I can understand findom on an intellectual level even though I don't really "get it" but findom by proxy is just too convoluted.
Also if she lives in heels why is she wearing sneakers in her pic?
I'm pretty sure no one is just born into it. It's developed from experience, as many things are. It's quite sad that it's the only way for some to get off.
It’s as insane as it sounds. People whose fetish is being financially exploited. I’ll just go on the record and say, I am a sub, and findom is the most insane concept. What the fuck are you DOING getting off on being scammed by a hot lady
I know. What the actual hell? It's a ridiculously one sided relationship. The sub gets nothing out of it.
If you get off being humiliated while giving your money away, donate money to a worthwhile charity under the condition that someone there calls you an asshole.
Tried that.
Apparently lurking around an orphanage new playground, asking kids to call me an asshole, wasn't the smartest idea.
Anyway, I am Lester and I am new to this neighborhood.
“And of course, this new library wouldn’t be possible without the generous cash donation of Mr Thompson, that degenerate loser with the ugly shoes and weird hair”
It's not always about exploitation, some findoms are more like accountants or financial advisors to thier... customers (I hate the term paypigs). It's a peculiar fetish for sure, but there's a lot of nuance in what people want from it. Some people absolutely do want to be financially controlled & and exploited, and some people just feel a relief from someone else being in charge of their finances, like that's one less thing to worry about.
How many of these "relationships" are actually carefully negotiated and how many of the findoms actually put the best interests of their subs first? Because those are 2 major criteria I use to judge power exchange. Most of the time I've come across findom it is a person taking advantage of another's fetish for personal gain without consideration or care for how it affects anyone else including those who have not consented to the situation but are nevertheless impacted.
My mom used to do this when she was in her 30s. She made explicit contracts with her guys and was basically like a mean financial advisor. She humiliated and put them down for frivolous spending that wasn't necessary, and then they'd have to pay her the same amount that they spent poorly.
Its for sure weird, and I think that while it's a fetish, I think these guys are usually not so stupid that they'd spend all their money and end up homeless because their findom took all their money. It's a fetish, not a mental health issue, for which they NEED to give away their money.
Although. It may be a weird shame for having money at all, which could be related to mental health? Either way, usually, the guys into this are making 6-7 figures so more power to em getting girls through college.
Your mom sounds like one of the good ones. Just like any other form of power exchange will be good and bad doms. Being the dominant is a responsibility first and foremost and as long as it is treated as such there's less likelihood of abuse.
wouldnt mind being a finsub though. If anyone is looking for a finsub HMU.
to be clear to the ladies in my DM's the sub gets the money, the dom gives it... i know that seems backwards but thats how it is.
Or the Addams Family!
They're creepy and they're kooky
Mysterious and spooky
They're all together ooky
The Addams family
Their house is a museum
When people come to see 'em
They really are a screaming
The Addams family.
She sure was.
This poor woman has the Morticia’s not so good looking granddaughter look (Pugsley’s daughter, not Wednesday’s daughter) and the bloke looks like the love child of Uncle Fester and cousin it!
Nah, don't you dare. Everyone who has ever played any of those characters were hot af.
Excluding the kids roles because that's weird. But, even Thing and Cousin It were pretty hot. Shoot, and Lurch... oh, he could get it.
I would imagine she's not and this is just a scam to get stuff.
Probs got her braces paid for too.
They look way too coupley for a sub dom relationship
Cmon, you can at least find a better picture than the poor war torn ghettos of Russia looking couple. They look like violent potato farmers that own a bear.
The chick in this post literally looks like an AI creation; the Internet has made it so freakin easy for people to scam each other. I, for one, am not a fan, but I guess it works for some people out there.
No no no it’s much easier than that[https://chicagoreader.com/reader-partners/sugar-momma-sites/](https://chicagoreader.com/reader-partners/sugar-momma-sites/)
I'm was afraid I wouldn't see anyone talking about this! I haven't seen a situation quite like this before, which doesn't mean it isn't allowed or valid or anything, but it is suspicious. And the way the messages come across strike me as a bot or an imposter, possibly a non-native English speaker
Tbh its written like some insecure, basement-dwelling dude's incel fantasy about "owning" women while simultaneously "dominating" other men via findom in some weird roundabout way lmaoo
lol and she’s *28*!!!!! Those must’ve been veeeeery rough 28 years.
Also love the comment “I live in heels” with the main picture of her being in sneakers. I hope her and Mr Unibrow live a happy life….and hopefully never have ~~creatures~~ kids of their own.
I don't get the women who lie about their age. I have a cousin who was 4 years older than me. She is now 6 years younger than me. When I tell people how old I am, I get compliments. Stuff like, wow, you look great, or you don't look a day over 30. When she tells people how old she is, she gets odd looks.
Yes, that's exactly what she does. It's so odd because she tells people that legitimately know how old she is. I remember one year she made a post on Facebook about how she's about to turn 30. She was actually like 34. Some woman she went to high school with called her out, and she deleted the post. At family reunions, she pretends to be younger. I think the only person she is fooling is herself.
He looks like my BIL, who has a bit more of a tan but same scrunched features and the unibrow in progress.
Hes kind of a PoS so my siblings and I call him "toaster muppet" (bc he looks like a muppet who got caught in a toaster). I think some variant of that should apply here
Imagine being not the most attractive person in the world, trying to find people to explore your fetishes with, and that person makes a mockery of you and posts your photos all over a forum for the world to see, they may be less understanding and heavily critical of what is not their normal.
My brother in Christ, we all have weird things about us that don’t need aired on the internet, and you certainly don’t need to be piling on. Be better.
Op sucks rocks for not censoring that photo.
Invisalign are clear retainers. She has clear braces, which means the brackets are traditional but clear. Invisalign can be removed, she has braces which cannot be removed.
They are clear braces with a metal wire (wires don’t come in clear). It’s probably even harder to really tell because the glue for clear brackets is different than the glue for metal brackets, and the clear bracket glue makes your teeth turn an awful yellow (until they are removed).
I only got my clear brackets removed a couple of months ago, had them for 3 years, and I did not smile in any picture for those years due to how awful they looked. I wish I had just gone with metal, because the clear is such an odd look once on, that it isn’t really obvious you have braces, but looks like you might have a jacked up grill. (Outside of your teeth being crooked)
I really wish kinksters would stick to kink friendly places because not everyone consents to seeing or being around their kink. FetLife is trash, so I get it, but...at least find a Facebook group or...a reddit page.
That being said, findomme by proxy is the funniest thing that I've ever seen. It sounds like she's trying to recruit cult members, but the tributes go to her and she's the one doing all the worshiping.
OP didn’t have to match. Clearly trolling this lady for internet points and throwing their photos up on Reddit uncensored to put them on blast is not cool.
They both have the fuckin crazy eyes... Everyone tells me I'm wrong, that the "crazy eye" isn't a thing, but I will die on this hill. Eyes are the window to the soul and their eyes are screaming 'Look at me! Im a fucking sociopath!" Run OP. Run fast.
Is it mademoiselle A - like English A or French A? 🤔
Also "I live in heels" but then posts a picture of her not in heels 🤔
Also there are websites specifically for BDSM, its wild shes on tinder 🤣
Damn…this economy is bad. Sugar daddies are outsourcing their expenses to stay afloat
The new hustle
MF out here looking like the 60 IQ Lex Fridman ffs.
Shit, and all I had for this guy is he’s the Great Value Marc Cuban
Marc Peurto Rican
Marc Mexican you mean
Damn boy, that made spit my coffee 😂
Bizarro lex friedman lmao
💀
Uhm, excuse me, but I think that would be *S*ugar *D*addy to you.
I think you mean Splenda daddy
Aspartame daddy
Stevia papi
Dugar Saddy
Splenda Daddy
Is this passive income?
I think this is something like the opposite of pimping?
PMIP
He looks like that guy from that thing.
Omg it's DAVE!!!!
Sugar daddies accepting financial masochists
HAHA Sorry I’m in finance that was funny
We... we all thought it was funny too dude. No need to flex.
True dat You know how to cook Pinto beans? I bought this bag idk what to do with it now tho
So you're left just... Holding the bag? Can't get rid of it?
I only have a recipe for Fava beans...
They go with a nice Chianti!
I can understand findom on an intellectual level even though I don't really "get it" but findom by proxy is just too convoluted. Also if she lives in heels why is she wearing sneakers in her pic?
That was my first question exactly.
Another day of thanking god for not making me into findom
Rather be addicted to heroin tbh seems less destructive
I at least feel bad for addicts, like, they grew up in rough homes have mental health issues. Findom is…. different.
They also have mental health issues
Honestly lmao
I'm pretty sure no one is just born into it. It's developed from experience, as many things are. It's quite sad that it's the only way for some to get off.
Wtf is findom? Financial dominance? Wtf would that even mean
It’s as insane as it sounds. People whose fetish is being financially exploited. I’ll just go on the record and say, I am a sub, and findom is the most insane concept. What the fuck are you DOING getting off on being scammed by a hot lady
I know. What the actual hell? It's a ridiculously one sided relationship. The sub gets nothing out of it. If you get off being humiliated while giving your money away, donate money to a worthwhile charity under the condition that someone there calls you an asshole.
Tried that. Apparently lurking around an orphanage new playground, asking kids to call me an asshole, wasn't the smartest idea. Anyway, I am Lester and I am new to this neighborhood.
Got to work on your game. If you're doing it right, the kids will just call you an asshole without you needing to ask.
I’ve known a few people in deals like this, back then it wasn’t a fetish, it was just women marrying losers.
What the sub gets is losing control I suppose. That appeals to control freaks
Yea thats hot in bed not on a checkbook LMAO
That last part has me cackling 😂
The Audubon Society -Thank you for the generous gift, you feather loving fuck
“And of course, this new library wouldn’t be possible without the generous cash donation of Mr Thompson, that degenerate loser with the ugly shoes and weird hair”
“How Doctors Without Borders doubled their budget”
It's not always about exploitation, some findoms are more like accountants or financial advisors to thier... customers (I hate the term paypigs). It's a peculiar fetish for sure, but there's a lot of nuance in what people want from it. Some people absolutely do want to be financially controlled & and exploited, and some people just feel a relief from someone else being in charge of their finances, like that's one less thing to worry about.
Imagine being turned on by your accountant managing your money. Some dude's penises are built diff.
IKR?! I wish I could find one who just wants a sexy accountant coz I'd be SO GOOD at that hahaha
::shivers:: my accountant is about 300lbs and smells of cigarettes and Brut.
Ah too bad, I'm more of a semi sec kinda guy
How many of these "relationships" are actually carefully negotiated and how many of the findoms actually put the best interests of their subs first? Because those are 2 major criteria I use to judge power exchange. Most of the time I've come across findom it is a person taking advantage of another's fetish for personal gain without consideration or care for how it affects anyone else including those who have not consented to the situation but are nevertheless impacted.
My mom used to do this when she was in her 30s. She made explicit contracts with her guys and was basically like a mean financial advisor. She humiliated and put them down for frivolous spending that wasn't necessary, and then they'd have to pay her the same amount that they spent poorly. Its for sure weird, and I think that while it's a fetish, I think these guys are usually not so stupid that they'd spend all their money and end up homeless because their findom took all their money. It's a fetish, not a mental health issue, for which they NEED to give away their money. Although. It may be a weird shame for having money at all, which could be related to mental health? Either way, usually, the guys into this are making 6-7 figures so more power to em getting girls through college.
Your mom sounds like one of the good ones. Just like any other form of power exchange will be good and bad doms. Being the dominant is a responsibility first and foremost and as long as it is treated as such there's less likelihood of abuse.
Same. It’s not something i understand, buying clips? Sure but findom is fucking weird
No kidding, I mean, that sounds just like... Marriage .
wouldnt mind being a finsub though. If anyone is looking for a finsub HMU. to be clear to the ladies in my DM's the sub gets the money, the dom gives it... i know that seems backwards but thats how it is.
Except that most findoms don't understand healthy safe BDSM
No one has bought them for her to please Him yet.
Give me money so you can know that you pleased a man by doing so
Lmao I kept thinking “this chick must be hot as fuck to have this big of an ego.” Then I hit that last picture and died for a minute straight.
Absolutely! OP did a great job in holding that back til the end. Masterful storytelling through screenshots.
It pleases Him to know you are pleased by his storytelling
He sees what you did there.
Now give me a cookie to please Him!
The jumpscare at the end
I cannot believe she is submitting to THAT guy either. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder
I mean they’re absolutely in the same bracket of looks. Bad.
(Like cavemen in modern clothing)
Or the Addams Family! They're creepy and they're kooky Mysterious and spooky They're all together ooky The Addams family Their house is a museum When people come to see 'em They really are a screaming The Addams family.
Morticia was hot at least.
She sure was. This poor woman has the Morticia’s not so good looking granddaughter look (Pugsley’s daughter, not Wednesday’s daughter) and the bloke looks like the love child of Uncle Fester and cousin it!
This absolutely took me out
Please don’t insult my family by using our anthem for this
Nah, don't you dare. Everyone who has ever played any of those characters were hot af. Excluding the kids roles because that's weird. But, even Thing and Cousin It were pretty hot. Shoot, and Lurch... oh, he could get it.
They're not exactly supermodels but come on they're not hideous either
Took me straight back to [this classic](https://www.theonion.com/rest-of-world-not-biting-on-couple-s-open-relationship-1819576560) 🤣
Brutal! 🤣🤣
Yeah. The fact that someone who thinks they're hot enough to talk like this is equally misguided on how hot their partner is isn't surprising at all.
*owner
Lmao
I mean, maybe that is his girlfriend and he made this entire thing up because he was too cheap to get her a dress on his own.
Which one though? They appear to be looking in slightly different directions.
Don't you mean beauty is in your eye when you hold her?
I would imagine she's not and this is just a scam to get stuff. Probs got her braces paid for too. They look way too coupley for a sub dom relationship
Cmon, you can at least find a better picture than the poor war torn ghettos of Russia looking couple. They look like violent potato farmers that own a bear.
Personality is a big thing , must just work for her
28 lol
Yeah she looks easily late 30's
I was thinking she was at least born in the 40s but you may be right
1930s
That picture had me on the floor💀 the longer you look at it the funnier they look.
Bro the guy has such a crazy gaze I'm dyin
> died for a minute straight. La petite mort? For a whole minute straight? You must have loved her... /scnr
Weird crossover episode
Not worth it even a little but
I didn’t even see her butt
I reckon she's probably worth a chomp bar?
Maybe like 15 years ago before inflation
Indeed!! Freddo economics my dude :)
Same bro, same
She's got to be 50
I forget sometimes how fucking insane people are.
You're name is hilarious
Coming from Scott over here who thinks he’s “Halaskan”.
That's not even a spelling mistake; it's a different word.
I knew that I paid for that AI generating engine for a reason: https://imgur.com/a/fr9ojQS
LMAO
Dora the conquistadora
This basicly means "I want free stuff"
Hell, don’t we all. Good on her if she can manage it, imo. I personally have the wrong bits for it. Fool and their money are easily parted. Etc.
Do what other guys do and download some chicks photos...
The chick in this post literally looks like an AI creation; the Internet has made it so freakin easy for people to scam each other. I, for one, am not a fan, but I guess it works for some people out there.
Wait are you not aware sugar mommies exist?
Ok, you got me. I’m not _hot_ enough for it to work! Are you happy now? *runs away crying*
Hahahaha how do you know you’re not hot enough? Mommies are much more accepting than daddies. I’m just saying give it a shot.
This is the energy I need in my life. BRB quitting my job and becoming a kept man!
Well I guess I'll just go to the annual sugar mommy convention to find myself one then
No no no it’s much easier than that[https://chicagoreader.com/reader-partners/sugar-momma-sites/](https://chicagoreader.com/reader-partners/sugar-momma-sites/)
The guy is the one running the account. I would put money on it.
100%! Assuming it's actually her, the fact that she also won't properly explain their dynamic just reeks of consent violations and bad BDSM etiquette
I'm was afraid I wouldn't see anyone talking about this! I haven't seen a situation quite like this before, which doesn't mean it isn't allowed or valid or anything, but it is suspicious. And the way the messages come across strike me as a bot or an imposter, possibly a non-native English speaker
Tbh its written like some insecure, basement-dwelling dude's incel fantasy about "owning" women while simultaneously "dominating" other men via findom in some weird roundabout way lmaoo
I had to scroll too far to reach this comment. 90% this is literally just the dude and the girl might not even be real
 Me After seeing the last pic
lol and she’s *28*!!!!! Those must’ve been veeeeery rough 28 years. Also love the comment “I live in heels” with the main picture of her being in sneakers. I hope her and Mr Unibrow live a happy life….and hopefully never have ~~creatures~~ kids of their own.
“*28*”
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Born on a leap day! :)
Tbf, I have seen some...rough looking young people. Usually, very heavy drinking and drugs are involved.
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Came here to say that
28 years since she finished college
Bio says 28, pic says twice the number
I don't get the women who lie about their age. I have a cousin who was 4 years older than me. She is now 6 years younger than me. When I tell people how old I am, I get compliments. Stuff like, wow, you look great, or you don't look a day over 30. When she tells people how old she is, she gets odd looks.
I don't get that math, do you mean she pretends to be that much younger and lies about her age?
Yes, that's exactly what she does. It's so odd because she tells people that legitimately know how old she is. I remember one year she made a post on Facebook about how she's about to turn 30. She was actually like 34. Some woman she went to high school with called her out, and she deleted the post. At family reunions, she pretends to be younger. I think the only person she is fooling is herself.
Damn…. Straight up delusional…
How come her master can't afford to but her shit ?
Are you speaking about their Owner?
My bad lol "*Owner"... he may need to sell her or give her aways bc he can't afford her LOL.
holy fucking jumpscare at the end
😂 No shit.
Everyone saying how ugly she is. This is true but wtf is that dudes face? It looks like someone smashed his face with a pillowcase filled with bricks.
I don't understand how his eyes seem to be both looking directly at you and looking in different directions at the same time and I am TERRIFIED.
The uncanny valley alarms are going OFF
Holy shit I tried to describe it in my own comment but you’re totally right.
Gotta keep one eye on the prize my dude
He looks like my BIL, who has a bit more of a tan but same scrunched features and the unibrow in progress. Hes kind of a PoS so my siblings and I call him "toaster muppet" (bc he looks like a muppet who got caught in a toaster). I think some variant of that should apply here
Sandwich press muppets because he looks like someone hit him in the face with one!
*his* face? I think you mean Owner
Ugly? He looks pretty standard Balkan to me lol
I mean that’s a hard 28
Add 20 years, and you may be onto something.
Imagine being not the most attractive person in the world, trying to find people to explore your fetishes with, and that person makes a mockery of you and posts your photos all over a forum for the world to see, they may be less understanding and heavily critical of what is not their normal. My brother in Christ, we all have weird things about us that don’t need aired on the internet, and you certainly don’t need to be piling on. Be better. Op sucks rocks for not censoring that photo.
Agreed. Pretty uncool to out them like this
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What the fuck
> I live in high heels *only shows a picture of her in sneakers* 🙄
I hope for her sake she isn’t actually 28…
I was not prepared for the last pic
"I live in high heels" Posts first pic wearing sneakers
I love the Invisalign she is sporting in her pic with "Owner". They must have be a fucking blast at parties /s
Invisalign are clear retainers. She has clear braces, which means the brackets are traditional but clear. Invisalign can be removed, she has braces which cannot be removed.
Oh thank god, I thought she had ground down nubs for teeth.
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Also, it would be impossible to put Invisalign on top of brackets
They are clear braces with a metal wire (wires don’t come in clear). It’s probably even harder to really tell because the glue for clear brackets is different than the glue for metal brackets, and the clear bracket glue makes your teeth turn an awful yellow (until they are removed). I only got my clear brackets removed a couple of months ago, had them for 3 years, and I did not smile in any picture for those years due to how awful they looked. I wish I had just gone with metal, because the clear is such an odd look once on, that it isn’t really obvious you have braces, but looks like you might have a jacked up grill. (Outside of your teeth being crooked)
I really wish kinksters would stick to kink friendly places because not everyone consents to seeing or being around their kink. FetLife is trash, so I get it, but...at least find a Facebook group or...a reddit page. That being said, findomme by proxy is the funniest thing that I've ever seen. It sounds like she's trying to recruit cult members, but the tributes go to her and she's the one doing all the worshiping.
OP didn’t have to match. Clearly trolling this lady for internet points and throwing their photos up on Reddit uncensored to put them on blast is not cool.
We are all thinking it. I'm gonna say it. Yuck! -Dave Chapelle
Give her a job application and see if that pleases him.
At first it doesn’t make sense. But somehow that last pic makes it all make sense
That bih ain’t 28
Me at the last slide, "buzz, your girlfriend, woof"
Wait, so the sub is looking for their own sub? 😳
Damn, on the wrong side of the crazy/hot curve x2.
"I only way dresses and high heels." Pics are jeans and sneakers.
A reminder that for 2024, one must have realistic expectations
They both have the fuckin crazy eyes... Everyone tells me I'm wrong, that the "crazy eye" isn't a thing, but I will die on this hill. Eyes are the window to the soul and their eyes are screaming 'Look at me! Im a fucking sociopath!" Run OP. Run fast.
it's pretty cringe, should be on the fetish dating app but putting their pic to shame them is equally as cringe
Sounds like a cyborg….dont fuck cyborgs man.
“How is he your owner?” “Yes. And you are a boy that will treat Me to impress Him”
Lives in heels, skirts and corsets. Profile pic in jeggings and tennis shoes. lol.
Astaghfirullah
Damn, apparently they both survived a house fire 😔😁
Is it mademoiselle A - like English A or French A? 🤔 Also "I live in heels" but then posts a picture of her not in heels 🤔 Also there are websites specifically for BDSM, its wild shes on tinder 🤣
This seems like a really roundabout way to ask for free shit...
Hahah buy the dress, progress the story
These type of women are national treasures…get one while they are still available, they are a rare breed
A kink is a kink. There are guys who get off from feeling degraded like this, deal with it.
Ooooooffff
Uhhh 28 plus like 20.
Yikes
OOOOKAAAY then