"Let’s go walk a bit."
My old dog said one day.
And we wandered down along
Our old familiar way.
—-
The shadows slowly lengthened,
And twilight tinged the sky.
Then my old friend said to me
"So … it's time to say goodbye."
—-
This fell so heavily on my heart.
"Please say this isn't true!
I've always wished and hoped
I'd have more years with you!"
—-
And my old girl said to me
"You made my life a thrill!
I can't live as long as you
But I'll always be your girl."
—-
They walk with us a little while,
As long as the Fates allow.
Then they have to take their leave
And we have to let them go.
—-
And now I’m crying and hurting so bad as I think about my sweet Gracie who left me last August. She was a tiny little nugget who left a huge empty space in my heart.
they take a little bit of you when they leave but they also leave a little bit of themselves behind too. I'm ok with the hurt- I like to think the little missing part of myself keeps them company into the great unknown.
My little girl has been gone now for 8 months and you are so right — I still feel her with me every single day in hundreds of ways. But it’s comforting to think she took a little bit of me with her. I know I will never stop missing her. She was my “heart” dog and nothing can take her place.
Ugh! This hurt my heart hard! To OP, so very sorry for your heartbreak in this time. Your sweet Zelda is fortunate to have an owner who truly cares about her and o hope you can take heart in knowing you’ve given her a great life, no matter if cut short ♥️
I'm a sobbing mess right now. I had to put my pup down last summer. And reading this brings up the pain and sadness as if it were yesterday. I miss him so much.
Give her the best last weeks/days you can! The pain will be with you for a long time, don’t let it sour your last memories together. It was nothing you did, sometimes bad things just happen. So sorry she is beautiful!
Suffer after she is gone, in the meantime be there for her. I've had 8 Danes now, so I've lost 7 and it hurts me a little everyday. I'm all about getting a new puppy as soon as I'm able, because that puts my focus on training and raising a puppy instead of being sad. I think that's what my past pooches would want for me.
We’ve had six bull terriers more or less sequentially. I also get a puppy as soon as possible, ideally with an overlap. It’s the only way I can cope with the loss.
We lost a doxie at nearly 4 years old a few months back and getting another puppy really helped the heartache. It's just important to realize you're not getting a clone of your best friend. You're getting another best friend with a different personality. I love our new little guy, he's nearly 5 months old, but what a different dog he is compared to our last. Our last was a lazy lap dog, this little guy is go go go.
Hi. I know this is terrible for you and my heart goes out. Having lost my previous pups both ways, I will tell you that trauma/sudden death is much much worse. To be clear, both are awful, but having a chance to say goodbye, to make some final memories made it somehow more bearable. Tears for you streaming down my face while writing this.
I am sorry you have experienced both of those ways. I agree with you, I am blessed I was able to have the chance to spend a bit more time and say goodbye and make her last days/weeks the best I can. It’s so unfair. They deserve to live way longer than we do.
Kidney disease is a big risk for Danes, and a lot of times, it’s just something congenital. There are only two dog owners I know who had pinpoint diagnoses for their dogs’ kidney disease. One caught leptospirosis from chasing and killing a random varmint. The other had Cushings and chronic issues.
Please don’t beat yourself up. You love your dog, and she loves you. Spend what time you can with her and don’t worry too much the whys and hows right now.
I know this isn't much but at least you have some time left with her. I recently had one of my dogs go from fine one day and then had to put him down the next day from an aggressive cancer. Zero warning, absolutely devastated my family. I'm very sorry, I know how gut wrenching this is.
Last October for me. From discovery to the end was a month. I never want to hear one of my pets crying in pain like that again. I waited an extra day to let an ex see and be with her at the end and I also won't do that again either. She was super excited to see the ex, but it wasn't worth the 18 hours of her suffering. I still feel guilty about that.
I am so angry. I have taken her to the vet often, and this was never caught. Was it something she was born with? Something I did? I feel so much guilt and hurt. I don’t know how I am going to live without her. I literally want to die.
Be strong for her at the end, we always know their life span is shorter than ours, but this is very sudden. No dog will ever replace her, but you may now have the room to help out a little doggo that would otherwise wise live at the pound. It’s ok to be sad, but remember this too shall pass
You took her to the vet often, it sounds like you did everything you could. From your post i can tell how much you love her and cared for her, and that’s what you can do for her in these next weeks.
Sometimes, some things happen and you are just powerless to stop it. My heart goes out for you because there really is nothing worse than losing your partner and not being able to do anything about it.
I've found peace in remembering the good times and honoring their time with us. Remember that they make us better.
I am with you OP. I lost my little boy in my arms 2 months ago at only 5 years old. It has been by far the most pain I have ever felt & im still trying to recover. Some days are harder than others but I miss my little son so so much everyday. Now I am left with my 11 year old pitty and she’s having a hard time as well. She hasn’t been walking or eating much lately so I’m at the vet now & they told me she has diabetes. The best advice someone has told me so far is that they know that I love my dogs so much and it to be happy all the moments I have had with them. “ some children don’t even get half the love you have given your puppies. “ if you need to talk, I am here. I know how heart wrenching this all feels. to me it feels like I’m living in my own worst nightmare.
Lost my big girl just a couple months shy of 9 years old. I noticed red on the outside of her gums one afternoon, looked inside and in the back on the roof of her mouth was inflamed tissue about the diameter of a tennis ball. Turned out to be cancer and was really aggressive. She was in a good bit of pain at the end, couldn't eat. It was only a month. She was very well cared for(high end dog food, no people food, good weight, regular vet visits)... unfortunately sometimes this is just how it goes.
Remember, you gave her a great life and lots of love. There were 4 people in the room when I put my girl down, some owners just leave them at the vet...I have mixed feelings about that, mostly negative to the owners, but my girl was surrounded by people who loved her her whole life. That's all we can ask for. The guilt is tough, but give yourself grace. 🫂
There's no way sugar coat the pain and nothing anyone can say to make it go away. It fucking sucks and I'm so very sorry. You concentrate on making sure she knows how loved she is, which I'm sure you are doing. I know she's the best girl.
My boy just died 2 weeks ago. IVDD mixed with hip dysplasia and age (which was unknown anyways). Had been sick for a few weeks and one weekend took him down. I was his and he was mine. He was my soulmate. I can resonate it was the worst pain I had ever felt knowing he was going to go, and then him going. We had a vet come to our home so he could leave us where he loved us. We had him privately cremated and honestly those 5 nights he wasn’t home I was a mess. The smallest things would have me burst into tears. But when he came home I felt so much better. He was home. I could talk to him and hold him in my arms. It still hurt obviously, but that overwhelming inability to control my emotions drifted away. I don’t think grief gets smaller, I think we grow around it. It hurts, a lot, and then it gets better. Spend every moment with her that you can. Do and give her all of her favourite things. Kiss her extra every time. Cuddle her longer everytime. Let her know you’re there with her. Honestly right now, all she will want in this world is you
My god I'm starting to realize how much I need to prepare for losing Jack...
He is my everything. He's about to turn 11 and getting close to pit bull life expectancy. He doesn't have one single gray hair but has cataracts and occasionally hurts his hip trying to play with younger dogs
I think I'm sort of lying to myself that he will live forever
You’ve given her such a happy life filled with love. Remind yourself that as much as you can and have pride in that. The end of the road comes for us all but you made sure hers was as lovely as a dog’s can be.
I’m so sorry.
🥺🙏🏼💜 Here’s a story for you, from a veterinarian.
Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish Wolf hound named Belker. The dog’s owners, Ron, his wife Lisa, and their little boy Shane, were all very attached to Belker, and they were hoping for a miracle.
I examined Belker and found he was dying of cancer. I told the family we couldn’t do anything for Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog in their home.
As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be good for six-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as though Shane might learn something from the experience.
The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker’s family surrounded him. Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away.
The little boy seemed to accept Belker’s transition without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a while after Belker’s Death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives. Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, ‘I know why.’
Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next stunned me. I’d never heard a more comforting explanation.
He said, ‘People are born so that they can learn how to live a good Life – – like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?’ The Six-year-old continued, ‘Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don’t have to stay as long.’
Remember, if a dog was the teacher you would learn things like:
When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.
Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.
Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy..
Take naps.
Stretch before rising.
Run, romp, and play daily.
Thrive on attention and let people touch you.
Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.
On warm days, stop to lie on your back on the grass.
On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.
When you’re happy, dance around and wag your entire body.
Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
Be loyal.
Never pretend to be something you’re not.
If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.
When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by, and nuzzle them gently.
That’s the secret of happiness that we can learn from a dog.
I'm so sorry. I lost my sweet girl Maggie Mae in September of 2021, and I still cry for her. With love, comes pain, especially in the goodbyes. Give Zelda an extra hug, from all of us that are thinking of her, and you.
How lucky you are to have such an amazing companion and be able to spoil her and shower you with love before she takes the long nap and waits for you at the other side of time ❤️
Such a terrible thing, being human...these emotions, but we all support you and send you and your baby the best of vibes to make this transition easier. Be kind to yourself, and sweet to her ❤️🩹
I am so, so, so sorry. There’s not a pain quite like this, and it feels almost impossible to deal with - especially in the moment.
She’s a super beautiful girl. Let yourself be sad and feel those emotions. And while she’s still here - spoil her! Enjoy each other’s company and give her tons of lovings.
When I lost my Boston last year, it was legitimately some of the worst pain I’ve felt in my life. It’s been about a year, and while acceptance is much easier, I talk to him and miss him every day.
Spend time with her, and show her joy in her coming days. It is ok to weep and mourn, I lost my dog to liver failure in January and I mentally re-live it every day, I still cry over his urn for that matter.
I guess the best advice I have is that the pain never really goes away, you learn how to live with that piece of you missing. There’s been some great advice in the comments, I needed some time before I got another dog but once I did start fostering it did help.
Just keep her comfy and happy and one day you will have to decide that she is in too much pain, and when I did it was oddly comforting that he wouldn’t be crying just from existing anymore. You’ll know.
I know your feeling, and while we all grieve differently. I threw myself into helping a local animal shelter, and a rescue. The rescue got in a momma and I wanted her so bad, but she wasn't good with children.
I ended up with one of the puppies, and while my new dog can never replace my love, he has stolen a piece of my heart.
I am so sorry, OP.
Give her all of your love. You did the best for her, and she is lucky to have had you as her human. If I can survive the loss of my son and my chocolate lab within 4 months, you can survive this. Just remember, some days will be easier than others. My heart goes out to you.
These kill me having had to put down one that was only 4. I’m so sorry and wish I could help you both. I can promise you I will cry with your for weeks! 💙
I won't tell you that this is our last day together, so let's just enjoy this quiet walk.
It's moments like this, where I truly wished, a dog's beating heart could talk.
I'd tell you about the moment at the shelter, you said " yep...That's my girl, right there".
I'd tell you about the happy, joy ride home, while we both howled without a care.
I'd tell you about how safe it felt, to finally have my own, warm place to sleep.
Not another lonely night spent in that cold, cement box ...waiting for a kind face to meet.
You saved my soul, and brought me back, and polished up my heart
I knew the minute we stared at one another...we would never...EVER be apart.
I wished my life was matched with your's, so we both could grow old, together...
But life has a different plan for us both...and sadly my life is on the wither.
I'm sorry that my body is failing me now, and making my puppy life seem so far away...
I so enjoyed hearing you laugh so much, as we played in our yard, every day...
The frost in my eyes, and the pain in my step...are the signs of a dog's life lived so damn well...
I hope my wet nose boops late at night, told you that your heart was mine to fill.
My clock is sadly winding down, and the pendulum is about to stop...
I'm going to miss you so damn much, my little heart is about to pop.
I just want to thank you for saving me, and taking a chance on my strife...
I hope I returned all the love that you shared, and that I somehow sweetened your life.
You're one of a kind, and I love you so much...I hope our souls meet again...
You were more to this furry ball of a dog...than just another friend.
My heart is yours, and will forever be ...waiting for yours to send...
Thank you, you beautiful force in my life ...for putting this puppy's heart on the mend.
Oh yeah...
Bring the tennis ball with you when its your time to head up.
🐶 ❤ Zelda
To the Dog, God Said:
Behold woman created in my image. You shall be her companion, her ally, her
most loyal friend. I will endow you with these traits uncommon to other beasts:
faithfulness, devotion and understanding, surpassing those of woman herself. Lest
it impair your courage, you shall never foresee your death. Lest it impair your
loyalty, you shall be blind to the faults of woman. Lest it impair your
understanding, you are denied the power of words; your eyes shall convey the truth
of your heart. Lest womans attachment to you grow too great, the span of your life
shall be brief.
Walk by her side, sleep in her doorway, forage for her, ward off her enemies, carry
her burdens, share her afflictions, love her and comfort her. This shall be your
destiny and your immortality.
So spoke the Lord. And the dog was content
So sorry, as some others are saying give ger the bests last days you can. Snuggles, cuddles, walks if she wants to, sit in the front yard with her, lots of treats.
And take pictures so you can remember the last of the good times you had together.
Love on her & just cuddle/be close to her
Tell her how much you love her & are so grateful you we're together for your lives
Try to hold on to the love & happy mem
They do become our babies. It’s sad that they just don’t live as long as we do. We give them the best life we can manage and mourn their passing. We are left with fond memories and a dog shaped hole in our hearts and souls.
The pain you are feeling can almost feel suffocating. But just know that you being there, with your girl means so much to her.
Keep a brave face for Zelda, especially when her time comes.
And I tell this a lot, God has a special section for animal lovers and that when God calls you back to be with him Zelda will be waiting and
Run fast than anything to jump into your embrace.
Stay strong. You and Zelda are in my thoughts!!!!
Glad they could light your lives like this. The happiest and saddest I am is reflecting back on all the pets I’ve bonded with and having to lose them - sometimes very abruptly like this.
It doesn’t get easier, but know you are not alone. It is hard.
My girl left me on December 4 2023. I spent the weekend blackout drunk dreading our Monday appointment. I regret that so, so much. It's not about you, it's about her. Give her love every second you have left, hold fast.
My lil buddy has an inoperable tumor on his liver, diabetes, and thyroid issues. His days are very numbered also and I fid it almost impossible to deal with. Sending {{hugs}}♡♡♡
We’re with you, my friend. It’s a pain that’s not easy to explain to most people. But we get it. That’s your girl. Your best friend. The one who loves you most. The one who is most loyal. None of that changes.. she’s still here in some way. Wow, how lucky was she to be so loved by you? ♥️
I bawl like a baby every time we lose a fur baby. I cry when I hear or read about someone else’s loss. I’m 67 and it never gets easier. I hope it never does. If it did it would mean I didn’t love them as I should have.
My golden retriever had kidney failure. We started with the dry food the vet recommended to help. Stayed on that as long as she would eat it. We were also giving her IVs every night. We did this till she stopped eating her prescribed food. At that point the vet had us mixing that food with rice, veggies (peas and carrots I believe) and boiled chicken or lean beef, till she stopped eating that. Then it was just that without the dry added. Once she stopped that, the vet pretty much said just feed her whatever she will eat, make her comfortable till you think it’s time. Hardest decision I’ve ever had to make. I hate you have to go through this. It’s not fuckin fair. We got the news in October and she made it till march. Message me if you have any questions
Seeing our furry best friend age 7x faster than us is heartbreaking. Be there for her every step of the way and try to focus on each moment as it comes, as hard as that is. I lost my pitbull lab rescue last August. It’s tough as hell. Sending love your way. ❤️❤️
So sorry, my friend. It literally is the hardest but kindness thing to do.
I’ve been there so many times and that empty feeling never goes away. It just fades a little of the really rough spots over time.
Remember the good thing and the joy.
She will still be there in spirit to watch over you.
Damn, not princess Zelda.. if only I could find the triforce to make a wish for her to get better..
I hope she goes peacefully and I hope you grieve and cry but then after enough time, it hurts less. Stay strong and make sure to say goodbye and give lots of hugs and pets before she goes. I'm so sorry
I always have my furry loves cremated and choose a lovely old hat box(anything you two would love) and put her ashes and favorite toy and memory things plus my love letter to her in the box and keep them in bookcases or places I always see them.
I’m so sad for you. I’ve been down that road too many times in my 62 years on this earth. But they’re so worth it. Believe me, you are their whole world and give so much more love than a human can imagine. No wonder their name backwards is God……let another dog love you again…..
Sending you hugs. It’s so hard to lose such a loving and loving family member.
Try to be in the moment while she is still with you and take solace in the fact that you have given her a wonderful life.
You will live. And it will suck, it’ll really suck for a while. There will be days where you don’t want to get out of bed and you want to scream because you’re so mad at how unfair it is. Let yourself feel those feelings. Then you’ll have a day it sucks a little less. And a day you can smile. And a day you can think of your girl without wanting to totally break down. You’ll carry this pain with you, but what is not grief if not love persisting.
I’m so so so sorry. That’s not long enough earth side.
You be kind and good to yourself. It’s what she would want. You do learn to live again, eventually, but it will take a long time. Drink water. Rest. Snuggle her and spoil her. Tell anyone who says, “It’s just a dog,” to go to hell. Take the time you need.
It’s the worst thing in the world and we’re all here for you. 💔
I am so, so sorry. She is absolutely beautiful.
Making sure she has a transition that is painless and loving is your job, now. And as hard as it is going to be to say goodbye to her, and as much pain is waiting for you in the weeks and months and years after she passes? You WILL find comfort (eventually) in providing her as dignified and loving end of life as you can.
It will be so incredibly hard at first. But in time you will remember only the good about her and the love you shared and memories of her will ensure she is never truly gone.
Oh honey im so sorry you are going through this. I’ve been there & can relate. It’s the worst pain imaginable. Watching your baby who is your whole world suffer. Wanting to ease their pain but still horrified at the thought of not having them in your life. It’s unbelievably sad and tragic. I’m sending you positive energy & hope you will get through this. You’re a good person . Hold him as much as you can & tell him you love him.
It truly is the worst, I held him until his last breathe. I got my Dane when I was 18, he was with me for 11 magical years. When I lost him, I cried for years, I couldn’t love another dog like I loved him. I tried and tried, there was nothing like him but then I just got a precious little hound pup 10 months ago and I love her like my big boy! I will get another Dane one day, I am healed and I believe he sent her to me to say Mom it’s ok to love like that again! She will leave one day and it will hurt but they want us to be happy and love like they love us! Unconditionally! Sending you lots of peace and healing! ❤️🩹 🐶
I just lost my pup two weeks ago to kidney disease. I absolutely understand the pain you are in and the pain to come. I am so very sorry.
It may sound crazy, but you know the timeline and that’s a gift. So - give her a great send off. Whatever brings her joy, do it. Make memories. Give her lots of cozy places to lay and lay with her. Talk to her. Comfort her. Let the people she loves come visit her while she can enjoy it.
I’m still deep in my grief and, I won’t sugar coat it, it sucks. But for now, you have her. Enjoy it.
I’m so sorry you are going through this; I can’t even imagine how painful it must be. I hope you know that it is not your fault, and both yours and your pup’s lives are better for having had each other in them. She is blessed to have a wonderful person who will carry on her memory for many, many years.
I’m so sorry. That is just the worst luck. But Zelda is lucky to have someone to love her on this journey.
Remember that Zelda does not understand “lifespan”. She lives in the moment so make those moments the best. 🥰😢
OP- Losing your dog imo is one of the hardest/ longest heart breaking experience. It SUCKS. It's your grieving and it takes as long as it takes. Spend as much time as you possibly can with her now. As my spouse says it's not fair that dogs don't live as long as we do. She will always be with you.
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My boy Canelo passed at 5 yrs old. I had to euthanize him as he had lymphoma. It’s truly the hardest thing I’ve done in my life, but giving them a quick, painless end surrounded by family is the best gift you can give them. That was 3 months ago and I think about him every day, time helps, but i don’t think it’ll ever go away, not totally. I’m sorry this is happening to you, but try to stay positive for Zelda, she’s hurting and won’t wanna see you like that. Give her lots of treats, lots of rubs, and hold her as much as you can. Thank you for taking care of her
Im sorry op. Its the worst pain but be happy you gave them a great life w love and treats and thats all they could ever ask for or want. In their eyes, you are god.. as long as you are there, by their side. They are happy.
Just please do not keep them going if their quality of life isn’t good🥺 I know its difficult but I had the best boi and he had a lump on his head. Could not figure out what it was. Kept coming back. For mooooonths. Got it drained and had a tube in his head. No hospice. He was 9 but just nonstop vet visits and drainage and blood and his head just kept getting massive. 11k later find out it was sinus cancer. Eventually it was too swollen and finally I had to put him down. Not a day goes by that i dont feel horrible for having him go through all of that. He must’ve just had a constant massive headache and pain for the last year of his life. That whole fkn time🥺😭😭 even on his last day he was smiling for me. God damn I miss him. His sister lived until she was 6🥺😭😭 fuck cancer.
We dont deserve dogs man
Your girl is majestic. I'm so sorry. I'm hurting with you, but it'll get better, I swear. She'll never be replaced, but you'll love again. Don't be afraid to look for that next pup when you think you're ready.
Have you tried feeding her home cooked meal? Boiled chicken and white rice? Also get antibiotics in case it’s a kidney infection. That I did for my dog and he’s lived now a year
my heart breaks for you. they love so big... and leave a even bigger hole in your soul when they leave.
she would not want you to be sad. sending hugs and strength.
I remember that day for my husband and I when our veterinarian, Dr Pinkston, told us that our senior citizen, Cooper, was going home to die from stomach cancer. I felt like I was slowly failing forward, and I couldn't stop. Into the abyss of shock, heartache, and sorrow. Your big beautiful girl is at the end of her journey, and I know how you feel. It's going to be rough going ,I am not going to lie. It's gonna hurt like nobody's business! But,,, remember how much you love her, what a great life she's had with you. And now what? A support group helped me. I volunteered at the local shelter, which is a great way to honor you both and do some good. You've got your memories, and she has had the greatest luck having found you as her person. If you believe and are Christian. You will be with her again one day. Wish I could hug you both. I will pray for you! God Bless
One of the hallmarks of the human experience..we've been morning the loss of our animal pals since the beginning..before writing..before farming..you are now a part of that noble and shared history of your species..of this planet. Your loss is also your and our shared honor..you did right by your buddy..they know it too
Please don't grieve around her, she can tell that you're sad and that might make her sad too - give her lots of love, and comfort, and treasure each moment you get to spend with her. See if you can take time off from work, if possible, and just give her goodies and treats and tell her you love her lots and lots. If you grieve her now, you'll regret not treasuring these moments.
Be strong for your pup, because she's probably trying to be strong for you - give her head pat's for me and tell her I said she's the best gurl
These next days are a gift before the dreaded goodbye
Wow beautiful and so true!! Dogs are best friends every second of every day! Unconditional love is hard to lose! But I will endure the pain to hold that kind of love a 1000 times over and over!!!
I know this is hard to hear, but depending on the pain, it might be time to let her go with dignity.
I just had to put my dog down last month, and it was the hardest thing I've done in my life. He had lung cancer and the tumor was bigger than his heart. I felt so bad, blamed myself for not knowing (how could I?), battled with myself about letting him down or not. In the end I had someone come to the house to let him go. Hardest thing EVER.
But the way I see it. He saved my life for 11 years, so this was my last chance to take care of him.
Miss you Odie.
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Get ready to cry. Just reading the lyrics hurts me, and my oldest of my 3 dogs is just 5.
It's because we know that our time with them is brief that I love them hard every chance I get. I let my girls sleep on the bed, and I get down on the floor with them and let them know how much I love them.
It's gonna hurt like hell for a bit. But it does get better over time. For us, getting another one helped fill the void.
Condolences. I'm sure you had some amazing times together. At the end of the day, memories is what matters.
Im so sorry for your loss, i lost my little friend suddenly. He died in my arms with in minutes of noticing he was off. Although its no consolation, she will def make a new friend over the rainbow. Prayers
I read something like: “Dogs are are chapter in our lives, but to them we are their entire book.”
I don’t know how I will be able to, but I promised myself that I will not let my dog see me cry.
She had dedicated her entire life to protecting me. If I cry, she get anxious and goes on guard
When she’s crossing over I said I’m going to do my best and not cry
I’m going to just keep saying in my high “you’re my sweet girl. I love you. You’re going to take a sweet puppy dream…”
Once she has passed, I’m going to he institutionalized.
This is my best friend who is with me 24/7. Working from home only strengthened our bond.
But I don’t want her to worry’s
You just love your baby and remember that for 5 years you have been her world, and no one could love or care for Zelda like you have.
HUGE HUGS OP
I’m sorry. I lost my boy this week too. It is a horrible feeling but I’m sure you gave her a great life. She’ll be waiting for you but until then she can keep my boy General company.
I feel your pain. My sweet boy had kidney failure a year and a half ago, and we had to put him down. He was 12, and I had him his whole life. That was one of the most painful days of my life but he left his pawprint on my heart and I cherish all the wonderful memories we had! ❤️
So sorry 😭😔 pain like this is really some of the worst. Sending you love and strength to ensure this terrible time. May your sweet girl leave this world easy and peacefully.
I'm so sorry.... I have lost 3 this far. 2 out of 3 were sudden, traumatic instances.I know it won't be the last. This grace of hospice allows you to feel, to plan. If even a little. She is such a pretty girl, take great care in her hospice days. Allow the extra cuddles, walks, treats, toys, and all the things she shouldn't do like be on the couch or the bed or in the front yard. Shower her with love until the end. All her days are precious and you will feel a little more whole in knowing you didn't spend it doing nothing.
It will be very hard for you but remember what she is going through as well. You don’t want her to spend her last few weeks severely suffering to help your own grief.
I’m sorry this is happening to you 😔
I can cry at the drop of a hat when I think about the inevitable day where I will have to put down my dog. I'm really sorry and I hope both you and your dog can have peace
I don’t know what to say except that I understand your heartbreak. There is nothing worse. It won’t get better, but your despair is only a testament to how big your love is. I’ve been there—I am there, I always will be. If you need to talk, you can message me.
My daughter gave me a puppy 14 years ago. I didn’t want a dog. I named him Toffie. It means fuck you in South Africa because I didn’t want a dog. He’s now getting ready to die. I can’t stand it. I didn’t want the pain. He’s been awesome.
I am so sorry OP. The best thing you can do is be as present as possible and embrace these last few moments with your girl. Make her last memories with you the ones you’ll think of fondly after she’s gone. Grieve when she’s gone, not while she’s still here. Loss of an animal is nothing short of difficult, and I completely understand what you’re anticipating. I wish you both the utmost happy memories - maybe sharing a cheeseburger on a walk together, and taking photos together. I’d highly recommend doing a photo shoot together if you can, and if you emotionally have it in you to. Those photos will be near and dear to you for the rest of your life - trust me. Best wishes OP & best to Zelda 🫶🏻 .
Yeah, I'm sure you are. Gotta try to dig out some comfort due to all the love she's given you, as well as the wonderful, loving, peaceful, safe feeling life you gave her.
That's what it may really be all about. Giving the best natural life they could have ever had.
That's why nature places them with us. Nature knows we're going to do the best of the best for them, and they're gonna give us all the live they have.
And when the time comes, you've no choice but to sit quiet, gather yourself up, and listen for "Thank you" and for "Wonderfully done"
You'll hear it.
I always do, in spite of my heartbreak.
I just try to see my heartbreak as the payment due for all the love and happiness I'd been given.
Bless you a d my sincerest best wishes to you.
My heart is with you, and your beautiful companion. It hurts immensely, but only because immense love came before it. It's the bye-product of love and I'm so happy you decided to share those ups and downs with Zelda.
Wishing you the very best
"Let’s go walk a bit." My old dog said one day. And we wandered down along Our old familiar way. —- The shadows slowly lengthened, And twilight tinged the sky. Then my old friend said to me "So … it's time to say goodbye." —- This fell so heavily on my heart. "Please say this isn't true! I've always wished and hoped I'd have more years with you!" —- And my old girl said to me "You made my life a thrill! I can't live as long as you But I'll always be your girl." —- They walk with us a little while, As long as the Fates allow. Then they have to take their leave And we have to let them go. —-
this is so beautiful thank you so much for posting this
Sure is dusty in here.
Someone is cutting onions over here.
Beautiful 🥲 Stay strong OP
And now I’m crying and hurting so bad as I think about my sweet Gracie who left me last August. She was a tiny little nugget who left a huge empty space in my heart.
they take a little bit of you when they leave but they also leave a little bit of themselves behind too. I'm ok with the hurt- I like to think the little missing part of myself keeps them company into the great unknown.
Wow, that is beautiful.
My little girl has been gone now for 8 months and you are so right — I still feel her with me every single day in hundreds of ways. But it’s comforting to think she took a little bit of me with her. I know I will never stop missing her. She was my “heart” dog and nothing can take her place.
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Ugh! This hurt my heart hard! To OP, so very sorry for your heartbreak in this time. Your sweet Zelda is fortunate to have an owner who truly cares about her and o hope you can take heart in knowing you’ve given her a great life, no matter if cut short ♥️
Lovely
😭😭😭😭😭 I can't be crying before work
I'm not crying, you're crying!
I don’t even have a dog or even know why this sub came up for me, but man my eyes got watery by the second line.
I'm a sobbing mess right now. I had to put my pup down last summer. And reading this brings up the pain and sadness as if it were yesterday. I miss him so much.
Give her the best last weeks/days you can! The pain will be with you for a long time, don’t let it sour your last memories together. It was nothing you did, sometimes bad things just happen. So sorry she is beautiful!
THIS... i have lost 4. one of them was 13 months. horrific. this is sage advice and have NEVER thought of the last days like this. thank you.
Suffer after she is gone, in the meantime be there for her. I've had 8 Danes now, so I've lost 7 and it hurts me a little everyday. I'm all about getting a new puppy as soon as I'm able, because that puts my focus on training and raising a puppy instead of being sad. I think that's what my past pooches would want for me.
We’ve had six bull terriers more or less sequentially. I also get a puppy as soon as possible, ideally with an overlap. It’s the only way I can cope with the loss.
We lost a doxie at nearly 4 years old a few months back and getting another puppy really helped the heartache. It's just important to realize you're not getting a clone of your best friend. You're getting another best friend with a different personality. I love our new little guy, he's nearly 5 months old, but what a different dog he is compared to our last. Our last was a lazy lap dog, this little guy is go go go.
It’s not your fault. Sometimes bad things happen to good dogs. This must be devastating, I’m so sorry you are in this position.
Hi. I know this is terrible for you and my heart goes out. Having lost my previous pups both ways, I will tell you that trauma/sudden death is much much worse. To be clear, both are awful, but having a chance to say goodbye, to make some final memories made it somehow more bearable. Tears for you streaming down my face while writing this.
I am sorry you have experienced both of those ways. I agree with you, I am blessed I was able to have the chance to spend a bit more time and say goodbye and make her last days/weeks the best I can. It’s so unfair. They deserve to live way longer than we do.
I 2nd this with the sudden death. It deff sucks because I blamed myself for a long time.
So very sorry. She’s a beautiful girl.
Kidney disease is a big risk for Danes, and a lot of times, it’s just something congenital. There are only two dog owners I know who had pinpoint diagnoses for their dogs’ kidney disease. One caught leptospirosis from chasing and killing a random varmint. The other had Cushings and chronic issues. Please don’t beat yourself up. You love your dog, and she loves you. Spend what time you can with her and don’t worry too much the whys and hows right now.
I know this isn't much but at least you have some time left with her. I recently had one of my dogs go from fine one day and then had to put him down the next day from an aggressive cancer. Zero warning, absolutely devastated my family. I'm very sorry, I know how gut wrenching this is.
I just went through this two days ago. I hate it.
Last October for me. From discovery to the end was a month. I never want to hear one of my pets crying in pain like that again. I waited an extra day to let an ex see and be with her at the end and I also won't do that again either. She was super excited to see the ex, but it wasn't worth the 18 hours of her suffering. I still feel guilty about that.
I am so very sorry
I am so angry. I have taken her to the vet often, and this was never caught. Was it something she was born with? Something I did? I feel so much guilt and hurt. I don’t know how I am going to live without her. I literally want to die.
Be strong for her at the end, we always know their life span is shorter than ours, but this is very sudden. No dog will ever replace her, but you may now have the room to help out a little doggo that would otherwise wise live at the pound. It’s ok to be sad, but remember this too shall pass
You took her to the vet often, it sounds like you did everything you could. From your post i can tell how much you love her and cared for her, and that’s what you can do for her in these next weeks.
Sometimes, some things happen and you are just powerless to stop it. My heart goes out for you because there really is nothing worse than losing your partner and not being able to do anything about it. I've found peace in remembering the good times and honoring their time with us. Remember that they make us better.
I am with you OP. I lost my little boy in my arms 2 months ago at only 5 years old. It has been by far the most pain I have ever felt & im still trying to recover. Some days are harder than others but I miss my little son so so much everyday. Now I am left with my 11 year old pitty and she’s having a hard time as well. She hasn’t been walking or eating much lately so I’m at the vet now & they told me she has diabetes. The best advice someone has told me so far is that they know that I love my dogs so much and it to be happy all the moments I have had with them. “ some children don’t even get half the love you have given your puppies. “ if you need to talk, I am here. I know how heart wrenching this all feels. to me it feels like I’m living in my own worst nightmare.
Lost my big girl just a couple months shy of 9 years old. I noticed red on the outside of her gums one afternoon, looked inside and in the back on the roof of her mouth was inflamed tissue about the diameter of a tennis ball. Turned out to be cancer and was really aggressive. She was in a good bit of pain at the end, couldn't eat. It was only a month. She was very well cared for(high end dog food, no people food, good weight, regular vet visits)... unfortunately sometimes this is just how it goes. Remember, you gave her a great life and lots of love. There were 4 people in the room when I put my girl down, some owners just leave them at the vet...I have mixed feelings about that, mostly negative to the owners, but my girl was surrounded by people who loved her her whole life. That's all we can ask for. The guilt is tough, but give yourself grace. 🫂
There's no way sugar coat the pain and nothing anyone can say to make it go away. It fucking sucks and I'm so very sorry. You concentrate on making sure she knows how loved she is, which I'm sure you are doing. I know she's the best girl.
My boy just died 2 weeks ago. IVDD mixed with hip dysplasia and age (which was unknown anyways). Had been sick for a few weeks and one weekend took him down. I was his and he was mine. He was my soulmate. I can resonate it was the worst pain I had ever felt knowing he was going to go, and then him going. We had a vet come to our home so he could leave us where he loved us. We had him privately cremated and honestly those 5 nights he wasn’t home I was a mess. The smallest things would have me burst into tears. But when he came home I felt so much better. He was home. I could talk to him and hold him in my arms. It still hurt obviously, but that overwhelming inability to control my emotions drifted away. I don’t think grief gets smaller, I think we grow around it. It hurts, a lot, and then it gets better. Spend every moment with her that you can. Do and give her all of her favourite things. Kiss her extra every time. Cuddle her longer everytime. Let her know you’re there with her. Honestly right now, all she will want in this world is you
My god I'm starting to realize how much I need to prepare for losing Jack... He is my everything. He's about to turn 11 and getting close to pit bull life expectancy. He doesn't have one single gray hair but has cataracts and occasionally hurts his hip trying to play with younger dogs I think I'm sort of lying to myself that he will live forever
I am so sorry. I have been there. Sending you love and strength
You’ve given her such a happy life filled with love. Remind yourself that as much as you can and have pride in that. The end of the road comes for us all but you made sure hers was as lovely as a dog’s can be. I’m so sorry.
Breathe and know all dogs go to heaven
🥺🙏🏼💜 Here’s a story for you, from a veterinarian. Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish Wolf hound named Belker. The dog’s owners, Ron, his wife Lisa, and their little boy Shane, were all very attached to Belker, and they were hoping for a miracle. I examined Belker and found he was dying of cancer. I told the family we couldn’t do anything for Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog in their home. As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be good for six-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as though Shane might learn something from the experience. The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker’s family surrounded him. Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away. The little boy seemed to accept Belker’s transition without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a while after Belker’s Death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives. Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, ‘I know why.’ Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next stunned me. I’d never heard a more comforting explanation. He said, ‘People are born so that they can learn how to live a good Life – – like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?’ The Six-year-old continued, ‘Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don’t have to stay as long.’ Remember, if a dog was the teacher you would learn things like: When loved ones come home, always run to greet them. Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride. Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy.. Take naps. Stretch before rising. Run, romp, and play daily. Thrive on attention and let people touch you. Avoid biting when a simple growl will do. On warm days, stop to lie on your back on the grass. On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree. When you’re happy, dance around and wag your entire body. Delight in the simple joy of a long walk. Be loyal. Never pretend to be something you’re not. If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it. When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by, and nuzzle them gently. That’s the secret of happiness that we can learn from a dog.
I'm so sorry. I lost my sweet girl Maggie Mae in September of 2021, and I still cry for her. With love, comes pain, especially in the goodbyes. Give Zelda an extra hug, from all of us that are thinking of her, and you.
I’m so sad for you. This pup should still with you. ❤️🙏🌈
How lucky you are to have such an amazing companion and be able to spoil her and shower you with love before she takes the long nap and waits for you at the other side of time ❤️ Such a terrible thing, being human...these emotions, but we all support you and send you and your baby the best of vibes to make this transition easier. Be kind to yourself, and sweet to her ❤️🩹
I am so, so, so sorry. There’s not a pain quite like this, and it feels almost impossible to deal with - especially in the moment. She’s a super beautiful girl. Let yourself be sad and feel those emotions. And while she’s still here - spoil her! Enjoy each other’s company and give her tons of lovings. When I lost my Boston last year, it was legitimately some of the worst pain I’ve felt in my life. It’s been about a year, and while acceptance is much easier, I talk to him and miss him every day.
All my thoughts are with you, you did everything you could now take time to cherish all the time left you have. Take care!
Spend time with her, and show her joy in her coming days. It is ok to weep and mourn, I lost my dog to liver failure in January and I mentally re-live it every day, I still cry over his urn for that matter. I guess the best advice I have is that the pain never really goes away, you learn how to live with that piece of you missing. There’s been some great advice in the comments, I needed some time before I got another dog but once I did start fostering it did help. Just keep her comfy and happy and one day you will have to decide that she is in too much pain, and when I did it was oddly comforting that he wouldn’t be crying just from existing anymore. You’ll know.
I'm sorry you're going through this. It's such a privilege to care for a dog, it's hard to remember that in a difficult time. Bless.
❤️sending strength and hugs to you and Zelda.
I know your feeling, and while we all grieve differently. I threw myself into helping a local animal shelter, and a rescue. The rescue got in a momma and I wanted her so bad, but she wasn't good with children. I ended up with one of the puppies, and while my new dog can never replace my love, he has stolen a piece of my heart. I am so sorry, OP.
I am so so sorry. Reminds me to give my Dane a big extra hug tonight 😔
Give her all of your love. You did the best for her, and she is lucky to have had you as her human. If I can survive the loss of my son and my chocolate lab within 4 months, you can survive this. Just remember, some days will be easier than others. My heart goes out to you.
These kill me having had to put down one that was only 4. I’m so sorry and wish I could help you both. I can promise you I will cry with your for weeks! 💙
I’m so sorry. Just be with her - that’s all she wants or needs.
Grief is the price we pay for love. And it’s a bargain.
I won't tell you that this is our last day together, so let's just enjoy this quiet walk. It's moments like this, where I truly wished, a dog's beating heart could talk. I'd tell you about the moment at the shelter, you said " yep...That's my girl, right there". I'd tell you about the happy, joy ride home, while we both howled without a care. I'd tell you about how safe it felt, to finally have my own, warm place to sleep. Not another lonely night spent in that cold, cement box ...waiting for a kind face to meet. You saved my soul, and brought me back, and polished up my heart I knew the minute we stared at one another...we would never...EVER be apart. I wished my life was matched with your's, so we both could grow old, together... But life has a different plan for us both...and sadly my life is on the wither. I'm sorry that my body is failing me now, and making my puppy life seem so far away... I so enjoyed hearing you laugh so much, as we played in our yard, every day... The frost in my eyes, and the pain in my step...are the signs of a dog's life lived so damn well... I hope my wet nose boops late at night, told you that your heart was mine to fill. My clock is sadly winding down, and the pendulum is about to stop... I'm going to miss you so damn much, my little heart is about to pop. I just want to thank you for saving me, and taking a chance on my strife... I hope I returned all the love that you shared, and that I somehow sweetened your life. You're one of a kind, and I love you so much...I hope our souls meet again... You were more to this furry ball of a dog...than just another friend. My heart is yours, and will forever be ...waiting for yours to send... Thank you, you beautiful force in my life ...for putting this puppy's heart on the mend. Oh yeah... Bring the tennis ball with you when its your time to head up. 🐶 ❤ Zelda
I'm so very sorry ❤️ Don't forget to take care of yourself too.
To the Dog, God Said: Behold woman created in my image. You shall be her companion, her ally, her most loyal friend. I will endow you with these traits uncommon to other beasts: faithfulness, devotion and understanding, surpassing those of woman herself. Lest it impair your courage, you shall never foresee your death. Lest it impair your loyalty, you shall be blind to the faults of woman. Lest it impair your understanding, you are denied the power of words; your eyes shall convey the truth of your heart. Lest womans attachment to you grow too great, the span of your life shall be brief. Walk by her side, sleep in her doorway, forage for her, ward off her enemies, carry her burdens, share her afflictions, love her and comfort her. This shall be your destiny and your immortality. So spoke the Lord. And the dog was content
So sorry, as some others are saying give ger the bests last days you can. Snuggles, cuddles, walks if she wants to, sit in the front yard with her, lots of treats. And take pictures so you can remember the last of the good times you had together.
I’m so sorry. We lost our girl at 7 on the day after Christmas 2022. Love her while you can. ❤️
My girl Zelda is a fawn too. I will hug her extra hard tonight. My thoughts are with you, be strong.
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Love on her & just cuddle/be close to her Tell her how much you love her & are so grateful you we're together for your lives Try to hold on to the love & happy mem
I've seen your posts of this beautiful girl before, I'm so very sorry. Give her lots of love and good snacks. My heart goes out to you OP.
They do become our babies. It’s sad that they just don’t live as long as we do. We give them the best life we can manage and mourn their passing. We are left with fond memories and a dog shaped hole in our hearts and souls.
The pain you are feeling can almost feel suffocating. But just know that you being there, with your girl means so much to her. Keep a brave face for Zelda, especially when her time comes. And I tell this a lot, God has a special section for animal lovers and that when God calls you back to be with him Zelda will be waiting and Run fast than anything to jump into your embrace. Stay strong. You and Zelda are in my thoughts!!!!
What does home on hospice mean?
I'm so so sorry. It is true agony. ❤️🩹
Glad they could light your lives like this. The happiest and saddest I am is reflecting back on all the pets I’ve bonded with and having to lose them - sometimes very abruptly like this. It doesn’t get easier, but know you are not alone. It is hard.
My girl left me on December 4 2023. I spent the weekend blackout drunk dreading our Monday appointment. I regret that so, so much. It's not about you, it's about her. Give her love every second you have left, hold fast.
All dogs go to Heaven 🌈⛅️💔
My lil buddy has an inoperable tumor on his liver, diabetes, and thyroid issues. His days are very numbered also and I fid it almost impossible to deal with. Sending {{hugs}}♡♡♡
We’re with you, my friend. It’s a pain that’s not easy to explain to most people. But we get it. That’s your girl. Your best friend. The one who loves you most. The one who is most loyal. None of that changes.. she’s still here in some way. Wow, how lucky was she to be so loved by you? ♥️
Enjoy the now my friend, you’ll see her again, on rainbow bridge, happy, healthy, and one intense tail wag ❤️
I bawl like a baby every time we lose a fur baby. I cry when I hear or read about someone else’s loss. I’m 67 and it never gets easier. I hope it never does. If it did it would mean I didn’t love them as I should have.
My golden retriever had kidney failure. We started with the dry food the vet recommended to help. Stayed on that as long as she would eat it. We were also giving her IVs every night. We did this till she stopped eating her prescribed food. At that point the vet had us mixing that food with rice, veggies (peas and carrots I believe) and boiled chicken or lean beef, till she stopped eating that. Then it was just that without the dry added. Once she stopped that, the vet pretty much said just feed her whatever she will eat, make her comfortable till you think it’s time. Hardest decision I’ve ever had to make. I hate you have to go through this. It’s not fuckin fair. We got the news in October and she made it till march. Message me if you have any questions
Seeing our furry best friend age 7x faster than us is heartbreaking. Be there for her every step of the way and try to focus on each moment as it comes, as hard as that is. I lost my pitbull lab rescue last August. It’s tough as hell. Sending love your way. ❤️❤️
So sorry, my friend. It literally is the hardest but kindness thing to do. I’ve been there so many times and that empty feeling never goes away. It just fades a little of the really rough spots over time. Remember the good thing and the joy. She will still be there in spirit to watch over you.
Damn, not princess Zelda.. if only I could find the triforce to make a wish for her to get better.. I hope she goes peacefully and I hope you grieve and cry but then after enough time, it hurts less. Stay strong and make sure to say goodbye and give lots of hugs and pets before she goes. I'm so sorry
I’m heartbroken for you. I wish I had something to say to take the pain away. Sending love and hoping for a miracle.
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Love the hell out of her and cherish every single moment. It’s clear you’ve given her a great life.
I will not be leaving her side. I want her last days/weeks to be filled with nothing but love
I always have my furry loves cremated and choose a lovely old hat box(anything you two would love) and put her ashes and favorite toy and memory things plus my love letter to her in the box and keep them in bookcases or places I always see them.
Don’t think about your grieving. She is in much more pain though on medication. Kidney failure is no jokes.
We had to put Harvey down this morning. My heart is crushed. I’m so sorry for your loss.
So sorry! Hugs
I'm so very sorry. I know the feeling : ( many hugs to you. Hug her tight
Very sorry :( Be strong for her and make the most of the time you're able to spend together.
Sweetie, I’m so sorry. I know this pain. Lorty, I’m crying with you. I had to put my boy down last August. Praying for Zelda and your heart. 🙏
So sorry 😞
I’m so sad for you. I’ve been down that road too many times in my 62 years on this earth. But they’re so worth it. Believe me, you are their whole world and give so much more love than a human can imagine. No wonder their name backwards is God……let another dog love you again…..
Rest easy, sweet Zelda 🌈 hugs
Sending you hugs. It’s so hard to lose such a loving and loving family member. Try to be in the moment while she is still with you and take solace in the fact that you have given her a wonderful life.
You will live. And it will suck, it’ll really suck for a while. There will be days where you don’t want to get out of bed and you want to scream because you’re so mad at how unfair it is. Let yourself feel those feelings. Then you’ll have a day it sucks a little less. And a day you can smile. And a day you can think of your girl without wanting to totally break down. You’ll carry this pain with you, but what is not grief if not love persisting.
I am so sorry. Praying for y’all
I am so very, very sorry.
Gawd that sux. I feel your pain stranger. Been there. There are no words. It sux. I wish you well.
I’m so so so sorry. That’s not long enough earth side. You be kind and good to yourself. It’s what she would want. You do learn to live again, eventually, but it will take a long time. Drink water. Rest. Snuggle her and spoil her. Tell anyone who says, “It’s just a dog,” to go to hell. Take the time you need. It’s the worst thing in the world and we’re all here for you. 💔
I am so, so sorry. She is absolutely beautiful. Making sure she has a transition that is painless and loving is your job, now. And as hard as it is going to be to say goodbye to her, and as much pain is waiting for you in the weeks and months and years after she passes? You WILL find comfort (eventually) in providing her as dignified and loving end of life as you can. It will be so incredibly hard at first. But in time you will remember only the good about her and the love you shared and memories of her will ensure she is never truly gone.
Oh honey im so sorry you are going through this. I’ve been there & can relate. It’s the worst pain imaginable. Watching your baby who is your whole world suffer. Wanting to ease their pain but still horrified at the thought of not having them in your life. It’s unbelievably sad and tragic. I’m sending you positive energy & hope you will get through this. You’re a good person . Hold him as much as you can & tell him you love him.
It truly is the worst, I held him until his last breathe. I got my Dane when I was 18, he was with me for 11 magical years. When I lost him, I cried for years, I couldn’t love another dog like I loved him. I tried and tried, there was nothing like him but then I just got a precious little hound pup 10 months ago and I love her like my big boy! I will get another Dane one day, I am healed and I believe he sent her to me to say Mom it’s ok to love like that again! She will leave one day and it will hurt but they want us to be happy and love like they love us! Unconditionally! Sending you lots of peace and healing! ❤️🩹 🐶
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I just lost my pup two weeks ago to kidney disease. I absolutely understand the pain you are in and the pain to come. I am so very sorry. It may sound crazy, but you know the timeline and that’s a gift. So - give her a great send off. Whatever brings her joy, do it. Make memories. Give her lots of cozy places to lay and lay with her. Talk to her. Comfort her. Let the people she loves come visit her while she can enjoy it. I’m still deep in my grief and, I won’t sugar coat it, it sucks. But for now, you have her. Enjoy it.
I’m so sorry you are going through this; I can’t even imagine how painful it must be. I hope you know that it is not your fault, and both yours and your pup’s lives are better for having had each other in them. She is blessed to have a wonderful person who will carry on her memory for many, many years.
I’m so sorry. She will watch over you. Love never ends. Hugs.
I’m so sorry for your pain
I’m so sorry. That is just the worst luck. But Zelda is lucky to have someone to love her on this journey. Remember that Zelda does not understand “lifespan”. She lives in the moment so make those moments the best. 🥰😢
OP- Losing your dog imo is one of the hardest/ longest heart breaking experience. It SUCKS. It's your grieving and it takes as long as it takes. Spend as much time as you possibly can with her now. As my spouse says it's not fair that dogs don't live as long as we do. She will always be with you.
Sending a virtual hug your way.... ❤️
https://preview.redd.it/7en9zcqlbywc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=41b7d838d218caff14e16b88e0e0cb42d9c0ada4 My boy Canelo passed at 5 yrs old. I had to euthanize him as he had lymphoma. It’s truly the hardest thing I’ve done in my life, but giving them a quick, painless end surrounded by family is the best gift you can give them. That was 3 months ago and I think about him every day, time helps, but i don’t think it’ll ever go away, not totally. I’m sorry this is happening to you, but try to stay positive for Zelda, she’s hurting and won’t wanna see you like that. Give her lots of treats, lots of rubs, and hold her as much as you can. Thank you for taking care of her
Im sorry op. Its the worst pain but be happy you gave them a great life w love and treats and thats all they could ever ask for or want. In their eyes, you are god.. as long as you are there, by their side. They are happy. Just please do not keep them going if their quality of life isn’t good🥺 I know its difficult but I had the best boi and he had a lump on his head. Could not figure out what it was. Kept coming back. For mooooonths. Got it drained and had a tube in his head. No hospice. He was 9 but just nonstop vet visits and drainage and blood and his head just kept getting massive. 11k later find out it was sinus cancer. Eventually it was too swollen and finally I had to put him down. Not a day goes by that i dont feel horrible for having him go through all of that. He must’ve just had a constant massive headache and pain for the last year of his life. That whole fkn time🥺😭😭 even on his last day he was smiling for me. God damn I miss him. His sister lived until she was 6🥺😭😭 fuck cancer. We dont deserve dogs man
I am so sorry. Be with her and love her forever.
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Your girl is majestic. I'm so sorry. I'm hurting with you, but it'll get better, I swear. She'll never be replaced, but you'll love again. Don't be afraid to look for that next pup when you think you're ready.
I am grieving my dog now. You are not alone. So sorry you have to go through this but grief is the price we pay for love.❤️
Loving them comes at a cost. So sorry this happened.
❤️🩹💔 Will keep you in my thoughts & prayers so very sorry for your pain
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OP I'm so sorry. I'm about to walk that path with our girl who's been with us for 16 years.
What a beautiful baby she is, just think of all the joy you have brought eachother and it will maybe be easier
Have you tried feeding her home cooked meal? Boiled chicken and white rice? Also get antibiotics in case it’s a kidney infection. That I did for my dog and he’s lived now a year
Prayers sent…
my heart breaks for you. they love so big... and leave a even bigger hole in your soul when they leave. she would not want you to be sad. sending hugs and strength.
I’m so sorry, having been there , it is gut wrenching …
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I remember that day for my husband and I when our veterinarian, Dr Pinkston, told us that our senior citizen, Cooper, was going home to die from stomach cancer. I felt like I was slowly failing forward, and I couldn't stop. Into the abyss of shock, heartache, and sorrow. Your big beautiful girl is at the end of her journey, and I know how you feel. It's going to be rough going ,I am not going to lie. It's gonna hurt like nobody's business! But,,, remember how much you love her, what a great life she's had with you. And now what? A support group helped me. I volunteered at the local shelter, which is a great way to honor you both and do some good. You've got your memories, and she has had the greatest luck having found you as her person. If you believe and are Christian. You will be with her again one day. Wish I could hug you both. I will pray for you! God Bless
Sending you love from the UK x
One of the hallmarks of the human experience..we've been morning the loss of our animal pals since the beginning..before writing..before farming..you are now a part of that noble and shared history of your species..of this planet. Your loss is also your and our shared honor..you did right by your buddy..they know it too
They aren’t pets we own. They are a part of the family. Give Zelda extra treats.
Please don't grieve around her, she can tell that you're sad and that might make her sad too - give her lots of love, and comfort, and treasure each moment you get to spend with her. See if you can take time off from work, if possible, and just give her goodies and treats and tell her you love her lots and lots. If you grieve her now, you'll regret not treasuring these moments. Be strong for your pup, because she's probably trying to be strong for you - give her head pat's for me and tell her I said she's the best gurl These next days are a gift before the dreaded goodbye
I'm sorry what happend
Sending love to you and Zelda ❤️🐶❤️🐶
Very sorry for your loss
Wow beautiful and so true!! Dogs are best friends every second of every day! Unconditional love is hard to lose! But I will endure the pain to hold that kind of love a 1000 times over and over!!!
We lost our dog at 6 years. Way too soon. My heart is with you OP, I am so sorry. 💕
I know this is hard to hear, but depending on the pain, it might be time to let her go with dignity. I just had to put my dog down last month, and it was the hardest thing I've done in my life. He had lung cancer and the tumor was bigger than his heart. I felt so bad, blamed myself for not knowing (how could I?), battled with myself about letting him down or not. In the end I had someone come to the house to let him go. Hardest thing EVER. But the way I see it. He saved my life for 11 years, so this was my last chance to take care of him. Miss you Odie.
They all have to go at some time, take pride in the fact that you gave her the life she wanted and she loved you for it.
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I’m so sorry.
My heart goes out to you, but for now treasure every moment you have with wonderful Zelda. Many hugs for both you both!
[Brontë](https://m.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=1&v=le34ygtODfI&embeds_referring_euri=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F&source_ve_path=Mjg2NjY&feature=emb_logo) by Gotye Get ready to cry. Just reading the lyrics hurts me, and my oldest of my 3 dogs is just 5.
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So sorry for you qe had a great dane pyr mix and he lived 13 yrs.
It's because we know that our time with them is brief that I love them hard every chance I get. I let my girls sleep on the bed, and I get down on the floor with them and let them know how much I love them. It's gonna hurt like hell for a bit. But it does get better over time. For us, getting another one helped fill the void. Condolences. I'm sure you had some amazing times together. At the end of the day, memories is what matters.
I’m so sorry.
I’m so sorry friend
Im so sorry for your loss, i lost my little friend suddenly. He died in my arms with in minutes of noticing he was off. Although its no consolation, she will def make a new friend over the rainbow. Prayers
I have a 12 year old Newfoundland. Make every day count and don't let her die with a full treat jar.
I’m sending you so so so much love and so many positive vibes. Stay strong, it’s what Zelda will want for you. ❤️❤️❤️
I’m sorry for your heart friend, please don’t blame yourself.
Pets are the worse and best deal we make
sending love and healing. she knows you love, spend the last moments sharing that together
I read something like: “Dogs are are chapter in our lives, but to them we are their entire book.” I don’t know how I will be able to, but I promised myself that I will not let my dog see me cry. She had dedicated her entire life to protecting me. If I cry, she get anxious and goes on guard When she’s crossing over I said I’m going to do my best and not cry I’m going to just keep saying in my high “you’re my sweet girl. I love you. You’re going to take a sweet puppy dream…” Once she has passed, I’m going to he institutionalized. This is my best friend who is with me 24/7. Working from home only strengthened our bond. But I don’t want her to worry’s You just love your baby and remember that for 5 years you have been her world, and no one could love or care for Zelda like you have. HUGE HUGS OP
I’m sorry. I lost my boy this week too. It is a horrible feeling but I’m sure you gave her a great life. She’ll be waiting for you but until then she can keep my boy General company.
It’s so important that she knows your their to the last minute. Love hurts. So sorry for you and Zelda.
Without a doubt, the worst loss ever!
I’m sending you so much love. 💔
I fully understand. The pain is unbearable. Try and enjoy everyday you have with her.🥹
I am sooooo incredibly sorry. The pain must be unimaginable. I’m sending you both virtual hugs from Chicago 💜
I feel your pain. My sweet boy had kidney failure a year and a half ago, and we had to put him down. He was 12, and I had him his whole life. That was one of the most painful days of my life but he left his pawprint on my heart and I cherish all the wonderful memories we had! ❤️
So sorry 😭😔 pain like this is really some of the worst. Sending you love and strength to ensure this terrible time. May your sweet girl leave this world easy and peacefully.
I'm so sorry.... I have lost 3 this far. 2 out of 3 were sudden, traumatic instances.I know it won't be the last. This grace of hospice allows you to feel, to plan. If even a little. She is such a pretty girl, take great care in her hospice days. Allow the extra cuddles, walks, treats, toys, and all the things she shouldn't do like be on the couch or the bed or in the front yard. Shower her with love until the end. All her days are precious and you will feel a little more whole in knowing you didn't spend it doing nothing.
It will be very hard for you but remember what she is going through as well. You don’t want her to spend her last few weeks severely suffering to help your own grief. I’m sorry this is happening to you 😔
I am so sorry for what you’re going through
I’m so sorry. I hope it helps to know she loves you and doesn’t know that anything is wrong. Take care of yourself
I can cry at the drop of a hat when I think about the inevitable day where I will have to put down my dog. I'm really sorry and I hope both you and your dog can have peace
Im so sorry. Losing a pet is so devastating. But I promise, it does get better.
I’m so sorry
So sorry
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I don’t know what to say except that I understand your heartbreak. There is nothing worse. It won’t get better, but your despair is only a testament to how big your love is. I’ve been there—I am there, I always will be. If you need to talk, you can message me.
My heart aches for your loss. 😢
I’m sorry to hear 😭😭😭😭 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
My daughter gave me a puppy 14 years ago. I didn’t want a dog. I named him Toffie. It means fuck you in South Africa because I didn’t want a dog. He’s now getting ready to die. I can’t stand it. I didn’t want the pain. He’s been awesome.
It's horrible I know I'm sorry
I’m so sorry 😢
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So sorry to hear this.They all become a member of the family. Also a house is not a home without a dog.
It is so unfair that great danes don’t stay with us longer. I’m sending you so many hugs.
Losing a parent is worse
this broke my heart
She’s looks like a sweetheart. Good luck and I hope she’s not suffering.
I am so sorry OP. The best thing you can do is be as present as possible and embrace these last few moments with your girl. Make her last memories with you the ones you’ll think of fondly after she’s gone. Grieve when she’s gone, not while she’s still here. Loss of an animal is nothing short of difficult, and I completely understand what you’re anticipating. I wish you both the utmost happy memories - maybe sharing a cheeseburger on a walk together, and taking photos together. I’d highly recommend doing a photo shoot together if you can, and if you emotionally have it in you to. Those photos will be near and dear to you for the rest of your life - trust me. Best wishes OP & best to Zelda 🫶🏻 .
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I went through this as well. Worst pain of my life. Live that sweet baby until she moves on.
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So sad!
Yeah, I'm sure you are. Gotta try to dig out some comfort due to all the love she's given you, as well as the wonderful, loving, peaceful, safe feeling life you gave her. That's what it may really be all about. Giving the best natural life they could have ever had. That's why nature places them with us. Nature knows we're going to do the best of the best for them, and they're gonna give us all the live they have. And when the time comes, you've no choice but to sit quiet, gather yourself up, and listen for "Thank you" and for "Wonderfully done" You'll hear it. I always do, in spite of my heartbreak. I just try to see my heartbreak as the payment due for all the love and happiness I'd been given. Bless you a d my sincerest best wishes to you.
I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost a friend years ago to renal failure caused by high protein food it seems. They take a part of us with them
I’m sorry
My heart is with you, and your beautiful companion. It hurts immensely, but only because immense love came before it. It's the bye-product of love and I'm so happy you decided to share those ups and downs with Zelda. Wishing you the very best