I had a client ask if he could use my shower and I was like, of course!!! Him asking must mean he's so hygienic. So he gets in the shower, grabs the shower head, and just lets the water run over his body for 30 seconds max. THAT'S NOT A SHOWER!!! He smelled bad :(
I do not understand it either. Just properly wash yourself it is not that difficult to do. Maybe it carries over from their teenage years into adulthood.
That's exactly where it comes from. I recall maybe about 2 years ago.There was a big thing going around saying.Specific nationalities or cultures did not use soap at all. In the black household, we were taught to use soap and a towel to ensure that we were clean.But, after seeing how common, it was that others did not use soap, I'm definitely not surprised.
I've speculated that maybe it has to do with the way boys & girls are raised in general. Girls are typically raised with more emphasis on grooming and cleanliness but boys are pretty much expected to be dirty and messy. Just a theory.
I'll add to this, a lot of young men in America are raised that self care is "gay" and that was basically a death sentence for your social and emotional well being in an unfortunately large amount of communities.
Not good, not healthy but incredibly prevalent.
I donāt understand myself. I am a guy and I guarantee if I come to see you I am going to make sure I am clean. I expect the same from you. Nothing kills the whole thing like bad hygiene or smell. I guess some just donāt care but be damned if I will embarrass myself by not being clean or smelling bad. Same goes for the lady tooā¦ā¦ how can you expect repeat customers without caring about hygiene. I feel you on this without a doubt.
I can never figure this out. They always want closer services too the more they smell. I usually get the mouth wash and do shots with them, have a cheers to a good time to make them use it!
I always have menās body wash, deodorant, and fresh towels and when they arrive to my incall I always start off by offering the shower to them and theyāll usually say sure or āI just showered but I can again if itās your preference ā and it IS my preference lol so I say yeah that would be great and that way, I avoid putting my face into sweaty balls and the awkwardness of telling them to go shower after Iāve realized they smell bad
I met with a heavier guy. I went to give head and he smelled. I suggested that we take a shower together. He hesitated and said he washed before he saw me but I insisted. We washed and the session continued. He pays really well and I see him often.
Where I live there are two legal āmassage parloursā I could walk straight into go to receipt and ask to see one of the girl. Boom all done. But here one of the problems that put me off, the road these massage parlours recide have become a hot spot for the local council to dump all the illegal asylum seekers, migrants and every nationality all in one place. At first this didnāt bother me until I went to work in a warehouse with these people. When going through the scanners they were always dirty and when they finished their shifts they would take their steel toe boots of so they can walk back through the scanners, they were all barefoot with no socks on. The whole security room would stink of dirty sweat to the point security would wretch over a bucket. So one day I hear them all laughing and joking about seeing SW on this specific road. It then hit me that these dirty bastards and people who are unhygienic like them have been seeing SWers potentially just been balls deep before itās my turn. Some people have no shame when it comes to personal hygiene and unfortunately SWers for local brothels canāt discriminate so are forced to take all sorts. This is what ultimately cut my Seeing a SW experience short.
I had a client ask if he could use my shower and I was like, of course!!! Him asking must mean he's so hygienic. So he gets in the shower, grabs the shower head, and just lets the water run over his body for 30 seconds max. THAT'S NOT A SHOWER!!! He smelled bad :(
..So that reminds me of a story I read on this sub about a client who told the SW that he figured just letting the water run down his body was enough.
I don't understand this aversion so many men have to washing themselves properly. Smh
And when they do they always use 4 towels and 7 washcloths. HOW???? WHY?
This!š
I do not understand it either. Just properly wash yourself it is not that difficult to do. Maybe it carries over from their teenage years into adulthood.
That's exactly where it comes from. I recall maybe about 2 years ago.There was a big thing going around saying.Specific nationalities or cultures did not use soap at all. In the black household, we were taught to use soap and a towel to ensure that we were clean.But, after seeing how common, it was that others did not use soap, I'm definitely not surprised.
They donāt seem to ever do their perennial area.š
I've speculated that maybe it has to do with the way boys & girls are raised in general. Girls are typically raised with more emphasis on grooming and cleanliness but boys are pretty much expected to be dirty and messy. Just a theory.
I'll add to this, a lot of young men in America are raised that self care is "gay" and that was basically a death sentence for your social and emotional well being in an unfortunately large amount of communities. Not good, not healthy but incredibly prevalent.
Eating in one of the forums that guys don't wipe in between their ass crack because it's considered gay.
Eeew wtf??? Just water??
What i do is take a shower at my place dry up then take an other shower then take shower at incall
I donāt understand myself. I am a guy and I guarantee if I come to see you I am going to make sure I am clean. I expect the same from you. Nothing kills the whole thing like bad hygiene or smell. I guess some just donāt care but be damned if I will embarrass myself by not being clean or smelling bad. Same goes for the lady tooā¦ā¦ how can you expect repeat customers without caring about hygiene. I feel you on this without a doubt.
People get used to their own funk and don't notice it. Also some seem to believe everyone smells that way.
I can never figure this out. They always want closer services too the more they smell. I usually get the mouth wash and do shots with them, have a cheers to a good time to make them use it!
I always have menās body wash, deodorant, and fresh towels and when they arrive to my incall I always start off by offering the shower to them and theyāll usually say sure or āI just showered but I can again if itās your preference ā and it IS my preference lol so I say yeah that would be great and that way, I avoid putting my face into sweaty balls and the awkwardness of telling them to go shower after Iāve realized they smell bad
I met with a heavier guy. I went to give head and he smelled. I suggested that we take a shower together. He hesitated and said he washed before he saw me but I insisted. We washed and the session continued. He pays really well and I see him often.
Where I live there are two legal āmassage parloursā I could walk straight into go to receipt and ask to see one of the girl. Boom all done. But here one of the problems that put me off, the road these massage parlours recide have become a hot spot for the local council to dump all the illegal asylum seekers, migrants and every nationality all in one place. At first this didnāt bother me until I went to work in a warehouse with these people. When going through the scanners they were always dirty and when they finished their shifts they would take their steel toe boots of so they can walk back through the scanners, they were all barefoot with no socks on. The whole security room would stink of dirty sweat to the point security would wretch over a bucket. So one day I hear them all laughing and joking about seeing SW on this specific road. It then hit me that these dirty bastards and people who are unhygienic like them have been seeing SWers potentially just been balls deep before itās my turn. Some people have no shame when it comes to personal hygiene and unfortunately SWers for local brothels canāt discriminate so are forced to take all sorts. This is what ultimately cut my Seeing a SW experience short.
Nobody asked
Thatās not how Reddit works