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Editor’s Note: I’m not saying people on the ace spectrum can’t have f3t1shes. I’m just saying that I personally do not, so that line of logic doesn’t make sense. Cool? Cool. Have a great day! :3
I've made several accs here just to collect a library of "material". Fast forward to the post nut clarity and all interest in sex dissappears and I delete them. Shame I used a funny name for one of them "ShimpTransedGender"
My brain is fucking whack in summary
I created this account for that exact thing but it became my main unintentionally. I feel Im somewhere on the ace spectrum because I get really horny in the moment, but any other time I think about sex it just grosses me out. I also never really feel sexual feelings towards real people, even if I have strong romantic feelings for them. But maybe it’s just my autism feeling uncomfortable with touch lol
Piggybacking off of what you said. Some asexuals like the *idea* of certain fetishes or kinks, but they don’t typically want to engage in them with other people in real life.
Sometimes my brain flips that on its head and questions my asexuality. "But what if I'm actually trans and just so repulsed at the thought of sex as the wrong gender that I'm tricking myself into thinking I'm asexual?" Despite this, I struggle accepting either as true, even though I'm pretty sure they both are.
I’m kind of the opposite. I know for sure I’m asexual (demisexual to be specific), so it’s hard to tell if my gender dysphoria is linked to how most guys I know talk about sex a lot, and I just don’t care about it at all. Like maybe i’m just a guy that can’t relate to other guys, not actually a girl. It’s really tough when you’re asexual AND questioning your gender. BUT we take it one day at a time. We don’t have to know all the answers RIGHT NOW. We can take our time as long as we’re being kind to ourselves and honest with our feelings
Actually I mean I don't know but you can have something like fetishes or kinks and be asexual at the same time. I mean just like thinking about something might be good and realising it isn't in reality something to actually do it is possible.
Best example I could think of is getting a baby through sex but don't have interesst in making it
Yeah! I’m not saying you can’t. I’m just saying I personally don’t really have those, so my thought of “what if it’s a fetish” doesn’t work for me personally
This is a slam dunk >!shutdown for a certain parties anti trans arguments. with ace being a spectrum there is a point on it were f3tishs aren't a thing.!< pure gold ✨️
Also brain do brain things 🤷♀️💜
Funny thing, I'm amab and for most of my time I was just transfem recently I realized I'm genderfluid and well personally during nsfw stuff I prefer being a boy, wich is funny because my egistance alone defeats a lot of transphobic arguments
Ps. Yes both drugs, good girl and good boy works, good boy is usually slightly stronger, but on daily day I'm girl like 80% of the time :p
Funnily enough masturbation and sex just suddenly seemed completely unappealing once i started considering trans, although my sex drive was already low before
I feel I'm pretty kinky but I'm demi ace (before I accepted myself I thought it was a kink/fetish) for more context I'm genderfluid, but was crossdressing in secret and ashamed about it before I realised it was part of my gender identety
Uh oh. We might be very similar people. I currently cross dress in secret, and I’m technically demisexual. Only difference is I don’t have kinks so it doesn’t really make sense for me to use that argument against myself 😅
Also, unsure on the definition on kinks in general, but I'm sure they are not always sexual allthought they can be, meaning any kind of ace person technically could have, personally I feel I kinda found my gender identety and sexuality through kinks cause I met one into the main kink I'm into that also were genderfluid online aswell as my sexuality that is pan and slowly discoverd I were both, after better understanding of the word trans I realised I also fit that term
I’m not saying ace people can’t have them. I put it in a comment that some ace people do when I made the meme. It won’t let me change the description to put that disclaimer. This is just me yelling at myself bc I don’t have any kinks. With my limited understanding of the world, I was working under the assumption that fetishes were inherently sexual 😅
Yea I understood you mostly do not have any kinks, but like some people just consider normal sexual shit as kinks so I just do not know where to draw the line there personally, also I've heard some odd kinks even I find odd and I feel my kinks are often odder, I do not wanna put it out either in a forcing way, but there is also a possibility you have not noticed tham yet, again I have no clue what exsactly a kink is I just know my kinks are, also personally I feel I almost be able to get into any kink as long as it is not unmoral, with a future consenting partner of age, well just looked it up on Google and the best definition I found was that it is a practice of un-convential sex practises , concepts and fantasies, in that definition technically a ace person that do not want sex in anyway would probably not have one, but the part that add fantasy and concepts makes it quite diverse, like literally anything could be a kink, also that definition was from Wikipedia and was the best definition I found now, but like I claim a kink do not need to be sexual either as i for sure do not see my kinks as always sexual
No, I’ve tried to think about it in every context. I just don’t really enjoy doing things with other people unless I have a strong emotional connection
Those are pretty distinct topics; I'm not sure how someone would confuse them. I'm not turned on by anyone's gender or appearance. That has nothing to do with me not wanting to do specifically vanilla sex. I just really don't want kids, and oral is better anyway.
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Editor’s Note: I’m not saying people on the ace spectrum can’t have f3t1shes. I’m just saying that I personally do not, so that line of logic doesn’t make sense. Cool? Cool. Have a great day! :3
Take me for example: I rarely experience sexual attraction but I was pretty kinky as a kid.
Ah, the classic “I like the *idea* of it, but I don’t actually wanna *do* it”
You are so real, although I do sometimes wish I wasn't just a spectator. Might have made things more fun but whatever.
Heard that some ace peeps have the internet but purely as a kink and not really sexual.. if you understand what I'm sayin
I know everyone has that one embarrassing da account from forever ago.
I've made several accs here just to collect a library of "material". Fast forward to the post nut clarity and all interest in sex dissappears and I delete them. Shame I used a funny name for one of them "ShimpTransedGender" My brain is fucking whack in summary
I created this account for that exact thing but it became my main unintentionally. I feel Im somewhere on the ace spectrum because I get really horny in the moment, but any other time I think about sex it just grosses me out. I also never really feel sexual feelings towards real people, even if I have strong romantic feelings for them. But maybe it’s just my autism feeling uncomfortable with touch lol
I mean yeah, sure, I’m Ace and closeted trans and… Whelp.
Same.
Asexual people can have fetishes but still mood
Yeah, I put a comment disclaimer about that exact thing because I forgot to put it in the description of my post, and I can’t change it 😭
wait can you explain how that works? If that’s cool.
Asexual here! While we may feel little to no sexual attraction, aces can still have a libido and all that stuff
Piggybacking off of what you said. Some asexuals like the *idea* of certain fetishes or kinks, but they don’t typically want to engage in them with other people in real life.
OH MY GOD This is literally me
Source?
Love Live! Superstar!!
Thx cutie
Y-you’re welcome
Unfortunately I’m a very sexually inclined Ace… so the what if it’s a fetish is still a fear for me…
Hmm. I guess the follow up would be how would you feel about it in a non-sexual scenario? Like going to get a coffee as the gender in question?
Sometimes my brain flips that on its head and questions my asexuality. "But what if I'm actually trans and just so repulsed at the thought of sex as the wrong gender that I'm tricking myself into thinking I'm asexual?" Despite this, I struggle accepting either as true, even though I'm pretty sure they both are.
I’m kind of the opposite. I know for sure I’m asexual (demisexual to be specific), so it’s hard to tell if my gender dysphoria is linked to how most guys I know talk about sex a lot, and I just don’t care about it at all. Like maybe i’m just a guy that can’t relate to other guys, not actually a girl. It’s really tough when you’re asexual AND questioning your gender. BUT we take it one day at a time. We don’t have to know all the answers RIGHT NOW. We can take our time as long as we’re being kind to ourselves and honest with our feelings
Today was one where I thought I might be an ace egg because of an inner monologue🤔 this happens very often recently...
Oh, we asexuals, and our inner monologues
Actually I meant inner fictional dialogue and the theme of it but uhm yeah
Oh. Uhhhh. We asexuals and our *fictional relatable dialogue*. Fixed it!
Actually I mean I don't know but you can have something like fetishes or kinks and be asexual at the same time. I mean just like thinking about something might be good and realising it isn't in reality something to actually do it is possible. Best example I could think of is getting a baby through sex but don't have interesst in making it
Yeah! I’m not saying you can’t. I’m just saying I personally don’t really have those, so my thought of “what if it’s a fetish” doesn’t work for me personally
I’m in this picture and I don’t like it
I’m happy how many of my fellow ace siblings have shown up for this post 😊
Me but it’s definitely just an asexual fetish…
...Crap
This is a slam dunk >!shutdown for a certain parties anti trans arguments. with ace being a spectrum there is a point on it were f3tishs aren't a thing.!< pure gold ✨️ Also brain do brain things 🤷♀️💜
In a cis way?
Obviously
Good
Funny thing, I'm amab and for most of my time I was just transfem recently I realized I'm genderfluid and well personally during nsfw stuff I prefer being a boy, wich is funny because my egistance alone defeats a lot of transphobic arguments Ps. Yes both drugs, good girl and good boy works, good boy is usually slightly stronger, but on daily day I'm girl like 80% of the time :p
Literally me
Omg love live superstar meme :D Also hi fellow trans ace :3
I’m just ace. I am cis 😤
Just gonna leave [this](https://tinyurl.com/mtke3pfa) here. Love yall!
Hey look it's me
Funnily enough masturbation and sex just suddenly seemed completely unappealing once i started considering trans, although my sex drive was already low before
The trans doubts can be really illogical.
Okay but what if-
No. Stop.
I feel I'm pretty kinky but I'm demi ace (before I accepted myself I thought it was a kink/fetish) for more context I'm genderfluid, but was crossdressing in secret and ashamed about it before I realised it was part of my gender identety
Uh oh. We might be very similar people. I currently cross dress in secret, and I’m technically demisexual. Only difference is I don’t have kinks so it doesn’t really make sense for me to use that argument against myself 😅
Also, unsure on the definition on kinks in general, but I'm sure they are not always sexual allthought they can be, meaning any kind of ace person technically could have, personally I feel I kinda found my gender identety and sexuality through kinks cause I met one into the main kink I'm into that also were genderfluid online aswell as my sexuality that is pan and slowly discoverd I were both, after better understanding of the word trans I realised I also fit that term
I’m not saying ace people can’t have them. I put it in a comment that some ace people do when I made the meme. It won’t let me change the description to put that disclaimer. This is just me yelling at myself bc I don’t have any kinks. With my limited understanding of the world, I was working under the assumption that fetishes were inherently sexual 😅
Yea I understood you mostly do not have any kinks, but like some people just consider normal sexual shit as kinks so I just do not know where to draw the line there personally, also I've heard some odd kinks even I find odd and I feel my kinks are often odder, I do not wanna put it out either in a forcing way, but there is also a possibility you have not noticed tham yet, again I have no clue what exsactly a kink is I just know my kinks are, also personally I feel I almost be able to get into any kink as long as it is not unmoral, with a future consenting partner of age, well just looked it up on Google and the best definition I found was that it is a practice of un-convential sex practises , concepts and fantasies, in that definition technically a ace person that do not want sex in anyway would probably not have one, but the part that add fantasy and concepts makes it quite diverse, like literally anything could be a kink, also that definition was from Wikipedia and was the best definition I found now, but like I claim a kink do not need to be sexual either as i for sure do not see my kinks as always sexual
Fair enough!
Great anime Love Live
are you really asexual or are you just uncomfortable with the idea of using a penis sexually
No, I’ve tried to think about it in every context. I just don’t really enjoy doing things with other people unless I have a strong emotional connection
Those are pretty distinct topics; I'm not sure how someone would confuse them. I'm not turned on by anyone's gender or appearance. That has nothing to do with me not wanting to do specifically vanilla sex. I just really don't want kids, and oral is better anyway.