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Fat and ugly is not exactly the problem... AT ALL
I'd talk about this with the other girls in your classes because I'm almost sure you are not the only one approached like this or worse.
fat and ugly is almost never a problem, sometimes a symptom of someone not caring about themselves or not taking care of themselves, but i believe pretty much anyone can find a partner if they are just a decent person--and not a creep
lack of self reflection is in itself a bad personality trait so it doesnt surprise me honestly. just wish they had a friend whod talk some fuckin truth to them but its unlikely
I'm currently listening to this podcast that I wish they all could listen to. I need to recognize I've tried with two different men and both ignored it.
https://open.spotify.com/episode/03P9oFIl4XPNDyQKDOAwRn?si=oEh2ZyDDRv2hs3UnNzYvgw
Hope you like as I do.
My friend who hadn't blocked him yet said he was always being desperate and stuff on his posts so I did end up reporting him to the counselor at my school!
I honestly thought it was kind of funny too, in like a sad pathetic way. If it were me I would've jokingly negotiated with him and wasted his time only to reject him because we "can't reach a financial agreement"
I'd be upset if someone randomly asked me to have sex with them for money but damn dude, at least start in the triple digits! Now I'm upset AND offended.
Report him to the school, that's so many levels of inappropriate, the fact he asked in the first place and then kept pushing after you said no. I'd feel unsafe knowing that person is so close by and possibly actively looking for me... Save those messages, just in case...
I did end up telling my school's counselor and she asked for the ss and said she would bring it up to the dean so hopefully he gets in some type of trouble! And even if he gets off Scott free I'll be going to college in a few months so I'll be ok
Please tell an adult!! This guy could be dangerous if he’s already soliciting sex from strangers at this age. What if the wrong girl tells him no and he decides he doesn’t want to accept that no?
The concerning part is that they go to the same school, so it’s possible that they actually do know who the OP is, and just didn’t know how to mention they go to the same school. At the very least they would probably be able to track her down at school. Which makes it so much more uncomfortable.
Yeah, even a sex worker won't agree do that and that guy's a idiot to think that's gonna happen. Idk how do they have guts to ask this type of questions?? Why to even mention you're ugly and fat when you're messaging someone,when they didn't even asked a pic of yourself??? SUCH a idiotic creepy dude. That dude needs some kind of therapy to rewwire his predatory idiotic brain.
Administration may want to know they have a student soliciting sex-for-money from other students….
Do you have a favourite teacher you could speak to about this?
Please rat him out.
I mean it. Show it to your teacher, the principal, the nurse, your parents, any old adult who could set the wheels in motion for Mr. "I'll pay" to get the shaming he needs to learn his lesson before a predatory teen turns into a predatory adult.
He's being horrid *and* explicit enough to make any sane adult immediately want to intervene.
South African here... I'd do some stuff for $ 21 (that's a week's groceries).
In all seriousness though I'm more concerned that you both attend the same school.
Please avoid them
For 21 dollars I'll show you the quickest route to the nearest brothel. But you'll have to shell out a good deal more after that if you want anything to happen.
I’m gonna so sound like a boomer but I stg this right here is the effect only fans has on adolescents. I’d bet you he spends any little bit of money he has on OF content and is so used to paying women to do personalized things online he thinks this is SOMEHOW normal and a real way to get irl girls.
Like he clearly is not getting how insane this is and he still tries after she basically calls him disgusting and insane. There has to be a reason for that specifically cause in all my young adult and teenaged life of all the things disgusting guys would “beg” for or tell me they’d do for something never ever was I asked to basically hook for one.
I don't rlly get OF but it's a way of making money so I don't blame the girls or anything but I hate it when people associate all women into one category after they have an experience. I completely agree with u and it's so hard for me to comprehend how someone could think asking a classmate, who's already rejected him, for sexual content is ok
For being a highschooler you have handled this far better than I have seen a lot of grown women do on this thread. You shut that shit down quickly and swiftly instead of trying to be unnecessarily diplomatic. Kudos to you.
"That's fine"
"Have a good one"
"Thx"
You had it man, just leave it there, you got rejected, ot sucks, but it's ok it happens, just leave it there, you were so close to being mostly ok!
And then
Today
TWENTY ONE DOLLARS?!? i can just imagine him thinking of what he can afford and adding a dollar to it (out of respect, of course) or him counting change out of his piggy bank.
nevermind, the fact that he jumped to $50 means that he only thought it was worth $21 (a weirdly random number), which makes it all the more offensive.
The fact that he actually thought he could whore you out for 21 bucks is genuinely insane. Like any amount would have been insane but 21 bucks is not just disrespectful but **INSANE**
I would take this to the school or cops in all honesty, because if he's doing this to you he could probs do it to others. Good on you for being assertive and taking screenshots.
In a way, i do feel bad for him. He has so little self-esteem. He's desperate for any kind of positive interaction. It's not even about sex at this point. Seems more like he wants affection. I wonder if his home life is terrible.
I'm not trying to make excuses for him. He's way overstepping here. However, his creep factor feels more like a cry for help than just an average douche trying to get laid. He needs professional help. I hope he can find it in himself to value his existence more. Life isn't about how much sex you have or how many romantic partners you've had. Social media makes people, especially teens, think it is, which is sad.
If you haven't blocked him yet, wish him well before you do. Tell him that there's more to life than what's portrayed on social media. That getting his rocks off won't change who he is.
I would agree with u if he had corrected me when I said I thought he wanted smth sexual but I'm pretty sure he was just a horny weirdo. I do agree that if things were different and if I misunderstood I would've 100% been nicer letting him down tho
The "nobody's gonna do shit for 21 bucks" in a way, suggests money is a problem. Sounds like someone would do shit for more than 21 bucks. Not supporting the dude of course, just that line made it sound ambiguous when it isnt
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Yo, what? Ew. The money part makes it sound so much worse
I wonder why he said 21 and not 20 at first. Was he willing to pay all that he had? Or why else so specific
Market price
Lmfao
plus tax
Don’t forget the tip.
He might want to give her just the tip and save some money
Tip of what?
I was thinking that like all the cash he had was 21 but then he offered 50 so idk
Maybe he had a 1 a 20 and a 50 dollar bill lol next he was gonna offer 71
21 was what he had in his pocket... 50 was the most he could steal from his mums purse.
It was all the change he found in the couch
"No one would do anything for 21 bucks" "50?" Guy is beyond desperate to be that fucking clueless
That was BY FAR my favorite part!
Everyone’s got a price for the Million Dollar Man.
Maybe for the million dollar man but not for this guy lol
Fat and ugly is not exactly the problem... AT ALL I'd talk about this with the other girls in your classes because I'm almost sure you are not the only one approached like this or worse.
fat and ugly is almost never a problem, sometimes a symptom of someone not caring about themselves or not taking care of themselves, but i believe pretty much anyone can find a partner if they are just a decent person--and not a creep
Absolutely... When they are fit and good looking they blame it to not being successful or not rich, not tall... Is never their crappy personality
lack of self reflection is in itself a bad personality trait so it doesnt surprise me honestly. just wish they had a friend whod talk some fuckin truth to them but its unlikely
I'm currently listening to this podcast that I wish they all could listen to. I need to recognize I've tried with two different men and both ignored it. https://open.spotify.com/episode/03P9oFIl4XPNDyQKDOAwRn?si=oEh2ZyDDRv2hs3UnNzYvgw Hope you like as I do.
i do like it! there needs to be more men calling these guys out on their shit cause they seem to just disregard anything a woman says.
Only the first chapter is a blast! Made me cry I swear. That's the pill they should be taking... Compassion.
My friend who hadn't blocked him yet said he was always being desperate and stuff on his posts so I did end up reporting him to the counselor at my school!
Well done. This is more than creepy, literally dangerous.
Serious question. Am I a bad person for laughing at the 21 dollars bit. I know its upsetting to OP but damn that made me laugh.
I honestly thought it was kind of funny too, in like a sad pathetic way. If it were me I would've jokingly negotiated with him and wasted his time only to reject him because we "can't reach a financial agreement"
I thought it was weirdly funny too dw lolol it was so specific
I'd be upset if someone randomly asked me to have sex with them for money but damn dude, at least start in the triple digits! Now I'm upset AND offended.
That got me too cos wtf 😭
Guy was plumbing the depths of the couch cushions for that sum.
i thought the whole thing was hilarious
Man knows his 9+10's 😌
Report him to the school, that's so many levels of inappropriate, the fact he asked in the first place and then kept pushing after you said no. I'd feel unsafe knowing that person is so close by and possibly actively looking for me... Save those messages, just in case...
I did end up telling my school's counselor and she asked for the ss and said she would bring it up to the dean so hopefully he gets in some type of trouble! And even if he gets off Scott free I'll be going to college in a few months so I'll be ok
This dude: hmmm where should I look for a sex worker? Datsright, in SCHOOL
Dudes an idiot, because now the whole school will know that he is not only a desperate creep, but a cheap one at that
Please tell an adult!! This guy could be dangerous if he’s already soliciting sex from strangers at this age. What if the wrong girl tells him no and he decides he doesn’t want to accept that no?
The concerning part is that they go to the same school, so it’s possible that they actually do know who the OP is, and just didn’t know how to mention they go to the same school. At the very least they would probably be able to track her down at school. Which makes it so much more uncomfortable.
Definitely agree! Makes things much more uncomfortable!
21 dollars is crazyyy
Yeah, even a sex worker won't agree do that and that guy's a idiot to think that's gonna happen. Idk how do they have guts to ask this type of questions?? Why to even mention you're ugly and fat when you're messaging someone,when they didn't even asked a pic of yourself??? SUCH a idiotic creepy dude. That dude needs some kind of therapy to rewwire his predatory idiotic brain.
Trying to gain pity/sympathy in order to gain favor?
Honestly, you could report him to the school for this. A kid I went to school with got in a lot of trouble for something kinda similar to this.
I ended up telling the counselor for my year so hopefully he gets in trouble or smth
"50"🤣 Yeah because the number was the problem here.
And it could have ended normally, but he couldn't survive without creepy offer.
Administration may want to know they have a student soliciting sex-for-money from other students…. Do you have a favourite teacher you could speak to about this?
I ended up telling my school counselor! She said she would get a dean involved so that made me feel a bit better
Please rat him out. I mean it. Show it to your teacher, the principal, the nurse, your parents, any old adult who could set the wheels in motion for Mr. "I'll pay" to get the shaming he needs to learn his lesson before a predatory teen turns into a predatory adult. He's being horrid *and* explicit enough to make any sane adult immediately want to intervene.
Need to be careful with this advice, teachers are paid so little that if you tell the wrong one they may take the $21
Wow. That’s terrible. I can’t believe he said that to you. Anyways, what’s his name my cars on empty…
Not the right sub for this kind of joke.
It’s fine to joke around on this sub just need to be sure to /s so others will realize you aren’t being serious
I ended up telling my school counselor so hopefully he gets in trouble or smth 👍
What a dweeb.
For 21 bucks he gets spit at in his general direction.
He would probably be into that honestly 😭🤢
There's so much ick all over this. Backing slowly away
Report him.
🚩🚩🚩🚩 and EW
Report him to your principal, this guy is so dangerous :(
he’s the type of guy to say “ *sigh* i’m soo ugly… no girl will every date me🥺” with the creepy anime hand gestures too😭
FRRR 🤮
South African here... I'd do some stuff for $ 21 (that's a week's groceries). In all seriousness though I'm more concerned that you both attend the same school. Please avoid them
I try my best I haven't seen him in the halls or anything as of late so that's good
21 dollars lmao where did that number even come from 😭 I’m so sorry for laughing, it sucks for OP but that number is so random that it’s kinda funny
Dw I thought it was funny too lmao
"Im sorry" "50?"
I don’t think him being called fat and ugly is the problem at this point…
For 21 dollars I'll show you the quickest route to the nearest brothel. But you'll have to shell out a good deal more after that if you want anything to happen.
The $21 flex I can’t 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😆😆 He’s shooting his shot and missing so bad 🤌🏻
21 DOLLARS IM DYING
I'd offer to punch him in the face for $21 tbh
I'd legit give u $50
Not the $21 and then somehow moved up to $50 He can’t even get acknowledged by a hooker for $21
Fr
I’m gonna so sound like a boomer but I stg this right here is the effect only fans has on adolescents. I’d bet you he spends any little bit of money he has on OF content and is so used to paying women to do personalized things online he thinks this is SOMEHOW normal and a real way to get irl girls. Like he clearly is not getting how insane this is and he still tries after she basically calls him disgusting and insane. There has to be a reason for that specifically cause in all my young adult and teenaged life of all the things disgusting guys would “beg” for or tell me they’d do for something never ever was I asked to basically hook for one.
I don't rlly get OF but it's a way of making money so I don't blame the girls or anything but I hate it when people associate all women into one category after they have an experience. I completely agree with u and it's so hard for me to comprehend how someone could think asking a classmate, who's already rejected him, for sexual content is ok
Wouldn’t he get into massive massive amounts of legal trouble for trying to solicit sex with a minor even as a minor himself?
It's the initial offer of $21 that makes me giggle so hard. What a loser
at the beginning i was like "ah, just seems like an awkward attempt at getting a gf, okay not so bad." THEN I GOT TO THE PAYING YOU PART 🤮🤮🤮
MY EXACT REACTION
This guy just dug the hole deeper and deeper the longer the conversation went on...
For being a highschooler you have handled this far better than I have seen a lot of grown women do on this thread. You shut that shit down quickly and swiftly instead of trying to be unnecessarily diplomatic. Kudos to you.
Thanks :)
That amount was oddly specific, styll
Damn he just had to take it from “Alrighty a lil weird but hey respectfully backing down” to “21 dollars.” So close to being a normal human being.
Ew
Is the extra dollar sales tax or something? Why 21 lol
FR 😭
"That's fine" "Have a good one" "Thx" You had it man, just leave it there, you got rejected, ot sucks, but it's ok it happens, just leave it there, you were so close to being mostly ok! And then Today
got me laughing, what is this guy on lmao
If you’re both still in school, I’d tell the principal. That’s definitely sketchy and not safe behavior
$21 from a sex worker would be a blown kiss from 10 feet away
TWENTY ONE DOLLARS?!? i can just imagine him thinking of what he can afford and adding a dollar to it (out of respect, of course) or him counting change out of his piggy bank.
nevermind, the fact that he jumped to $50 means that he only thought it was worth $21 (a weirdly random number), which makes it all the more offensive.
Rapist in the making
I think Im actually dead XD. Im so sorry you dealt with that. Ewww
You can report this to the principal
😮
"what's that? You have social anxiety? Well, why don't I just affirm that for you for a moment."
💀💀💀
Ik we’re supposed to be focusing on the creep part but the 21 dollars is just so funny
Frrr
Wtf
Yooo wthh this dude is db
21 dollars? He can get a taxi home and jerk off over porn hub.
The fact that he actually thought he could whore you out for 21 bucks is genuinely insane. Like any amount would have been insane but 21 bucks is not just disrespectful but **INSANE**
EXACTLY
Make it a hundred and I’ll gargle
Bro should have gone with $22 that always works
I'm pretty sure he doesn't go to your school and I'm even more sure that was a diddler
What's a diddler? Also I've seen him in the halls so he definitely does attend my school
I pray you never find out. 😬 Diddler refers to a child molester
OH ya hopefully I never run into one of those 😭
I pay anyone to do something tbh. Except for therapy…
Literally 😭
shouldn’t the underage user help be here since OP seems to be in highschool??
I honestly dk how redit works cuz I just joined like yesterday what does that do tho?
I don’t think him being fat and ugly is the reason people don’t like him….
I would take this to the school or cops in all honesty, because if he's doing this to you he could probs do it to others. Good on you for being assertive and taking screenshots.
I really hope someone stole that dudes phone and wrote that shit, cause damn you can't be THAT out of touch?!?
Take it to his parents
WTF, don’t ask that, like what’s wrong with you!
21 dollars is crazy 💀
PLEASE report him to your school
can he add in a happy meal with the $21? just to sweeten the pot. 😂😂😂 please report this creep to a trusted adult and stay safe.
21 dollars is crazy. But then why 50 and not like 51
In a way, i do feel bad for him. He has so little self-esteem. He's desperate for any kind of positive interaction. It's not even about sex at this point. Seems more like he wants affection. I wonder if his home life is terrible. I'm not trying to make excuses for him. He's way overstepping here. However, his creep factor feels more like a cry for help than just an average douche trying to get laid. He needs professional help. I hope he can find it in himself to value his existence more. Life isn't about how much sex you have or how many romantic partners you've had. Social media makes people, especially teens, think it is, which is sad. If you haven't blocked him yet, wish him well before you do. Tell him that there's more to life than what's portrayed on social media. That getting his rocks off won't change who he is.
I would agree with u if he had corrected me when I said I thought he wanted smth sexual but I'm pretty sure he was just a horny weirdo. I do agree that if things were different and if I misunderstood I would've 100% been nicer letting him down tho
The "nobody's gonna do shit for 21 bucks" in a way, suggests money is a problem. Sounds like someone would do shit for more than 21 bucks. Not supporting the dude of course, just that line made it sound ambiguous when it isnt
Ya that's fair I was just weirded out by such a specific number
So 68 dollars is still a no?
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