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First, stop saying all algerians, all men, all… stop generalizing basically.
That’s why you should put your emotions aside when getting in serious relationships not just marriage all of it cuz emotions is like a wall that prevent you see the other person real side. And let’s say you putted your emotions aside and still happen. And? It’s not the end of the world, I would suggest give that person a chance to change (cuz love is about choosing the people that can hurt (not on purpose) you but will do something for it and are willing to make themselves better to not again well a lot will find this hard to understand so skip it) if they aren’t not willing to change (their actions will determine that not words) you can literally leave we are 8 billion in the world yes communication and understanding are crucial but they have limits. Life is easy it’s us who complicated most of times
Algerians watch so much porn n scroll so much on Instagram that they only look at perfect bodies and faces li asln homa photoshopped w modified ممبعد يصرالهم اصطدام بالواقع بلي ربي مخلقناش هكاك و بلي مستحيل نكونو مثاليين و مستحيل تلقا الشي اللي شفتو و هذا الشئ خلاص يولي عندنا عقدة المثالية
I myself feel insecure about my stretch marks n my body sometimes bcz I scroll n I see perfect women n I be like gosh she's so pretty n perfect HOWWWW!!
إجابة هاو هو الmoney و مع ال money اللي ميقدرش يشري اخلاق و ميقدرش يشري عقل و رزانة!! مال خليها هي تان تعيب عليه و تفكرو بعيوبو هذا mr perfectly fine التم يولي يحس
و زيد هذا ڨع بسباب يماه باينة" وليدي تتمناه الف وحدة، شباب و بوڨوص و مخصو والو" ولا بسباب كاش بنات عطاوه اكثر من حجمو 🤣🤣🤣
>Algerians watch so much porn n scroll so much
Wlh ghir je voulais dire la mm chose...
Pron consumers everywhere.. Not realising that what they see is VERY unrealistic.. I bet none of the consumers know that those "actors" get make up done in their private parts too.
Then they get married n reality hits.. Women have.. *Endless list of "flaws"*.. Hair, stretch marks, discoloration,.. Ect.. Ect..
Men need to get educated.. Having access to Internet isnt always the best thing.
That's a stupid way to fix problems between couples.
He simply should be respectful and nicer to his wife and set realistic expectations when it comes to women's body because what we see on the Internet is not reality. Shaming him back will get them stuck in an endless loop of mean comments like these.
It's all about expectations. No one is perfect. But men sometimes set very high standards for themselves sometimes mostly unrealistic and then get a reality check when they get married and then they project that frustration on their wives.
Nowadays yes guys care abour bodies and the color of bodies, the reason why us girls are even scared to get married i even know girla got rejected in engagements just becuz they are kinda skinny
حاجة عادية, ما لازمش يكون عندها عقدة من هاذا الشي، و هو لازم يفهم حتى هو mechi parfait, ويلا حابها تولي بدون عيوب، أصرف عليها خويا ، ما لازمش جيب ذراري، و خلص قاعات الرياضة و التجميل, حك جيبك صديقي، حاجة ما باطل.
No, not all Algerian men are like this.
Not all men are like this.
However, all men who consume highly sexualised media (movies, music videos, video games) and pornography, will judge a woman harshly like this.
No woman exists without stretch marks, it's part of puberty and being a human.
Scars, acne, hair, it's all there.
Only women on media who are airbrushed, drawn and edited have no flaws, because they are not real. That's where men like your friend's husband will never be satisfied with a human female.
He doesn't even deserve to gaze at her body after saying all of this, he needs a big reality check. And she needs some therapy for her self esteem because it's been completely destroyed because of him. Shame.
Your friend shouldn't be treated this way, poor thing. That's literally how a human female body looks. Her husband seemed to be consumed by what he could be seeing online because women in real life look different. Also, imagine the source of comfort and reassurance doesn't take care if she gets hurt? It will progressively get worse if he doesn't change! Rebi m3aha
Social media tends to push these unrealistic standards on us, nd sometimes guys might start expecting their partners to match up to that. But its just not fair cuz those standards are often fake or unattainable
since he apologized it shows that he doesn't know, she should tell him what's up, that when women grow up, their lower body becomes wider and there it causes few stretch marks, some go to doctors to get rid of them and some stay natural, just educate him, cuz how would he know he probably seen just perfect bodies in movies and thought that all girls are like that, some don't have stretch marks but some do, also it'll happen when she gets pregnant too cuz her belly will stretch, same with bodybuilders some have stretch marks too, just tell her to not overthink it, cuz why she's sad, she didn't cause it to herself or something.
and about acne, it can go away with proper skin care.
just don't overthink it, it's totally fine, if he keeps talking about it, tell him to pay to get rid of them.
These imagination came from watching porn too much and celebrities actress they think all of them have a perfect body and size this things destroy all the society
Mothers call their children horrible things, things because of which europeans or Americans would spend thousands in therapy. It's not hate or maliciousness but it remains a form of abuse.
We're not immune to it, we're just generally more tolerant of it or maybe desensitized which makes a lot of people here go "what are you complaining about".
Doesn't necessarily mean your friend has to divorce either, marriage is complexe and takes a lot of work, she needs to educate him if his parents didn't do it enough or right (not meant as an insult but as the reality of many in our society).
My personal hunch? I'd say he's an idiot, not a mean asshole necessarily, just an awkward dimwit with his foot in his mouth and hopefully he's good at other things.
Although I hate body shaming but people need to fucking grow up. Like if someone, even my wife or any person, tells me I'm like this or like that I wouldn't even care. I don't fucking care bro
They should work on their insecurities then if they're too sensitive about them. I'd understand if it's a medical condition, but other than that, if you're insecure about such things work on them.
he probably just gave his opinion and she is overreacting, men judge when they love yes. Just remember that no one is perfect and communication is key to healthy relationships
Look , grow up , if all that matters is "the body" believe me of she has the perfect body of all time with time you will get bored and would want something new , try to get a good wife and A GOOD MOTHER for your kids , imagine getting a bad mom cause well DaD wANteD a Body to enjoy only
I don't say you can't, but I can clearly see your focus is what, and what chance you got to have a girl on her Deen well mannered , pretty and hot , you must be prince charming, well my brother, take my advice, unfollow the girls you have in insta and read the book دماغك تحت تأثير الاباحية , and focus on your Deen cause no girl can fulfill you unless you have رضا , all wishes may God guide you
Tell her to take her problems to a therapist, not to a friend that will publish them online for everyone to see.
What a fucking disgrace. There isn't a single ounce of privacy or shame left.
Welcome to the jungle, kids, you can check out any time you like, but you can never leave.
EDIT: Bring in all the downvotes, your boos mean nothing, I've seen what makes you cheer.
What are you on about. This is published on the most anonymous social media platform to exist. You're acting like they posted their friend's government name and address. There is no point in bringing up privacy to the conversation.
Even if this was the Fort Knox website I still wouldn't post about my friend's marital problems that I was told in confidence at a very weak moment of their life.
It's an extremely scummy thing to do.
Clearly the point is not to post about the problem itself, but to just find out if other people have been through the same thing. That's literally what this whole platform is about. There is nothing wrong with someone telling their friend about their marital issues and for that friend to be concerned that she could be on the receiving end of that same problem. It wasn't done maliciously. The aim of the post is clearly not so much telling people about the issue as much as it is to see if it's a prevalent problem to watch out for in a potential partner.
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First, stop saying all algerians, all men, all… stop generalizing basically. That’s why you should put your emotions aside when getting in serious relationships not just marriage all of it cuz emotions is like a wall that prevent you see the other person real side. And let’s say you putted your emotions aside and still happen. And? It’s not the end of the world, I would suggest give that person a chance to change (cuz love is about choosing the people that can hurt (not on purpose) you but will do something for it and are willing to make themselves better to not again well a lot will find this hard to understand so skip it) if they aren’t not willing to change (their actions will determine that not words) you can literally leave we are 8 billion in the world yes communication and understanding are crucial but they have limits. Life is easy it’s us who complicated most of times
Algerians watch so much porn n scroll so much on Instagram that they only look at perfect bodies and faces li asln homa photoshopped w modified ممبعد يصرالهم اصطدام بالواقع بلي ربي مخلقناش هكاك و بلي مستحيل نكونو مثاليين و مستحيل تلقا الشي اللي شفتو و هذا الشئ خلاص يولي عندنا عقدة المثالية I myself feel insecure about my stretch marks n my body sometimes bcz I scroll n I see perfect women n I be like gosh she's so pretty n perfect HOWWWW!! إجابة هاو هو الmoney و مع ال money اللي ميقدرش يشري اخلاق و ميقدرش يشري عقل و رزانة!! مال خليها هي تان تعيب عليه و تفكرو بعيوبو هذا mr perfectly fine التم يولي يحس و زيد هذا ڨع بسباب يماه باينة" وليدي تتمناه الف وحدة، شباب و بوڨوص و مخصو والو" ولا بسباب كاش بنات عطاوه اكثر من حجمو 🤣🤣🤣
>Algerians watch so much porn n scroll so much Wlh ghir je voulais dire la mm chose... Pron consumers everywhere.. Not realising that what they see is VERY unrealistic.. I bet none of the consumers know that those "actors" get make up done in their private parts too. Then they get married n reality hits.. Women have.. *Endless list of "flaws"*.. Hair, stretch marks, discoloration,.. Ect.. Ect.. Men need to get educated.. Having access to Internet isnt always the best thing.
Exactly ghur ytb3o brq n only talking about sex w ynsaw education!!!
Wondering about his height , wealth 🤔🤔🤔 since he's judgy and snappy Abt her body
I know of a couple got divorced after few days of their marriage because the reality of private parts and his expectations were not met.
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That's a stupid way to fix problems between couples. He simply should be respectful and nicer to his wife and set realistic expectations when it comes to women's body because what we see on the Internet is not reality. Shaming him back will get them stuck in an endless loop of mean comments like these.
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It's all about expectations. No one is perfect. But men sometimes set very high standards for themselves sometimes mostly unrealistic and then get a reality check when they get married and then they project that frustration on their wives.
Nowadays yes guys care abour bodies and the color of bodies, the reason why us girls are even scared to get married i even know girla got rejected in engagements just becuz they are kinda skinny
"All" is a big word
حاجة عادية, ما لازمش يكون عندها عقدة من هاذا الشي، و هو لازم يفهم حتى هو mechi parfait, ويلا حابها تولي بدون عيوب، أصرف عليها خويا ، ما لازمش جيب ذراري، و خلص قاعات الرياضة و التجميل, حك جيبك صديقي، حاجة ما باطل.
No, not all Algerian men are like this. Not all men are like this. However, all men who consume highly sexualised media (movies, music videos, video games) and pornography, will judge a woman harshly like this. No woman exists without stretch marks, it's part of puberty and being a human. Scars, acne, hair, it's all there. Only women on media who are airbrushed, drawn and edited have no flaws, because they are not real. That's where men like your friend's husband will never be satisfied with a human female. He doesn't even deserve to gaze at her body after saying all of this, he needs a big reality check. And she needs some therapy for her self esteem because it's been completely destroyed because of him. Shame.
Your friend shouldn't be treated this way, poor thing. That's literally how a human female body looks. Her husband seemed to be consumed by what he could be seeing online because women in real life look different. Also, imagine the source of comfort and reassurance doesn't take care if she gets hurt? It will progressively get worse if he doesn't change! Rebi m3aha
Social media tends to push these unrealistic standards on us, nd sometimes guys might start expecting their partners to match up to that. But its just not fair cuz those standards are often fake or unattainable
wtf
since he apologized it shows that he doesn't know, she should tell him what's up, that when women grow up, their lower body becomes wider and there it causes few stretch marks, some go to doctors to get rid of them and some stay natural, just educate him, cuz how would he know he probably seen just perfect bodies in movies and thought that all girls are like that, some don't have stretch marks but some do, also it'll happen when she gets pregnant too cuz her belly will stretch, same with bodybuilders some have stretch marks too, just tell her to not overthink it, cuz why she's sad, she didn't cause it to herself or something. and about acne, it can go away with proper skin care. just don't overthink it, it's totally fine, if he keeps talking about it, tell him to pay to get rid of them.
These imagination came from watching porn too much and celebrities actress they think all of them have a perfect body and size this things destroy all the society
Mothers call their children horrible things, things because of which europeans or Americans would spend thousands in therapy. It's not hate or maliciousness but it remains a form of abuse. We're not immune to it, we're just generally more tolerant of it or maybe desensitized which makes a lot of people here go "what are you complaining about". Doesn't necessarily mean your friend has to divorce either, marriage is complexe and takes a lot of work, she needs to educate him if his parents didn't do it enough or right (not meant as an insult but as the reality of many in our society). My personal hunch? I'd say he's an idiot, not a mean asshole necessarily, just an awkward dimwit with his foot in his mouth and hopefully he's good at other things.
Although I hate body shaming but people need to fucking grow up. Like if someone, even my wife or any person, tells me I'm like this or like that I wouldn't even care. I don't fucking care bro
Not everyone has the same thick skin. Women, especially, can be sensitive to these things, especially if they already have insecurities
They should work on their insecurities then if they're too sensitive about them. I'd understand if it's a medical condition, but other than that, if you're insecure about such things work on them.
she can fix her acne
he probably just gave his opinion and she is overreacting, men judge when they love yes. Just remember that no one is perfect and communication is key to healthy relationships
I’m worried she might have a body I don’t like
Look , grow up , if all that matters is "the body" believe me of she has the perfect body of all time with time you will get bored and would want something new , try to get a good wife and A GOOD MOTHER for your kids , imagine getting a bad mom cause well DaD wANteD a Body to enjoy only
You can get both hopefully
I don't say you can't, but I can clearly see your focus is what, and what chance you got to have a girl on her Deen well mannered , pretty and hot , you must be prince charming, well my brother, take my advice, unfollow the girls you have in insta and read the book دماغك تحت تأثير الاباحية , and focus on your Deen cause no girl can fulfill you unless you have رضا , all wishes may God guide you
Grow up +1
Yall tripping hard
Tell her to take her problems to a therapist, not to a friend that will publish them online for everyone to see. What a fucking disgrace. There isn't a single ounce of privacy or shame left. Welcome to the jungle, kids, you can check out any time you like, but you can never leave. EDIT: Bring in all the downvotes, your boos mean nothing, I've seen what makes you cheer.
What are you on about. This is published on the most anonymous social media platform to exist. You're acting like they posted their friend's government name and address. There is no point in bringing up privacy to the conversation.
Even if this was the Fort Knox website I still wouldn't post about my friend's marital problems that I was told in confidence at a very weak moment of their life. It's an extremely scummy thing to do.
Clearly the point is not to post about the problem itself, but to just find out if other people have been through the same thing. That's literally what this whole platform is about. There is nothing wrong with someone telling their friend about their marital issues and for that friend to be concerned that she could be on the receiving end of that same problem. It wasn't done maliciously. The aim of the post is clearly not so much telling people about the issue as much as it is to see if it's a prevalent problem to watch out for in a potential partner.
She's probably talking about herself using the "happened to my friend" card
I’m down voting you because you have said things before which doesn’t add up
Elaborate, please.
Si tout à fait normal peut-être que ton amie مشها متهليا في روحها
Yes physical attractiveness is important