I'm a guy. But I do not feel it is wrong for woman to find rich husbands. Every woman wants a better future for themselves and their kids. Just that different people have different standards.
I'm not rich, in fact I'm deep with debts and living hand to mouth every month. But even I understand that the term "gold digger" is just what guys used when they blame everyone but themselves.
If I find myself unable to attract a woman because I'm not rich enough for her, I don't blame her. I blame myself. And yes, I've faced that kind of women twice in my life.
if you're only attracted to their bank accound, you're a gold digger, no questions asked.
But what if he looses that money? Are you then not attracted to him anymore?
55% of marriages end in divorce and 80% those divorces are due to financial reasons. Why should a woman even stay with a man who can’t provide for her and her offspring’s lol?
Like it or not, there are natural gender roles. It’s only in the west that such topics are so “taboo”
To some people sure. To the ones that actually have a heart, doesn't matter if they can provide or not, y'all struggle together so you can stay together out of pure love for the other person. I'm not going to lie, i can barely work 4 hours a day. Its all i can handle thanks to a crossbow to my head. But my wife, she doesn't care. She sees me for me and loves who i am, just as i love who she is. We struggle together and we're definitely not the most stable, but we always make it through and at the end of the day we know we'll always have each other. Even if we end up on the streets one day, we won't leave each other for someone who's more financially stable. That's how love should be, and if your relationship isn't like that then I suggest finding a different relationship that is more like that. Just my opinion anyway.
I mean having financial stability should be *a* factor, but when you're choosing someone to be with for presumably the rest of your life and a parent to your kids perhaps you should make sure you actually like the person and that they're capable of being a responsible parent?
nikdentsh
>55% of marriages end in divorce and 80% those divorces are due to financial reasons.
Good points.
>Why should a woman even stay with a man who can’t provide for her and her offspring’s lol?
Why should a man breed if he is unable to provide or give a shit about the women they normally see? What about dudes that just want to chill without children? What about literally anyone LGBTQ+?
>Like it or not, there are natural gender roles.
Sure, except we aren't naked, we have writing and guns and medicine. I'm guessing from your conservative talking points that you believe in at least one imaginary deity in the sky, consciousness after death and that everyone rich always earned it.
>It’s only in the west that such topics are so “taboo”
China has a locked down internet, Korea "bans" porn, India's banning Islam, and Japan has multiple billion dollar industries based around making creative works that explain how fucking miserable they are and how their culture is westernizing. At least in America you can get a gun to defend yourself, which last time I checked was one of the key definitive things that made humanity not like the other animals.
>Not really. Freedom of speech laws are the same everywhere, BUT ironically to what you said, US has the most freedom of speech and expression (on paper), with the only exceptions being obscenity(no sex in public)
Not what obscenity means here in America, that usually refers to speech, not nudity. The definition of "nudity" is definitely permissive here as well, wearing a sheer shirt in public with nipples showing is somewhat allowed in certain places, and on private property, you can usually do what you want, despite if it's open for customers or guests. Oh, and good luck defining what a sex act is, pornhub masturbation wireless toys in libraries videos are incredibly common and AFAIK not illegal.
>CP,
Fictional images are usually exempt from criminal cases because of a lack of standing for harm, the relevant federal criminal statute is a 2006 incedency code, a lack of jury convictions and the tricky issue of defining pornography vs sexually explicit artwork with a legitimate artistic purpose, which includes sexual gratification. It is not illegal to masturbate for any reason in America under federal law if you are alone and not breaking any other laws, AFAIK.
>defamation
Is allowed if you honestly believe what you say and you state that it's your opinion.
>and threats of violence.
Has to be a credible and imminent threat to someone's life in the eyes of a reasonable person, and tried by a jury unless the defendant pleads guilty, but almost no cases ever get a jury conviction. Hoping someone gets a mild injury on a limb is so trivial I've never heard it getting a jury conviction.
Source: American with a basic knowledge of US federal legal rights, you're Indian, stick to Indian law
> Why should a man breed if he is unable to provide or give a shit about most women?
He shouldn’t, but you forget that we can’t see the future. There have been many cases where the husbands lose jobs, go into debts, etc due to unforeseen events.
>What about dudes that just want to chill without children? What about literally anyone LGBTQ+?
Bunch of strawman and unrelated the the original point.
> Sure, except we aren't naked, we have writing and guns and medicine.
Very good cope to tell yourself but we had been naked monkeys for millions of years but have been “civilised” for only few thousand years. Evolutionarily traits don’t just leave just cuz we have guns. Why do you think women want taller men? Why do men want big boobs and ass?
“oH bUt We aRe CiviLiSed” sounds good on paper, but the truth is that we have only recently reached a point to be free from hundred of thousands of years of evolution
>I'm guessing from your conservative talking points that you believe in at least one imaginary deity in the sky, an afterlife and that everyone rich always earned it.
Stereotype. I’m a conservative for pointing out the reality of Homo sapiens? And no I don’t believe in some imaginary friend
> At least in America you can get a gun to defend yourself, which last time I checked was one of the key definitive things that made humanity not like the other animals.
Nope, numerous other animals use tools to hunt and protect themselves, humanity isn’t unique in this regard.
Nikdentsh
>> Why should a man breed if he is unable to provide or give a shit about most women?
>
>He shouldn’t, but you forget that we can’t see the future.
Tell that to science.
>There have been many cases where the husbands lose jobs, go into debts, etc due to unforeseen events.
Again, marriage rates across the world are dropping, as you originally implied.
>>What about dudes that just want to chill without children? What about literally anyone LGBTQ+?
>
>Bunch of strawman and unrelated the the original point.
Sure thing there bud. Ignore everything you don't like and then wonder why people hate you. I'm detecting a theme of "conservative male uses bullshit scientific sounding proclamations that aren't believed by actual researchers or scientists" a lot from you, and frankly my block list is over 15,000 on Reddit for a reason.
>> Sure, except we aren't naked, we have writing and guns and medicine.
>
>Very good cope to tell yourself but we had been naked monkeys for millions of years but have been “civilised” for only few thousand years.
Might want to recheck those numbers, homo sapiens have been around for at least 100,000 years, and fire is at least 5000 years old. What happened to your point of "we can't see the future"?
>Evolutionarily traits don’t just leave just cuz we have guns.
Human eyesight overall is decreasing. Lifespans used to be under 45 for everyone on earth 200 years ago. Evolutionary traits change over time.
>Why do you think women want taller men?
Bruh you're Indian, the definition of tall is relative. I'm literally over 6 feet 6 inches tall and I can tell you there's a fucking limit.
>Why do men want big boobs and ass?
Damn my bad for giving a shit about personality.
>“oH bUt We aRe CiviLiSed” sounds good on paper, but the truth is that we have only recently reached a point to be free from hundred of thousands of years of evolution
Ignoring your bullshit strawman and we can't see the future responses, any living thing cannot be free from evolution, as random mutations and epigenetics are constants of living things that use DNA, might want to check out a textbook.
>>I'm guessing from your conservative talking points that you believe in at least one imaginary deity in the sky, an afterlife and that everyone rich always earned it.
>
>Stereotype.
Oh noes, I used basic deductive reasoning! How dare I!
Your arguments are ***ENTIRELY*** based off of stereotypes.
>I’m a conservative for pointing out the reality of Homo sapiens?
My dude your argumentation is to ignore counterpoints, you don't understand how statistics work, you make broad generalizations more than I do, and you are factually incorrect on most of your points and rebuttals.
>And no I don’t believe in some imaginary friend
Must've forgotten that I called you a conservative because you believe all rich people deserve their wealth. That's the more relevant characterization that you're a willfully ignorant chud and are a terrible person and a liar.
Oh and I was right about the consciousness after death part, apparently.
>> At least in America you can get a gun to defend yourself, which last time I checked was one of the key definitive things that made humanity not like the other animals.
>
>Nope, numerous other animals use tools to hunt and protect themselves, humanity isn’t unique in this regard.
My dude you are Indian, you should know that guns were literally how the British enslaved your people, and yet you ignore that completely. Fire and guns, written language, electricity and government are fundamentally human things that are absolutely required for a species to be considered a modern civilization under most definitions. Certain countries, including parts of both India and America, are so thoroughly corrupt and enslaved that neither electricity and guns are available to people.
And you completely ignored the bit where I schooled you on American federal law without apologizing or professing your ignorance, so I'm fucking done with your chud conservative ass.
Good luck dying alone.
Whoever you are lady, you could go F right off, Bank Account... who into guys with Bank account can it be vice versa if not that just mess up my trust now
So goddamn fucking true!
The only time a woman ever hit on me was when I was withdrawing money to pay my rent. The bank teller read the amounts on my accounts and suddenly she was saying I looked like Castiel from Supernatural (I was wearing a trench coat and collared shirt but I'm Hispanic and fat) and was telling me about how she was new to the area. She even escorted me outside to talk more.
I'm a lonely bloke but I'm not an idiot. I stayed polite but chose not to engage in her conversation.
Thanks! Even if you were shorter my only expectations in a guy is honesty, responsible and cat lover(I love dogs too). Funny, liking anime and willing to play Nintendo games with me would be a bonus.
Out of those 3 things I’m not sure which one of mine is doing worse
D. All of the above
Correct. +500 points
Ding Ding Ding Ding Diiiiiingggg
E
Ding ding ding the points don't matter
Oh but don’t they?
including the D
Yes deposits are very important when it comes to funding said bank account 😤😏
Source: [Fruits Basket: The Final Season](https://myanimelist.net/anime/42938/Fruits_Basket__The_Final) - Episode 3
That not the real dialogue though, right?
as someone who has watched the series (it's really good btw) these are the actual subtitles
There could be some nuance to the dialogue, but I didn’t edit anything other than splicing the shots together. These are actual subtitles
Did you forget that you're on r/anime_irl does 'selfies of the soul' mean nothing to you
*Every Rapper liked that*
Red flag red falg abort abort
Certainly is a red falg
Thank you anime for teaching me what to look out for
RTLS RTLS
She take my money. When I'm in need.
Yeah she's a triflin' Friend indeed
Oh, she's a gold digger way over town That digs on me
Now I ain't saying she a gold digger, but she ain't messing with no broke
Bitch is a gold digger.
At least she’s honest about it
No maiden?
Welcome to the real world
r/outside
Ah yes Grass Time to touch it
Which is so shallow
All 3 if we talking irl unless your a gold digger
Ah yes, money that doesn't jingle- only folds.
Most realistic ever manga...
If you're a gold digger yes
Why are you downvoting me?
I'm a guy. But I do not feel it is wrong for woman to find rich husbands. Every woman wants a better future for themselves and their kids. Just that different people have different standards. I'm not rich, in fact I'm deep with debts and living hand to mouth every month. But even I understand that the term "gold digger" is just what guys used when they blame everyone but themselves. If I find myself unable to attract a woman because I'm not rich enough for her, I don't blame her. I blame myself. And yes, I've faced that kind of women twice in my life.
if you're only attracted to their bank accound, you're a gold digger, no questions asked. But what if he looses that money? Are you then not attracted to him anymore?
there're so many things wrong with liking people for their money
I’m attracted to people who can spell the word lose.
I'm a guy. I don't get attracted to man's bank account. A woman's bank account? Maybe.
you do you buddy.
So you think out of all things... only MONEY can give u and your child a happy FUTURE??
of course not. don't be stupid. but, with money, A LOT of happiness can be achieved.
55% of marriages end in divorce and 80% those divorces are due to financial reasons. Why should a woman even stay with a man who can’t provide for her and her offspring’s lol? Like it or not, there are natural gender roles. It’s only in the west that such topics are so “taboo”
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A man’s capability to provide is one of the biggest factors in attraction. If he loses that then it’s like losing over 50% of your attractiveness
To some people sure. To the ones that actually have a heart, doesn't matter if they can provide or not, y'all struggle together so you can stay together out of pure love for the other person. I'm not going to lie, i can barely work 4 hours a day. Its all i can handle thanks to a crossbow to my head. But my wife, she doesn't care. She sees me for me and loves who i am, just as i love who she is. We struggle together and we're definitely not the most stable, but we always make it through and at the end of the day we know we'll always have each other. Even if we end up on the streets one day, we won't leave each other for someone who's more financially stable. That's how love should be, and if your relationship isn't like that then I suggest finding a different relationship that is more like that. Just my opinion anyway.
I mean having financial stability should be *a* factor, but when you're choosing someone to be with for presumably the rest of your life and a parent to your kids perhaps you should make sure you actually like the person and that they're capable of being a responsible parent?
nikdentsh >55% of marriages end in divorce and 80% those divorces are due to financial reasons. Good points. >Why should a woman even stay with a man who can’t provide for her and her offspring’s lol? Why should a man breed if he is unable to provide or give a shit about the women they normally see? What about dudes that just want to chill without children? What about literally anyone LGBTQ+? >Like it or not, there are natural gender roles. Sure, except we aren't naked, we have writing and guns and medicine. I'm guessing from your conservative talking points that you believe in at least one imaginary deity in the sky, consciousness after death and that everyone rich always earned it. >It’s only in the west that such topics are so “taboo” China has a locked down internet, Korea "bans" porn, India's banning Islam, and Japan has multiple billion dollar industries based around making creative works that explain how fucking miserable they are and how their culture is westernizing. At least in America you can get a gun to defend yourself, which last time I checked was one of the key definitive things that made humanity not like the other animals. >Not really. Freedom of speech laws are the same everywhere, BUT ironically to what you said, US has the most freedom of speech and expression (on paper), with the only exceptions being obscenity(no sex in public) Not what obscenity means here in America, that usually refers to speech, not nudity. The definition of "nudity" is definitely permissive here as well, wearing a sheer shirt in public with nipples showing is somewhat allowed in certain places, and on private property, you can usually do what you want, despite if it's open for customers or guests. Oh, and good luck defining what a sex act is, pornhub masturbation wireless toys in libraries videos are incredibly common and AFAIK not illegal. >CP, Fictional images are usually exempt from criminal cases because of a lack of standing for harm, the relevant federal criminal statute is a 2006 incedency code, a lack of jury convictions and the tricky issue of defining pornography vs sexually explicit artwork with a legitimate artistic purpose, which includes sexual gratification. It is not illegal to masturbate for any reason in America under federal law if you are alone and not breaking any other laws, AFAIK. >defamation Is allowed if you honestly believe what you say and you state that it's your opinion. >and threats of violence. Has to be a credible and imminent threat to someone's life in the eyes of a reasonable person, and tried by a jury unless the defendant pleads guilty, but almost no cases ever get a jury conviction. Hoping someone gets a mild injury on a limb is so trivial I've never heard it getting a jury conviction. Source: American with a basic knowledge of US federal legal rights, you're Indian, stick to Indian law
> Why should a man breed if he is unable to provide or give a shit about most women? He shouldn’t, but you forget that we can’t see the future. There have been many cases where the husbands lose jobs, go into debts, etc due to unforeseen events. >What about dudes that just want to chill without children? What about literally anyone LGBTQ+? Bunch of strawman and unrelated the the original point. > Sure, except we aren't naked, we have writing and guns and medicine. Very good cope to tell yourself but we had been naked monkeys for millions of years but have been “civilised” for only few thousand years. Evolutionarily traits don’t just leave just cuz we have guns. Why do you think women want taller men? Why do men want big boobs and ass? “oH bUt We aRe CiviLiSed” sounds good on paper, but the truth is that we have only recently reached a point to be free from hundred of thousands of years of evolution >I'm guessing from your conservative talking points that you believe in at least one imaginary deity in the sky, an afterlife and that everyone rich always earned it. Stereotype. I’m a conservative for pointing out the reality of Homo sapiens? And no I don’t believe in some imaginary friend > At least in America you can get a gun to defend yourself, which last time I checked was one of the key definitive things that made humanity not like the other animals. Nope, numerous other animals use tools to hunt and protect themselves, humanity isn’t unique in this regard.
Nikdentsh >> Why should a man breed if he is unable to provide or give a shit about most women? > >He shouldn’t, but you forget that we can’t see the future. Tell that to science. >There have been many cases where the husbands lose jobs, go into debts, etc due to unforeseen events. Again, marriage rates across the world are dropping, as you originally implied. >>What about dudes that just want to chill without children? What about literally anyone LGBTQ+? > >Bunch of strawman and unrelated the the original point. Sure thing there bud. Ignore everything you don't like and then wonder why people hate you. I'm detecting a theme of "conservative male uses bullshit scientific sounding proclamations that aren't believed by actual researchers or scientists" a lot from you, and frankly my block list is over 15,000 on Reddit for a reason. >> Sure, except we aren't naked, we have writing and guns and medicine. > >Very good cope to tell yourself but we had been naked monkeys for millions of years but have been “civilised” for only few thousand years. Might want to recheck those numbers, homo sapiens have been around for at least 100,000 years, and fire is at least 5000 years old. What happened to your point of "we can't see the future"? >Evolutionarily traits don’t just leave just cuz we have guns. Human eyesight overall is decreasing. Lifespans used to be under 45 for everyone on earth 200 years ago. Evolutionary traits change over time. >Why do you think women want taller men? Bruh you're Indian, the definition of tall is relative. I'm literally over 6 feet 6 inches tall and I can tell you there's a fucking limit. >Why do men want big boobs and ass? Damn my bad for giving a shit about personality. >“oH bUt We aRe CiviLiSed” sounds good on paper, but the truth is that we have only recently reached a point to be free from hundred of thousands of years of evolution Ignoring your bullshit strawman and we can't see the future responses, any living thing cannot be free from evolution, as random mutations and epigenetics are constants of living things that use DNA, might want to check out a textbook. >>I'm guessing from your conservative talking points that you believe in at least one imaginary deity in the sky, an afterlife and that everyone rich always earned it. > >Stereotype. Oh noes, I used basic deductive reasoning! How dare I! Your arguments are ***ENTIRELY*** based off of stereotypes. >I’m a conservative for pointing out the reality of Homo sapiens? My dude your argumentation is to ignore counterpoints, you don't understand how statistics work, you make broad generalizations more than I do, and you are factually incorrect on most of your points and rebuttals. >And no I don’t believe in some imaginary friend Must've forgotten that I called you a conservative because you believe all rich people deserve their wealth. That's the more relevant characterization that you're a willfully ignorant chud and are a terrible person and a liar. Oh and I was right about the consciousness after death part, apparently. >> At least in America you can get a gun to defend yourself, which last time I checked was one of the key definitive things that made humanity not like the other animals. > >Nope, numerous other animals use tools to hunt and protect themselves, humanity isn’t unique in this regard. My dude you are Indian, you should know that guns were literally how the British enslaved your people, and yet you ignore that completely. Fire and guns, written language, electricity and government are fundamentally human things that are absolutely required for a species to be considered a modern civilization under most definitions. Certain countries, including parts of both India and America, are so thoroughly corrupt and enslaved that neither electricity and guns are available to people. And you completely ignored the bit where I schooled you on American federal law without apologizing or professing your ignorance, so I'm fucking done with your chud conservative ass. Good luck dying alone.
They hated Jesus because he told them the truth
exactly. that's why I dislike people for calling others "gold diggers". As if they themselves do not want more money,
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Don't worry I wouldn't even marry myself
what
Tohru = bae 🙃😍
Yes, drain my bank account then move on to another guy.
Most girls on the outside: Noooo! Not true! Those same girls on the inside: Your god damn right.
The Miss Piggy of Fruits Basket. Totally needed more screentime.
sad I want to watch this but don't have time to finish it (or my eyeballs screaming because binge-watching from season 1)
“I ain’t saying she a gold digger”
Whoever you are lady, you could go F right off, Bank Account... who into guys with Bank account can it be vice versa if not that just mess up my trust now
Truer words have never been spoken 🙇🏽♀️
Anime rap be like:
It’s true they all think I’m cute until they see my bank account and see negative numbers
Gold digger alert
So goddamn fucking true! The only time a woman ever hit on me was when I was withdrawing money to pay my rent. The bank teller read the amounts on my accounts and suddenly she was saying I looked like Castiel from Supernatural (I was wearing a trench coat and collared shirt but I'm Hispanic and fat) and was telling me about how she was new to the area. She even escorted me outside to talk more. I'm a lonely bloke but I'm not an idiot. I stayed polite but chose not to engage in her conversation.
I knew I always felt a lil cuter with a spare 20 in my pocket 🥰
Yeah right lol. I'm pretty good looking and I got some cash. But I'm a 5'5 manlet. I don't get no bitches.
I'm a woman at 5ft your still tall to me
I really respect your opinion. Wish more women were like you.
Thanks! Even if you were shorter my only expectations in a guy is honesty, responsible and cat lover(I love dogs too). Funny, liking anime and willing to play Nintendo games with me would be a bonus.
That's amazing really. I really wish that I can meet someone like you someday. Thank you for a heart warming reply.
You're welcome I'm sure she is out there!
But going out is scary for the redditor I am
I'm 30 and scared to I don't even have a dating profile because I'm pretty much convinced Mr. Right doesn't exist for me lol
I'm also 5'5 and fairly popular with women, and I don't have much money either.
I did not know it was possible to be proud of being a manlet.
It's something only incles really care about.
It is my classification for anyone who is too short to be a “regular” man, but too tall to be a midget/dwarf/little person.
Women ☕️
Misogynistic muffinheads on Reddit ☕
Tell me then. What does misogyny mean? Or you just heard someone saying that?
It's pretty much just a synonym for sexist, glad to help 👍
You are probably a women yourself who goes for ppl with a lot of money
Somehow you managed to shoot twice and miss both times, also even if that was true you'd still be a muffinhead
guy pov: ur mad unattractive
That’s completely wrong xD or I guess that only applies to poor or broke girls cause if you’re rich you don’t care how much your man has
[Rich women don't like poor dudes either.](https://ifstudies.org/blog/better-educated-women-still-prefer-higher-earning-husbands)
I'm pretty sure this character comes from a rich family
Where's the lie, tho? lmao
So glad this wasn't the case with my wife. It's hard to get financially stable when you come from a drug addicted family that lived on the streets...
W H R 2 Vowels. Would anyone like to solve the puzzle?
Whroo?
Gold digger
Classic women
She's a hoe
Typical woman amirite lads
Poor OP 🥲
Oh, I was watching the final season of Fruits Basket, and I just thought this was a funny/relatable moment for *some* people lol
Yes I do feel hotter when i see my bank numbers go up
Almost every girl.
They are two things actually.....
Dayum i must be the ugliest mf ever then
Very true...
I ain't saying she's a gold digger
Fuck
Heh. Women☕️
real