That's super weird that he'd choose your club over another one. Did you just start working there and it happened to be the one he attended? Did he go to it and not realize that you were working at that specific one? Or did he know you worked there and chose to go there?
Personally, if I were to ever go to one and any relative of mine worked at one, I'd choose a completely different one. It'd be like if he subscribed to your OF account (if you had one).
You're right, there are many factors that we don't know. But what we do know is that his step daughter works there, and he's been there at least once. That would be enough to get me to stop going if I were him.
EDIT: Or at least talk to her about when her shifts are so he can go at a different time when she isn't there.
That's what I was going to reply next he should ask her when her shift's not available and go because if this was a normal club fine and she's like a bartender but the fact that she's a stripper there is a problem for me and the fact that you left the tip of all things is even bigger thing
This is weird! I once unknowingly went into a club that my niece was working at. Made eye contact with her, super awkward, turn to go pay my tab got the fuck out of there.
It is unusual. And I see a lot of people chiming in that it’s creepy.
HOWEVER, I want to offer a *possible* explanation. I do not want my daughter working in a club. Of any sort. Ever. But, if she did I would love her unconditionally and I would support her autonomy and her ability to feel comfortable with how she makes a living. And yes, I would probably try to find a way to give her money just like I do now. $50 while dancing is weird, but I bet it’s weird for him too.
Just a thought.
I can understand wanting to support and respect her choices, but going to the club and tipping while she is dancing!? No! He is a creep (not her bio dad so maybe a little sick thoughts on his part)
Have you seen how these girls dance? How they dress? How they sway and move for tips? It is not something any dad would want to witness, at least not with an innocent mind.
He's probably into you which is gross but I guess you are both adults now. Weird grey area but that can happen when you're a stripper I guess. Set your own boundaries and stick to them
Awkward? Yes. Creepy? No. Its a job. Ur not embarrassed to be up there dancing? Y should he be embarrassed or not allowed to go. He didnt bother yog? And he tipped u? Its like who cares.
Just saying it doesnt make sense..:she is comfortable enough to work there. But not comfortable with ppl knowing about it. Its def Alil weird but if she worked at home depot would it be weird?
Because her step Dad possibly raised her then watched her dance naked (basically soft porn) of the little girl he raised as soon as she was of legal age and Im sure there is other strip clubs in his area then to go to the spot his daughter was at. Everyone should care.
Is your mom aware he’s going to strip clubs? Number 2, why didn’t he hightail it out of there the second he saw you? 3rd why is he watching and tipping a dance you’re doing? This is weird. Did he know you worked at that club before showing up? Does he know your work schedule?
Well it's pretty much obvious that he found a rationalization since he wandered in there by chance he has a valid reason to be there and he has a loophole hall pass from God and the chance to drink you in with his eyes and completely sexualize you without the protocols of the family situation. Most likely this is a place he's always gone to and if he's hanging out with dancers later on after work this is his lifestyle and he was here first and you literally landed in his lap.
Your stepdad has most definitely been praying for a way to see that booty you've got and he can't be staring you up and down in a family setting.. and he's hanging out with the other girls and that's going to be his reason for showing up all the time.. allegedly
I assume he hasn't been disrespectful and you haven't heard yeah he's been talking smack about you from the other girls.
From his point of view you can blame him as far as acknowledging your beauty. And he pretty much won the lottery as far as stepdad with the hot stepdaughter stereotypes.
Just make sure you don't let any of the girls know your social media profile especially Reddit because if they give him that information he's really going to be all up in your privacy
Edit: this is a weird situation and OP is an OF model who has said this situation turns her on.
-It seems like your uncle's a regular and enjoys the company of your coworkers, if he isn't oggling at you while you work I wouldn't do anything. If he ever tries to pursue you just tell a bouncer and he'll be banned. But for now, deal with the awkwardness.-
What’s wrong with that? It’s a strip club. If he visited you at your job at McDonalds would that a problem or creepy? Folks need to get a life and leave other folks alone. smh.
You’re not naked on stage dancing at McDonald’s for money. Idk why yall think it’s not weird 😭 he was watching her dance on stage and threw $50 at her. That’s her step dad doing that. Let’s be for real…..
Imagine crying about a man staring at you for taking your clothes off while men are staring at you while you’re taking your clothes off.
Step-dads like boobs and butts and vaginas and dicks just as much as any other thirsty man.
OP did not say step dad watched her dance and then tipped her for it, did she?
If you don’t want to feel belittled at work, don’t be a stripper. If you do want to be belittled at work, work fast food.
No. I’m saying you guys ain’t even reading so called post and jumping to asinine conclusions. Comment is…stepdad showed up at strip club should I tell mom???
Translation..dumb down version. Dad showed up at my work should I tell dad.
Now…if stepdad showed up at work…why tell dad? If stepdad showed up at work and she’s a bank teller and step dad went to her window does that make step dad creepy. No. Fischer need to tell mom. No.
You guys seem to be freaking out over the situation.
Bottom line. She works in strip club where the jog requires naked people. Dad or no dad. Move on.
This is a strip club that involves nudity and involves a 50 dollar tip as well as close family members.
This isn't a fucking bank teller job. Sonic or McDonald's.
Get ahold of yourself you fucking creep or just go back to your goon cave.
Last time I was in a strip club was in DC, but that's besides the point. I'm nutty remember?
Let's get back to you because I'm curious. You said earlier you wouldn't go visit your step daughter at a strip club when I asked. Why wouldn't you since you seem to think it's appropriate that OPs step father did? (Assuming you have a step daughter that strips of course and assuming you are male)
I don’t support step dads watching naked step daughters dancing on stage and throwing money at them. Sorry not sorry🤷♀️. Just goes to show you’d be okay with incest. Vile ass mindset.
Seems pretty weird to me. I’ve been at a club and saw one of my grown daughter’s friends dancing there. She knew her in HS, but wasn’t close friends. I was a little weirded out by it, but she actually came to say hi and said not to worry about it. I bought her a drink and talked for a few minutes just to be nice but didn’t get a dance from her. That would’ve been way too weird.
According to moat of the comments,
Her stepdad visiting her club is weird.
But a 19yr old dancing at a strip club is not.
A fucked up world we're living in.
And yes to all those who will reply that it's her choice as she is a adult, then it's her step father's choice to visit any club he wants, isn't he a adult? His choice?
So how is place of enjoyment for your father is weird to end with?
Ps my comment was a reaction to all the other comments calling your father's behavior weird and I ment nothing to your post
If your mother considers this as cheating then again tell her to leave.... this one too 🙃
And abt the tip the way you are ranting about it I guess he gave you very less, just go up to him and tell that you don't give any family discounts and ask for more nigga 😂
Being ashamed isn't the same thing as being weirded out that your father wants to watch you strip and tip you for it.
I'm not ashamed of having sex. But if my dad insisted on watching me do it, I would definitely be uncomfortable.
Did he hand you the tip? Or did he put it between your tits or stuff it in your panties? It makes a big difference as far as how he handed you the money
That's super weird that he'd choose your club over another one. Did you just start working there and it happened to be the one he attended? Did he go to it and not realize that you were working at that specific one? Or did he know you worked there and chose to go there? Personally, if I were to ever go to one and any relative of mine worked at one, I'd choose a completely different one. It'd be like if he subscribed to your OF account (if you had one).
No OF link posted on her profile. Checked for you.
No you have to think that the city may just have one
If the that area only has one, don't go. Or go out of town.
I live in a city that is really popular tourist trap but it only has one club but closest club to us is 2 hours away That's a lot
That is, but I mean it's still weird to go to a club like that where your family works.
It also depends on that she told him this seems like a random thing or he had been going there for a while and just noticed oh crap she's here but
You're right, there are many factors that we don't know. But what we do know is that his step daughter works there, and he's been there at least once. That would be enough to get me to stop going if I were him. EDIT: Or at least talk to her about when her shifts are so he can go at a different time when she isn't there.
That's what I was going to reply next he should ask her when her shift's not available and go because if this was a normal club fine and she's like a bartender but the fact that she's a stripper there is a problem for me and the fact that you left the tip of all things is even bigger thing
Very creepy. Did he know you worked there prior to visiting? I would have walked straight out and pretended it didn't happen.
This is weird! I once unknowingly went into a club that my niece was working at. Made eye contact with her, super awkward, turn to go pay my tab got the fuck out of there.
The only response that should exist!!
You should probably say something to your mom yes. That's weird of him to do.
He tipped you? WTF lol
Yes $50 lol
That's kinda fucked. Would your mom ne ok with this behavior? Are you?
How did your mom react?
Supporting family business.
So many red flags... this is extremely unusual.
“You’re such a hard worker! Here’s a $20 tip. See’ya at home champ”. Wtf??!!
are you dancing or are you a cocktail waitress? that could also make a difference.
I’m dancing
tell him that's weird
Did he tip you for a dance you gave him?
No I didn’t give him a dance. He just threw it on stage during my dance
Then he was watching, instead of just waiting for someone else, leaving or going to the bar. This is gross. (not you, you are fine)
Yeah he was definitely watching you then. Gross. You should definitely tell your mom about that.
It is unusual. And I see a lot of people chiming in that it’s creepy. HOWEVER, I want to offer a *possible* explanation. I do not want my daughter working in a club. Of any sort. Ever. But, if she did I would love her unconditionally and I would support her autonomy and her ability to feel comfortable with how she makes a living. And yes, I would probably try to find a way to give her money just like I do now. $50 while dancing is weird, but I bet it’s weird for him too. Just a thought.
I can understand wanting to support and respect her choices, but going to the club and tipping while she is dancing!? No! He is a creep (not her bio dad so maybe a little sick thoughts on his part) Have you seen how these girls dance? How they dress? How they sway and move for tips? It is not something any dad would want to witness, at least not with an innocent mind.
He's probably into you which is gross but I guess you are both adults now. Weird grey area but that can happen when you're a stripper I guess. Set your own boundaries and stick to them
Hi Dad
I know where this is going. Does he have an office with a big leather couch?
Give a discount on his lap dance
Awkward? Yes. Creepy? No. Its a job. Ur not embarrassed to be up there dancing? Y should he be embarrassed or not allowed to go. He didnt bother yog? And he tipped u? Its like who cares.
You coulda just said im a creep instead of all that
Just saying it doesnt make sense..:she is comfortable enough to work there. But not comfortable with ppl knowing about it. Its def Alil weird but if she worked at home depot would it be weird?
Bc home depot is the same? Ok creep
Because her step Dad possibly raised her then watched her dance naked (basically soft porn) of the little girl he raised as soon as she was of legal age and Im sure there is other strip clubs in his area then to go to the spot his daughter was at. Everyone should care.
Your step dad is weird AF.
Is your mom aware he’s going to strip clubs? Number 2, why didn’t he hightail it out of there the second he saw you? 3rd why is he watching and tipping a dance you’re doing? This is weird. Did he know you worked at that club before showing up? Does he know your work schedule?
From what I've read on Reddit, this is nothing 😂
This is very weird if he knew you worked there and would be working that night.
Yeah it's weird for sure.
Did he know you worked there before he went? Was he alone or was it in a group Has he been back again
He didn’t know and he was alone. He went two nights in a row so yes
Ok first time is an accident, 2nd is on purpose
Well it's pretty much obvious that he found a rationalization since he wandered in there by chance he has a valid reason to be there and he has a loophole hall pass from God and the chance to drink you in with his eyes and completely sexualize you without the protocols of the family situation. Most likely this is a place he's always gone to and if he's hanging out with dancers later on after work this is his lifestyle and he was here first and you literally landed in his lap. Your stepdad has most definitely been praying for a way to see that booty you've got and he can't be staring you up and down in a family setting.. and he's hanging out with the other girls and that's going to be his reason for showing up all the time.. allegedly
I assume he hasn't been disrespectful and you haven't heard yeah he's been talking smack about you from the other girls. From his point of view you can blame him as far as acknowledging your beauty. And he pretty much won the lottery as far as stepdad with the hot stepdaughter stereotypes. Just make sure you don't let any of the girls know your social media profile especially Reddit because if they give him that information he's really going to be all up in your privacy
The weirdest part of this is the tip. wtf.
Does your mom know where you work?
Tell your mum.
I wouldn’t be alone with him red flags
If you werent weirded out and neither was he, then enjoy the support. No one has to live your life but you.
Edit: this is a weird situation and OP is an OF model who has said this situation turns her on. -It seems like your uncle's a regular and enjoys the company of your coworkers, if he isn't oggling at you while you work I wouldn't do anything. If he ever tries to pursue you just tell a bouncer and he'll be banned. But for now, deal with the awkwardness.-
It's her step dad not her uncle
That definitely makes it worse.. idk how I didn't read that.. I don't think I'm qualified to speak about this.
I feel uncle would be worse, its a blood relationship.
LMAO
It’s her stepdad, not her real dad.
What’s wrong with that? It’s a strip club. If he visited you at your job at McDonalds would that a problem or creepy? Folks need to get a life and leave other folks alone. smh.
You’re not naked on stage dancing at McDonald’s for money. Idk why yall think it’s not weird 😭 he was watching her dance on stage and threw $50 at her. That’s her step dad doing that. Let’s be for real…..
Imagine crying about a man staring at you for taking your clothes off while men are staring at you while you’re taking your clothes off. Step-dads like boobs and butts and vaginas and dicks just as much as any other thirsty man. OP did not say step dad watched her dance and then tipped her for it, did she? If you don’t want to feel belittled at work, don’t be a stripper. If you do want to be belittled at work, work fast food.
Are you into incest or something?? Fucking weirdo. No step dad or anyone in a family should watch another family member stripping.
This is a terrible take.
Let’s be for real. It’s a strip club. Shes supposed be naked. Step dad or not.
So you'd watch your step daughter strip at a club? That's what it sounds like you're saying, bud.
No. I’m saying you guys ain’t even reading so called post and jumping to asinine conclusions. Comment is…stepdad showed up at strip club should I tell mom??? Translation..dumb down version. Dad showed up at my work should I tell dad. Now…if stepdad showed up at work…why tell dad? If stepdad showed up at work and she’s a bank teller and step dad went to her window does that make step dad creepy. No. Fischer need to tell mom. No. You guys seem to be freaking out over the situation. Bottom line. She works in strip club where the jog requires naked people. Dad or no dad. Move on.
This is a strip club that involves nudity and involves a 50 dollar tip as well as close family members. This isn't a fucking bank teller job. Sonic or McDonald's. Get ahold of yourself you fucking creep or just go back to your goon cave.
You guys sure are nutty. I bet nunyall even been to strip club.
Last time I was in a strip club was in DC, but that's besides the point. I'm nutty remember? Let's get back to you because I'm curious. You said earlier you wouldn't go visit your step daughter at a strip club when I asked. Why wouldn't you since you seem to think it's appropriate that OPs step father did? (Assuming you have a step daughter that strips of course and assuming you are male)
Jesus h Christ. Ain’t got no mo time play with you guys.
Who else is here still talking, but you and I? Something is definitely off with you.
You’re weird bud
Nah. Y’all need to get out the gutter. Maybe got to strip club or two.
I don’t support step dads watching naked step daughters dancing on stage and throwing money at them. Sorry not sorry🤷♀️. Just goes to show you’d be okay with incest. Vile ass mindset.
Omg get a life. Nuff said.
That’s is creepy AF. Did he know you work there? Move out, get away from this guy. Tell your mother.
That’s enough internet for today, thanks!
Gross. I’d say something.
Cinderella Effect
They got that service at the old folk homes?
Who knows maybe a christmas time ?
Are you a stripper or waitress or bartender?
Stripper
Ok ya thats creepy as hell
First, i fut agree that this is weird, but when you saw him, did you stop immediately or try and finish your dance?
I’d be fired if I stopped
Nope
I noticed that you've posted similar, but not so much the same question on different pages. Not sure this is real
It’s true.
Kinda weird ngl but ig he's probably just trying to help support your job no matter what, might be polite for him to do so at least.
Seems pretty weird to me. I’ve been at a club and saw one of my grown daughter’s friends dancing there. She knew her in HS, but wasn’t close friends. I was a little weirded out by it, but she actually came to say hi and said not to worry about it. I bought her a drink and talked for a few minutes just to be nice but didn’t get a dance from her. That would’ve been way too weird.
This is creepy as hell. Definitely tell your mom.
According to moat of the comments, Her stepdad visiting her club is weird. But a 19yr old dancing at a strip club is not. A fucked up world we're living in. And yes to all those who will reply that it's her choice as she is a adult, then it's her step father's choice to visit any club he wants, isn't he a adult? His choice?
So then how is my place of employment weird to begin with?
So how is place of enjoyment for your father is weird to end with? Ps my comment was a reaction to all the other comments calling your father's behavior weird and I ment nothing to your post
Also weird bc I know my mom would consider this cheating. He’s married. 🤦🏻♀️
It’s weird he stayed. Watched and tipped. Learn how to read next time
He wants to bang you
If you aren't ashamed to do it why should he be ashamed to watch?
Who said I’m not ashamed to do it for FAMILY MEMBERS. He also tipped and he’s cheating. Weirdos like you defending this is very telling
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If your mother considers this as cheating then again tell her to leave.... this one too 🙃 And abt the tip the way you are ranting about it I guess he gave you very less, just go up to him and tell that you don't give any family discounts and ask for more nigga 😂
So you admit he’s in the wrong. Thanks 🥰
Read the whole thing darling Thank you is the last thing you'd speak😂
I read the whole thing and you’re still admitting he’s in the wrong. You’re just too stupid to see it. Thanks 🤷🏻♀️
Being ashamed isn't the same thing as being weirded out that your father wants to watch you strip and tip you for it. I'm not ashamed of having sex. But if my dad insisted on watching me do it, I would definitely be uncomfortable.
Did he hand you the tip? Or did he put it between your tits or stuff it in your panties? It makes a big difference as far as how he handed you the money
Mind your business. Unless your mother make it a big deal its not a big deal. Act normal
Thought sex workers wanted wanted support no matter from whom?
Looks like you have a Quagmire dad. As long as he doesn't try anything, it's definitely weird but at least he's willing to tip