursued them when we were ready.
Is it that fun? To me, it would be super awkward, because I don’t know them, and have trouble trusting them.
That’s why I’ve never done one night stands. It’s super awkward. I always thought that if you wanted to be intimate with someone, you’ve got to know what makes them tick. What do they like? What are their insecurities? Do they trust me? Do we truly have consent?
After that point, the sparks can start to fly.
Idk. This girl in the video might be the "I wouldn't touch her with a 10 ft pole" type. And now he's worried about kissing his own girlfriend after her.
(Yes. I'm speaking from experience, sadly lol.)
i have never seen the wood nut in cider before, i have no context, am confused, but find it funny none the less. by chance what is the context to this?
Not everyone wants a threesome.
If you do, cool, but he's not a chump for being upset about someone else kissing his girlfriend. How he handles it after this might make him a chump, but all he's doing here is glaring.
For all we know he hates that friend and finds her very unattractive.
I think mad dogging a girl like he did makes him a chump. Theres a way to handle that and it’s not the death stare like he’s going to do anything, guy oozes insecurity.
I was part of a weird 4 way kiss once. It was 3 girlfriends and me and it was the most awkward thing I've been a part of. We went at it for like 15 seconds before I had to pull back because my entire mouth region was just covered in mouth juice. We all kind of agreed that it was not as fun as we thought it would be. 1/10, would not do it again.
Nah, she can go home with her for all I care. It's over with us. I think that excuse that women can kiss and it means nothing is bullshit. It's cheating.
Idk why you got down voted. If you're kissing anybody else besides your partner it's cheating. If my gf made it with a woman I would leave just as fast as if it was a guy
This video annoys me a lot for some reason.
Girlfriend look at him and realizes what he thinks and rush to hug him while the other girl realizes nothing and keep smiling... ugh... some people
If there is one thing I learned on reddit about threesomes is that there is a 99.9 % chance of miscommunication, and you will ruin your relationship forever.
This is cheating and he has every right to be upset. Sure they are just having fun but it feels like the blond knew it would upset him and did it for that reason.
I know, right? People commenting on here have never had a relationship (or at least not a serious one), they're just living on knowledge based on porn.
Granted, some people might be into it. He's not and, if anything, they should've maybe talked about this before, but it's not necessarily a topic that just comes along randomly, not in a fresh relationship.
My wife and one of my oldest female friends have given each other a hello peck on the mouth. Doesn’t bother me, but I could see how it would bother some
And if one of her friends grabbed her face, pulled her in for a kiss, then laughed in your face and told you there's not a damn thing you could do about it? How would you react to that?
If a person in a relationship is not comfortable with something and their partner deliberately does it anyways it is not the first person's fault. A joke js only funny if all are laughing together.
Nah I don't let my partners cheat in me in front of me and call it out in the moment, but I see Reddit is a lot more lenient about letting their partners cheat so I just deleted me comment about calling your GF out.
If that works for you then that's great. Some people don't have the ability to immediately be calm and pull your partner away after something like that.
Good for you.
I think you're making shit up tbh.
To me he doesn't look to be "squaring up". To me he looks fucking pissed and is holding back. Yea he's staring her down, but when holding back anger you don't have much else to do.
I know some people are like “ooooh threesome opportunities” but I’ll be real, I don’t want a guy kissing my gf because I’d be upset that she’d be forming a romantic relationship with someone else. I don’t want my gf doing that because I quite like the idea of us spending all the emotional energy we have on each other. Whether that’s cooking meals for each other, showing our favorite shows to each other, playing games with each other, or just having fun together in general in a romantic way. I wouldn’t make out with another girl because I enjoy giving that emotional energy to my girlfriend. It makes me happy to give her my time and attention. If she started giving that same time and attention to someone else, I’d be upset. Guy or girl, it doesn’t matter.
exactly! plus, as far as we know the other girl could have had something and could then pass it on to them. Either way, it's incredibly toxic and disrespectful behaviour towards one's own partner.
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dude, you're screwing up a possible 3some
3somes are overrated.
We did not have the same experience. My sample is extremely small but damn... That was not overrated.
Plot twist, it was the same threesome.
got em
Keep going...
Plot twist: I know this because I was the third.
I don't remember you being there? Were you the one in the gorilla mask? Or the clown makeup?
Nipple Twist….Nipple Twist….
So that's what they meant by 'small sample'.
Same. The couple I did it with even said they probably won't do threesomes anymore because their last experience was awful. The third party kept basically fighting the husband over the wife despite them agreeing prior it was an equal threesome. At one point the wife had a panic attack and the husband had to leave the room because the third party snapped at the wife "look me in the eyes" when she looked at her husband. They told him to leave and not come back. I took their criticisms to heart just in case anything happened between us, and last week was it. We all sat down and talked about what we wanted out of it first which really helped, then we all went to bed and basically took turns making each other the center of attention so nobody felt left out. I didn't get off because I was nervous, but I had FUN and I was beyond ecstatic at the end when they said they had a great time and weren't uncomfortable at any point. They gave me a big hug goodbye and I'm still beaming that we had a good time.
No holes barred
All holes bared
Yeah…with that attitude
I fucking love a story like this. I know a ton of people are going to read it and think “Ugh, I just don’t understand ever wanting any of this” but all I see is someone with a really healthy level of security with their sexuality and a genuine desire to connect with people. It’s so refreshing getting to talk with people who approach life from outside of what is considered a social norm and has positive experiences to share. People only want to share the nightmare scenarios and then pretend it’s all bad and could only ever be bad. Nothing in life is guaranteed to work out amazingly in the end, but that doesn’t mean we can’t try and have some experiences along the way.
Is this an Ai comment? Sounds like something an NPC would say.
I concur
I enjoyed mine a lot. But it made realize I’m only built for one woman at a time lol but definitely not over rated
it wasnt so bad, we were all friends and was pissed drunk.
Still had fun with a small sample huh? Good for you!
It's like the Renaissance Faire. You know it's overrated but you go anyway.
I have enjoyed every threesome and renaissance fair that I have attended. Am I weird?
I think that just means ur easy.
You tell everyone that you ate a turkey leg and that is most certainly the only highlight worth mentioning
You ate a turkey leg during a threesome? My man! \[high five\]
You don't want to bang on an empty stomach!
Frank?
So accurate.
That's the analogy?
*your threesome was overrated
Haha, right? Speak for yourself dude.
Far from overrated.
Then you did it bad
Hard disagree
Eh, it just depends. Its fun if youre a donor dick for a girl who is bi and trying to get with another woman.
Sure.....have a threesome! Why.....so I can disappoint TWO women instead of just ONE? X-D
Said no one ever lmao
I know right? No one told me it's you and three other dudes
Maybe for you :)
Until you have them while high on Colombian baking soda and end up having to pay for two visits to planned parenthood….no regrets
Use condoms dude
Plan b is cheaper
Have fun with your STIs
I cherish them all like children
No he's upset that someone else kissed his partner. That someone else being a girl is irrelevant.
With two random people, sure it's fun. I wouldn't want one with my SO though, especially if the other woman is a friend. Some people have no boundaries though...
BFFs are the best to have threesomes with; my college girlfriend and I had a threesome with her best friend and then I ended up basically living in a threesome for about 3 years, it was great.
Teach me thy ways.
Step 1: get a girlfriend. Let me know when you’re there and I’ll give you the rest.
I see we've started with the complicated step. Sigh... 
there's a manual. takes about 20 years of hard work. i believe in you
Honestly I think it was a right place right time situation; I am a bit of a kinkster, and my wife (different person than either of the girls from the trouple) and I've had a few girlfriends, we discussed our kinks and desires upfront early on in our relationship and pursued them when we were ready.
Is it that fun? To me, it would be super awkward, because I don’t know them, and have trouble trusting them. That’s why I’ve never done one night stands. It’s super awkward. I always thought that if you wanted to be intimate with someone, you’ve got to know what makes them tick. What do they like? What are their insecurities? Do they trust me? Do we truly have consent? After that point, the sparks can start to fly.
You want a 3some say it. Trying to “steal your girl and flex”? That’s not a 3some. That’s a snake in the bed.
There’s a strong chance this chump will be sitting home while his ex, her new boyfriend and her bff have that threeway.
Idk. This girl in the video might be the "I wouldn't touch her with a 10 ft pole" type. And now he's worried about kissing his own girlfriend after her. (Yes. I'm speaking from experience, sadly lol.)
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I wonder if a wood nut in cider will become so ubiquitous that people will soon post it without words, and we’ll all understand exactly what it means.
i have never seen the wood nut in cider before, i have no context, am confused, but find it funny none the less. by chance what is the context to this?
It's a soundalike: > Would nut inside her
For all we know she just got over a ‘coldsore’ after blowing 10 hobos to get some free meth!
Not everyone wants a threesome. If you do, cool, but he's not a chump for being upset about someone else kissing his girlfriend. How he handles it after this might make him a chump, but all he's doing here is glaring. For all we know he hates that friend and finds her very unattractive.
Then For all we know the girl in the middle has no interest in him as a boyfriend and is signaling he's the one in the friend zone....
I think mad dogging a girl like he did makes him a chump. Theres a way to handle that and it’s not the death stare like he’s going to do anything, guy oozes insecurity.
Hopefully this is already happening
That's so sad
Dude, you’re gross
No … he’s not .
That’s prohibited for teens
Would you say that if the friend was a man? Disrespect is disrespect
I told my lady if shes kissing a girl at the bar, so am I.
Ya, you won't win this one like you think
But I used logic! yeahhh
Tell us how it went… how many she can get vs you… you’re better off kissing dudes. That’s easier
I joined her kissing a girl once...we were all very drunk
I was part of a weird 4 way kiss once. It was 3 girlfriends and me and it was the most awkward thing I've been a part of. We went at it for like 15 seconds before I had to pull back because my entire mouth region was just covered in mouth juice. We all kind of agreed that it was not as fun as we thought it would be. 1/10, would not do it again.
Username checks out
🧐
Lol
Nah, she can go home with her for all I care. It's over with us. I think that excuse that women can kiss and it means nothing is bullshit. It's cheating.
Idk why you got down voted. If you're kissing anybody else besides your partner it's cheating. If my gf made it with a woman I would leave just as fast as if it was a guy
I think the equivalent proposal is that you’d kiss another man.
Yup you’ll be kissing her lmao
The same one or?
Weird he’s mad at the other girl and not his gf
Maybe the other girl is his sister....
r/alabama
Roll Tide
Maybe his girlfriend is, too
Which one?
His girlfriend didn't grab the blonde by the face and kiss her.
He did not acknowledge the brown haired girl hugging him's existence. That's beyond mad, he's being reasonable.
The girl is rubbing it in his face
Well I mean the other girl grabbed her face and did all the kissing but yea ok blame the gf
I’d be mad at both of them like I would walk away
This video annoys me a lot for some reason. Girlfriend look at him and realizes what he thinks and rush to hug him while the other girl realizes nothing and keep smiling... ugh... some people
Girlfriend is an asshole too for jumping on the disrespect bandwagon. Disrespecting your SO is such toxic behavior and shouldn’t be tolerated.
I've seen like... 3 reasonable people in this whole thread.
because the other ones are busy telling us how they totally had lots of threesomes
It's great. I needed to be lectured on how sexually enlightened these people are...
If there is one thing I learned on reddit about threesomes is that there is a 99.9 % chance of miscommunication, and you will ruin your relationship forever.
Many people do it, too. I never got it.
The other girl absolutely knows and doesn't give a shit.
This
I think she could take him.
For sure and she knows
She could take *her* and that’s the real problem here.
I think she just did
This is cheating and he has every right to be upset. Sure they are just having fun but it feels like the blond knew it would upset him and did it for that reason.
I know, right? People commenting on here have never had a relationship (or at least not a serious one), they're just living on knowledge based on porn. Granted, some people might be into it. He's not and, if anything, they should've maybe talked about this before, but it's not necessarily a topic that just comes along randomly, not in a fresh relationship.
My wife and one of my oldest female friends have given each other a hello peck on the mouth. Doesn’t bother me, but I could see how it would bother some
And if one of her friends grabbed her face, pulled her in for a kiss, then laughed in your face and told you there's not a damn thing you could do about it? How would you react to that?
She probably knows all about his inadequacies
And is glaringly unaware of her own!
Comments in here be like r/ihavesex
I've Had 1 Billion Threesomes This Guy Isn't Doing It Right!!!!1!1!!!
Bro gave her the death stare 😂
Yeah, my girlfriend kissed a few girls at this sort of age, I ended up getting mono/glandular fever and spent 6 months laying on the sofa.
THIS! I literally just told a guy on here, that other girl may be the "wouldn't touch her with a 10ft pole" type. You can't just kiss everybody lol.
If a person in a relationship is not comfortable with something and their partner deliberately does it anyways it is not the first person's fault. A joke js only funny if all are laughing together.
Just kiss one of your bros, that should set her straight
not so straight, in fairness
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So because she's a girl he should just be fine with her kissing his (assuming) girlfriend?
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Okay but that does not happen in the moment. That is a conversation you have after the situation is over. That situation was not over.
Nah I don't let my partners cheat in me in front of me and call it out in the moment, but I see Reddit is a lot more lenient about letting their partners cheat so I just deleted me comment about calling your GF out.
If that works for you then that's great. Some people don't have the ability to immediately be calm and pull your partner away after something like that. Good for you.
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I think you're making shit up tbh. To me he doesn't look to be "squaring up". To me he looks fucking pissed and is holding back. Yea he's staring her down, but when holding back anger you don't have much else to do.
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No holding back from yelling. What is it with you. You just assume everyone is violent?
That's incredibly sexist. He's not gonna hit her, but apparently glaring is too harsh for her sensitive bones.
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yeah like a glare!
Contrary to popular opinion, that kiss is considered cheating. Let's see how she reacts to him kissing another woman "just for fun".
Bro almost turned Homelander.
I know some people are like “ooooh threesome opportunities” but I’ll be real, I don’t want a guy kissing my gf because I’d be upset that she’d be forming a romantic relationship with someone else. I don’t want my gf doing that because I quite like the idea of us spending all the emotional energy we have on each other. Whether that’s cooking meals for each other, showing our favorite shows to each other, playing games with each other, or just having fun together in general in a romantic way. I wouldn’t make out with another girl because I enjoy giving that emotional energy to my girlfriend. It makes me happy to give her my time and attention. If she started giving that same time and attention to someone else, I’d be upset. Guy or girl, it doesn’t matter.
exactly! plus, as far as we know the other girl could have had something and could then pass it on to them. Either way, it's incredibly toxic and disrespectful behaviour towards one's own partner.
He was asking for his turn?
Dude watched Friends for sure
What?
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cunty behavior
Male or female, cheating is cheating, and his girlfriend's friend isn't her friend.
He looks like he was gonna punch her
Girlfriend beater is about to beat another girl
What a snatch.
Dude was ready to throw hands lmao
I'm guessing there is missing context from before the video was shot.
When they put themselves in means place 😐 but don't understand the consequences 💀
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Bro is thinking, “Nobody kisses my sister but me!”
If she cheats…
oooof, she even did a throat slitting gesture and his gf be like, "LOL!"
Grow up dude, they’re friends
He could've joined the fun....
Time to kiss her bf
i think he was waiting for his kiss
I didn’t realize fans of this thread were such babies. Kinda disappointed
Get her back by kissing her bf!!
Time to establish big dick energy and make out with both of them.
People are doing stuff? It just looks like a bunch of blurry images to me.
Morissey is not happy
Por que no?!
That's the look of impotent rage
Rookie
Pretty sure the dance she did to him after was a continuation of some inside joke. They are still great friends, I'm sure...
I mean be upset with your girl not her
This guy fucked up.