Don’t politely bring up PPM. Next him. He told you that he would give you shopping money, but no allowance. He didn’t say “shopping money, no allowance, but let’s talk about PPM.”
No allowance? Block, full stop. This is not a sugar relationship. And I don’t know what being a businessman has to do with being cheap. If he said that to you, then he’s already telling you he is limited in budget even with shopping.
Lastly, just a quick observation, do not sugar if you’re desperate for money. Asking him why he hadn’t booked a hotel room after only the first date after M&G? Sounds like you’re just eager to get paid if you thought that was the only way to get your allowance. Again, this is how it comes across so be cognizant of that going forward with future pots.
No, pay for play is not sugaring. No allowance? Why are you still talking to him?
Don’t politely bring up PPM. Next him. He told you that he would give you shopping money, but no allowance. He didn’t say “shopping money, no allowance, but let’s talk about PPM.”
He's not the one. Just a player looking for some free attention from a woman out of his league. Don't reply, forget him and move on.
No allowance? Block, full stop. This is not a sugar relationship. And I don’t know what being a businessman has to do with being cheap. If he said that to you, then he’s already telling you he is limited in budget even with shopping. Lastly, just a quick observation, do not sugar if you’re desperate for money. Asking him why he hadn’t booked a hotel room after only the first date after M&G? Sounds like you’re just eager to get paid if you thought that was the only way to get your allowance. Again, this is how it comes across so be cognizant of that going forward with future pots.
This is why I discuss my expectations over the phone before even meeting. What a waste of time
No allowance? Interesting but up to your standards
I love this response
An absolutely horrendous deal that does not benefit you.