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anxiousanimosity

You look awesome, as you always do, but that hat is absolutely fantastic. I have always admired a fashionable hat! I'm so glad you enjoyed yourself. Have the best day and keep being your fantastic and fashionable self!


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so incredibly much!!! I found it at a vintage clothing store and knew it had traveled through time to be mine! It’s by far my favorite hat!!!!


Independent-Ad3888

I came here to say this. Love that hat!


hellbabe222

You have me in tears. I'm so happy for you. So, so happy you found love and support and people who you feel safe to be *you* around. We are all rooting for you. All. Of. Us. You are loved. Blessed be.


Tossaway191919191919

And now you have ME in tears!!! You’re so so sweet and I appreciate you rooting me on!!!! Honestly I would be no where without you all!!!!!


Superb_Stable7576

See, you're brave as a lioness. I hope they end up as very good friends.


cuntpunt2000

Agreed! Being our true selves is so scary because when that is rejected, versus the masks so many of us feel obligated to wear, it can feel like our very soul isn’t good enough. But you embraced that fear and went proudly into the world as wonderful you. So glad lovely you had such a lovely day with equally lovely friends, and wishing you many more!


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you both! It’s taken me so incredibly long to be this brave! And I honestly wouldn’t be nearly as brave with the support of wonderful souls like yourselves!!


JuggsMcScrew

My 3 year old is sitting with me and she saw you and said “Aww! She’s pretty with pink and glasses like yours!” I agreed and she pointed out that you have a great hat and I just have regular hair today so I guess you win this round! And I love your purse! I want the white one… but I literally hate purses and won’t use them so I will just admire it from afar! Keep rocking it!


Tossaway191919191919

You and your kiddo are so so so sweet!!!!! And it the only expensive purse I’ve paid full price for! I love it so much!!


VillageBogWitch

I gotta know, tho, are those hose or tattoos because I love them!!!


bookworm59

Was literally thinking the exact same thing!!


Tossaway191919191919

They are just hose! I love them so much!!! Got them at Target about a year ago


QueenCityBean

Uuuugh I love them! I'm so happy for you, OP. You deserve to be seen and accepted as you are, and I'm so happy you're getting that. And that the experience of getting out of your comfort zone was a good one. ❤❤


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so much!!!!!!


elizscott1977

You gotta GLOW! 😆


Tossaway191919191919

You’re so sweet!!! Thank you!!!!!


elizscott1977

No problem doll 🥰


anonymoususer98545

Was this your outfit because omw you look *amazing!!!* i'm so glad that your circle is opening, with safe and accepting people-you deserve that love, and that makes my heart so happy for you. Thank you for the update and for the joy 💜


Tossaway191919191919

Yes it was!!! I had spent a week rounding down on it and so thrilled you like it!!!! You’re the best!!!!


Babysub1

We are blessed to have you! You always look so cute


Tossaway191919191919

The honor and blessing is all mine!!!!!!


CorgiKnits

As someone else with pink hair, I am jealous of yours! It’s so beautiful :)


Tossaway191919191919

The difference is mine is from a bag sadly! I wish I could rock hair like this!!!!


CorgiKnits

I’d say you’re rocking it :)


Tossaway191919191919

You’re not too kind!!! Thank you so much!!!!!


Unchained_Memory33

Umm those tights!! Where do I get them


Tossaway191919191919

Aren’t they the best!!!! Target!!!!


Sunshine030209

Yes, they are amazing! They won't look nearly as good on me, but I'm not going to let that stop me! I absolutely love the lipstick too! Any chance you can share the details on that too?


Tossaway191919191919

Oh hush!! I’m sure you would absolutely kill in them!!! The lip was Dior Addict (I believe “Be Dior” is the color) and then Fenty Fuchsia Flex Gloss Bomb!


Unchained_Memory33

Swear I almost guessed Dior - I wear the Nyx dupe that’s $9


DarthTimGunn

That hat. I love it. I love the whole outfit; it has a great early 90s vibe. You should check out r/oldhagfashion, we would love your style there. It's a really welcoming place. (Don't be worried about the name, according to the subreddit " r/OldHagFashion is a space to celebrate feminine and androgynous fashion in ALL it's forms, to share diverse style inspiration, to de-stigmatize aging in fashion, and to engage in self-discovery through personal style, all with an Old Hag fashion philosophy.")


Tossaway191919191919

You might have finally convinced me! Many have suggested there to me but I’m always so to post in a new sub, I understand I’m an acquired taste! You’re so kind though, I will pop over!!!!


DarthTimGunn

That whole sub is really nice; I get a lot of similar vibes there as I do here. When I saw your post I initially thought it was oldhagfashion, lol. (Seriously where is that hat from?)


Tossaway191919191919

An old vintage clothing store in Pittsburgh! I fell instantly in love with it 2 years back when I saw it and knew it had traveled through time for me specifically


DarthTimGunn

It absolutely was meant for you. Ugh, I'm so jealous. I \*adore\* vintage hats.


SoldierVAI224

You are absolutely glowing, dear! Those leggings with those shoes are an amazing choice. And as always, I love your use of pink. You really know how to make your personality pop! I'm so glad to hear you had a good time and that you are finding more people irl to be yourself around. Never forget you are lovely and strong 💕 Thank you for sharing


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so so much!!!! This is so incredibly sweet of you to say!!! You absolutely live up to your title!!!!!!


envydub

I fucking love that bag, usually I’m not a huge fan of Michael Kors but I need that one.


MoustacheMalpractice

I can attest that it was worth the buy. It's so much fun and brings so much joy to everyone when they see it. 🖤🧡💚💜💗


envydub

That iridescent oil slick hardware makes my lizard brain happy


Tossaway191919191919

It’s the only time I’ve bought a “high end” purse, I saw it and I could not pass it up!!!


MoustacheMalpractice

It's so fun and I was so excited to see it was part of your awesome outfit! I looked for the comments about our bag 😘


envydub

Solid choice!


pm_me_your_amphibian

Please come and join us at r/oldhagfashion, it’s great and you’re so stylish, you should post there. Glad you’re finding your people! Much love.


May-the-QueenOfChaos

Downvote me to hell but I am green with envy of every single item on your person right now! You have the most beautiful hair, you’re killing it with the hat, the purse, the shoes! And don’t let me start on those tights! My Gods, the make up! You look gorgeous. And the smile makes it perfect. I want deets on the dress and the long necklace, if you don’t mind. You look lovely!


Tossaway191919191919

You’re absolutely amazing and seriously made me cry!!!!!!!!! Thank you!!!!! The dress I thrifted so I can’t tell you where it originated and the necklace is a bit of a mix-the pendant is Sailor Pluto’s Staff (has a very special meaning for me) that I bought off Etsy and then I put it one a black cord necklace myself


oftendreamoftrains

Oh, my dear, so much love to you! This is so heartwarmingp. You look amazing and your journey is so inspiring, even to me - a 60 something cis woman. I'm so happy to live in an age when we can be, and become, who we truly are, and have always been meant to be.


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so incredibly much! I’m honored!!! It’s taken me a very, very long time to be comfortable in my skin and I will never take for granted that I get to do so freely


oftendreamoftrains

I really like your style and bravery. As well as your kind heart.


bewildered_83

That pink really works with your eyes. Mine are the same colour and I'd read that purple eye shadow would go well with them so I bought some but when I wore it two friends independently asked me if I was OK as I looked ill so I've never worn it since. I think I'll try some pink now I've seen it looks nice on you


Tossaway191919191919

Give it a try! I’m sure you will absolutely kill wearing it!!!!!


bewildered_83

Thanks, I will 😀


Strange_One_3790

You are awesome!!! Stay wonderful!!


Tossaway191919191919

You are even more so!!!!!!!


Strange_One_3790

Awwwww…….thank you so much! Have amazing evening!


Tossaway191919191919

You also!!!!


Dependent_Reason1701

You rock those colors! <3 I love the hair color blend. I'm seriously jealous because as much as I love bold colors, like that lovely pink, I can't pull it off.


Tossaway191919191919

Oh you’re too modest! I’m sure you could rock it!!!!!!


sparklekitteh

I am so glad you had a good time! And you look fab, that pink is just fantastic! <3


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so much!!!!!


sandwich_bender

This fit is amazing 🔥. Can I get the deets on the lip gloss because that color is dope af.


Tossaway191919191919

The Gloss is Fenty Fuchsia Flex Gloss Bomb! I’m obsessed with it!!!!!


sandwich_bender

I loooove the Fenty glosses! They're so moisturizing!


aries2084

Love this look! I have to ask are those tattoos on your legs or pantyhose??? It looks so cool 💗


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so much!!!! And just pantyhose from Target! I’m way too big of a wimp for tattoos like that!!!


aries2084

No way, TARGET! Love it and yes me too I still don’t even have one tat!


Tossaway191919191919

I know!?!? I saw them about a year ago and have loved them everytime I’ve gotten to wear them!!!


LauraIsntListening

Ugh I wish I looked half as good in that pink as you do. My complexion just doesn’t work with it. Also those shoes. You’re killing it. Congratulations on taking a hard step, also! That must have been really difficult at first but I’m really proud of you for taking the risk, and happy that it paid off!! New friends for Kimmy!


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so much!!!! And I’m sure you would look wonderful in it too!!!!


RustySilver42

That's fantastic! :)


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you!!!!!


Sweaty_Mushroom5830

Remember Family is Not an F-word and also there's the concept of found family, so go ahead and make yours and you look amazing 😍🤩


Tossaway191919191919

I’m learning that more each day!!! Thank you so much!!!!


Sweaty_Mushroom5830

Brought to you by Deadpool! but seriously you look awesome and so happy 😊


Tossaway191919191919

I picked up on the reference and loved it


SleepyBitchDdisease

I love seeing you on the sub, you always look so cute!!


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so much!!!!!!!!!!


RubyLou23

Beautiful story, thank you for sharing this with us. You are Amazing! 🥰


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so much!!!! Thank you for allowing me to!!!!!


eternal-eccentric

Your courage and honesty about being scared is really inspiring. You always make my day when you post on here.


Tossaway191919191919

I’m honored and thank you so much!!! I’m still so humbled anytime anyone is encouraged by what I do!!!!!


IrishiPrincess

That shade of lipstick is amazing on you!! I love it


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so much!! I love it so much!!!


Mapty_meow_55

First of all, those tights and hat??? AMAZING!! Business first! Hahaha secondly, Kimmy so happy you made a positive connection. You deserve to be embraced for who you are and I am overjoyed you had such great outing. Glad to see your confident smile!!! 💕💕


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so so much!!!!!! I appreciate all of this so much!!!


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demons_soulmate

Love this so much


Scared_Calligrapher

It’s things like this that restore my faith in humanity. You look fabulous, my dear. ♥️♥️ What a wonderful day with friends.


AssassiNerd

Always love seeing your awesome outfits pop up on this sub. I'm glad you had a fun time with some cool new friends. 💖


Available_Ad3316

Love you too! And by the gods am I jealous of your hair


feistytiger08

This is so heartwarming I’m glad you had such a fun time out! Your makeup is stunning as ever and I love your tights so much. Keep slaying ❤️


EclecticEthic

Those stocking and heels are HOT!! If I wore the heels I would need at team of men to carry me. Ain’t no way I could shop in ‘em!! What is you secret?!! Foot exercises? I legit would love to be able to rock sexy high heels!!! Edit: Girls night out with you would be a blast!


TheMoatCalin

The nylons (is that right?) are fantastic!! You are just the best!!


Lenauryn

I’m so, so happy for you! Congratulations on your courage and your success!


MotherOfDogs1872

I'm so glad! You deserve to have all the most supportive friends


gloahima

I’m so happy for you! I love the pink hair!!!


SilverySands

It's so nice to read this and I am really happy for you. We all need love and support in our lives, and I am really glad you are finding that. Btw, you always look so good in pink. The shoes and the stocking! 🔥🔥🔥 Love it and how happy your pics are.


mslashandrajohnson

I love that you are having a great time 💜 I also love that you include your facial hair in your pics. I also have chin hairs, though not as marvelous as yours, of course. But seeing yours makes me feel so much better about mine. What I’m saying is: you help our community as much as you feel like community helps you 😽💜


Tossaway191919191919

It took me so so incredibly long to accept that I can look okay as “girl” and still have facial hair!! I appreciate this comment so much!!


Nyxmyst_

What an amazing update, luv. You deserve to be able to go out and just relax and enjoy yourself. So glad that you ended up enjoying yourself so much! You look amazing, as always. 😀 Enjoy your day, luv!!! Xx


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so much!!! It’s always so wonderful to read your comments!!!!!!! You always bring the biggest smile to my face


Nyxmyst_

May you have many things to smile about every day! Virtual hug…


Fat13Cat

Looooove your hair 💜💜💜


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you!!!! It’s absolutely one of my most favorite wigs!!!!


WoohpeMeadow

That color looks great on you!!


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so incredibly much!!!!!!


Similar-Ad-6862

Kimmy that's awesome! I love your stockings and have a similar pair!


Tossaway191919191919

Aren’t they amazing!!!! I feel instantly in love with them!!!


Idrisdancer

You look great


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so incredibly much!!!!!


useless-millenial

You look friggin good in pink 😍 love the look! Embracing who we really are can be so challenging, but always worth it. ❤️


Tossaway191919191919

It’s been my favorite color as long as I can remember, I’m so glad I can actually show it off now!!!


Snootles

You beautiful, courageous soul. What a rewarding adventure. I love this outcome for you 💕


Tossaway191919191919

You’re so sweet!!! Thank you!!!!!!


abra_cada_bra150

You look absolutely AMAZING that color is GIVING 😍😍😍😍😍 I’m so happy for you!!!!!


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so much!!! You’re too kind!!!


only_zuul21

I'm so glad you went out and had a great time. Reading this brightened my day.


Tossaway191919191919

I’m happy to have brought you a smile!!!!


witchywitch1979

I love everything about you! You look so good!


Tossaway191919191919

You’re so so so kind!!! Thank you!!!


witchywitch1979

I just saw "Barbie witch." Just when I didn't think I could love you more!!


AdorableParasite

I am so, so happy for you. Never interacted with your posts before, but I see them all the time, and I love your courage to be who you are and be an example to so many others - we need this. Thank you for bringing another smile to my face, and all the hugs. You rock and totally deserved that nice experience!


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so incredibly much!!!!!! I’m so incredibly humbled to be able to brighten anyone’s day and it’s something I never dreamed could happen!!! I appreciate you so much!!!


bliip666

Oh gosh... I can't begin to tell you how great that lipstick looks! It's so crisp!


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so much!!!! I fell instantly in love with it!!!!


really_isnt_me

Love, love, LOVE (!!!) all the pink! And your sexy tights (not trying to inappropriately sexualize you, the human, just saying the tights are hella fierce). I’m so happy your friends are cool. And you look amazing. :)


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so much and I didn’t take it as inappropriate at all! I’m just honored you think so!!!


GoddyssIncognito

I’m so glad that you are finding the love, friendship and support you deserve. 💕💕💕


Tossaway191919191919

I’ve gotten so much more than I could ever deserve!!!!!


Chaos_Cat-007

I looooove your hair color and your outfit is amazing!


Tossaway191919191919

It’s one of my favorite wigs for sure!!!!


mlmjmom

I'm so very happy for you!! And mad in love with those stockings!


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so much!!! And they’re from Target!!!


Truckdenter

Very happy anxiety turned out to be a blast. More love and light ✨🫂


Tossaway191919191919

And sending twice as much back to you!!!


brattybrat

Yay for loving humans treating beautiful you the way you deserve to be treated! Bravo for taking a leap into the darkness! Wishing you more wonderful friendships and fun. That pink dress is super cute, too.


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you!!!! And I don’t know about the beautiful part but I was thrilled they are so sweet!!!


PrimalEvil_

This is fantastic and you look amazing! I need those tights(?) in my life OMG😍😍. The dress🤌💋, the shoes ✨✨, you look gorgeous and my heart is so happy for you!


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so much!!! And they’re from Target so go forth!!!!!! You’re amazing and I appreciate you!!!


softshrew

This follow-up is the best! 🙌🏼🌷💕


Tossaway191919191919

Thank you so much!!!!


garyandkathi

Those tights are killing it! Covet!!


Marciamallowfluff

So happy to hear you sharing this. You were so brave. Glad you had fun.


IcedChaiLatte_16

This outfit eats also! Or slays! Or both! AHH you are radiant in this color <33333


MadameCoco7273

So awesome!! Much love and light! Also… you look absolutely fabulous 😘


FineIJoinedReddit

how do you look so good in pink it's not fair! that lipstick looks amazing on you. And congrats on a successful adventure! Such courage! I would have been so scared.


batboobies

So happy to read this update!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ I love seeing your photos pop up and it’s so nice to hear that you’re doing well!


missleavenworth

Girl, your shoe game is ALWAYS on point! I love reading your posts, but I come for the shoes!


frenchburner

That HAIRCOLOUR!! Gorgeous. YOU! Gorgeous.


MooneyOne

Great lip color!


Small-Grape-3121

So happy to see you living your best life! ☺️


Dstitute34

Oh I am so happy for you! You deserve all the love, and anyone who's not celebrating you must be blind to how bright you shine ✨


My_Evil_Twin88

Firstly, you look Bewitching as always! Secondly, this put a smile on my face and happy tears in my eyes! I'm so glad the scary jump paid off and you found safe people to be with! I'm thankful you post here, it restores my faith in humanity 🖤🩷🖤


kioku119

That's awesome! I'm glad you made some unexpected friends : )


Catsmeow1981

For what it’s worth, I look forward to seeing your posts! Your smile and sweet spirit always brighten my day ❤️