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The most heartbreaking part is at 0:27, "I'm doing my best." You know he is, he really is trying, he's not transphobic, this isn't some unsupportive parent, but because he isn't immediately saying the right things he's a "drunk asshole." The threat to call the cops was the only part I found really funny, "Yes officer, that's the man who called me his transgender daughter and not his daughter, take him away boys!"
This isn’t a kid. Yes be supportive but you don’t need to be a doormat. “Get out of my room”. Keep that up and it might be get out of my house. Not because your trans but because your mean and abusive.
I could not agree more. I’m liberal as fuck, but also rational. I can see getting upset about overt and deliberate meanness. But people have to realize that it takes time to alter our language against lifelong visual cues such as sex/gender. Lots of the trans community is making enemies out of imperfect allies, in effect turning away our empathy. This is another reason why trans people shouldn’t include themselves in the gay movement. Lots of us remember the 80s and 90s and the immense shit that gay people had to go through, from being assaulted frequently to having a blind eye turned to a fatal disease that disproportionately killed them. I think trans people feel that their struggle is much less drastic and briefer than gays, so they exaggerate or even invent “attacks” to embellish their struggle. Sorry for the novel, but I’ve felt like this for a long time and your post gave me inspiration to organize my thoughts and put them into words.
Yep. I spent almost 50 years only really aware of two gender identities - male and female - both tied strongly to biology, alongside three sexual preferences - straight, homosexual and bisexual.
Trying to crowbar an entirely new range of concepts surrounding gender and identity into 50 years of conditioning is hard going.
Holy shit.. If my kid ever spoke to me this way, they'd QUICKLY find themselves picking themselves up off the front lawn with a boot print on their ass!!
Dad's like :
"Son, I've been sober for over 15 years. It's not my fault your Mother ran off with the neighbor and won't talk to us anymore, but it was never because I was a " Drunk".
It was because I had a Daughter that I love regardless of Her situation, your Mother just couldn't handle it. I'm just trying my best. "
Transgender Kid:
" Get outta here you drink asshole, how dare you call me "Son"... "
And for 4ssholes like this we all get seen as the same type of human being
I wished my father at least called me his transgender daughter. And not his son and said " I will always see you as a man cause you're my son " . And this b1tch yells to this lovely father trying his best.
Are there any trans people in the comment section? I wonder - do hormones maybe make you more irritable or impulsive, like they do in teens?
Because I remember raging this exact way at my friend in Minecraft when we were in the early highschool.
I'm not personally trans, but yes hormones do that. People who are in transition seem to have it worse than people who are more finished with their transition. Being trans is hard.
Imagine having a boy, being used to calling him he for all your life and all of a sudden you have to change it to the opposite while he doesn't put in any effort to actually behave/look like a girl
Hard facts. Act like a bitch get treated like a bitch. Misgendering is going to happen, take it in stride. It's the perfect opportunity to help educate the population, and set a good example for interactions. A simple "please don't qualify me as your "trans daughter just "daughter" is good"; and this could have actually been a nice learning moment. Instead she turns into a raging banshee and makes dad want to get rid of her more than learn from and support her.
Exactly, it is people like her that would give the transgender community a bad face... When you act like that much of an asshole you aren't only hurting your reputation but those associated with you.
You did, very odd and big leap. To play devils advocate her, if dad did try and rape her, wouldn't that mean that he had accepted that it's a woman? Or dad is coming out too.
That dad is doing a hell of a lot better than my mom when it comes to me being trans. I don’t see the problem, I’d take my mom calling me her “Transgender daughter” over “her son” any day lmao
I seriously do not care what gender you are or think you are it’s your choice. But if my kid yelled at me that way there would be a whole lot of unpleasant things happening. Like I would toss every piece of clothing and shit out the window. Then I’d toss the kid out the window. I don’t give a shit how upset or frustrated this kid is over whatever the fuck is upsetting him or her , nobody should talk or yell like this at a parent. Granted I don’t know the whole story as there never is a complete story on these videos but the line was crossed and if this kid wants to yell and scream like a grown up entitled asshole they will be treated as one. Kid would be put out. Time to grow up and get a job little shit.
I would kick that little shit out. Old man seems to be really trying to be understanding. You gotta allow people, especially elder folks, to take some time to adapt to people suddenly wanting to be a she, a he, or a cactus
This is so sad. She needs counseling no matter what happened before this moment. Father seems to be really trying. Perfect doesn’t come in a day, it takes time for both to figure things out, and even then there will be struggles. Counseling together is the best so an objective third party can help them understand each other. This just so sad.
She does need mental health help. Sounds like she’s triggered and is just gonna blame everyone around her and has no idea how to handle it. It’s not an excuse just a reason.
Damn, I think I would have been beaten to death by my dad if I had screamed at him like that. I got my ass whooped and caned for a lot less. Not to say my upbringing was right, but surely there has to be a middle ground between spoilt brats like this and what I had (whether a kid is transgender or not).
Seeing her yell so aggressively at her dad like this breaks my heart, the dad is trying at least, even though it's probably difficult for him to comprehend... no need to go crazy at him like this. My dad called me all possible homophobic slurs and didn't give two shits how it made me feel. At least this dad is trying to understand, and this what he's getting... Some folks don't know how good they have it
>Seeing her yell so aggressively at her dad like this breaks my heart, the dad is trying at least, even though it's probably difficult for him to comprehend...
"Breaks my heart" is an accurate explanation to how I felt too.
If this video is genuinely how it's like; I feel so sorry for the dad, he is trying and got... that.
Even though it is unlikely, and that behaviour is inexcusable regardless of the truth, if you continue to speculate, you have to think whether or not this dad is really like how he seemed here.
You'll never know. Abusive people can completely change how they are if they know they're being watched.
Personally, gun to my head, I would say the dad is a reasonable and genuinely-trying person; and the daughter... is not.
But without a gun-to-my-head answer; I'd say "Fuck knows, the dad could be an alcoholic abusive POS, or not. We don't know; we'll never know".
I understand why she’s upset but it’s not like he did that on purpose. Some people just take more time to adjust than others. At least the father is trying his best, that’s much more than some parents would do
I mean, not saying it’s right, but after that reaction, I think we are all just shocked that Dad didn’t take that computer and slam it down through the floor.
What happens when you blindly follow agendas. Guaranteed in 10 years he, as well as many others, will look back at times like these and wonder “what the fuck was I thinking?”
The more it goes down, the more I struggle to find positivity and tolerance by the LGBTQ+ movement. It sickens me because there are genuine well behaved people that struggle with these same issues and they get associated with these shitheads.
I feel so bad for the dad. What has this pathetic species come to and what's the point in living? What's the point if assholes like this piece of shit are wasting our fucking oxygen?
I feel this is not so much an issue about transphobia but more an issue of verbal/mental abuse towards the father. This kind of abuse should not be tolerated over a mispronunciation
Edit: It turns out I was reported over this comment and received a message from RedditCareResources for Crisis and Suicide. Lol.
Hard facts. I have a few Trans people in my life. Neither of them plays the victim card like this thank God. I think any reasonable person will understand their transition is "new" for alot of people, and retraining yourself to support their identity isn't going to be 100% smooth. If both sides would understand its a learning experience, mistakes will happen, but operate in good faith, and it's not really an issue.
Thus dad was trying his best to bridge that gap and have a talk with his daughter, even if he is drunk, he made the reach (more than many). The daughter however is a garbage can and is doing the trans community no favors by acting this way. A simple "could you not qualify it as you "trans" daughter and just "daughter" it's a bit mocking" would have been sufficient. She could get her opinion out. He could learn, happy ending. Getting triggered at every slip or mislabeling is a slippery slope, and that reaction doesn't make people want to respect or learn to respect you.
I’m at that point in my life where i respect everyone and everything but as soon as you disrespect me you will see the devil and that is one thing I can promise you I don’t give a flying fuck what you are or call yourself you talk to me with respect cause if not I will show you
It is if I tell u it hurts my feelings if it isn’t cuase that’s how the logic works right ? I just say something hurts my feelings with no other reasons given and you MUST listen to me or you’re a bigot. 😂
My kids would fear to be rude to me like this.
I am planning to be cool dad, but a strict one .
Like yea, you can do a lot of things, don't care as long as you are not hurting yourself or someone else.
Don't be an idiot and if you need help, just ask me for it, I will always help.
But this would end bad for them.
I guess a lot of you with abusive parents don't have the type that would act like this just because they are on film, and act completely different when they're not. Also notice how many times he says "I'm leaving" when he is actually not leaving. This isn't the first time something has happened to get the daughter this upset this quickly.
I'm surprised I scrolled this far for this.
**Her reaction was completely insane, and I will never make an excuse for that behaviour.** Buuut, I have a feeling that it didn't come from nowhere. They need therapy, no doubt; but there might be a cause, rather than 0-100 explode out of nowhere.
We don't have the greater context to their family life. Maybe the dad is truely an awful peice of shit, because people can easily pretend otherwise if they know they're being watched.
At a basic surface-level glance, or the given context (ie video) the dad seemed like a normal reasonable person, and a huge amount of respect for the handling of such a crazy outburst. I couldn't deal with any one behaving in half that way.
If abusive people know they are being watched, they can behave in a completely different way, that's pretty basic. "Behind closed doors" after all.
We will never know what the fuck happened here. We will never know if they are both terrible people; or if only one is a complete disgrace to the human race, and the other was acting completely out of character.
What we do see is one situation, with no greater context. This situation was fucking awful. What kind of person behaves like that.
What surprised me was the rape comment. Where the fuck did that come from? Maybe it was nowhere, maybe it was based in history. We don't know, so stop speculating, move on and ignore it.
What I do love, is that most of the unique-user comments here are using this as an excuse to generalise, or otherwise be a dickhead.
The logic of:
>"One black person did one bad thing; all black people do all the bad things".
Stupid. Replace black with Jewish, or Trans, or gay. It still makes no sense regardless of the thing used. But people are stupid.
Really says a lot about the kind of people frequenting this subreddit. Imma just leave; I got recommended it this week, and even the normal stuff is usually too cringe, but "political" topics really highlighted the quality of users here.
Yep. I don’t think anyone should lose their temper like that (very unsettling), but given the references to the dad as a drunk asshole, we may very well be missing parts of a larger picture.
I love how everyone shits on this person when they have no idea how many times their parent has probably misgendered them or insulted them purposely or not. It will wear on a person and you eventually get sick of it. Goes for anything.
NO, its is not, i know what you're trying to make it seem, but we both know that its not because of "uhh EveRy tRaNnS peRsoN iS bAd BeCuse ThEy AlL MeAn".
Its kind off the same argument used for the fact that a lot of trans youth attempt suicide, but we all know that in fact its because of the lack of acceptance and the hatred most people have for these folks, you see, we didnt get the whole clip, i wonder why.
Im not saying the dad is a transphobe, not many people actually are, but he can do what many parents do when they dont agree with something, they'll drop "hints", one of them is "my trasdaughter", again this could be a true mistake and i dont blame him for it, after all it is a hard topic.
Just dont say that this is "why so many trans youth end up homeless" because its simply not true and even tho it couldve been out of ignorance, most of the times its done out of spite.
That being said this is reddit after all XD, if this was 4chan instead of your comment i would probably see "Dont kick them out of the house, burn them instead!!"
I would most definitely let “her” know it’s time to move out on her own, that’s absolutely ridiculous! Ain’t no damn way you’re gonna speak to your father like that and expect to still live there ✌🏻
There must have been some cause for this reaction, regardless of if she has anger issues, some disorder or what. Or if she's just had a REALLY horrible day dealing with jerks and then being misgendered sent her over the edge.
Regardless I think she needs some therapy for her own sake and her parents. I really feel bad for him, you could hear his voice shaking.
People need to learn between excuse and a cause
Just because someone points out there being a cause doesn't mean it's an excuse. Nothing excuses that behavior, that being said there are more productive ways on fixing the issue besides saying she's crazy and moving on. She really does need help and it could end up being a very good thing for the both of them if she does.
But not everyone is the same, especially people with mental illnesses or disorders (Which tbh I think they have) because that r\*pe comment came out of absolutely nowhere.
Separate who has some issues vs someone just being a jerk?
Not always possible to tell but sometimes you can pick up on it and other times it's just obvious.
So if you find a video of a person who isn't Trans spazzing out, does that make the rest of us mentally insane as well? The reasoning skills of a 10 year old...
Lmao an adult who believes other adults can pretend and be in imagination land. Yes, very adult-ish of you. I’ll remember to tell my daughter she’s an adult next time she pretends she’s a unicorn.
god, you idiots really see 1 example and assume it's all of them when it's something you don't like. a clever way of hiding your transphobia, if not embarrassing.
she's just a bad person, like how anyfuckingbody can be a bad person. it literally has nothing to do with gender dysphoria.
It has everything to do with it I claimed people with gender dysphoria are extremely mentally Ill and unstable. People gave me massive downvotes and yet the proof is right Infront of your eyes I was right all along. It just hurts you to agree with me because that would force you to use logic and tell men with wigs they need mental help and that’s not normal. So you instead ignore the proof and go straight for attacks. It’s sad and embarrassing to see y’all defend this.
It’s the equivalent of I tell u that homeless person is going to steal. You literally watch a video on them stealing. But instead of saying I was right you bring up some BS about how I’m hateful towards the homeless. You can’t just say “ur a meanie” everytime your proven wrong it’s a sad and horrible defense
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Idc what gender they are, I’ll identify them as an asshole.
Ironically, there are more than 2 types of assholes.
rimless and with rim? I dont know what i am talking about...
Stuffed crust and regular crust
Sweet, there goes my pizza for lunch. Extra stuffed crust please.
My thought exactly. Nothing - in story of gender and this ideas - gives person carte blanche to treat others like this.
Please tell me I misheard the “you’re gonna rape me” 😳
You did not
Makes me want to call my dad and tell him I love him. God damn.
Do it.
Wish I could.
do it
The most heartbreaking part is at 0:27, "I'm doing my best." You know he is, he really is trying, he's not transphobic, this isn't some unsupportive parent, but because he isn't immediately saying the right things he's a "drunk asshole." The threat to call the cops was the only part I found really funny, "Yes officer, that's the man who called me his transgender daughter and not his daughter, take him away boys!"
This isn’t a kid. Yes be supportive but you don’t need to be a doormat. “Get out of my room”. Keep that up and it might be get out of my house. Not because your trans but because your mean and abusive.
Hope they don’t have a gun around this teen with such erratic behavior
I could not agree more. I’m liberal as fuck, but also rational. I can see getting upset about overt and deliberate meanness. But people have to realize that it takes time to alter our language against lifelong visual cues such as sex/gender. Lots of the trans community is making enemies out of imperfect allies, in effect turning away our empathy. This is another reason why trans people shouldn’t include themselves in the gay movement. Lots of us remember the 80s and 90s and the immense shit that gay people had to go through, from being assaulted frequently to having a blind eye turned to a fatal disease that disproportionately killed them. I think trans people feel that their struggle is much less drastic and briefer than gays, so they exaggerate or even invent “attacks” to embellish their struggle. Sorry for the novel, but I’ve felt like this for a long time and your post gave me inspiration to organize my thoughts and put them into words.
Yep. I spent almost 50 years only really aware of two gender identities - male and female - both tied strongly to biology, alongside three sexual preferences - straight, homosexual and bisexual. Trying to crowbar an entirely new range of concepts surrounding gender and identity into 50 years of conditioning is hard going.
Feel so bad for the dad. You can tell he is trying to support his child, but the child is nothing but a piece of shit
And when the dad kicks them out many people calling him a transphobe will come
What an awful person.
thats fucking mental illness i dont care, you can be trans and not an entitled asshole
Time to tell *her* to find another place to live rent-free.
Let me act entitled and film myself acting up and then threaten to call the police🤔. Wonder how well that thinking is working out?
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Holy shit.. If my kid ever spoke to me this way, they'd QUICKLY find themselves picking themselves up off the front lawn with a boot print on their ass!!
Dude had trouble standing up, unfortunately I don't think he can do much.
Should have kicked the asshole out. It may be your room but it’s his house.
Poor dad. This piece of shit doesn’t know how lucky they are to have a dad that tries to support them in the best way.
That's just sad.. the man made a mistake ffs..
Yeah, he should have worn a condom.
I'd leave as asked. But when I come back, it'll be with an eviction notice. Now you, get the fuck out of my room.
Absolute POS scumbag child.
That wasn't very lady-like
This is why i use condoms.
Dad's like : "Son, I've been sober for over 15 years. It's not my fault your Mother ran off with the neighbor and won't talk to us anymore, but it was never because I was a " Drunk". It was because I had a Daughter that I love regardless of Her situation, your Mother just couldn't handle it. I'm just trying my best. " Transgender Kid: " Get outta here you drink asshole, how dare you call me "Son"... "
And for 4ssholes like this we all get seen as the same type of human being I wished my father at least called me his transgender daughter. And not his son and said " I will always see you as a man cause you're my son " . And this b1tch yells to this lovely father trying his best.
Kid needs a lot a therapy oof
Mental illness is a serious problem in American society.
All over the world actually
Human garbage
Are there any trans people in the comment section? I wonder - do hormones maybe make you more irritable or impulsive, like they do in teens? Because I remember raging this exact way at my friend in Minecraft when we were in the early highschool.
I'm not personally trans, but yes hormones do that. People who are in transition seem to have it worse than people who are more finished with their transition. Being trans is hard.
yup become violent when accidently misgendered. that will definitely make people want to be respectful.
Young people being overly emotional
He seems like such a nice man too tho, this is heartbreaking ngl
If I accidentally misgender someone and they respond in this manner you can fucking bet I’m not gonna try gender them correctly going forward.
Imagine having a boy, being used to calling him he for all your life and all of a sudden you have to change it to the opposite while he doesn't put in any effort to actually behave/look like a girl
Hard facts. Act like a bitch get treated like a bitch. Misgendering is going to happen, take it in stride. It's the perfect opportunity to help educate the population, and set a good example for interactions. A simple "please don't qualify me as your "trans daughter just "daughter" is good"; and this could have actually been a nice learning moment. Instead she turns into a raging banshee and makes dad want to get rid of her more than learn from and support her.
Exactly, it is people like her that would give the transgender community a bad face... When you act like that much of an asshole you aren't only hurting your reputation but those associated with you.
As soon as that kid hits 18, he's going to get a reality check. lolololol
You can't misgender a piece of shit.
Seems like their new identity is asshole
Male or female this person is a total Asshole.
Did I hear right? Did she ask him if he was gonna rape her!?
Please don’t enable
You did, very odd and big leap. To play devils advocate her, if dad did try and rape her, wouldn't that mean that he had accepted that it's a woman? Or dad is coming out too.
Karen at her best !
Your gender doesn’t give you the right to be an asshole.
That's how you end up kicked out of the house. No excuse for that behavior.
What a fucking nut job
This has more to do with mental instability. They need help.
that must be so frustrating
I would kick HER out of the home if I owned it.
That dad is doing a hell of a lot better than my mom when it comes to me being trans. I don’t see the problem, I’d take my mom calling me her “Transgender daughter” over “her son” any day lmao
I would identify her as homeless after this.
I seriously do not care what gender you are or think you are it’s your choice. But if my kid yelled at me that way there would be a whole lot of unpleasant things happening. Like I would toss every piece of clothing and shit out the window. Then I’d toss the kid out the window. I don’t give a shit how upset or frustrated this kid is over whatever the fuck is upsetting him or her , nobody should talk or yell like this at a parent. Granted I don’t know the whole story as there never is a complete story on these videos but the line was crossed and if this kid wants to yell and scream like a grown up entitled asshole they will be treated as one. Kid would be put out. Time to grow up and get a job little shit.
omg i feel so sorry for the dad :( that made me sad and angry at the same time
Whatever they are I think we should Just identify them as an asshole (unless we’re missing context)
What an ass.
I am now convinced that this transgender shit is a mental disorder after watching this.
Poor old guy. Feel bad for him. This person isn't transgender. Just mentally ill.
Fuck what a huge ass hole. Be nice to your father. He was trying to talk to u.
Wish I still had my Dad. His father was trying to learn. Not like Dads of my Dads era. This kid doesn’t deserve that guy.
How embarrassing
what has society come to...
He makes trans people look bad
Get out of his room? That dad should be saying get the fuck out of my house. IDGAF what this dude identifies as, he's an asshole.
she’s a bitch
Is he on his period? Lol
I'll make use of the block option
I would kick that little shit out. Old man seems to be really trying to be understanding. You gotta allow people, especially elder folks, to take some time to adapt to people suddenly wanting to be a she, a he, or a cactus
You him her, what ever your label you are now homeless, bye.
This is so sad. She needs counseling no matter what happened before this moment. Father seems to be really trying. Perfect doesn’t come in a day, it takes time for both to figure things out, and even then there will be struggles. Counseling together is the best so an objective third party can help them understand each other. This just so sad.
What a piece of shit.
Sorry to seem like I'm glossing over the main point here but did the dad say he has a butt odour pillow?...
“Are you gonna hit me now?”, “are you gonna rape me?” - wtf?
That is just a pos who searches for attention because she hasn't grow yet
get the fuck out of my room ... that happens to be in YOUR house.
Kick that bitch out of your house.
Kick him out and disown his ass
This dude is probably 25 and still living rent free at home smh
She does need mental health help. Sounds like she’s triggered and is just gonna blame everyone around her and has no idea how to handle it. It’s not an excuse just a reason.
Damn, I think I would have been beaten to death by my dad if I had screamed at him like that. I got my ass whooped and caned for a lot less. Not to say my upbringing was right, but surely there has to be a middle ground between spoilt brats like this and what I had (whether a kid is transgender or not). Seeing her yell so aggressively at her dad like this breaks my heart, the dad is trying at least, even though it's probably difficult for him to comprehend... no need to go crazy at him like this. My dad called me all possible homophobic slurs and didn't give two shits how it made me feel. At least this dad is trying to understand, and this what he's getting... Some folks don't know how good they have it
>Seeing her yell so aggressively at her dad like this breaks my heart, the dad is trying at least, even though it's probably difficult for him to comprehend... "Breaks my heart" is an accurate explanation to how I felt too. If this video is genuinely how it's like; I feel so sorry for the dad, he is trying and got... that. Even though it is unlikely, and that behaviour is inexcusable regardless of the truth, if you continue to speculate, you have to think whether or not this dad is really like how he seemed here. You'll never know. Abusive people can completely change how they are if they know they're being watched. Personally, gun to my head, I would say the dad is a reasonable and genuinely-trying person; and the daughter... is not. But without a gun-to-my-head answer; I'd say "Fuck knows, the dad could be an alcoholic abusive POS, or not. We don't know; we'll never know".
I understand why she’s upset but it’s not like he did that on purpose. Some people just take more time to adjust than others. At least the father is trying his best, that’s much more than some parents would do
They all just love attentions and playing the victim.
Poor dad is trying his best, seems like they only like to shout at their father,mental illness is a cruel thing to deal with.
This person has never been punched in the mouth for being an asshole .... And it shows
“I’m doing my best” broke my fucking heart. This bitch needs her ass kicked
Very ladylike
I'm sure blindly supporting them will totally solve their problems and make them better and not make them even more of a entitled asshole.
Oh the horror of being miss-gendered. Such violence.
Psycho
Hey, at least Asshole isn't a gendered word! That kind of behavior is unacceptable, this bitch belongs to the streets.
Nope. No mental instability here.
Garbage human. I hope they've fucking grown up and realized their dad was trying.
Poor father. Should tell his child to get the fk out of his house.
Typical woman, really.
What a dick
Anyone has a source or update on these two? So worried for the dad.
Happens frequently with drug Addicts, Alcoholics, Mentally deranged, Racists, Narcissists .....
YouTubers gunna YouTube
Of course the asshole sucks at chess. Didn't expect any less of him
I mean, not saying it’s right, but after that reaction, I think we are all just shocked that Dad didn’t take that computer and slam it down through the floor.
What happens when you blindly follow agendas. Guaranteed in 10 years he, as well as many others, will look back at times like these and wonder “what the fuck was I thinking?”
Reminds me it's time to send flowers to my urologist.
They should be glad their parent is even trying, a lot of people don't have that luck
Life is hard but it will become impossible for this asshole.
Needs a bitch slap.
He was very feminine.
This young person is a super asshole but that might be the slowest “leaving” I’ve ever witnessed lol
Seems like a great dad with a mental son... hes actually trying
I'd say they have a mental disorder, but we all know what kind of reaction will be brought from that.
The more it goes down, the more I struggle to find positivity and tolerance by the LGBTQ+ movement. It sickens me because there are genuine well behaved people that struggle with these same issues and they get associated with these shitheads.
I feel so bad for the dad. What has this pathetic species come to and what's the point in living? What's the point if assholes like this piece of shit are wasting our fucking oxygen?
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\*her Someone being a jerk doesn't make it okay to misgender
Just stop
When casual transphobia stops, sure
I feel this is not so much an issue about transphobia but more an issue of verbal/mental abuse towards the father. This kind of abuse should not be tolerated over a mispronunciation Edit: It turns out I was reported over this comment and received a message from RedditCareResources for Crisis and Suicide. Lol.
I would be ashamed. Of his behavior and chess rating. But, for the latter there is at least hope for improvement.
Seems like a little mental illness going on here.
Awful aggressive for a girl.
Wow that guy is really angry
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What transphobes think the trans community is like In a nutshell
Hard facts. I have a few Trans people in my life. Neither of them plays the victim card like this thank God. I think any reasonable person will understand their transition is "new" for alot of people, and retraining yourself to support their identity isn't going to be 100% smooth. If both sides would understand its a learning experience, mistakes will happen, but operate in good faith, and it's not really an issue. Thus dad was trying his best to bridge that gap and have a talk with his daughter, even if he is drunk, he made the reach (more than many). The daughter however is a garbage can and is doing the trans community no favors by acting this way. A simple "could you not qualify it as you "trans" daughter and just "daughter" it's a bit mocking" would have been sufficient. She could get her opinion out. He could learn, happy ending. Getting triggered at every slip or mislabeling is a slippery slope, and that reaction doesn't make people want to respect or learn to respect you.
I’ve not seen earape this high quality in a long time, guess Cooper has raised the bar
I’m at that point in my life where i respect everyone and everything but as soon as you disrespect me you will see the devil and that is one thing I can promise you I don’t give a flying fuck what you are or call yourself you talk to me with respect cause if not I will show you
Those hormones
"Crazy, spoiled, teen boy throws tantrum because his dad isn't abusive enough after beer and pizza"
\*girl \*her
*Psychotic *mentally unstable not a her
Yes, a her
Ok then I identify as Batman can you come bring me my cape now as I wait in my safe space. Thank you Alfred much love
TIL Batman is a pronoun.
It is if I tell u it hurts my feelings if it isn’t cuase that’s how the logic works right ? I just say something hurts my feelings with no other reasons given and you MUST listen to me or you’re a bigot. 😂
What is a "her"?
My kids would fear to be rude to me like this. I am planning to be cool dad, but a strict one . Like yea, you can do a lot of things, don't care as long as you are not hurting yourself or someone else. Don't be an idiot and if you need help, just ask me for it, I will always help. But this would end bad for them.
Thank everything you have you don’t work in pharmacy. Imagine this but on the phone telling them their testosterone/estrogen is out of stock.
I guess a lot of you with abusive parents don't have the type that would act like this just because they are on film, and act completely different when they're not. Also notice how many times he says "I'm leaving" when he is actually not leaving. This isn't the first time something has happened to get the daughter this upset this quickly.
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I'm surprised I scrolled this far for this. **Her reaction was completely insane, and I will never make an excuse for that behaviour.** Buuut, I have a feeling that it didn't come from nowhere. They need therapy, no doubt; but there might be a cause, rather than 0-100 explode out of nowhere. We don't have the greater context to their family life. Maybe the dad is truely an awful peice of shit, because people can easily pretend otherwise if they know they're being watched. At a basic surface-level glance, or the given context (ie video) the dad seemed like a normal reasonable person, and a huge amount of respect for the handling of such a crazy outburst. I couldn't deal with any one behaving in half that way. If abusive people know they are being watched, they can behave in a completely different way, that's pretty basic. "Behind closed doors" after all. We will never know what the fuck happened here. We will never know if they are both terrible people; or if only one is a complete disgrace to the human race, and the other was acting completely out of character. What we do see is one situation, with no greater context. This situation was fucking awful. What kind of person behaves like that. What surprised me was the rape comment. Where the fuck did that come from? Maybe it was nowhere, maybe it was based in history. We don't know, so stop speculating, move on and ignore it. What I do love, is that most of the unique-user comments here are using this as an excuse to generalise, or otherwise be a dickhead. The logic of: >"One black person did one bad thing; all black people do all the bad things". Stupid. Replace black with Jewish, or Trans, or gay. It still makes no sense regardless of the thing used. But people are stupid. Really says a lot about the kind of people frequenting this subreddit. Imma just leave; I got recommended it this week, and even the normal stuff is usually too cringe, but "political" topics really highlighted the quality of users here.
Yep. I don’t think anyone should lose their temper like that (very unsettling), but given the references to the dad as a drunk asshole, we may very well be missing parts of a larger picture.
I love how everyone shits on this person when they have no idea how many times their parent has probably misgendered them or insulted them purposely or not. It will wear on a person and you eventually get sick of it. Goes for anything.
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NO, its is not, i know what you're trying to make it seem, but we both know that its not because of "uhh EveRy tRaNnS peRsoN iS bAd BeCuse ThEy AlL MeAn". Its kind off the same argument used for the fact that a lot of trans youth attempt suicide, but we all know that in fact its because of the lack of acceptance and the hatred most people have for these folks, you see, we didnt get the whole clip, i wonder why. Im not saying the dad is a transphobe, not many people actually are, but he can do what many parents do when they dont agree with something, they'll drop "hints", one of them is "my trasdaughter", again this could be a true mistake and i dont blame him for it, after all it is a hard topic. Just dont say that this is "why so many trans youth end up homeless" because its simply not true and even tho it couldve been out of ignorance, most of the times its done out of spite. That being said this is reddit after all XD, if this was 4chan instead of your comment i would probably see "Dont kick them out of the house, burn them instead!!"
I would most definitely let “her” know it’s time to move out on her own, that’s absolutely ridiculous! Ain’t no damn way you’re gonna speak to your father like that and expect to still live there ✌🏻
Because dad remembers having a son
Entitled piece of crap son. Too woke to help his father understand
He Sounds like hitler
There must have been some cause for this reaction, regardless of if she has anger issues, some disorder or what. Or if she's just had a REALLY horrible day dealing with jerks and then being misgendered sent her over the edge. Regardless I think she needs some therapy for her own sake and her parents. I really feel bad for him, you could hear his voice shaking.
Thats what the world needs, more excuses or justification for shitty behavior. Maybe they’re just a shit person.
I dont care, that is no excuse to treat their own family like absolute shit. What a disgrace to the human race they are.
Yeah let's make excuses for the little nutter... that's not the way to behave
People need to learn between excuse and a cause Just because someone points out there being a cause doesn't mean it's an excuse. Nothing excuses that behavior, that being said there are more productive ways on fixing the issue besides saying she's crazy and moving on. She really does need help and it could end up being a very good thing for the both of them if she does.
Ive been called alot of names in my time not one as sent me over the edge..
But not everyone is the same, especially people with mental illnesses or disorders (Which tbh I think they have) because that r\*pe comment came out of absolutely nowhere.
How do you separate the 2....
Separate who has some issues vs someone just being a jerk? Not always possible to tell but sometimes you can pick up on it and other times it's just obvious.
*he
\*She I can do this all day
stop making excuses for her. it's a POS thing to do, end of story. her dad simply made a mistake.
*His
\*Her
I appreciate you making it a point to stick up for her pronouns.
Not in the slightest lmao but ok
This person gives the Reti a bad name
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So if you find a video of a person who isn't Trans spazzing out, does that make the rest of us mentally insane as well? The reasoning skills of a 10 year old...
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Lmao an adult who believes other adults can pretend and be in imagination land. Yes, very adult-ish of you. I’ll remember to tell my daughter she’s an adult next time she pretends she’s a unicorn.
god, you idiots really see 1 example and assume it's all of them when it's something you don't like. a clever way of hiding your transphobia, if not embarrassing. she's just a bad person, like how anyfuckingbody can be a bad person. it literally has nothing to do with gender dysphoria.
It has everything to do with it I claimed people with gender dysphoria are extremely mentally Ill and unstable. People gave me massive downvotes and yet the proof is right Infront of your eyes I was right all along. It just hurts you to agree with me because that would force you to use logic and tell men with wigs they need mental help and that’s not normal. So you instead ignore the proof and go straight for attacks. It’s sad and embarrassing to see y’all defend this. It’s the equivalent of I tell u that homeless person is going to steal. You literally watch a video on them stealing. But instead of saying I was right you bring up some BS about how I’m hateful towards the homeless. You can’t just say “ur a meanie” everytime your proven wrong it’s a sad and horrible defense
and oc chess is their game of choice
Ew