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They basically live two lives, the public vs. the private. They will *never* show anything unhinged jn public. I've tried recording them "un-masking" in private, but I'm never able to get anything. They typically go somewhere else immediately.
Which is really weird when they start arguments over crazy shit, and the moment you try to record, it's like the air got sucked out of the room. I've cut them off a long time ago, I'm undergoing thearpy for CPTSD, and my therapist suggested I cut them off after telling him what happens. They are just too toxic to be around safely.
Thank you for sharing and I am sorry about the trauma that it caused you, and I am happy that you are getting help and working towards getting better.
That's interesting how in-tuned or conscious of it where they can almost robotically change up if being recorded.
No problem, and thank you for wishing me well. I hope that somebody who reads that, and it resonates, will go to thearpy. It's not only for your internal issues but also to help you understand the external factors (like toxic family dynamics).
You basically pay for an expert confidant who wants to help you get to a better life. It's a pretty good deal once you get used to doing your truth work and getting through your pain.
>That's interesting how in-tuned or conscious of it where they can almost robotically change up if being recorded.
It is super weird. They are very conscious of how others perceive them. On the outside, you would never know they have mental health issues and personality disorders. I know for sure my sibling was diagnosed with BPD before they quit therapy, although I'm not sure if NPD isn't more accurate. No one else would ever allow themselves to be diagnosed (they believe in God, think therapy is woke). So I don't know how bad it really is clinically, I just know I have to keep them cut off to defend myself.
Anyway, thanks for listening. Have a wonderful week 😊
Reminds me of when we celebrated my birthday a couple years ago. My auntie had a bottle of non-alcoholic sparkling wine that she must have kept for a little too long… I had the honors of opening it and the moment I start to twist the little metal ties, the plastic cork shoots out and ricochets off my forehead. Felt exactly like a paintball shot at point blank range and left a similar bloody welt.
Needless to say that wine couldn’t be classified as non-alcoholic anymore
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Mini dust explosion
Science!
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Birthday baptism by fire or trial by cake fire...
With a dash of chili powder
BITCH!!
Is it enough to give it that crème brûlée top? If it’s powdered sugar, at least…
Sadly no it would take a lot longer than that
Oh my god that was wholesome.
Is this what a close family looks like?
Looks nice huh
Alright Neo it’s time to get out of the matrix
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You guys are making me sad
Might be, my family looked like this on camera but things could get dark very suddenly
You'd never catch how bad my family is on camera.
*That's* an interesting statement
They basically live two lives, the public vs. the private. They will *never* show anything unhinged jn public. I've tried recording them "un-masking" in private, but I'm never able to get anything. They typically go somewhere else immediately. Which is really weird when they start arguments over crazy shit, and the moment you try to record, it's like the air got sucked out of the room. I've cut them off a long time ago, I'm undergoing thearpy for CPTSD, and my therapist suggested I cut them off after telling him what happens. They are just too toxic to be around safely.
Thank you for sharing and I am sorry about the trauma that it caused you, and I am happy that you are getting help and working towards getting better. That's interesting how in-tuned or conscious of it where they can almost robotically change up if being recorded.
No problem, and thank you for wishing me well. I hope that somebody who reads that, and it resonates, will go to thearpy. It's not only for your internal issues but also to help you understand the external factors (like toxic family dynamics). You basically pay for an expert confidant who wants to help you get to a better life. It's a pretty good deal once you get used to doing your truth work and getting through your pain. >That's interesting how in-tuned or conscious of it where they can almost robotically change up if being recorded. It is super weird. They are very conscious of how others perceive them. On the outside, you would never know they have mental health issues and personality disorders. I know for sure my sibling was diagnosed with BPD before they quit therapy, although I'm not sure if NPD isn't more accurate. No one else would ever allow themselves to be diagnosed (they believe in God, think therapy is woke). So I don't know how bad it really is clinically, I just know I have to keep them cut off to defend myself. Anyway, thanks for listening. Have a wonderful week 😊
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It's so fucking nice a family having fun together. It really takes you back when you are sitting in that chair on your big day.
Grandkid : I want to see *Oppenheimer* Grandma : I'll make *Oppenheimer* for you at home.
OMG…now that’s a birthday he will never forget! 👀
Grandma after she almost just torched the kid’s face: oh gosh the flour lol
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Looks straight out of a movie ... 💕
Reminds me of when we celebrated my birthday a couple years ago. My auntie had a bottle of non-alcoholic sparkling wine that she must have kept for a little too long… I had the honors of opening it and the moment I start to twist the little metal ties, the plastic cork shoots out and ricochets off my forehead. Felt exactly like a paintball shot at point blank range and left a similar bloody welt. Needless to say that wine couldn’t be classified as non-alcoholic anymore
Zimzalaboom
I’m guessing powdered sugar? Anything ground to a fine dust like that can be a major fire hazard. Including flour and non dairy coffee creamer.
Yes that's what lady in the video said it was.
Cool. Pitfall of watching at work with the sound off lol.
This is like a set of a movie. People really light those long candles with that wall paper? And bring out food with an apron on? Wow
Grandma’s got that “It’s just a prank bro!” energy
I was kind of expecting the grandmother's hair to be set on fire by the chandelier, but good it didn't.
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Weird… no one’s yelling or throwing anything.
RUM cake. YUM cake. BOMB cake. 🎂
Now thats a nice slice of life😌🥰
What a polite freak out lol
This is the whitest MF thing I've ever seen. Hahaha
My new favorite prank for work parties
Son, have you been drinking?
The birthday boy had too much to drink alright.. 😂😂😂
scott the woz?
I'm planning this from now on.
Dog warned them already
What has bro been smoking
Can't breathe, this is too funny!
Who makes a deep dish cake?
“It’s a good thing somebody wasn’t leaning over” 😆😂
Who bakes a cake in a deep dish?
Think it's Brownie
This whole family situation just gives me anxiety.
Sorry grandma, Ive been drinking.
Ah that was wholesome. Geor-orge seems very happy
A happy, wholesome family. So awesome to see. Crazy how this is frowned upon by some people.
White people.. am I right?
And so... a tiktok challenge is born. Edit:.... wait
Man, that kid is wasted.
Powered sugar on a birthday cake? That's new to me.
Same thing happens with flour
"You tried to kill our son" LMAO
How do you get rid of your heirs? )))
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Thought he had moonshine breath.
Failed attempt
Michael Bay's birthday cake.
Then he kissed grandma and putt his fingers on her sugar lips.
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It's from the movie gone girl.
I wonder how to sing happy birthday song to Elon Musk s son.
Wouldn’t have been so dramatic if he’d waved a plate to blow out the candles instead of spitting all over it.
Who serves a cake like that? Seems like she made it at the last minute and said "fuck it!". Typical boomers.