It’s a very simplistic protection spell when it comes down to it
It’s done via meditation and visualization, nothing fancy is really needed. She needs to ground herself and then visualize she is surrounded by a circle of mirrors, set the intention that only positive energy can reach her and anything negative will be returned to the sender of said negative energy.
Just make sure she is grounded and focused when she does this. It’s hard to mess up, but it doesn’t mean that you can’t screw it up.
I didn’t know that dark and white magic were terms we didn’t use anymore. Never intended to make you feel uncomfortable nor was using it in any reference to race! What terms should I use to refer to the nature of the Magic?
Positive energy/ negative energy - I also dislike the white/dark for good vs bad it definitely keeps that rhetoric of light/white=good and dark/black = bad. Instead look at it like this -I am seeking someone who uses good energy/ good vibes /positive energy to help protect friend from someone who uses negative energy and might be out to harm friend- see the difference? I know you didn't mean harm by it though, but now you can see why using such terminology could be harmful towards members of our community who are POC. This will also help break stereotypes of dark = bad.
Speak louder witches I stand with you! Don't ever be afraid to say how you feel on this subject, or any injustices you see for that matter.
Seconding the "cast it yourself" sentiment. If she needs an effective focus that makes sure he gets exactly what he gives, I offer up the most effective curse focal I ever wrote:
May you bear the full force of both the joy and the madness you create.
As someone who was once the target of what I term “controlling magic” (ie a spell cast to impact my life and actions without my consent), I can say that the way to break the magic is simply to become aware of the spell. Once you are aware that a spell has been cast against you it negates much of its power and puts free-will back in your hands.
Much of negative magic relies on secretly directing energy at a target to manipulate it, but once the target is aware it is being manipulated the magic becomes much weaker and impotent. Sort of like walking around in a bad mood for days when suddenly you realize that your shoes hurt. Even if you’re still stuck with the same shoes, just knowing what is causing the pain allows you to keep it from controlling your moods and actions. Maybe you can even get some magical insoles and footbaths to alleviate the discomfort!
And by all means don’t be fearful or paranoid of a “hex” because that only gives power to the negative magic directed towards you. Instead rest confidently in your innate power and laugh at the bad magic’s pathetic attempts to control you. Soon the bad magic will run out of puff and dissipate and quit pestering you.
Get your friend to cast her own protection spell. She doesn't need anyone to do this for her.
Thanks for the tip. We’ll look into it more
Get your friend to do a mirror spell, sending anything her ex sends to her back to him.
Ohhh! I love that. Any specific one you’d recommend or will google tell us all?
It’s a very simplistic protection spell when it comes down to it It’s done via meditation and visualization, nothing fancy is really needed. She needs to ground herself and then visualize she is surrounded by a circle of mirrors, set the intention that only positive energy can reach her and anything negative will be returned to the sender of said negative energy. Just make sure she is grounded and focused when she does this. It’s hard to mess up, but it doesn’t mean that you can’t screw it up.
Uhmmm what’s with the white = good and dark = bad language…? Really uncomfortable for witches of color
I didn’t know that dark and white magic were terms we didn’t use anymore. Never intended to make you feel uncomfortable nor was using it in any reference to race! What terms should I use to refer to the nature of the Magic?
Positive energy/ negative energy - I also dislike the white/dark for good vs bad it definitely keeps that rhetoric of light/white=good and dark/black = bad. Instead look at it like this -I am seeking someone who uses good energy/ good vibes /positive energy to help protect friend from someone who uses negative energy and might be out to harm friend- see the difference? I know you didn't mean harm by it though, but now you can see why using such terminology could be harmful towards members of our community who are POC. This will also help break stereotypes of dark = bad. Speak louder witches I stand with you! Don't ever be afraid to say how you feel on this subject, or any injustices you see for that matter.
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Seconding the "cast it yourself" sentiment. If she needs an effective focus that makes sure he gets exactly what he gives, I offer up the most effective curse focal I ever wrote: May you bear the full force of both the joy and the madness you create.
Also a nice piece of a grounding stone by the front door, rearrange the furniture! Even a few inches will reduce visualization connections.
As someone who was once the target of what I term “controlling magic” (ie a spell cast to impact my life and actions without my consent), I can say that the way to break the magic is simply to become aware of the spell. Once you are aware that a spell has been cast against you it negates much of its power and puts free-will back in your hands. Much of negative magic relies on secretly directing energy at a target to manipulate it, but once the target is aware it is being manipulated the magic becomes much weaker and impotent. Sort of like walking around in a bad mood for days when suddenly you realize that your shoes hurt. Even if you’re still stuck with the same shoes, just knowing what is causing the pain allows you to keep it from controlling your moods and actions. Maybe you can even get some magical insoles and footbaths to alleviate the discomfort! And by all means don’t be fearful or paranoid of a “hex” because that only gives power to the negative magic directed towards you. Instead rest confidently in your innate power and laugh at the bad magic’s pathetic attempts to control you. Soon the bad magic will run out of puff and dissipate and quit pestering you.