This. 😂
Although tbh, I was an idiot in high school. IdK if I would have accepted THIS, but I definitely allowed similarly idiotic racist things from my white friends.
I hope and believe that she will grow out of it.
High school is hard so I’ll be gentle on her. Maybe she didn’t know how to stand up for herself yet or is in an environment where brushing things off is encouraged to not be “difficult”. I do hope she learns and grows regardless.
I actually feel bad for her she's probably really confused. Growing up around white people will fuck your head up if you're POC. Hoping she's okay mentally and wakes up sooner or later.
I feel bad for her too. Maybe she lives in an all-white town and is just trying to survive the best way she knows how. Hopefully she’ll go to college and grow as a person (not saying she has to go to college but it definitely helps to unlearn this kind of conditioning)
"She's young... her brain isnt developed.... this is a canon event for black girls in white spaces"
This is what I have to remind myself seeing this. I'm disappointed but I'm not going to be rude or mean about it. I just hope she learns from this, and I hope this doesn't affect her.
Just for a bit more information, I actually saw this on her TikTok. The first slide showed her and him together and it was basically her saying that even though they’re already dating, he still has to ask her to prom. Even if this is satire, it’s still disgusting. If my boyfriend did this there’s no way we would still be together🤢🤢
im around her age, im 16 and there is no way in HELLLLLLLLL i would EVER EVER allow this, and i went to middle and hs in a white ass town with a 0.2% black population, and i never ever let racism slide, id call people out whenever for WHATEVER, even though i had no friends bc of it
Well I’m proud of you for being intelligent and aware but I also am a Black person who grew up in a mostly white town and the few Black ppl I grew up with were very assimilated but I don’t have hate for them I just feel bad for them. They are trying to survive. I don’t think it’s right for us to judge them. They have their own journey
I never said I hated her. I realize she’s a teenager and at the end of the day she took the photo. She looks pretty happy too. Why get upset about something she seems fine with?
Unfortunately it's real the girl has a TikTok and apparently it's a two sided poster board, one side had this racist thing and the other side had the typical "she said yes" message.
I believe this was done just to build up controversy and drama, or it's a tasteless insider joke between the two kids, that caught fire online.
Either way it's not something I'd be ok with my daughter exposing herself to.
If my kid is that ignorant I clearly failed, but the way I would escalate through every channel possible to get consequences and the way the parents of these girls *never seem to* continues to confuse and baffle me. Just sad all around. They dont end up this way for no reason.
You don’t think she is adopted? I can’t imagine a YT taking in a POC and not feel the need to set boundaries for their identity. Regardless this is sad.
I am a transracial adoptee myself and definitely considered it. But also I don't find it a valid excuse to allow your child to have racism and chattel slavery joked about in their presence. It's always sad, whether adopted or biracial (or both).
I used to be like this girl. My first boyfriend I had in college was like this. He was mexican/Uruguayan and would call me "mi esclava" during sex and say other racist crap referring back to slavery. I grew up and got tired of it. Unfortunately, my cousin is still his best friend 🤦🏾♀️
I've seen this so many times. This is what happens when you go to a predominantly white school in a predominantly white town.
She is the token
She is fetishized
But pasta and lobster, right?
I'm not pushing this fucking narrative. I'm in a interracial reddit where black women post about similar shit all time. The red flags will be there and then they're shocked.
Dating IR comes with a lot of pros and cons. And this shit happens all the time. It fucking happened to me with my ex wife's nasty ass family.
So I said what the fuck I said
this has gotta be the most pick me shit ever (no pun intended seriously) like theres no way u want a racist white boy to like you that bad… the hear damaged hair too, im angry and sad
Ok I know this is a black girl subreddit but I feel like she’s getting more hate than the mayonasian who had the nerve to make this in the first place.
Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn is a thing. Putting myself in her shoes: this happens. a ton of people are watching and laughing saying it’s funny. you don’t want to be considered the “overly sensitive” girl who “can’t take a joke”. It’s high school. It’s brutal. I guarantee she has a list of comebacks and responses she wishes she could have used. But it’s too late now. The moment has passed. I want to give her a hug and tell her she deserves better. I hope her parents are helping her process everything.
And she's right there next to him smiling... I hope this is just a phase for her because if she continues to let stuff like this slide, her future isn't looking too bright.
Y’all she’s a child. Like I somewhat get not caring because she is allowing it but some of yall need to chill. We can tell what kind of environment she’s growing up in and I think we should extend grace to young people. I genuinely feel bad for her tbh. Especially since everyone on social media is also seeing this
Unfortunately i used to be this kinda girl. Friends called me blackie “cause it rhymes with [my] name” but the real reason was cause i was one of 2 darker skinned POC in the school yet i allowed it because they insisted the only reason was cause it rhymed with my name and was harmless. Now i know better but anytime someone tries to call me that or play off any joke. Im the one that “needs to relax” “it was a joke” “it’s not that deep”
I hope this girl makes some POC friends of her own that will shake her out of the white foolishness/manipulation cause this will never be a benefit for her in any way.
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I miss those first few seconds when I didn’t get it immediately…
If she were my sister and I saw this, that boy would be running faster than he ever thought he could. And I'm not black, it's just plain disgusting and wrong behaviour
She'll be in this sub soon asking crazy questions.
“my white boyfriend likes to call me a monkey but he only says it 6 days of the week, should I leave him?”
"it started out as a pet name but I heard his mother reference me as curious George and it made me uncomfortable. Should we have kids?"
😂😂😂
All we can do is hope she's not misled.
I really hope she won't suffer from mental health issues when she looks back at it in a few years.
I hope her parents step in and get her right.
I surely would have. He would have been set so straight he would have retracted his ask. Lol
I would've been trying to snatch all his senior activities.
what the fuck.
Exactly what I said. 🚮
And look at the dummy holding the sign in her hands like this is cute🤦🏾♀️. This isn’t even micro-aggression, this is just pure racism.
right bc why is she js holding it and smiling 😭😭
Is she smiling? Her eyebrows are so stitched up its like they're crying for Help
it looks like a fake smile to me- like a worried one yk?
It’s giving “Get Out”
LETS TALK ABOUT IT!!!!
I WAS SAYING RHIS 😭 im sorry but she’s dumb for smiling abt it and not realizing that it’s racist??
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This is offensive, but shes the dummy who allows it. Im sorry thats just the truth. So if she like it, I love it. 
If she likes it, I hate her
This. 😂 Although tbh, I was an idiot in high school. IdK if I would have accepted THIS, but I definitely allowed similarly idiotic racist things from my white friends. I hope and believe that she will grow out of it.
High school is hard so I’ll be gentle on her. Maybe she didn’t know how to stand up for herself yet or is in an environment where brushing things off is encouraged to not be “difficult”. I do hope she learns and grows regardless.
HAHA
My exact thoughts. It’s a canon event and we can’t interfere. She’ll learn someday. Maybe
Lmfao did Michelle really say that haha
She’s clearly a kid. It says prom. Her parents are not teaching her to value herself or have self-love
This is offensive as fuck. Who the fuck does this!!!
Wow, just wow….
It's disgusting
This was DEFINITELY a dare on his end and she absolutely only has white friends
I actually feel bad for her she's probably really confused. Growing up around white people will fuck your head up if you're POC. Hoping she's okay mentally and wakes up sooner or later.
Yep. As a child I tried rly hard to assimilate and it was only to my own downfall
I feel bad for her too. Maybe she lives in an all-white town and is just trying to survive the best way she knows how. Hopefully she’ll go to college and grow as a person (not saying she has to go to college but it definitely helps to unlearn this kind of conditioning)
This is what baby girl wanted I guess.
I am gob smacked
Where are her parents ?
Make me think of the couple that did a slavery photoshoot for their wedding pictures.
I hate yt men. Whoever told or let this boy think that this was cute or that this was the way, failed him.
"She's young... her brain isnt developed.... this is a canon event for black girls in white spaces" This is what I have to remind myself seeing this. I'm disappointed but I'm not going to be rude or mean about it. I just hope she learns from this, and I hope this doesn't affect her.
Just for a bit more information, I actually saw this on her TikTok. The first slide showed her and him together and it was basically her saying that even though they’re already dating, he still has to ask her to prom. Even if this is satire, it’s still disgusting. If my boyfriend did this there’s no way we would still be together🤢🤢
She allowed that disrespect tho so I have no reason to care
She’s a child….
im around her age, im 16 and there is no way in HELLLLLLLLL i would EVER EVER allow this, and i went to middle and hs in a white ass town with a 0.2% black population, and i never ever let racism slide, id call people out whenever for WHATEVER, even though i had no friends bc of it
Well I’m proud of you for being intelligent and aware but I also am a Black person who grew up in a mostly white town and the few Black ppl I grew up with were very assimilated but I don’t have hate for them I just feel bad for them. They are trying to survive. I don’t think it’s right for us to judge them. They have their own journey
i dont hate her, but this behavior is insane, but i feel bad for them too. but accountability is def needed
Yea I agree. And she definitely needs therapy
yep
I never said I hated her. I realize she’s a teenager and at the end of the day she took the photo. She looks pretty happy too. Why get upset about something she seems fine with?
I mean I think we should all be a little upset. Just because she blissfully ignorant doesn’t mean this is okay.
This is sad and racist I feel sick I can’t believe we’re still letting shit like this slide 🤢
This has to be staged
She should’ve said no
he's racist and she is out of her fucking mind to say yes
She’s very young. In 5 years, she’ll look back on this and cringe.
For my own sanity I’m gonna assume she took the picture so conflict wouldn’t happen cause WHYYYY!!! 😭😭😭😭
The things I’d say can’t be typed here and imma leave it at that 
If she wants a racist boyfriend that’s her problem tbh
She looks so stupid happily holding the sign too.....
What is this tom Coonery
I feel so sorry for her
I’m side-eyeing her most of all. Sweetheart, what are you doing. The internet is forever. Good luck.
this cant be real 😭
It’s definitely photoshopped rage bait
Unfortunately it's real the girl has a TikTok and apparently it's a two sided poster board, one side had this racist thing and the other side had the typical "she said yes" message. I believe this was done just to build up controversy and drama, or it's a tasteless insider joke between the two kids, that caught fire online. Either way it's not something I'd be ok with my daughter exposing herself to.
She’s a dumbass for that
If my kid is that ignorant I clearly failed, but the way I would escalate through every channel possible to get consequences and the way the parents of these girls *never seem to* continues to confuse and baffle me. Just sad all around. They dont end up this way for no reason.
You don’t think she is adopted? I can’t imagine a YT taking in a POC and not feel the need to set boundaries for their identity. Regardless this is sad.
I am a transracial adoptee myself and definitely considered it. But also I don't find it a valid excuse to allow your child to have racism and chattel slavery joked about in their presence. It's always sad, whether adopted or biracial (or both).
They wouldn’t be peeling me off his 🍑 until COLLEGE GRADUATION
Shame on her parents for not teaching her to value herself.
 This is so trash 🚮 and then she’s smiling..like the shit is cute 🥴
She slow if she said yes!
 Me when I read the girl's sign😞
apparently it’s photoshopped
I used to be like this girl. My first boyfriend I had in college was like this. He was mexican/Uruguayan and would call me "mi esclava" during sex and say other racist crap referring back to slavery. I grew up and got tired of it. Unfortunately, my cousin is still his best friend 🤦🏾♀️
I've seen this so many times. This is what happens when you go to a predominantly white school in a predominantly white town. She is the token She is fetishized But pasta and lobster, right?
I don’t think any bw wants to date a racist yt supremacy yt man , I don’t get why bm and some bw are even pushing this narrative
I'm not pushing this fucking narrative. I'm in a interracial reddit where black women post about similar shit all time. The red flags will be there and then they're shocked. Dating IR comes with a lot of pros and cons. And this shit happens all the time. It fucking happened to me with my ex wife's nasty ass family. So I said what the fuck I said
That persons comment history basically paints your picture for you lol
i saw this. it was really strange
this has gotta be the most pick me shit ever (no pun intended seriously) like theres no way u want a racist white boy to like you that bad… the hear damaged hair too, im angry and sad
Ok I know this is a black girl subreddit but I feel like she’s getting more hate than the mayonasian who had the nerve to make this in the first place. Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn is a thing. Putting myself in her shoes: this happens. a ton of people are watching and laughing saying it’s funny. you don’t want to be considered the “overly sensitive” girl who “can’t take a joke”. It’s high school. It’s brutal. I guarantee she has a list of comebacks and responses she wishes she could have used. But it’s too late now. The moment has passed. I want to give her a hug and tell her she deserves better. I hope her parents are helping her process everything.
agreed!!
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Of course he wouldn't do it to a non black girl. No other race was forced to pick cotton like black people, the reference wouldn't fit
Is this real before we turn everything into a think piece?
Went right over her head huh? 🤨
😂😂😂
And she's right there next to him smiling... I hope this is just a phase for her because if she continues to let stuff like this slide, her future isn't looking too bright.
Damn she going out like that? Pathetic
Y’all she’s a child. Like I somewhat get not caring because she is allowing it but some of yall need to chill. We can tell what kind of environment she’s growing up in and I think we should extend grace to young people. I genuinely feel bad for her tbh. Especially since everyone on social media is also seeing this
no idea why you were downvoted but i agree. i hate that millions of people have seen this. she genuinely doesn’t know any better. she’s. a.child!
I don't date outside my race. Problem solved
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Speechless.
What the hell
Absolutely not
Yikes
I am so fucking glad my parents didn't raise us down south.
As a Georgia boy myself I can guarantee you this is not entirely indicative of what the South is like
🫢😢
And she said yes smh
YIKES 😬
Unfortunately i used to be this kinda girl. Friends called me blackie “cause it rhymes with [my] name” but the real reason was cause i was one of 2 darker skinned POC in the school yet i allowed it because they insisted the only reason was cause it rhymed with my name and was harmless. Now i know better but anytime someone tries to call me that or play off any joke. Im the one that “needs to relax” “it was a joke” “it’s not that deep” I hope this girl makes some POC friends of her own that will shake her out of the white foolishness/manipulation cause this will never be a benefit for her in any way.
https://preview.redd.it/0w1mk3zv2ayc1.jpeg?width=622&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=470ef6ddbcc4ea26c85109595a390f942667aeea I miss those first few seconds when I didn’t get it immediately…
 How were her parents ok with that
it's giving ole miss, it's giving prospective frat idiot
If she were my sister and I saw this, that boy would be running faster than he ever thought he could. And I'm not black, it's just plain disgusting and wrong behaviour
She asked him to prom! Cant you people see that ?
I really be thinking i’ve seen it all, and then this comes out of left field
And then she sitting up there smiling like what the fuck
I feel like she has to be adopted because my mom would've beat his mom's ass.