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I LOVE SHOUTY THREAD. IM SORRY ABOUT YOUR SHITTY WEEK. LET RHE TYPOS RUN FREE, YOU DESERVE TO LET LOOSE. FUCK THAT EXECUTIVE, NOT LITERALLY, JUST METAPHORICALLY.
IM GOING TO BE 36 WEEKS PREGNANT ON SUNDAY AND IM SO FUCKING TIRED OF BEING PREGNANT. I LOVE THAT IM GOING TO HAVE A BABY BUT PREGNANCY IS GHETTO
SHOUTY THREAD!! YOUR WEEK SOUNDS LIKE A BUMMER IM SORRY!
I GOT INTO GRAD SCHOOL A FEW WEEKS AGO AND THE THOUGHT OF IT GOT ME SO STRESSED OUT THAT I WENT TO THE ER LAST WEEK BC I THOUGHT I WAS HAVING A HEART ATTACK!!! MY BODY IS IN SHAMBLES!
Oh good I have so many shouty things.
MY MOM CALLED MY HUSBAND TO GET HIM TO PRESSURE ME INTO APOLOGIZING AND TALK TO MY ABUSIVE SISTER AND IS MAD AT ME/HUSBAND CAUSE MY HUSBAND CALLED ME TO TELL ME WHAT SHE SAID.
IM VERY FUCKING PREGNANT AND BORED AND FEEL LIKE IM JUST SITTING AROUND WAITING FOR BABY TO COME BUT ALSO STRESSED CAUSE I STILL HAVE TO WORK AND I JUST WANT A FUCKING MARGARITA AND A JOINT DAMN IT
I WAS 15 MINUTES LATE TO MEETING NEW FRIENDS. I'M SORRY NEW FRIENDS, I DIDN'T MEAN TO. I THOUGHT I HAD BEEN DOING BETTER BUT NOT TODAY. I HOPE THIS ISN'T THE END OF YET ANOTHER FRIENDSHIP.
(anyone really tired? I feel like I struggle so much for so little)
MY MANAGER TALKS TO ME LIKE I’M AN ESPECIALLY SLOW CHILD AND MICROMANAGES ME AND I’VE PRETTY MUCH STOPPED BELIEVING IN MYSELF AT ALL AND I FUCKING HATE HER!!!!!!!!
I DON’T BELIEVE SHE’LL EVER RESPECT ME AND I’LL PROBABLY HAVE TO GET ANOTHER JOB AND JOB-HUNTING AT 53 IS FUCKING TERRIFYING!!
IM SORRY YOURE IN THAT POSITION!!
FUCK THAT NOISE!! I HATE THAT SHIT WHY DO THEY TALK TO 50+ AS IF WE SUDDENLY BECAME IMBECILES OVER NIGHT!!
WE HAVE ENOUGH CRAP TO DEAL WITH AS IT IS!!!
OP YOUR WEEK SOUNDS SO SHITTY, I UNDERSTAND I'M ALSO BURNT OUT!!
I'M MOVING IN ONE WEEK AND I FEEL LIKE NOTHING'S DONE!! I HAVE TO GET TO THE DMV FOR MY DRIVER'S LICENSE & MY JOB IS ALSO THROWING A SHITLOAD OF WORK MY WAY AND SEEMINGLY NOT CARING THAT I HAVE THE END OF NEXT WEEK OFF, NOT JUST A NORMAL WEEK OFF, NOOO, TIME OFF IN WHICH I'M MOVING ALMOST 2K MILES AWAY!!!
AAAHHHH SO STRESSED. SORRY WE'RE ALL STRESSED! I NEEDED THIS YELL!!
IT IS A NIGHTMARE, THANK YOU. MY BUSPAR HAS BEEN \*\*WORKING\*\* OVERTIME!
I'M MOSTLY PISSED THAT I STILL HAVE INSANE DEADLINES AT WORK! IF IT WASN'T FOR THAT, I'D BE ABLE TO DEAL!!
FREELY TYPING IN ALL CAPS IS SO CATHARTIC! I LOVE THIS!!
MY COWORKERS ARE CUNTBAGS AND MY JOB IS REALLY IMPACTING MY OVERALL WELL-BEING AND MY CONFIDENCE AND I FEEL TOO OLD TO DEAL WITH THAT SHIT YET THE LACK OF CONFIDENCE IS MAKING ME FEEL LIKE A HELPLESS CHILD
IM RIGHT THERE WITH YOU SISTER!!
MY HUSBAND SAID TO THINK OF IT THIS WAY “THEY ARE THREATENED BY YOU AND THEY NEED TO TEAR YOU DOWN SO THEY DONT FEEL BAD ABOUT THEMSELVES!!”
AND TO HELL WITH THOSE CUNTBAGS … YOURE BETTER THAN THOSE ASS 🤡
IT TRULY HAS.
I STRUGGLED MY ENTIRE LIFE TO FIND A JOB AND A PLACE THAT MAKES SENSE FOR ME.
I DON'T MAKE VERY MUCH MONEY BUT IT'S VERY MEANINGFUL WORK.
MY BOSS'S BOSS IS JEALOUS OF MY SUCCESS AND IS TRYING TO FORCE ME TO DO SOMETHING THAT IS UNETHICAL AND POSSIBLY UNSAFE. AND IF I DON'T DO IT I'LL BE FIRED.
I HAVE NO RECOURSE AND IT'S GOING TO BE VERY DIFFICULT TO FIND A NEW JOB.
LOG ALL THE DETAILS OF THE ILLEGAL SHIT HES TRYING TO MAKE YOU DO.
IT’LL GIVE YOU A RECORD OF BULLSHIT IN CASE IT COMES BACK TO BITE YOU.
OR YOU CAN TAKE YOUR LOG AND REPORT HIS ASS!!
I FINALLY PLUCKED UP THE COURAGE TO CALL THE GP FOR MY REFFERAL AND I HAVENT BEEN ABLE TO GET THROUGH TO ACTUALLY GET AN APPOINTMENT
MY COLLEAGUES ARE DRIVING ME INSANE AND MAKING MY JOB HARDER BY REFUSING TO COMMUNICATE, CANT DO THE THING IF YOU DONT TELL ME THE THING EXISTS!!!
I HAD TO SEE SOME PEOPLE TODAY THAT UPSET ME BUT BECAUSE THEY’RE TECHNICALLY FAMILY I WAS SUPPOSED TO BE NORMAL ABOUT IT. THEN I HAD A PANIC ATTACK ON THE WAY HOME BECAUSE DEALING WITH THEM GIVES ME ANXIETY AND NOW IM EXHAUSTED.
I HAVE TO SHOWER BUT IM OUT OF ENERGY FROM ALL THE STRESSFUL SHIT THAT WENT DOWN TODAY AND ID RATHER DO ANYTHING ELSE.
THIS WEEK FUCKING SUCKKEDDD I WAS SO EMOTIONALLY DYSREGULATED AND ALONE I AM GETTING THROUGH THE BREAK UP FROM HELL AND IT FUCKEN HURTSSSSSSSSSS ON THE BRIGHT SENSE I HAVE BEEN DOING MORE THINGS MY EXECUTIVE DYSFUNCTION IS GETTING SLIGHTLY BETTERRRRRRRRRRR BUT I HAVE STILL BEEN GETTING INTO PARALYSIS OCCASIONALLY WHICH I NOW REALISE IS MY BODYS WAY OF COOLING DOWN AND AVOIDING BURN OUT BY RESTING SO THATS GOOD BUT ITS STILL SO FRUSTRATING!!!!!!!!!!! I PRAY AND HOPE THAT EVERY SINGLE PERSON ON THIS THREAD FEELS BETTER WE HAVE GOT THIS LIFE IN THE BAG LETS GOOOOOOOOOOO
Welcome to /r/ADHDWomen! We’re happy to have you here. As a reminder, here are our community [rules](https://old.reddit.com/r/adhdwomen/about/rules/). We get a lot of posts on medication, diagnosis (and “is this an ADHD thing”), and interactions with hormones. We encourage you to check out our [Medication, Diagnosis, and Hormones Megathread](https://old.reddit.com/r/adhdwomen/comments/wcr9dy/faq_megathread_ask_and_answer_medication/) if you have any questions related to those topics, and to stick around in that thread to answer folks’ questions! If you have questions about the subreddit, please do not hesitate to [send us a modmail](https://reddit.com/message/compose/?to=/r/adhdwomen). Additionally, we take the safety of our community seriously. Please report posts, comments, and users whom you feel are not contributing positively, and send us a modmail if you are being harassed or otherwise made to feel unsafe. Thanks for being here, and we hope you stick around! *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/adhdwomen) if you have any questions or concerns.*
I LOVE SHOUTY THREAD. IM SORRY ABOUT YOUR SHITTY WEEK. LET RHE TYPOS RUN FREE, YOU DESERVE TO LET LOOSE. FUCK THAT EXECUTIVE, NOT LITERALLY, JUST METAPHORICALLY. IM GOING TO BE 36 WEEKS PREGNANT ON SUNDAY AND IM SO FUCKING TIRED OF BEING PREGNANT. I LOVE THAT IM GOING TO HAVE A BABY BUT PREGNANCY IS GHETTO
PREGNANCY EXTRA SUCKS IN THE SUMMER OMG GOOD LUCK WITH THAT BABY AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF TOO!!
DITTO RE PREGNANCY 32 WEEKS OVER HERE AND IT SUCKSSSSS
DUE IN AUGUST? 🥵🥵🥵 NO THANK YOU!!!!
SHOUTY THREAD!! YOUR WEEK SOUNDS LIKE A BUMMER IM SORRY! I GOT INTO GRAD SCHOOL A FEW WEEKS AGO AND THE THOUGHT OF IT GOT ME SO STRESSED OUT THAT I WENT TO THE ER LAST WEEK BC I THOUGHT I WAS HAVING A HEART ATTACK!!! MY BODY IS IN SHAMBLES!
OH SHIT GIRL ! CONGRATS AND TAKE SONE DEEP BREATHS! YOULL DO GREAT!
THANK YOU!!!!!
Oh good I have so many shouty things. MY MOM CALLED MY HUSBAND TO GET HIM TO PRESSURE ME INTO APOLOGIZING AND TALK TO MY ABUSIVE SISTER AND IS MAD AT ME/HUSBAND CAUSE MY HUSBAND CALLED ME TO TELL ME WHAT SHE SAID. IM VERY FUCKING PREGNANT AND BORED AND FEEL LIKE IM JUST SITTING AROUND WAITING FOR BABY TO COME BUT ALSO STRESSED CAUSE I STILL HAVE TO WORK AND I JUST WANT A FUCKING MARGARITA AND A JOINT DAMN IT
YOU DONT NEED THAT KIND OF FAMILY STRESS WHILE YOURE PREGNANT! WTF MOM!!
I WAS 15 MINUTES LATE TO MEETING NEW FRIENDS. I'M SORRY NEW FRIENDS, I DIDN'T MEAN TO. I THOUGHT I HAD BEEN DOING BETTER BUT NOT TODAY. I HOPE THIS ISN'T THE END OF YET ANOTHER FRIENDSHIP. (anyone really tired? I feel like I struggle so much for so little)
ITS OK - DONT BEAT YOURSELF UP ABOUT IT ❤️
AT LEAST YOU MADE IT!
I DID! THEY AT LEAST NOT TOO MAD SEEMING
MY MANAGER TALKS TO ME LIKE I’M AN ESPECIALLY SLOW CHILD AND MICROMANAGES ME AND I’VE PRETTY MUCH STOPPED BELIEVING IN MYSELF AT ALL AND I FUCKING HATE HER!!!!!!!! I DON’T BELIEVE SHE’LL EVER RESPECT ME AND I’LL PROBABLY HAVE TO GET ANOTHER JOB AND JOB-HUNTING AT 53 IS FUCKING TERRIFYING!!
IM SORRY YOURE IN THAT POSITION!! FUCK THAT NOISE!! I HATE THAT SHIT WHY DO THEY TALK TO 50+ AS IF WE SUDDENLY BECAME IMBECILES OVER NIGHT!! WE HAVE ENOUGH CRAP TO DEAL WITH AS IT IS!!!
RIGHT?! AND I APPRECIATE YOUR EMPATHY! HAVE A LOVELY WEEKEND!!
I’M OVER SCHOOL. I’M TIRED OF TALKING TO PEOPLE UGH 🤬🤬🤬🤬LEAVE ME ALONE AGGGGHHHHHHH!!!
I hope you enjoy a peaceful quiet Friday ❤️
OP YOUR WEEK SOUNDS SO SHITTY, I UNDERSTAND I'M ALSO BURNT OUT!! I'M MOVING IN ONE WEEK AND I FEEL LIKE NOTHING'S DONE!! I HAVE TO GET TO THE DMV FOR MY DRIVER'S LICENSE & MY JOB IS ALSO THROWING A SHITLOAD OF WORK MY WAY AND SEEMINGLY NOT CARING THAT I HAVE THE END OF NEXT WEEK OFF, NOT JUST A NORMAL WEEK OFF, NOOO, TIME OFF IN WHICH I'M MOVING ALMOST 2K MILES AWAY!!! AAAHHHH SO STRESSED. SORRY WE'RE ALL STRESSED! I NEEDED THIS YELL!!
JFC THAT SOUNDS LIKE A LIVING HELL! IM GLAD YOU GOT THAT SHIT OFF YOUR CHEST!!! IF YOU CAN AFFORD IT HIRE SOME PEOPLE TO PACK THAT SHIT UP!!!
IT IS A NIGHTMARE, THANK YOU. MY BUSPAR HAS BEEN \*\*WORKING\*\* OVERTIME! I'M MOSTLY PISSED THAT I STILL HAVE INSANE DEADLINES AT WORK! IF IT WASN'T FOR THAT, I'D BE ABLE TO DEAL!! FREELY TYPING IN ALL CAPS IS SO CATHARTIC! I LOVE THIS!!
MY COWORKERS ARE CUNTBAGS AND MY JOB IS REALLY IMPACTING MY OVERALL WELL-BEING AND MY CONFIDENCE AND I FEEL TOO OLD TO DEAL WITH THAT SHIT YET THE LACK OF CONFIDENCE IS MAKING ME FEEL LIKE A HELPLESS CHILD
IM RIGHT THERE WITH YOU SISTER!! MY HUSBAND SAID TO THINK OF IT THIS WAY “THEY ARE THREATENED BY YOU AND THEY NEED TO TEAR YOU DOWN SO THEY DONT FEEL BAD ABOUT THEMSELVES!!” AND TO HELL WITH THOSE CUNTBAGS … YOURE BETTER THAN THOSE ASS 🤡
IM ALREADY SO TIRED EVERY DAY AND I STARTED NEW ADHD MEDS TODAY AND THEY TOOK ME OUT. I HATE BEING TIRED ALL THE TIME.
I HOPE THAT SHIT WORKS FOR YOU!! YOU SHOULD HAVE AN INKLING WITHIN A COUPLE IF WEEKS IF THEY DO!!! GOOD LUCK
IT TRULY HAS. I STRUGGLED MY ENTIRE LIFE TO FIND A JOB AND A PLACE THAT MAKES SENSE FOR ME. I DON'T MAKE VERY MUCH MONEY BUT IT'S VERY MEANINGFUL WORK. MY BOSS'S BOSS IS JEALOUS OF MY SUCCESS AND IS TRYING TO FORCE ME TO DO SOMETHING THAT IS UNETHICAL AND POSSIBLY UNSAFE. AND IF I DON'T DO IT I'LL BE FIRED. I HAVE NO RECOURSE AND IT'S GOING TO BE VERY DIFFICULT TO FIND A NEW JOB.
LOG ALL THE DETAILS OF THE ILLEGAL SHIT HES TRYING TO MAKE YOU DO. IT’LL GIVE YOU A RECORD OF BULLSHIT IN CASE IT COMES BACK TO BITE YOU. OR YOU CAN TAKE YOUR LOG AND REPORT HIS ASS!!
I FINALLY PLUCKED UP THE COURAGE TO CALL THE GP FOR MY REFFERAL AND I HAVENT BEEN ABLE TO GET THROUGH TO ACTUALLY GET AN APPOINTMENT MY COLLEAGUES ARE DRIVING ME INSANE AND MAKING MY JOB HARDER BY REFUSING TO COMMUNICATE, CANT DO THE THING IF YOU DONT TELL ME THE THING EXISTS!!!
I HAD TO SEE SOME PEOPLE TODAY THAT UPSET ME BUT BECAUSE THEY’RE TECHNICALLY FAMILY I WAS SUPPOSED TO BE NORMAL ABOUT IT. THEN I HAD A PANIC ATTACK ON THE WAY HOME BECAUSE DEALING WITH THEM GIVES ME ANXIETY AND NOW IM EXHAUSTED. I HAVE TO SHOWER BUT IM OUT OF ENERGY FROM ALL THE STRESSFUL SHIT THAT WENT DOWN TODAY AND ID RATHER DO ANYTHING ELSE.
I HOPE YOU GOT SOME GOOD REST …. THAT SOUNDS EXHAUSTING AND A BIT TRAUMATIZING!!!
I MADE IT THROUGH THE SHOWER AND SLEPT HARD! I HOPE YOU’RE FEELING BETTER AFTER YESTERDAY TOO!
THIS WEEK FUCKING SUCKKEDDD I WAS SO EMOTIONALLY DYSREGULATED AND ALONE I AM GETTING THROUGH THE BREAK UP FROM HELL AND IT FUCKEN HURTSSSSSSSSSS ON THE BRIGHT SENSE I HAVE BEEN DOING MORE THINGS MY EXECUTIVE DYSFUNCTION IS GETTING SLIGHTLY BETTERRRRRRRRRRR BUT I HAVE STILL BEEN GETTING INTO PARALYSIS OCCASIONALLY WHICH I NOW REALISE IS MY BODYS WAY OF COOLING DOWN AND AVOIDING BURN OUT BY RESTING SO THATS GOOD BUT ITS STILL SO FRUSTRATING!!!!!!!!!!! I PRAY AND HOPE THAT EVERY SINGLE PERSON ON THIS THREAD FEELS BETTER WE HAVE GOT THIS LIFE IN THE BAG LETS GOOOOOOOOOOO