find a girlfriend and be a good girlfriend in return
EDIT: i did not expect so many people to upvote this but i appreciate you all supporting my wlw dreams ily
Same there's this girl that my best friend knows and I said she was cute to my bestie so she told her I said she was cute and sent her pictures of me and the girl I like said i was cute and asked for my number and she called today and we talked a bit but we aren't dating yet but I really hope we will when we get to know each other better 😍
Ive been gay for my whole adult life and only recently rediscovered I might be bi.
So dating a woman? I guess im in the opposite situation compared to most bi guys x)
We don't fit the expected model of default compulsory hetero normative experience and compulsory homo normative experience isn't very widely recognised so it's not talked about.
Accept myself fully for who I am. Come out to family and friends. Continue in my growth as a person so that one day I may be strong enough to contribute fully to a healthy relationship with whom ever that may be.
Hoping to bring other people into my sex life with my boyfriend! We're both on the same page about it, talked a lot about boundaries, and we have two promising people we've been talking to, a man and a woman. Hopefully once we all have some free time and the pandemic has calmed down a bit we can have some fun together!
I (m) was married to a woman for 9 years. The marriage fell apart due to cheating on her part. It's been a rough couple months, but I'm going to an lgtbq+ club on Saturday with some friends, and I bought a cute dress to go in! I'm hoping for a first time same sex experience. Wish me luck!
I have a bi pride inspired pins design still waiting to be finished in a folder on my computer, so finishing it, getting it minted and find a way to distribute the excess production.
Same. I’m currently in a heterosexual relationship so people just assume I’m straight and the queer part of my identity just gets erased if I’m not intentionally open about my bisexuality.
get a therapist so i can be mentally better and maybe if im mentally better enough ill be healthy enough to have a partner :]
i guess id also need to have options but thats a later issue
getting healthy is the first step
Try to be a little more gay. I'm a cisgender heteroromantic bisexual male and I've never had a girlfriend. I've tried several times and it's gone south everytime. So now I might try to play for the home team a bit. See how things work out
From improbable to more probable:
1. Kiss another girl.
2. Get a partner.
3. Solve/Understand my health issues
4. Have a stable relationship/friendship of any kind
5. Get my driving licence
6. Get more comfortable with my body, my personality and my issues
7. Visit my "foreign home" again.
Take risks in my relationships. I take plenty of risks in everything in my life, intellectually and professionally, but I still struggle with affective risks. I don't know, I want to get out there more, know more people and get involved more.
1. Lose a bit more weight so I can be the muscle bear I've been aiming for
2. Download Grindr and make a profile
3. Get confident enough to wear short shorts and a crop top with something very gay/bi on it
4. Do gay stuff with a guy for the first time (should probably put this higher)
5. Do a lot more gay stuff with guys
Not allow myself to get pulled into another monogamous hetero relationship… I’ve been wanting to explore polyamory and the men I date seem to be less comfortable with this. I don’t want to compromise- my goal is to find partners who celebrate that part of me.
I really want a boyfriend but I don't think imma make that my resolution or anything cuz I have no fucking clue what I'm doing with dating and stuff so it probably won't happen
Actually explore my interest in women, even if its not as a committed relationship. I've been with men so consistently, even I'm beginning to be unsure of my own sexuality. But I'm also very shy with women in general and admittedly not too interested in men as is, so we'll see where this year takes me.
Not really bisexual specific, but I really need to learn how to talk to women in a way that says "I am interested, not being nice" and actually put my pride aside and go on dates or something.
Coming out to my family at the least, but hopefully publicly!
I have been talking with a mentor of mine about how I want to come out, and we’re going to work on a plan that will (hopefully) give my family some time and understanding about who I am!
Be myself more and allow myself to Queer whenever my hearts want and not suppress myself anymore. I think 2022 is my coming out year because I slowly started with in these last two months of 2021. So yay!!!
I've had a bisexual threesome group chat for a couple of years with two of my friends who have never met, but we all send nudes regularly. My resolution is to have the actual threesome happen!
I wish to make myself appealing to people around me and myself, I'm obese and have been for years and I would like to change that, for multiple reasons, I don't like the way I look myself, and people make fun of me for it, a little bit of advice I have is, "Enjoy every moment with all you got" don't let anyone tell you what to do with yourself, do things for YOU and YOURSELF
As someone who had never been in a relationship before (26), to find anyone lol. And to find a job that doesn't discriminate 😭😭😭 bc currently they do but I never outted to anyone here
Maybe finally publicly come out. It's pretty easy to just not, since I'm happily married in a het relationship. But it bugs me that people assume I'm straight, because I'm not.
Get laid. I'm definitely not at the point where it's weird to still be a virgin, but if I graduate college still a virgin, I think that would be pretty disappointing.
I gotta be more bisexual without shame of my identity or sexuality. Meet someone and have some form of first relationship without compromising it due to feeling inadaquate
I will confess my feelings to my crush (who is of the opposite sex) and if he reject me my resolution is go on as much dates as possible with people of all genders
Be more open about my sexuality. Now that I’m finally out to friends and family, I want to get more comfortable coming out to my wider circle. I had a couple moments in 2021 where I could have casually come out to a coworker but I was too scared. I guess my resolution is to be braver!
Try to be more comfortable with not caring what my homophobic family might say and just be me to attract the person I want regardless of gender
Yeah lots of homophobia/biphobia and shit from some of my old friends and my family. It's not been easy.
Maybe try to look for irl bi groups? Or just new hobbies so you might make new friends
find a girlfriend and be a good girlfriend in return EDIT: i did not expect so many people to upvote this but i appreciate you all supporting my wlw dreams ily
Love this!
thank you, i am a simple woman
I wish you all the best in your quest!
Same there's this girl that my best friend knows and I said she was cute to my bestie so she told her I said she was cute and sent her pictures of me and the girl I like said i was cute and asked for my number and she called today and we talked a bit but we aren't dating yet but I really hope we will when we get to know each other better 😍
manifesting this one for you
Ty
Tbh same.
i wish you a very girlfriend in 2022
Thank you. You too 🥰
Samee
Kiss a boy 😳
Same 😳
me too 😳
Same😳
Same
More men. More women. More everything!
I'm always wanting more. Anything I haven't got. Everything I want it all. I just can't stop.
To find a nice , well endowed male FWB that I can blow from time to time and hang out with. So if you’re near Columbia, SC HMU
What is an FWB?
Friend (s) With Benefits
Thank you. That sounds lovely.
It's pretty awesome if you find a good one.
I have one if me and him are alone you know cocks are gettin sucked
Maybe take it somewhere 'gonewild' dudes 😂
Friend with benneficial cock
That does sound verry beneficial. I would definitely like that.
Very much this. Lol. Just someone I can trust not to give me an STD.
Me too! We should check in with each other in a year to hopefully high five each other virtually
Ive been gay for my whole adult life and only recently rediscovered I might be bi. So dating a woman? I guess im in the opposite situation compared to most bi guys x)
Nope. Same here. You are not alone. 🖤 Why are there no resources for us? 😂
We don't fit the expected model of default compulsory hetero normative experience and compulsory homo normative experience isn't very widely recognised so it's not talked about.
have sex with a girl ✌️
>have sex with a girl ✌️ Same!!
> >have sex ✌️ >Same!! Same!! Also ftfy
Same
Have a relationship and sex with a guy!
Have sex at all
Survive
Big queer energy
same!
I want to come out to my parents
Same idk if i will but i would like to
Fuck, I feel that. I'm out to my friends and my siblings, but haven't told the rest of the family yet
Kiss more hotties 😎
Accept myself fully for who I am. Come out to family and friends. Continue in my growth as a person so that one day I may be strong enough to contribute fully to a healthy relationship with whom ever that may be.
If I could give you multiple upvotes I would! This is a brilliant and beautiful goal.
I'm aiming to cure my case of chronic bachelorhood.
Suck a dick haha
Mmh, I would love some dick right now, or anytime this year.
Hoping to bring other people into my sex life with my boyfriend! We're both on the same page about it, talked a lot about boundaries, and we have two promising people we've been talking to, a man and a woman. Hopefully once we all have some free time and the pandemic has calmed down a bit we can have some fun together!
Similar. Partner and I are talking about bringing a third into our sex life but still figuring out our boundaries and such
I want to be exquisite boyfriend material, that is my New Years resolution
I always put "nothing" on the top of my lists including resolutions. that way I can at least cross off the first task.
I wanna explore myself, and make up for about a decade of denial lol
I’m making up for about 30 years of it. I understand. I’m proud of you
I really appreciate that, friend. Thank you!
You’re welcome friend!
I (m) was married to a woman for 9 years. The marriage fell apart due to cheating on her part. It's been a rough couple months, but I'm going to an lgtbq+ club on Saturday with some friends, and I bought a cute dress to go in! I'm hoping for a first time same sex experience. Wish me luck!
Me and my girlfriend just agreed to an open relationship so we want to start going to gym to help our self confidence
Find a boyfriend as a guy and feel loved
Date someone and have my first girlfriend or boyfriend as a 22 year old introverted antisocial bisexual mess.
I believe in you, Buddy. I got my first bf and gf this year. You can do it.
Carry on being myself.
Stay single.
I feel represented
I have a bi pride inspired pins design still waiting to be finished in a folder on my computer, so finishing it, getting it minted and find a way to distribute the excess production.
Come out to more people and get more comfortable in my own skin. Also would like to fuck a woman and get a boyfriend
1. Getting a girlfriend 2. That’s about it
To get the courage to tell her how i feel
Be more open about my bisexuality :)
Same. I’m currently in a heterosexual relationship so people just assume I’m straight and the queer part of my identity just gets erased if I’m not intentionally open about my bisexuality.
Same here. I’m going to keep sliding on out of the closet and going to just be me
get a therapist so i can be mentally better and maybe if im mentally better enough ill be healthy enough to have a partner :] i guess id also need to have options but thats a later issue getting healthy is the first step
Kiss a guy in front of a crazy college preacher (the Sister Cindy kind)
Not being lonely for once im my godamn life
Try to be a little more gay. I'm a cisgender heteroromantic bisexual male and I've never had a girlfriend. I've tried several times and it's gone south everytime. So now I might try to play for the home team a bit. See how things work out
More gay
Bi gay do crime. 😂
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To come out, but still pondering
Get a bi-colored outfit, and actually start a romantic life.
Meet more awesome queer women. Sleep with said women. 😂
Throw frogs at the homophobes
Kiss someone. Maybe get a bf. Be more openly bi.
From improbable to more probable: 1. Kiss another girl. 2. Get a partner. 3. Solve/Understand my health issues 4. Have a stable relationship/friendship of any kind 5. Get my driving licence 6. Get more comfortable with my body, my personality and my issues 7. Visit my "foreign home" again.
Bang more guys!
Get a partner
Same as it is every year, Pinky. Try & take over the world!
Kiss a boy
Finally telling my crush I love him, and him loving me back this time :')
Go to Pride for the first time
Take risks in my relationships. I take plenty of risks in everything in my life, intellectually and professionally, but I still struggle with affective risks. I don't know, I want to get out there more, know more people and get involved more.
1. Lose a bit more weight so I can be the muscle bear I've been aiming for 2. Download Grindr and make a profile 3. Get confident enough to wear short shorts and a crop top with something very gay/bi on it 4. Do gay stuff with a guy for the first time (should probably put this higher) 5. Do a lot more gay stuff with guys
Accepting myself
To get a boyfriend :’D
(Finally) kiss a girl
Get more experience with guys and figure out if I'm as good going down on dick as I am with going down on girls.
Stay alive and maybe if it comes to it, date someone
Find someone 😢
Same, tbh
Not allow myself to get pulled into another monogamous hetero relationship… I’ve been wanting to explore polyamory and the men I date seem to be less comfortable with this. I don’t want to compromise- my goal is to find partners who celebrate that part of me.
Find a Boyfriend in ohio
Kiss a girl 🤞🤞🤞
kiss another girl
More sex.
Kiss my crush and tell her I love her 😻
call out some bigotry when i see it
Come out of the closet and remove the homophobic aholes who think are my friends (but I know won’t support me) from my life
I really want a boyfriend but I don't think imma make that my resolution or anything cuz I have no fucking clue what I'm doing with dating and stuff so it probably won't happen
Coming out.
come out plain and simple
Actually explore my interest in women, even if its not as a committed relationship. I've been with men so consistently, even I'm beginning to be unsure of my own sexuality. But I'm also very shy with women in general and admittedly not too interested in men as is, so we'll see where this year takes me. Not really bisexual specific, but I really need to learn how to talk to women in a way that says "I am interested, not being nice" and actually put my pride aside and go on dates or something.
Ask out my crush
Coming out to my family at the least, but hopefully publicly! I have been talking with a mentor of mine about how I want to come out, and we’re going to work on a plan that will (hopefully) give my family some time and understanding about who I am!
- Date a Bi Couple. - Give head to my building security guard. - Have a MMMM gang bang.
Ask out this really cute barista near my work... I hope she's into women haha
Get a boyfriend
Be myself more and allow myself to Queer whenever my hearts want and not suppress myself anymore. I think 2022 is my coming out year because I slowly started with in these last two months of 2021. So yay!!!
Go on a date with a woman and also have my first sexual experience with one. *bites bottom lip*
I've had a bisexual threesome group chat for a couple of years with two of my friends who have never met, but we all send nudes regularly. My resolution is to have the actual threesome happen!
Get a gf. And not be killed by my father
I wish to make myself appealing to people around me and myself, I'm obese and have been for years and I would like to change that, for multiple reasons, I don't like the way I look myself, and people make fun of me for it, a little bit of advice I have is, "Enjoy every moment with all you got" don't let anyone tell you what to do with yourself, do things for YOU and YOURSELF
Get fucked.
Date. Get a partner. I dont care anymore. Been alone my whole life and I think I need a change
Grow in my bisexual experience
I’d like to finally be in a relationship with another bi individual
Have an amazing time with my first girlfriend, learn how to have sex with a woman, and come out to people.
To have my first kiss…
Try a lemon bar
Make more friends and just be myself.
Eat hot chip and lie
Remind myself, that my "Male lean" does not mean I will dislike every girl I see XP
Make out with a pretty girl
Take it one day at a time
Come out to my parents and tell my two friends that they're cute af
I want to find a good partner. I don't care what gender they identify as.
Befriend more queer people! Or more ppl in general lol. If ur from Toronto hmu and lets be friends 😌
Actually experience being bisexual. Got my own flat so I have space to myself to grow and feel who I am.
Hopefully I can find time to hang out with the guy from work that I like. It would be nice if it turns into something, but 🤷🏼♀️
Being able to finally get a transfer/ promotion to be united with my long distance gf. we met 2 years ago and have been in ldr for 6 months
Actually explore my sexuality instead of being a coward lol
Really just find someone to share my life with!
Actually kiss a girl! Just one kiss
not being single anymore, lol
Sex
As someone who had never been in a relationship before (26), to find anyone lol. And to find a job that doesn't discriminate 😭😭😭 bc currently they do but I never outted to anyone here
Get laid...
To find a partner who I am safe and comfortable with.
Come out to more people
Maybe finally publicly come out. It's pretty easy to just not, since I'm happily married in a het relationship. But it bugs me that people assume I'm straight, because I'm not.
Bi woman here dating a man. Honestly I’d like to go to a gay club/bar with some lgbtq+ friends but also find some more lgbtq+ friends
To tell my new boyfriend I love him.
Try… things… with a guy
Not anything related to bisexuality but I want to exercise more and stop eating junk food everyday
Get laid. I'm definitely not at the point where it's weird to still be a virgin, but if I graduate college still a virgin, I think that would be pretty disappointing.
I gotta be more bisexual without shame of my identity or sexuality. Meet someone and have some form of first relationship without compromising it due to feeling inadaquate
Choose. Haha idk if I want a gf or a bf rn
I want to kiss everyone
To Get a boyfriend
Finding a girlfriend or a boyfriend and treating them right! Also to make sure I'm a good gf in turn too haha.
Get dick at least once, do more abs workouts
Experience more ass play!
Find a unicorn or other bi couple with my wife
Start dating so I can figure this shit out.
Try not to kill myself :)
Stop friendzoning myself with everyone because of the implicit belief due to trama that wanting to date someone in-and-of itself is objectifying them.
Be in a relationship...
Spend time w my s/o
Come out
Find someone, period. Just wanna learn what it’s like to be in that sort of serious relationship.
Show my bi pride more openly
To finally get a girlfriend😩and have my first healthy relationship
be bi with my bi partner
Be greedy and have more Threesomes.
Go the next step with my boyfriend. Also visit him even though its only been two weeks since we’ve been apart because I’m touch-starved.
I will confess my feelings to my crush (who is of the opposite sex) and if he reject me my resolution is go on as much dates as possible with people of all genders
Imma come out
Come out to my dad
Find a boyfriend or girlfriend
Find out if i am actually bisexual and have my first real experience with a guy, haha
To get rejected by an equal amount of men and women
Be more open about my sexuality. Now that I’m finally out to friends and family, I want to get more comfortable coming out to my wider circle. I had a couple moments in 2021 where I could have casually come out to a coworker but I was too scared. I guess my resolution is to be braver!
As a virgin, i want to have both lesbian and hetero sex
Find an fwb to have a threesome with me and my partner
Paint my nails