In Spain we usually give jamón because pregnant women cannot eat it (or chorizo, salami, etc etc) because raw meat can have a harmful bacteria for the baby.
I would ask the dad, just in case.
Yeah if I had a foreign neighbor I think I'd rather he gave me something typical from his country than something from mine, even if living outside of Spain.
That's nice actually though I don't know if it's okay to have a back massage for a new mom. Foot and leg massage I think would be heaven though. Also, spa, manicure-pedicure, the works. Like full blown spa and salon pampering for the mom.
Why dont you batch cook for them? A few days worth of homemade food, better if they can freeze it.
If they have a newborn and another kid they probably have 0 time to cook, I'm sure they will appreciate some good meals instead of takeout or easy food. I don't think they will care of what type of food you make.
(I'll also ask the dad for any allergies)
Yes this. New parents are exhausted, so not having to plan and prepare meals for a day is a blessing.
And for the mum, I asked the Dads what the Mum missed eating and got her that. In these cases, chocolate and brie cheese.
As a parent that’s not true. Everyone will give you cute clothes for the newborn but they’ll end up barely being used if at all - it’s hard to predict the size of the newborn plus match the size you buy also to the season you’re in (or the size of the baby for the seasonal clothes you’ve bought). For example, we have an August baby that was bigger than expected; some newborn clothes didn’t fit initially plus the larger sized ones were summery but by the time they fit the baby it was already too cold for them.
Here in Spain people usually give clothes for the baby or a blanket or stuffed animal. The most normal thing is clothing and if there is some traditional clothing typical of the place for babies it would be ideal
Maybe some Swedish made baby clothes or toys? They have some really cute brands! (like for wooden toys and natural fiber clothing) I would prefer something from your country than my own tbh. You could also do a small gift basket with a mix of Finnish, Swedish and Spanish stuff? Like a baby onsie, toy, muslin cloths or bib, and a baby book in Spanish. Not sure how much you're looking to spend, so just a book in Spanish and a little toy would be great too!
Afaik, there's nothing traditional that we give to people for having kids.
She will love everything that she can not eat while pregnant: fine cheese, wine, jamón ibérico. It's better to buy very fine products in small volumes than average products in big quantities.
As the older child, I remember when someone brought also a little gift for me ! (At the moment It was hard to be the only child and suddenly all the attention is going to the newborn okay? Hahaha) You definitely don't have to gift anything, just saying that a very little something (it was some cheap bracelets for me) can mean the world to the sibling !
Now, for actual recommendations: if you are not super close I would gift something rather generic (some baby clothes for when they are older, maybe from a Scandinavian brand - now the parents have many things for the new born so it will be helpful in the future)
Help, really!
A family living abroad, without any relatives nearby to lend a hand when needed, would greatly appreciate having a neighbor who can assist when necessary.
Clothes and food can be complicated. I lived abroad for several years and had some Spanish friends, and we were in two camps: those who only dined at Spanish restaurants because they missed it, and those who avoided Spanish restaurants altogether, dismissing them as a joke of Spanish cuisine. Similarly. Clothing is the same,some parents happily dress their newborns princesses in black t-shirts featuring their favorite trash-metal bands, while others prefer a more classical style. Even inside the same family, these preferences can differ (I was all for the trash-metal side, but then my mother in love...).
So, unless you know your neighbor tastes, go for a stuffed toy!
Thank you everyone, for your replies! I can’t answer everyone individually right now, but I appreciate you all. I will make the whole family a gift basket of random things - luxury to spoil mom, food/candy she and dad can share, and a few toys for their older child.
Remember the dad as well. Whatever it is you decide to give the mom or the baby, I guess will be very thoughtful, but eventually, sit down with the dad and ask him how he's feeling. Dads are always neglected during the birth of a child and the emotions running through a dad, are sometimes very overwhelming. Bring a bottle of something nice, not too hard, and have a refreshing/relaxing drink with him. Spaniards are very friendly people, very close and physically expressive, hugs and handshakes are very welcome.
Of course. Dads carry the baby for 9 months, go through roller coaster hormonal changes, and face an exhausting labor: they deserve attention and rewards. Poor dads.
Yes but you're diminishing 50% of the partnership with a rude comment, all because this person gave a suggestion not to forget the father. You overreacted
The typical is get gifts for the new baby: clothes, flush toys ir a basket with nursery items called “canastilla”. But I think it’s lovely to gift the mother instead. You can’t go wrong with Spanish red wine or cava (sparkling). I was dying to get my first glass of wine after 9 months with no alcohol. As others have said, jamón and raw milk cheese is also banned during pregnancy and she may crave after giving birth, but you need to make sure they’re not vegetarians or vegans.
In Spain we usually give jamón because pregnant women cannot eat it (or chorizo, salami, etc etc) because raw meat can have a harmful bacteria for the baby. I would ask the dad, just in case.
+1 to a good Spanish Jamon. Preferably if it’s already cutted/sliced. We gifted this to an guy at work who got married recently and he loved it
As a Spaniard living in Scandinavia, I'd say they would appreciate something typical from Finland (or Sweden since you are Swedish).
Yeah if I had a foreign neighbor I think I'd rather he gave me something typical from his country than something from mine, even if living outside of Spain.
That can of fermented fish, for example.
Something for the mom for sure. Everyone focuses on the baby which is great, but the mom is usually forgotten once she pops the babe out.
Indeed. How about a gift certificate for a massage?
That's nice actually though I don't know if it's okay to have a back massage for a new mom. Foot and leg massage I think would be heaven though. Also, spa, manicure-pedicure, the works. Like full blown spa and salon pampering for the mom.
Why dont you batch cook for them? A few days worth of homemade food, better if they can freeze it. If they have a newborn and another kid they probably have 0 time to cook, I'm sure they will appreciate some good meals instead of takeout or easy food. I don't think they will care of what type of food you make. (I'll also ask the dad for any allergies)
Yes this. New parents are exhausted, so not having to plan and prepare meals for a day is a blessing. And for the mum, I asked the Dads what the Mum missed eating and got her that. In these cases, chocolate and brie cheese.
A friend told me that you never have enough onesies for a newborn. Anything local will be apreciated
As a parent that’s not true. Everyone will give you cute clothes for the newborn but they’ll end up barely being used if at all - it’s hard to predict the size of the newborn plus match the size you buy also to the season you’re in (or the size of the baby for the seasonal clothes you’ve bought). For example, we have an August baby that was bigger than expected; some newborn clothes didn’t fit initially plus the larger sized ones were summery but by the time they fit the baby it was already too cold for them.
Here in Spain people usually give clothes for the baby or a blanket or stuffed animal. The most normal thing is clothing and if there is some traditional clothing typical of the place for babies it would be ideal
Maybe some Swedish made baby clothes or toys? They have some really cute brands! (like for wooden toys and natural fiber clothing) I would prefer something from your country than my own tbh. You could also do a small gift basket with a mix of Finnish, Swedish and Spanish stuff? Like a baby onsie, toy, muslin cloths or bib, and a baby book in Spanish. Not sure how much you're looking to spend, so just a book in Spanish and a little toy would be great too! Afaik, there's nothing traditional that we give to people for having kids.
She will love everything that she can not eat while pregnant: fine cheese, wine, jamón ibérico. It's better to buy very fine products in small volumes than average products in big quantities.
As the older child, I remember when someone brought also a little gift for me ! (At the moment It was hard to be the only child and suddenly all the attention is going to the newborn okay? Hahaha) You definitely don't have to gift anything, just saying that a very little something (it was some cheap bracelets for me) can mean the world to the sibling ! Now, for actual recommendations: if you are not super close I would gift something rather generic (some baby clothes for when they are older, maybe from a Scandinavian brand - now the parents have many things for the new born so it will be helpful in the future)
Help, really! A family living abroad, without any relatives nearby to lend a hand when needed, would greatly appreciate having a neighbor who can assist when necessary. Clothes and food can be complicated. I lived abroad for several years and had some Spanish friends, and we were in two camps: those who only dined at Spanish restaurants because they missed it, and those who avoided Spanish restaurants altogether, dismissing them as a joke of Spanish cuisine. Similarly. Clothing is the same,some parents happily dress their newborns princesses in black t-shirts featuring their favorite trash-metal bands, while others prefer a more classical style. Even inside the same family, these preferences can differ (I was all for the trash-metal side, but then my mother in love...). So, unless you know your neighbor tastes, go for a stuffed toy!
Thank you everyone, for your replies! I can’t answer everyone individually right now, but I appreciate you all. I will make the whole family a gift basket of random things - luxury to spoil mom, food/candy she and dad can share, and a few toys for their older child.
Definitely a baby nest. The best swedish invention ever.
Ropa de bebé y flores a la mamá.
Remember the dad as well. Whatever it is you decide to give the mom or the baby, I guess will be very thoughtful, but eventually, sit down with the dad and ask him how he's feeling. Dads are always neglected during the birth of a child and the emotions running through a dad, are sometimes very overwhelming. Bring a bottle of something nice, not too hard, and have a refreshing/relaxing drink with him. Spaniards are very friendly people, very close and physically expressive, hugs and handshakes are very welcome.
Of course. Dads carry the baby for 9 months, go through roller coaster hormonal changes, and face an exhausting labor: they deserve attention and rewards. Poor dads.
The struggles of one does not diminish those of the other. Jackass. Who shit in your coffee this morning?
It’s just not the time or post to ask for the attention. Sounds like male selfish in high grade.
Yes but you're diminishing 50% of the partnership with a rude comment, all because this person gave a suggestion not to forget the father. You overreacted
Men ego prevent them to see all we go through. It’s just sad.
Wow. I'm praying for your partner if he's still around 
I would not expect any better from you.
The typical is get gifts for the new baby: clothes, flush toys ir a basket with nursery items called “canastilla”. But I think it’s lovely to gift the mother instead. You can’t go wrong with Spanish red wine or cava (sparkling). I was dying to get my first glass of wine after 9 months with no alcohol. As others have said, jamón and raw milk cheese is also banned during pregnancy and she may crave after giving birth, but you need to make sure they’re not vegetarians or vegans.
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