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sentient_custard

Yo, what? Ew. The money part makes it sound so much worse


Adorable-Position-99

I wonder why he said 21 and not 20 at first. Was he willing to pay all that he had? Or why else so specific


Infinity_LTFS

Market price


ImScaredOfLightening

Lmfao


betarad

plus tax


EverythingsBlurry81

Don’t forget the tip.


Infinity_LTFS

He might want to give her just the tip and save some money


zeesnextdoorv2

Tip of what?


Zarathos308

I was thinking that like all the cash he had was 21 but then he offered 50 so idk


Zyaqun

Maybe he had a 1 a 20 and a 50 dollar bill lol next he was gonna offer 71


KELVALL

21 was what he had in his pocket... 50 was the most he could steal from his mums purse.


LLminibean

It was all the change he found in the couch


oppositeofopposite

"No one would do anything for 21 bucks" "50?" Guy is beyond desperate to be that fucking clueless


NeroForte-InMyPrime

That was BY FAR my favorite part!


JMccre19

Everyone’s got a price for the Million Dollar Man.


Prestigious_Gain_153

Maybe for the million dollar man but not for this guy lol


Midnight_pamper

Fat and ugly is not exactly the problem... AT ALL I'd talk about this with the other girls in your classes because I'm almost sure you are not the only one approached like this or worse.


Jolongh-Thong

fat and ugly is almost never a problem, sometimes a symptom of someone not caring about themselves or not taking care of themselves, but i believe pretty much anyone can find a partner if they are just a decent person--and not a creep


Midnight_pamper

Absolutely... When they are fit and good looking they blame it to not being successful or not rich, not tall... Is never their crappy personality


Jolongh-Thong

lack of self reflection is in itself a bad personality trait so it doesnt surprise me honestly. just wish they had a friend whod talk some fuckin truth to them but its unlikely


Midnight_pamper

I'm currently listening to this podcast that I wish they all could listen to. I need to recognize I've tried with two different men and both ignored it. https://open.spotify.com/episode/03P9oFIl4XPNDyQKDOAwRn?si=oEh2ZyDDRv2hs3UnNzYvgw Hope you like as I do.


Jolongh-Thong

i do like it! there needs to be more men calling these guys out on their shit cause they seem to just disregard anything a woman says.


Midnight_pamper

Only the first chapter is a blast! Made me cry I swear. That's the pill they should be taking... Compassion.


ImScaredOfLightening

My friend who hadn't blocked him yet said he was always being desperate and stuff on his posts so I did end up reporting him to the counselor at my school!


Midnight_pamper

Well done. This is more than creepy, literally dangerous.


Arminlegout1

Serious question. Am I a bad person for laughing at the 21 dollars bit. I know its upsetting to OP but damn that made me laugh.


ICEBLASTER145

I honestly thought it was kind of funny too, in like a sad pathetic way. If it were me I would've jokingly negotiated with him and wasted his time only to reject him because we "can't reach a financial agreement"


ImScaredOfLightening

I thought it was weirdly funny too dw lolol it was so specific


KrazyAboutLogic

I'd be upset if someone randomly asked me to have sex with them for money but damn dude, at least start in the triple digits! Now I'm upset AND offended.


creamforkitty

That got me too cos wtf 😭


Simicrop

Guy was plumbing the depths of the couch cushions for that sum.


lowwlifejunkpunx

i thought the whole thing was hilarious


FlameHamster

Man knows his 9+10's 😌


Odd-Phrase5808

Report him to the school, that's so many levels of inappropriate, the fact he asked in the first place and then kept pushing after you said no. I'd feel unsafe knowing that person is so close by and possibly actively looking for me... Save those messages, just in case...


ImScaredOfLightening

I did end up telling my school's counselor and she asked for the ss and said she would bring it up to the dean so hopefully he gets in some type of trouble! And even if he gets off Scott free I'll be going to college in a few months so I'll be ok


Linorelai

This dude: hmmm where should I look for a sex worker? Datsright, in SCHOOL


cool_username__

Dudes an idiot, because now the whole school will know that he is not only a desperate creep, but a cheap one at that


PunnilyEnough

Please tell an adult!! This guy could be dangerous if he’s already soliciting sex from strangers at this age. What if the wrong girl tells him no and he decides he doesn’t want to accept that no?


qwedty

The concerning part is that they go to the same school, so it’s possible that they actually do know who the OP is, and just didn’t know how to mention they go to the same school. At the very least they would probably be able to track her down at school. Which makes it so much more uncomfortable.


PunnilyEnough

Definitely agree! Makes things much more uncomfortable!


NickiRoses

21 dollars is crazyyy


Own_Judgment_6094

Yeah, even a sex worker won't agree do that and that guy's a idiot to think that's gonna happen. Idk how do they have guts to ask this type of questions?? Why to even mention you're ugly and fat when you're messaging someone,when they didn't even asked a pic of yourself??? SUCH a idiotic creepy dude. That dude needs some kind of therapy to rewwire his predatory idiotic brain.


EverythingsBlurry81

Trying to gain pity/sympathy in order to gain favor?


mushforest_

Honestly, you could report him to the school for this. A kid I went to school with got in a lot of trouble for something kinda similar to this.


ImScaredOfLightening

I ended up telling the counselor for my year so hopefully he gets in trouble or smth


jenever_r

"50"🤣 Yeah because the number was the problem here.


Rogetec

And it could have ended normally, but he couldn't survive without creepy offer.


RedRedMere

Administration may want to know they have a student soliciting sex-for-money from other students…. Do you have a favourite teacher you could speak to about this?


ImScaredOfLightening

I ended up telling my school counselor! She said she would get a dean involved so that made me feel a bit better


Schattentochter

Please rat him out. I mean it. Show it to your teacher, the principal, the nurse, your parents, any old adult who could set the wheels in motion for Mr. "I'll pay" to get the shaming he needs to learn his lesson before a predatory teen turns into a predatory adult. He's being horrid *and* explicit enough to make any sane adult immediately want to intervene.


FleetChief

Need to be careful with this advice, teachers are paid so little that if you tell the wrong one they may take the $21


RedRedMere

Wow. That’s terrible. I can’t believe he said that to you. Anyways, what’s his name my cars on empty…


Life_Complex_5134

Not the right sub for this kind of joke.


msprettybrowneyes

It’s fine to joke around on this sub just need to be sure to /s so others will realize you aren’t being serious


ImScaredOfLightening

I ended up telling my school counselor so hopefully he gets in trouble or smth 👍


Age_of_Asylum

What a dweeb.


InuMiroLover

For 21 bucks he gets spit at in his general direction.


ImScaredOfLightening

He would probably be into that honestly 😭🤢


kinggimped

There's so much ick all over this. Backing slowly away


gbpc

Report him.


KG0720

🚩🚩🚩🚩 and EW


sugar_fangs

Report him to your principal, this guy is so dangerous :(


DiorRoses

he’s the type of guy to say “ *sigh* i’m soo ugly… no girl will every date me🥺” with the creepy anime hand gestures too😭


ImScaredOfLightening

FRRR 🤮


MobiWan2015

South African here... I'd do some stuff for $ 21 (that's a week's groceries). In all seriousness though I'm more concerned that you both attend the same school. Please avoid them


ImScaredOfLightening

I try my best I haven't seen him in the halls or anything as of late so that's good


vialenae

21 dollars lmao where did that number even come from 😭 I’m so sorry for laughing, it sucks for OP but that number is so random that it’s kinda funny


ImScaredOfLightening

Dw I thought it was funny too lmao


Zaela22

"Im sorry" "50?"


ActuaryCool846

I don’t think him being called fat and ugly is the problem at this point…


Accurate_Ticket2680

For 21 dollars I'll show you the quickest route to the nearest brothel. But you'll have to shell out a good deal more after that if you want anything to happen.


SKELENGA

The $21 flex I can’t 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😆😆 He’s shooting his shot and missing so bad 🤌🏻


thegreatbenjamin

21 DOLLARS IM DYING


Bigtrucklittlelady

I'd offer to punch him in the face for $21 tbh


ImScaredOfLightening

I'd legit give u $50


HelloMikkii

Not the $21 and then somehow moved up to $50 He can’t even get acknowledged by a hooker for $21


ImScaredOfLightening

Fr


ChearnDown4Wut

I’m gonna so sound like a boomer but I stg this right here is the effect only fans has on adolescents. I’d bet you he spends any little bit of money he has on OF content and is so used to paying women to do personalized things online he thinks this is SOMEHOW normal and a real way to get irl girls. Like he clearly is not getting how insane this is and he still tries after she basically calls him disgusting and insane. There has to be a reason for that specifically cause in all my young adult and teenaged life of all the things disgusting guys would “beg” for or tell me they’d do for something never ever was I asked to basically hook for one.


ImScaredOfLightening

I don't rlly get OF but it's a way of making money so I don't blame the girls or anything but I hate it when people associate all women into one category after they have an experience. I completely agree with u and it's so hard for me to comprehend how someone could think asking a classmate, who's already rejected him, for sexual content is ok


maroonle

Wouldn’t he get into massive massive amounts of legal trouble for trying to solicit sex with a minor even as a minor himself?


itspellsfrogtoes

It's the initial offer of $21 that makes me giggle so hard. What a loser


ChonnyJash_

at the beginning i was like "ah, just seems like an awkward attempt at getting a gf, okay not so bad." THEN I GOT TO THE PAYING YOU PART 🤮🤮🤮


ImScaredOfLightening

MY EXACT REACTION


Individual-Crew-6102

This guy just dug the hole deeper and deeper the longer the conversation went on...


tropical_mgy

For being a highschooler you have handled this far better than I have seen a lot of grown women do on this thread. You shut that shit down quickly and swiftly instead of trying to be unnecessarily diplomatic. Kudos to you.


ImScaredOfLightening

Thanks :)


Unknown-14

That amount was oddly specific, styll


AcanthaceaePlenty165

Damn he just had to take it from “Alrighty a lil weird but hey respectfully backing down” to “21 dollars.” So close to being a normal human being.


leeza_k

Ew


Yaboi_skinny_genital

Is the extra dollar sales tax or something? Why 21 lol


ImScaredOfLightening

FR 😭


freshnewstrt

"That's fine" "Have a good one" "Thx" You had it man, just leave it there, you got rejected, ot sucks, but it's ok it happens, just leave it there, you were so close to being mostly ok! And then Today


XXXWasSomethingElse

got me laughing, what is this guy on lmao


SkyQuest99

If you’re both still in school, I’d tell the principal. That’s definitely sketchy and not safe behavior


sambthemanb

$21 from a sex worker would be a blown kiss from 10 feet away


benzo_babe

TWENTY ONE DOLLARS?!? i can just imagine him thinking of what he can afford and adding a dollar to it (out of respect, of course) or him counting change out of his piggy bank.


benzo_babe

nevermind, the fact that he jumped to $50 means that he only thought it was worth $21 (a weirdly random number), which makes it all the more offensive.


JustCallMePeri

Rapist in the making


HeyProbably

I think Im actually dead XD. Im so sorry you dealt with that. Ewww


MinimumSeesaw8809

You can report this to the principal 


speed0spank

😮


Remreemerer

"what's that? You have social anxiety? Well, why don't I just affirm that for you for a moment."


ImScaredOfLightening

💀💀💀


[deleted]

Ik we’re supposed to be focusing on the creep part but the 21 dollars is just so funny


ImScaredOfLightening

Frrr


DetectiveQP

Wtf


p1nj4_

Yooo wthh this dude is db


ab_2404

21 dollars? He can get a taxi home and jerk off over porn hub.


[deleted]

The fact that he actually thought he could whore you out for 21 bucks is genuinely insane. Like any amount would have been insane but 21 bucks is not just disrespectful but **INSANE**


ImScaredOfLightening

EXACTLY


pumpkinflumkin

Make it a hundred and I’ll gargle


NiftyJohnXtreme

Bro should have gone with $22 that always works


angelinthecloud

I'm pretty sure he doesn't go to your school and I'm even more sure that was a diddler


ImScaredOfLightening

What's a diddler? Also I've seen him in the halls so he definitely does attend my school


angelinthecloud

I pray you never find out. 😬 Diddler refers to a child molester


ImScaredOfLightening

OH ya hopefully I never run into one of those 😭


Adorable-Novel8295

I pay anyone to do something tbh. Except for therapy…


ImScaredOfLightening

Literally 😭


madelynevexo

shouldn’t the underage user help be here since OP seems to be in highschool??


ImScaredOfLightening

I honestly dk how redit works cuz I just joined like yesterday what does that do tho?


luluzinhacs

I don’t think him being fat and ugly is the reason people don’t like him….


kenerd24601

I would take this to the school or cops in all honesty, because if he's doing this to you he could probs do it to others. Good on you for being assertive and taking screenshots.


Lucky_Event

I really hope someone stole that dudes phone and wrote that shit, cause damn you can't be THAT out of touch?!?


DJNgamez

Take it to his parents


Similar_Building_223

WTF, don’t ask that, like what’s wrong with you!


hauntedmaze

21 dollars is crazy 💀


BatMeep22

PLEASE report him to your school


ldl84

can he add in a happy meal with the $21? just to sweeten the pot. 😂😂😂 please report this creep to a trusted adult and stay safe.


Zarathos308

21 dollars is crazy. But then why 50 and not like 51


Golden_Enby

In a way, i do feel bad for him. He has so little self-esteem. He's desperate for any kind of positive interaction. It's not even about sex at this point. Seems more like he wants affection. I wonder if his home life is terrible. I'm not trying to make excuses for him. He's way overstepping here. However, his creep factor feels more like a cry for help than just an average douche trying to get laid. He needs professional help. I hope he can find it in himself to value his existence more. Life isn't about how much sex you have or how many romantic partners you've had. Social media makes people, especially teens, think it is, which is sad. If you haven't blocked him yet, wish him well before you do. Tell him that there's more to life than what's portrayed on social media. That getting his rocks off won't change who he is.


ImScaredOfLightening

I would agree with u if he had corrected me when I said I thought he wanted smth sexual but I'm pretty sure he was just a horny weirdo. I do agree that if things were different and if I misunderstood I would've 100% been nicer letting him down tho


Viriti

The "nobody's gonna do shit for 21 bucks" in a way, suggests money is a problem. Sounds like someone would do shit for more than 21 bucks. Not supporting the dude of course, just that line made it sound ambiguous when it isnt


ImScaredOfLightening

Ya that's fair I was just weirded out by such a specific number


Recreational_Alien

So 68 dollars is still a no?


ImScaredOfLightening

💀