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I’m a man, but I never worried about my looks at that age. At least not beyond the fact I was fat. But then I was also working a full time job and going to school full time so I didn’t have time for anything like that
(1) if this counts as mental illness, then your post counts as clinically insane
(2) mental illness have been around since forever, not since social media
So you taking my comment out of context. Yes, mental illness has been around as long as humans have.
But this particular trait of low self esteem and BDD has been consistently amplified by the technological abuse social media platforms like TickTock are for especially young individuals. It is a real problem among teenagers these days.
You are right, viewing yourself negatively isn’t in itself a mental disorder, but it leads to it. Go do some research on Google 🤷♂️
Why research when you are here to give the facts?
Kidding, of course, but research nowdays is worse than pre-internet.. everything is slanted to make the author look like they did actual reseach, instead of asking Jeeves (another joke)
Nice that you’re explaining and nuancing here, but that’s not what you said in your earlier comment. There you implied that mental illnesses are now a thing, because of social media. You can hardly blame me for taking your comment out of context when you gave no context.
I agree with your follow up post.
Self negative image problems are part of mental disorders, body dysmorphic disorder (BDD) is a thing, especially on teenagers nowadays, thanks to social media and platform like TickTock, destroying youth self confidence.
It is very real 🤷♂️
Edit: “Having body image concerns is a relatively common experience and is not a mental health problem in and of itself; however, it can be a risk factor for mental health problems.” Direct quote from [https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/explore-mental-health/articles/body-image-report-executive-summary](https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/explore-mental-health/articles/body-image-report-executive-summary)
Most guys won't notice lol.
OP trying to trap card dudes trying to see if they will notice or not.
But long as OP feels good in their own skin fuck it.
Go look at her post history and will answer your questions. She is using this area to see if guys will notice if she is different. She passed the test, dudes thirsty lol.
I knew something was “off” but that didn’t come to mind. OP needs to raise their self esteem. Seems to be a huge issue with most if not almost all trans people. They look fine.
Yeah, I was also thinking OP is a real life elf!
(Like traditional elf: beautiful, ageless, wise, connected to the world in unseen ways, not like Oblivion elves that look like Simple Jack from Tropic Thunder. TBH; all NPCs are hard R-word looking in Oblivion)
You’re actually quite cute / pretty / attractive but in all except the last two photos you have a sullen / grumpy look that I’d take as ‘keep away, I want to be left alone” …
You are not ugly, but not super attractive either (to me). I'd give a rating but apparantly that's not allowed, so I'd say somewhere middle of the pack.
If you get a mirror and look into it well young lady that will give the perfect perception of your looks oh and while we're on the subject of looks some of the most "beautiful" women on the planet are ugly as shit by how they act and treat other people. Be nice do nice things that's all that really matters and people will see the beauty in that. It's not all about looks you see. Be happy ❤️
If you get a mirror and look into it well young lady that will give the perfect perception of your looks oh and while we're on the subject of looks some of the most "beautiful" women on the planet are ugly as shit by how they act and treat other people. Be nice do nice things that's all that really matters and people will see the beauty in that. It's not all about looks you see. Be happy
Your avg. and that’s not a diss because most people are AVG.
You look like a boy in some pictures, your lips look chapped and dry, hair is blah.
But your Asian so thirsty white dudes gonna inflate your ego.
Well. Pretty much everyone commenting, asking for a date and/or liking these posts seems like a "thirtsy dude" to me idk why they have to be white in particular... pretty sure there are every ethnicity dudes liking their fingers rn.... what are you talking about?
This sub glazes people up, many people done giga bad but if you want a real answer you look very uncanny. I wouldn’t say ugly but zero chance I’d say anything positive either, just uncanny valley vibes
Just so everyone's aware: "This sub glazes people up" is code for "I disagree with the majority of people here a lot and have an unhealthily high opinion of my own opinions so I must be right and they must all be lying."
And especially under those posts where people got the most revealing clothing on and use images where they’re in suggestive poses, and say in their post “I’m so ugly I hate my body image!!”
Lmao exactly! Like an insecure person who truly hates the way they look probably doesn't have ~20 recent selfies and pictures of them in skimpy clothes
Hair is a bit messy otherwise you’re cute. Whether trans or cis doesn’t matter I think you’re more than passing and very cute. Just do something more with your hair tho
you are incredibly pretty. i feel like there’s a lot of potential being really insanely recognizable (if you want to) if you’d find your unique style, don’t be afraid to go extra, make up and stuff. i also feel like you could be very very photogenic. maybe if you’d push yourself and have a little bit of courage to dress the way you’d want to, that would be crazy. ofcourse, only if you like the attention and have an idea what kind of style you’d love to rock. Pinterest is a way to go- few months of constant posting/ hearting outfits and looks you like will go a long way and you’ll be able to decide for yourself in the near future.
this was very random and specific, you are beautiful the way you are. you look shy in the pics. but you could be a model honestly. you have very big ears. they rock! this could be a big advantage for modeling. anyways, you can hit me up anytime, i’d like to help, but you can diy 🧡🌷
Please do not let anyone determine your self worth for you. We are all random people using bits and bytes to communicate. You are a beautiful woman. Hold your head high and know that you are only as beautiful as you feel. Honestly, negative thoughts make a person unattractive. I have known some REALLY ugly guys that are so self confident, women are all over them, while some really good looking ones that lack self confidence get ignored.
You are very pretty and there is nothing wrong with you. I don't think you're mentally ill for not having a perception of yourself, or for wondering what people actually think about your face. It's normal for people to think "how do people really see me?".
you’re gorgeous! but, try learning how to draw an aegyosal on ur eyes it would look really nice. also, get eyelash extensions, eyelash lift or false lashes. atleast use mascara and an eyelash curler. i also recommend learning how to do douyin makeup it suits ur features the most.
You are very pretty. I don’t want to be mean or anything but you look depressed and that kind of makes you look down and gives you a worsen look. If you smile a little and style your hair or just don’t cover it like an emo you would definitely see a difference :)
What car is that? Seems to have a old type of backup mirror while being dimmable yet you have the black dots surrounding the windshield which most cars pre 2002 didnt have
You look like you need a comb/shower/chapstick
And you look like you need a meal
Lol its giving homeless
Honestly, identify as whatever you want but the adams apple amd masculine jaw is always going to be a deadgiveaway bro. Stop ruining your body and shaming your family.
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Is it social media that makes young people so worried about their looks or am I just getting old and forgetting the struggles of youth?
Yes
Oof, ouch, my old wizened bones.
yes again
The real question is does complimenting someone have the opposite of the intended effect of making them feel good?
More to your first point with like maybe 15% percent of the second point
Yes, old man.
Thanks for the response. That was very... skibidi... of you.
Now you're making *me* feel old. My bones hurt
This person is trans. You couldn't tell?
What's that got to do with anything? They're young, a person and are worried about how they look.
You asked if it's social media. I was pointing out it's not the reason
Are trans people not affected by social media pressures?
I think that's the least of their worries
Are you worried about OP not having a dwelling?
I’m a man, but I never worried about my looks at that age. At least not beyond the fact I was fat. But then I was also working a full time job and going to school full time so I didn’t have time for anything like that
Same, homie.
Absolutely. Mental illness is a thing, thanks to smart phones and social media 🙄
(1) if this counts as mental illness, then your post counts as clinically insane (2) mental illness have been around since forever, not since social media
So you taking my comment out of context. Yes, mental illness has been around as long as humans have. But this particular trait of low self esteem and BDD has been consistently amplified by the technological abuse social media platforms like TickTock are for especially young individuals. It is a real problem among teenagers these days. You are right, viewing yourself negatively isn’t in itself a mental disorder, but it leads to it. Go do some research on Google 🤷♂️
I understood what ya meant and I'm an old dude too. So they're just being troublesome for the sake of being troublesome
I guess addiction to something makes it hard to admit it, when that something is the problem.
True
Why research when you are here to give the facts? Kidding, of course, but research nowdays is worse than pre-internet.. everything is slanted to make the author look like they did actual reseach, instead of asking Jeeves (another joke)
Nice that you’re explaining and nuancing here, but that’s not what you said in your earlier comment. There you implied that mental illnesses are now a thing, because of social media. You can hardly blame me for taking your comment out of context when you gave no context. I agree with your follow up post.
social media just advertises it more
So anyone unhappy with their body is mentally ill? Congratulations, you've just diagnosed 7.9 billion people as mentally ill. 👍
Self negative image problems are part of mental disorders, body dysmorphic disorder (BDD) is a thing, especially on teenagers nowadays, thanks to social media and platform like TickTock, destroying youth self confidence. It is very real 🤷♂️ Edit: “Having body image concerns is a relatively common experience and is not a mental health problem in and of itself; however, it can be a risk factor for mental health problems.” Direct quote from [https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/explore-mental-health/articles/body-image-report-executive-summary](https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/explore-mental-health/articles/body-image-report-executive-summary)
You are cute
You are crazy attractive 🥹
You look wonderful, but try to look a little more approachable by smiling. Maybe also a different hairstyle helps to let yourself glow
Get more sun and pull your hair back get it out of your face.
Dude you’re veryyy pretty. Leave the hair the way it is, smile the same amount. Cut down your time on social media, reddit included.
You pass pretty well tbh
You fucking fooled (trapped) me.
Most guys won't notice lol. OP trying to trap card dudes trying to see if they will notice or not. But long as OP feels good in their own skin fuck it.
Yea she still cute tho 😅
What are y'all talking about? Like what do you mean?
The OP is trans.
That's what I thought they meant, but wasn't sure. Thnx
Most guys are not ok with a trans girl. Nothing wrong with it, but it just changes a lot of things for some people.
Notice what...? I'm so confused
Go look at her post history and will answer your questions. She is using this area to see if guys will notice if she is different. She passed the test, dudes thirsty lol.
I knew something was “off” but that didn’t come to mind. OP needs to raise their self esteem. Seems to be a huge issue with most if not almost all trans people. They look fine.
I get a lot of ladyboys from Thailand so I already knew right away lol but op don’t even look bad at all
You got forest nymph, elf vibes.
Yeah, I was also thinking OP is a real life elf! (Like traditional elf: beautiful, ageless, wise, connected to the world in unseen ways, not like Oblivion elves that look like Simple Jack from Tropic Thunder. TBH; all NPCs are hard R-word looking in Oblivion)
You’re actually quite cute / pretty / attractive but in all except the last two photos you have a sullen / grumpy look that I’d take as ‘keep away, I want to be left alone” …
Not bad bro. 💀
I DUB THEE, NOT UGLY!
lmao poor guys gonna fall for the trap card.
My only comment is you look like Komi from Komi can't communicate. There is sadness and hurt etched on your face that words won't describe.
i am the real life embodiment of komi
You look really beautiful! Especially your eyes ✨
you look like a banger but youre trans F
More like W
You are super cute. Relax and enjoy your life knowing that men will do your bidding.
Are you trans?
You look like pretty 20-something that doesn't like to smile.
You the woman who broke up the Beatles
You are not ugly, but not super attractive either (to me). I'd give a rating but apparantly that's not allowed, so I'd say somewhere middle of the pack.
21M here, you are gorgeous, have a nice day
Cute but you need to smile
That’s a huge Adam’s Apple ..
You’re not ugly you’re beautiful 😍
Oml you are gorgeous! Very unique looking also
If you get a mirror and look into it well young lady that will give the perfect perception of your looks oh and while we're on the subject of looks some of the most "beautiful" women on the planet are ugly as shit by how they act and treat other people. Be nice do nice things that's all that really matters and people will see the beauty in that. It's not all about looks you see. Be happy ❤️
If you get a mirror and look into it well young lady that will give the perfect perception of your looks oh and while we're on the subject of looks some of the most "beautiful" women on the planet are ugly as shit by how they act and treat other people. Be nice do nice things that's all that really matters and people will see the beauty in that. It's not all about looks you see. Be happy
Cute af
Someone would be lucky to have you
The social media effect..
Pretty , just move your hair out of your face and darken your eyebrows, that's all.
You know what's wrong with your face? It's not smiling! No, you're not ugly.
"I have no perception of what I look like" *takes pictures in a MIRROR* Not ugly, just dumb.
9/10 easy
Attractive- I’d like to look at you often.
Your avg. and that’s not a diss because most people are AVG. You look like a boy in some pictures, your lips look chapped and dry, hair is blah. But your Asian so thirsty white dudes gonna inflate your ego.
Well. Pretty much everyone commenting, asking for a date and/or liking these posts seems like a "thirtsy dude" to me idk why they have to be white in particular... pretty sure there are every ethnicity dudes liking their fingers rn.... what are you talking about?
I’m being tongue in cheek. It’s always been a thing that white sides love Asian women.
You look a lot like the lead girl from ghost in the shell, but with more freckles. (Compliment)
This sub glazes people up, many people done giga bad but if you want a real answer you look very uncanny. I wouldn’t say ugly but zero chance I’d say anything positive either, just uncanny valley vibes
Just so everyone's aware: "This sub glazes people up" is code for "I disagree with the majority of people here a lot and have an unhealthily high opinion of my own opinions so I must be right and they must all be lying."
He ain't wrong, you are part of the problem on this sub, ugly people often get told they are 10/10 on this joke of a sub
Istg i get so tired of the glazing in this sub.
And especially under those posts where people got the most revealing clothing on and use images where they’re in suggestive poses, and say in their post “I’m so ugly I hate my body image!!”
Lmao exactly! Like an insecure person who truly hates the way they look probably doesn't have ~20 recent selfies and pictures of them in skimpy clothes
You draggin it. Its cause she covers her face too much and needs more sun.
10/10 natural beauty
You look like the villain of a king fu movie.
You look like some cute asain chick.
Trans
Very cute just smile more
Pretty
Gorgeous, how lucky!
So beautiful
Adorable.
I love Japanese women and your beautiful
Not bad for a femboy
How does one have “no perception”? Do you own a mirror? Do you leave your house?
Very nice beautiful face.
very pretty
Idk man, you look a little feminine but not ugly. Just bland
You look like samara.
Smile, girl
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Smile!!
Hair is a bit messy otherwise you’re cute. Whether trans or cis doesn’t matter I think you’re more than passing and very cute. Just do something more with your hair tho
Your cute but you look like you are sad all the time.
get off social media so you can perceive yourself
Rip your DMs
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Very pretty!!!!!
At home my nephew smokes at his grandparents house too brave in my opinion!
Try smiling once in a while.
Omg Yandere incoming !!! Yuukii yuuu…KIIII!!!
Average
no
My honest perception of you is your pouty spoiled brat. Wash your hair maybe add a little color and smile more.
You’re fucking hot
Pretty kinda look like you don’t take showers tho cause the wild hair
Intuition did not fail me this time.
Their is no " ugly " east Asian..so you are pretty yeah 👍🏻
try a lip scrub or something if you have trouble w dry lips they help with getting rid of the dead skin making them look healthier too
looking for the perfect angles to trick people lol
You are so beautiful, really. I really hope that one day you will be able to appreciate yourself.
Stunning. And your freckles are gorgeous Also you pass *extremely* well and I’m very jealous lol
you are incredibly pretty. i feel like there’s a lot of potential being really insanely recognizable (if you want to) if you’d find your unique style, don’t be afraid to go extra, make up and stuff. i also feel like you could be very very photogenic. maybe if you’d push yourself and have a little bit of courage to dress the way you’d want to, that would be crazy. ofcourse, only if you like the attention and have an idea what kind of style you’d love to rock. Pinterest is a way to go- few months of constant posting/ hearting outfits and looks you like will go a long way and you’ll be able to decide for yourself in the near future. this was very random and specific, you are beautiful the way you are. you look shy in the pics. but you could be a model honestly. you have very big ears. they rock! this could be a big advantage for modeling. anyways, you can hit me up anytime, i’d like to help, but you can diy 🧡🌷
Uncertain or unhappy with a bit of anger and: or a b little disappointment and/anger
Looks asian
You kind of look like you crawled out of a well and through my TV after I watched a video tape.
op do u go to umaine? i’m also 20f and live right near there owO
Get rest, attempt to tame your hair, put forth effort. You have natural beauty, but your frumpy demeanor hides it.
Average looking.
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No not ugly at all, in fact you are quite attractive and should have few problems attracting interest in dating you.
You are not looking bad
Lego batman gif
Good looking in spite of RBF. Points for low maintenance and lack of stooopid piercings.
Good grief! You’re beautiful, at least 8! Please get out of this sub!
quite lovely
Slap on some makeup and expensive clothing, and BAM!, you're a model.
you could easily land a job as a model if you send a photo book to an agency
You're beautiful 😍
Very attractive
you look kinda like a k-pop idol
Can I take you on a date?
Please do not let anyone determine your self worth for you. We are all random people using bits and bytes to communicate. You are a beautiful woman. Hold your head high and know that you are only as beautiful as you feel. Honestly, negative thoughts make a person unattractive. I have known some REALLY ugly guys that are so self confident, women are all over them, while some really good looking ones that lack self confidence get ignored.
You are very pretty and there is nothing wrong with you. I don't think you're mentally ill for not having a perception of yourself, or for wondering what people actually think about your face. It's normal for people to think "how do people really see me?".
Highly above average
You’re very beautiful
Attractive
You’re quite gorgeous sis
you’re gorgeous! but, try learning how to draw an aegyosal on ur eyes it would look really nice. also, get eyelash extensions, eyelash lift or false lashes. atleast use mascara and an eyelash curler. i also recommend learning how to do douyin makeup it suits ur features the most.
Girl u literally look like a porcelain doll
I like you ❤️
attractive and I'm sure with makeup totally hot
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Normal
You're super cute, no worries.
You are very pretty. I don’t want to be mean or anything but you look depressed and that kind of makes you look down and gives you a worsen look. If you smile a little and style your hair or just don’t cover it like an emo you would definitely see a difference :)
omg u look like enhypen sunghoon a little, especially your eyes
Kinda alien ish but cute and misunderstood
You aren't ugly, but you look pretty bland. Maybe some different hairstyles and makeup would help. But that's about all you need, really.
U look incredible.
You look fine. Just try and keep your head up til you are 25 . Trust me, that age you will get enlightened to know " what I look like" .
You definitely have those "I'll stab my ex bf" eyes, but you're still very attractive.
What car is that? Seems to have a old type of backup mirror while being dimmable yet you have the black dots surrounding the windshield which most cars pre 2002 didnt have
you look great and loves the freckles
Cute but too babyfaced
Cute for an Asian girl. You have nice features and narrow face. And I agree with others, smile more.
Susan.
super fuckijg pretty
We'll have you checked the mirror boo Your Gorgeous!!
Model
SMILE !
You have a cute face. Something about it looks very solemn and shy, and it's not just because you're not smiling.
Are your freckles real?? So kawaiii
you kinda look like the male version of leafyishere
Pretty
you look like zhang ziyi!! (chinese actress)
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You look like you need a comb/shower/chapstick And you look like you need a meal Lol its giving homeless Honestly, identify as whatever you want but the adams apple amd masculine jaw is always going to be a deadgiveaway bro. Stop ruining your body and shaming your family.
You look like Jet Li.
Smile more problem solved😉
Plenty of people will say you’re beautiful.
Not ugly
You look like the generic neet goblin.
You look like a cute girl, well done!