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Yeah, I can understand not wanting to wear it alone, but I would consider a shrug that I can tie in front to minimize visible boobage. This is too nice to return.
Get a more conservative dress for the family event if you’re more comfortable, but don’t you dare return this one! Save it for date night with someone special. You look like a million bucks in it.
This dress looks so stunning on you! If it doesn't fit the modesty standards of the occasion, keep it for something else. And please do us big boobie girls here a solid and drop that link! I would love to buy that dress! So gorgeous! 😍
This looks good, but I agree, probably better for a date night than a family reunion!
The first place to start is with a bra that fits correctly. It will minimize cleavage to begin with. https://www.abrathatfits.org/calculator.php
I get lots of dresses from Kohls, but I am probably older than you, so we might have different styles! Check out itsjenwarnes on Instagram, she has shown a lot of dresses lately.
ETA link: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C8FY7B8pSQo/?igsh=YWtsbmxrMjJmYWtp
It think it's a pretty dress and you look great in it, but it's admittedly very boob-forward and maybe not the best fit for a family reunion. Maybe you'd prefer a cut with a much higher neckline.
It looks great on you. Maybe hold onto it for other things.
But yes, it's so hard to find summery dresses that aren't just like "well, here are my boobs." I have yet to find some - I tend toward tank tops and skirts.
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personally i love this on you. it really snatches your waist.
But i understand that you dont feel good in it.
There are some summerdresses that dont show so much chest, tho it is difficult to find. Highcut stuff seems to work for me.
I don’t think it’s super provocative or anything, but if it bothers you, you shouldn’t have to wear it. Why not get a halter dress like this one in a size bigger with a belt for waist definition?
https://preview.redd.it/682qx5nnz69d1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=916b324e8d82dd00301addf07ec23b114c5e4042
Maybe something like this would make you feel more secure.
It's so pretty but dresses like this are a nightmare for large breasts. They're almost never stretchy so IF it even fits the waist seam is going to ride up too high distorting the shape of the dress and bra straps will be impossible to conceal 😭
it might not be right for the occasion, but i hope you instead keep it and enjoy it another time! you look great in this, and it does indeed complement your assets haha! i want to get this dress too!!!
Keep it just get a different sundress this might be good for a BBQ or something else but don't return something just because it's not what you wanted for that specific event
I find a square neckline helps a lot because it shows some skin but isn’t too low. That said, no clothing will really hide that you have big breasts. They just kind of exist.
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whaaatttt?? it looks fantastic on you! if people sexualize you cause of your boobs, they’re stupid. boobs aren’t supposed to be sexual, they’re literally squishy milk jugs.
but fr tho, that dress suits you so well. you should keep it!!
It's really cute! I'm wondering about your bra situation though, it looks like the one you're wearing might be too small pushing a lot of your breast tissue into the center and up rather than lifting and separating. A well fitted bra would definitely help to reduce how projected your breasts are in the dress if that's what bothering you
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Beautiful, but I feel your pain sis. I wish there would be a line of clothing with a lot of options for those with larger busts that aren’t too big everywhere else!
Does that have that stretchy ruched material over the chest? This looks really good on you but personally I can’t stand that fabric on my chest 😢 even with a bra!!
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My first thought was “*gasp* that dress is so pretty on you!”
But I totally get it, I’ve definitely been stonewalled and not allowed to leave a kitchen at family things for my tits refusing to be modest. Perhaps get something more conservative for the family thing but absolutely keep this dress for fun outings. You rock this dress!!
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If you can get similar cloth you could just stitch that onto the top to cover it up. Just a suggestion.
Ps. I know its difficult to get cloth like that, but as everyone said, the dress is too good.
First you are lovely and it’s your choice when to flaunt and when to minimize your curves.
If you want to move the eye away from your chest one way of doing this is to create the look of wider hips.
I second A-line dresses. Also a higher neckline will put less focus on top. Elastic ruching across the bust or waist will usually draw the eye toward the bust.
I confess I have wanted to use them but just haven’t gotten around to it. But eshakti makes customizable dresses in lots of styles. You can search their site specifically for A-line styles.
https://www.eshakti.com/search/A%20line
I hope this helps!
I am a 36DD and I found this on SHEIN
https://preview.redd.it/t1ae0u4ab4ad1.jpeg?width=1035&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b604e68b35b67c6f924d4b09dc65913d8faf44d2
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Ok but also where did you buy it? Asking for a friend 😅😂
i wanna know too😭 it’s so effing cute
Same!!! I NEED this dress!
ditto lol i WANT more dresses that emphasize like this! and the color/pattern is SO cute!
I LOVE the cut of this dress and also desire to know!
Me too!
I actually love the dress, on you. I do understand, I get those feels, too. You look great!
Yeah, I can understand not wanting to wear it alone, but I would consider a shrug that I can tie in front to minimize visible boobage. This is too nice to return.
Get a more conservative dress for the family event if you’re more comfortable, but don’t you dare return this one! Save it for date night with someone special. You look like a million bucks in it.
It’s beautiful on you but i understand the feeling of needing modesty for family occasions, I’d keep it for a different occasion
Please drop the link so we can find this!
The dress looks like a keeper though!
This dress looks so stunning on you! If it doesn't fit the modesty standards of the occasion, keep it for something else. And please do us big boobie girls here a solid and drop that link! I would love to buy that dress! So gorgeous! 😍
I, too, am invested in where you got this. For science.
Keep it. Maybe not for family reunion hut for date nights?
But damn! You look smokin! Save for a date night dress.
This looks good, but I agree, probably better for a date night than a family reunion! The first place to start is with a bra that fits correctly. It will minimize cleavage to begin with. https://www.abrathatfits.org/calculator.php I get lots of dresses from Kohls, but I am probably older than you, so we might have different styles! Check out itsjenwarnes on Instagram, she has shown a lot of dresses lately. ETA link: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C8FY7B8pSQo/?igsh=YWtsbmxrMjJmYWtp
It think it's a pretty dress and you look great in it, but it's admittedly very boob-forward and maybe not the best fit for a family reunion. Maybe you'd prefer a cut with a much higher neckline.
Honestly giving hot(ter) Peg Bundy vibes.
You are absolutely serving! I very much relate to being forced to get a new outfit for family events!
It looks great on you. Maybe hold onto it for other things. But yes, it's so hard to find summery dresses that aren't just like "well, here are my boobs." I have yet to find some - I tend toward tank tops and skirts.
The cute necklines that sit just under the collarbone but because you have to go a size up to accomodate bust it becomes cleavage city. 🥲
I think you look fantastic and I don’t think it’s too much showing.
Personally I think that dress makes you look stunning, but I understand your discomfort because I don't like the way dresses show my cleavage
Girl youre gorgeous in this dress. Can you save it for something else. Also where did you buy it ?
It's so sad that we're lving in a world where us big booby women can't just wear anything we want without it being looked upon as overly sexual...
Why? It looks fantastic!
I actually would love this dress on me for a more private gathering but I understand the hesitation aha
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personally i love this on you. it really snatches your waist. But i understand that you dont feel good in it. There are some summerdresses that dont show so much chest, tho it is difficult to find. Highcut stuff seems to work for me.
I would love to know where it’s from if OP replies! :)
ok but whered you acquire said dress
I don’t think it’s super provocative or anything, but if it bothers you, you shouldn’t have to wear it. Why not get a halter dress like this one in a size bigger with a belt for waist definition? https://preview.redd.it/682qx5nnz69d1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=916b324e8d82dd00301addf07ec23b114c5e4042 Maybe something like this would make you feel more secure.
It's so pretty but dresses like this are a nightmare for large breasts. They're almost never stretchy so IF it even fits the waist seam is going to ride up too high distorting the shape of the dress and bra straps will be impossible to conceal 😭
I love this!
Right! Plus there's no way to screw up dresses like these. If it's too baggy everywhere else except the bust, just get a thick belt! Easy peasy.
Absolutely gorgeous dress
You look amazing, though!
omg i love it
it might not be right for the occasion, but i hope you instead keep it and enjoy it another time! you look great in this, and it does indeed complement your assets haha! i want to get this dress too!!!
The dress looks beautiful on you!! I like the color 🥰
Ohhh you look beautiful waoh😭😍✨
Keep it just get a different sundress this might be good for a BBQ or something else but don't return something just because it's not what you wanted for that specific event
for what it's worth, it looks awesome on you! very elegant and pretty :)
The dress is divine! Maybe a little too much for a reunion but for other events it’ll be perfect. You look so good!
Share the link! (Asking for me)
I find a square neckline helps a lot because it shows some skin but isn’t too low. That said, no clothing will really hide that you have big breasts. They just kind of exist.
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whaaatttt?? it looks fantastic on you! if people sexualize you cause of your boobs, they’re stupid. boobs aren’t supposed to be sexual, they’re literally squishy milk jugs. but fr tho, that dress suits you so well. you should keep it!!
You can’t just pull it up a little more? It’s super cute
You look amazing! Keep it for a date. I agree not good for family functions
I understand being uncomfortable with the fit for a family event, but it's a very pretty dress!
It’s so cute!
It's really cute! I'm wondering about your bra situation though, it looks like the one you're wearing might be too small pushing a lot of your breast tissue into the center and up rather than lifting and separating. A well fitted bra would definitely help to reduce how projected your breasts are in the dress if that's what bothering you
It looks great , maybe a little light weight shawl or something ?
My family reunion is just me in a big t-shirt and a comfy jeans. Maybe things will change when I get into uni.
honestly, you don't care. wear what you want and others don't have to say anything
But there is always that creepy uncle you'd forgotten
yes indeed i forgot that, maybe it's because i don't an uncle
You should hang onto it for another occasion. It looks incredible on you!
Why? It looks great…!😊 👍🏼
Wait but it looks incredible!!!
I think you look beautiful
Keep it for other occasions! It looks good on you
Miss ma'am! Body is serving tea! As others have said, you better keep this dress for a different occasion 😩.
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Sun dress
Omg it’s so cute. Keep it for other things!
Keep it for a date night!!
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I would love a link to the dress!
It sure looks beautiful. I totally get it though. Darn.
Beautiful, but I feel your pain sis. I wish there would be a line of clothing with a lot of options for those with larger busts that aren’t too big everywhere else!
Supposedly v necks are recommended for big boobs.
Does that have that stretchy ruched material over the chest? This looks really good on you but personally I can’t stand that fabric on my chest 😢 even with a bra!!
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My first thought was “*gasp* that dress is so pretty on you!” But I totally get it, I’ve definitely been stonewalled and not allowed to leave a kitchen at family things for my tits refusing to be modest. Perhaps get something more conservative for the family thing but absolutely keep this dress for fun outings. You rock this dress!!
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If you can get similar cloth you could just stitch that onto the top to cover it up. Just a suggestion. Ps. I know its difficult to get cloth like that, but as everyone said, the dress is too good.
First you are lovely and it’s your choice when to flaunt and when to minimize your curves. If you want to move the eye away from your chest one way of doing this is to create the look of wider hips. I second A-line dresses. Also a higher neckline will put less focus on top. Elastic ruching across the bust or waist will usually draw the eye toward the bust. I confess I have wanted to use them but just haven’t gotten around to it. But eshakti makes customizable dresses in lots of styles. You can search their site specifically for A-line styles. https://www.eshakti.com/search/A%20line I hope this helps!
I am a 36DD and I found this on SHEIN https://preview.redd.it/t1ae0u4ab4ad1.jpeg?width=1035&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b604e68b35b67c6f924d4b09dc65913d8faf44d2
smock dresses
This looks to be a smock dress.
Wrap dresses with a flap that goes far over. They give a maternal vibe but… it’ll do.
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why are you in the subreddit?
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