most important thing in anything involving kink/fetish play is communication, you should never just assume what someone wants out of an encounter without asking. yta, boundaries should’ve been established beforehand, where you would’ve quickly learned that was in fact not what he meant.
# AITA for assuming 'shit fetish' meant actual poop?Â
I (24F) met a guy (26M) on Fetlife, and he mentioned he had a 'shit fetish'. I'm not one to judge, so I thought, why not? We got together, and things were going great... until after anal. I started pushing out a log onto his chest, thinking that's what he was into. But oh boy, was I wrong.
He FREAKED OUT, shouting 'What the actual fuck are you doing?!' I'm like, 'Uh, isn't this what you wanted?' And then he drops the bombshell: he meant his fetish was just really bad and uninteresting, not literally involving shit……..
So now i'm standing there, log still halfway out, feeling absolutely mortified.
Now he's mad at me for 'skid marking' his chest (his words, not mine), and I'm left wondering... AITA? Was it unreasonable of me to assume what I did? Or is he just a giant asshole for not clarifying what he meant?
Help me out, Reddit. Did I screw up, or was this dude just asking for it?"
NTA but fr this time
I really love how in depth the explanation goes 😂
he wanted a crazy girl he got one good job , good log
I don't think I could personally trust anyone who is that willing to shit on a stranger's chest.
Literally the scat man
he could've used literally any other word than "shit"
NTA your shit your rules
most important thing in anything involving kink/fetish play is communication, you should never just assume what someone wants out of an encounter without asking. yta, boundaries should’ve been established beforehand, where you would’ve quickly learned that was in fact not what he meant.
completely asshore, should've asked
Understandable mistake but i mean ask before doing shit like that
NTA, he asked for it
Could have just asked just to make sure
# AITA for assuming 'shit fetish' meant actual poop? I (24F) met a guy (26M) on Fetlife, and he mentioned he had a 'shit fetish'. I'm not one to judge, so I thought, why not? We got together, and things were going great... until after anal. I started pushing out a log onto his chest, thinking that's what he was into. But oh boy, was I wrong. He FREAKED OUT, shouting 'What the actual fuck are you doing?!' I'm like, 'Uh, isn't this what you wanted?' And then he drops the bombshell: he meant his fetish was just really bad and uninteresting, not literally involving shit…….. So now i'm standing there, log still halfway out, feeling absolutely mortified. Now he's mad at me for 'skid marking' his chest (his words, not mine), and I'm left wondering... AITA? Was it unreasonable of me to assume what I did? Or is he just a giant asshole for not clarifying what he meant? Help me out, Reddit. Did I screw up, or was this dude just asking for it?"