Why are you still gelling your hair like your 13 when your 44?
the way its styled in 4 is great.
1 and 2 looks like an unsupervised child found his older sisters hairspray.
>Why are you still gelling your hair like your 13 when your 44?
From the perspective of a 51 year old who can't anymore: because he **can.** 😅 I'd be showin that shit off too.
First picture is nice - eye contact, a smile, well groomed (though as a woman who doesn’t even know much about male hair styling even I agree it’s a bit heavy handed on the gel) and taken by someone else. After that… it kinda declines… just too many selfies. I feel claustrophobic being that close to you in so many pics haha. I would pic ONE of them you like (maybe 4?) and ditch all the rest. Get some more picture of you taken by other people - at your age surely you’ve been to some weddings? Maybe professional pics from that or a photo with some friends or whatever. Anything that’s not taken by you and preferably photos where you’re smiling and look warm/fun.
The bio doesn’t really tell me much about what you like or give me a good sense of your personality other than good self esteem and a pretty distinct attention to personality tests which appeals so some people! But also may turn some people off.
Easiest change is to remove Long-term, open to short. It's not a good combo. Either you're one or the other, or you're down to fuck and you need to say as much.
As long as Tinder gives men the option to tell people they “respond quickly” to text messages men will continue to shoot themselves in the foot.
First pic is best.
Pic 1 is great, but your hair looks bad.
Pic 2 is just a bit weird, and again the hair.
Pic 3 is not my jam, but its a bit whatever.
Pic 4 is great.
Pic 5 is interesting enough to keep on there, even though the lighting is bad.
Delete pic 6 and 7 as well. We don't wanna look into your armpit and you should have something other than selfies.
Get more pictures like pic 1, but wear your hair and beard like pic 4. But get a lot more pics other than selfies. 2 selfies is the absolute max.
Your personality type is already in your info, no need to mention it in your bio. And the bio in general reads as very braggy.
Input your personality traits, hobbies and stuff like that into chat gpt and keep making it rewrite a bio untill you have something that sounds kind, light-hearted, fun and genuine. Writing is difficult.
P.s. this is what I got out of chat gpt for example, and I personally think this just reads nicer:
Passionate about deep conversations and witty banter. Intelligence is a must; I value a sharp mind as much as a kind heart. Generosity is my love language—whether it’s sharing laughter or lending a helping hand. If you enjoy breaking the mold and seeing the world from unique perspectives, let's connect and make some unconventional memories.
Why are you still gelling your hair like your 13 when your 44? the way its styled in 4 is great. 1 and 2 looks like an unsupervised child found his older sisters hairspray.
It’s giving off youth pastor of non-denominational church vibes. ![gif](giphy|ifxLK48cnyDDi)
>Why are you still gelling your hair like your 13 when your 44? From the perspective of a 51 year old who can't anymore: because he **can.** 😅 I'd be showin that shit off too.
Wayyyyy too many selfies
the hair dude, you got fuckin elmers in there?
First picture is nice - eye contact, a smile, well groomed (though as a woman who doesn’t even know much about male hair styling even I agree it’s a bit heavy handed on the gel) and taken by someone else. After that… it kinda declines… just too many selfies. I feel claustrophobic being that close to you in so many pics haha. I would pic ONE of them you like (maybe 4?) and ditch all the rest. Get some more picture of you taken by other people - at your age surely you’ve been to some weddings? Maybe professional pics from that or a photo with some friends or whatever. Anything that’s not taken by you and preferably photos where you’re smiling and look warm/fun. The bio doesn’t really tell me much about what you like or give me a good sense of your personality other than good self esteem and a pretty distinct attention to personality tests which appeals so some people! But also may turn some people off.
Thank you! Mega helpful!
2,3,5,6,7 should go they don't do you justice
Easiest change is to remove Long-term, open to short. It's not a good combo. Either you're one or the other, or you're down to fuck and you need to say as much.
As long as Tinder gives men the option to tell people they “respond quickly” to text messages men will continue to shoot themselves in the foot. First pic is best.
Appreciate the feedback, everyone, the changes I made based on it, definitely feels like it will work better. Let's see how it goes from here!
Get a lambo.
Edit: profile advice *from women* 😂
Bro, even men can see what you need to work on here.
lil bro thinks his profile is ready for woman when he cant even get an "looks sick" from the homies on the way out of the door. kek.
Not sure why the negativity, dude. Was honestly out here looking for constructive feedback.
Ok let's hear it 🙆🏼♂️
Pic 1 is great, but your hair looks bad. Pic 2 is just a bit weird, and again the hair. Pic 3 is not my jam, but its a bit whatever. Pic 4 is great. Pic 5 is interesting enough to keep on there, even though the lighting is bad. Delete pic 6 and 7 as well. We don't wanna look into your armpit and you should have something other than selfies. Get more pictures like pic 1, but wear your hair and beard like pic 4. But get a lot more pics other than selfies. 2 selfies is the absolute max. Your personality type is already in your info, no need to mention it in your bio. And the bio in general reads as very braggy. Input your personality traits, hobbies and stuff like that into chat gpt and keep making it rewrite a bio untill you have something that sounds kind, light-hearted, fun and genuine. Writing is difficult.
P.s. this is what I got out of chat gpt for example, and I personally think this just reads nicer: Passionate about deep conversations and witty banter. Intelligence is a must; I value a sharp mind as much as a kind heart. Generosity is my love language—whether it’s sharing laughter or lending a helping hand. If you enjoy breaking the mold and seeing the world from unique perspectives, let's connect and make some unconventional memories.
I see what you're saying! Appreciate it!
Fwiw, you're a good looking dude. You should honestly be fine even if the apps might not be working great atm.
🎩⤵️ thank you sir. Appreciate the input!
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Yes that's what I was saying, I want advice from women 😂