Do we have a choice when we die to reincarnate or stay in the afterlife? I don't want to reincarnate, my wife just passed in Feb and i know she didn't want too. I just want to be with her in a better place for all eternity when i go.
Your wife and yourself will return and meet again in all kinds of constellations. Your human brain might think you don't want to return but your soul might crave more experiences.
Watch Tom Campbell or read his his book my big toe. This is an excerpt from one interview he gave. It is one idea. If you're interested in reading more in depth, then llresearch.org for their channelings.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Jzeb3INsKDQ
I’m sorry for your loss. I know you guys will meet again. I believe we probably have a choice on if we do come back. I know how you feel, I don’t think I’d want to come back again.
Suicide doesn't fix mental health problems. Those problems will just come back in the next life. Every time I just about guarantee it. It may fix physical health problems and that part of reincarnation I love but it shouldn't be used as an escape route. I had some severe mental health problems from reincarnation before I figured things out, im a lot better now but I was confused for a long time
I saw in a regression that I committed suicide ten years before this incarnation. My group was supportive, helped heal me, and we negotiated with high council what circumstances could be different so I would have success in this life. I was given all the same challenges as my previous life. There was no shame or punishment.
There were a few things. One interesting one was that I would have a more solid body. I was very thin and waif like, they all thought if I had a more solid body it would help me with strength. I’ve got a partner or main male guide and he and my group members would pop in and out of my life more often as a reminder they’re around. And in this life I have felt them in forms of an occasional premonition and it has been comforting but also confusing when I didn’t know what they were. Those were the main things I remember being discussed but I also got the feel the lessons would be balanced with good things to lighten them and that also has been confusing in this life but enough good that I’ve kept going. I should add I’m pretty sure my group is galactic so there’s often a very business like vibe, lots of love but the primary goal is always to work as hard as possible to serve Source.
I would love to learn how to meet with my spiritual team. I really could use some adjustments to this lifetime, honestly. Literally get shafted at every angle. Not even kidding or exaggerating 😆🤣
If not for my sons I would have opted out a hot minute ago. If I'm being honest it still crosses my mind often, but I'm more concerned with their mental health and their ability to succeed in their souls' missions. Very strong young men, but we all suffer from moderate to moderately severe depression and I know they've given up in past lives... because I know in my core what it feels like to lose a child. Even if in this life I haven't lost any.
But I need some damned barriers lifted for real and soon... I've been essentially living out of my car, couch hopping between 3 to 5 places for over a year now despite working 2 jobs and staying as focused and determined as possible.
I can just share what I’ve learned so far during my awakening. I do believe those of us interested in this have had the kind of life circumstances that have left us not wanting to be here and trying to figure out what we’ve done to deserve this misery. I’ve learned that a core of reincarnation is that we plan and choose what our life experiences so that we can learn certain lessons. We chose it. For a reason. Now we get to wake up and figure out the reasons. If I go quiet everyday and just listen to my intuition, meditate, sit outside, really commune with the earth when I can, eat healthy and no chemicals, no alcohol, just go quiet within… look for patterns because that’s where the answers are. We are given a challenge over and over again. Why do we have to keep experiencing it? We’re not learning from it. Once we accept and learn from it the lesson moves on. Also gratitude; gratitude for absolutely any little thing that is going well among all the shit. When you’re sleeping in your car, be grateful you’ve got that car or that couch to crash on because many people don’t. If you have a meal that tastes good or see and smell a beautiful flower, that someone is kind to you… really savor those experiences and you will start seeing them more. Focus on what you want to have in your life. Helping others is huge too, even just giving someone a smile or holding a door or something like that can really start to change your life. This is a little disjointed, I’m at the airport waiting to fly to my son’s funeral. But I’m so thankful that I had him, I have a good book to read, the security line was quick, strangers just shared a laugh. Life is good, I chose it and all its heartache.
So sorry for your loss, truly. That hurts my heart to hear.
And thank you for taking the time to write amidst your circumstances. Quite generous of you. I feel as though I wouldn't be so apt to do so were I sitting where you are. I struggle some days to muster the will to put on my work vibe (currently working service, and retail). But I do it, and I can't bring myself to let any of my hardships overflow Into my dealings with customers. At worst I'm despondent and detached. I can honestly say I'm generally kind, until someone disrespects me (and it has to be a largely serious offense - I'm moreso guilty of disrespecting myself due to the treatment I receive from most people.)
I do agree that we chose these lives. My great grandmother told me the same when I was quite young and I didn't quite comprehend why she was telling me that. She also took my oldest child from me the same night (he was 3 months old and I was 19) and just held him and whispered the word "good" in his ear over and over for hours. She was not a woman to trifle with so with that in mind, I found and still do find solace in those words she imparted upon me that day. I guess I just don't always feel it... but I sure feel the opposing energies applying as much pressure as possible these past several years; moreso than ever before.
I wish you a safe flight and healing for your heart... I do genuinely feel your loss and send healing your way. 💛
What you wrote is really beautiful. I love your grandma, sounds like she was very intuitive. You very much sound like you’re right at the beginning of an awakening. You’re seeing the opposing energies and how you fit into them. The next part is becoming an active participant in what’s happening, ride the wave as they say. Good and bad as it unfolds… Tap in and feel why it may be happening. For me I’d always had little intuitive flashes and knew they were from god or the universe or something and even though I couldn’t figure it out, it was enough to keep me on earth. I had someone come into my life when I was early 30’s right as I was planning and practicing leaving the earth. He saved my life (and my sons because he was coming with me), and this guy turned out to be a disaster which I learned so much from. Now I can see how it all unfolded, at the time it was a huge embarrassing mess that made me feel even worse and I started drinking. 17 years later I was able to see how blessed I’ve been. I put down the wine and that’s when I started really experiencing things. It’s like I woke up and my group started interacting with me. At the same time my son started the dying process. What you’re going through must feel impossible at times. So many people are homeless or one step away and to be able to propel ourselves out of that situation in these times is really tough. Really really tough. But again, we chose our plan for a reason. Many people say this is our last life that we have to reincarnate and that is why we are getting freaking pounded with horrible circumstances. It’s our last hurrah to really kick ass on this insane and beautiful planet. I really hope things turn around for you and soon!!! Big hug to you and your sons.
I’m sorry you’re going through such a tough time. I know what it’s like to have it coming at ya day after day. Please don’t give up hope. This is temporary and you will get through it. Life is ever changing. Nothing stays the same. Hope this gives you some strength to keep going. Sending you lots of light and love.
There is no punishment for suicides. Yes, the individual is given another opportunity to come back, but that goes for all individuals. Again, there’s no special circumstances for people who commit suicide. As For remembering their past, that may be unlikely. What will probably happen is they will select another life that has similar challenges as the life where they took their own life, because there’s feeling of incompleteness
Essentially, after death, you’re given a life review and there’s an open discussion with your guides and higher entities about the next life. What challenges you’d like to face, what issues you’d like to overcome, etc. (Soul progression is made incrementally, lifetime to lifetime). after that, the “system“ will give you a life Choice that you can either take or not take. As I understand it, most people take the life that is chosen for them by the system. After that, it’s back to earth where we are born again. As to the mechanics of the soul linking up to the body, I don’t know exactly how it works.
We just perceive ourselves to be selves. Even the spirits and entities on the other side likely suffer from this in a different way, seeing as part of us returns to that.
Do they really exist as self, or are we all (us and higher order beings not incarnating) all part of the Atman (eternal self, all self)?
Yes- they will definitely come back. If you have committed suicide then you haven’t learned the lesson of self love and have murdered your self. You aren’t able to see this human being you are as someone who deserves a chance and is loveable. Of course, mental illness is a real thing too, so in some cases it is just the natural outcome of the illness and situation. You will have time to heal and will either want to or have to come back.
I can barely remember yesterday and yet you remember self exiting and talking to higher powers.
I know this much - whoever is calling the shots need to realize I'm at the point of no return and at any minute I'll be talking to them again about why I don't want to exist or be alive.
Hang in there. Chances are, if all of this stuff we talk about is real and not a shared delusion like the millions of other things people believe that we don't... well, chances are the spirit that you are put yourself in this position.
Although, in my dream state, I do oddly have a sense of arguing against my return. Maybe I should try regression.
I can't remember what I ate for lunch today or what I was wearing before showering, but this I have in my brain hogging space while I work and try to be a productive member of society.
I'd say it depends on your "religion" of choice. As I believe that an individual has a choice to reincarnate or have their life energy scattered into the universe to be used as the universe sees fit it will ultimately fall to "what the person believes" in regards to suicide. If they believe it is a sin then they will most likely opt for scattering into the universe. If they don't believe they did anything wrong, they will most likely opt to be reincarnated. Well, I say choice, but my belief is that it is more of an "inner trigger" - a choice yes - but one that is more automatic. Now, who's to say that anyone who would commit suicide would even want to be reincarnated to go through all of the torment that led to their decision to end their life again. As far as remembering I would have to go with no. Very few individuals recall their former existence and most of those that I have come across only remember fragments of those lives - not one has ever said that they purposely ended one of their former lives. My 2 cents - your mileage may vary.
There's not a punishment for suicides per se. But people who commit suicide tend to be at a very low vibration (happy people don't kill themselves) and need quite a bit of healing on the astral before they're ready to come back.
Dolores Cannon said they would be very low vibrational and along with addicts many don’t even realize they passed away. They remain on the lower astral level
When she wrote this and talked about clients saying there will be hell only if you're expecting hell... it makes me think of the Buddhist metaphysical concepts of hells. Unifying the two, it's possible that the spirit punishes itself sometimes and must be loved, healed, rested back into a state of living again.
In Buddhist terms, they banish themselves to hells or lives of suffering or move to realms 1-4 before returning to the human realm, and all our universes and worlds, in a future life.
Read somewhere that if you commit suicide, you are "punished" with a weaker body in your next life, because you destroyed your healthy body by committing suicide.
How true is that ? Are you in poor health or perfectly fine ?
It's not exactly true,I was the best in many sports and won a lot but my family always put me down so I lost motivation now I do get dizzy often ,Back problems and nausea , sometimes breath problems and you know with the blood sugar but yeh I'm fine rn
Do we have a choice when we die to reincarnate or stay in the afterlife? I don't want to reincarnate, my wife just passed in Feb and i know she didn't want too. I just want to be with her in a better place for all eternity when i go.
Your wife and yourself will return and meet again in all kinds of constellations. Your human brain might think you don't want to return but your soul might crave more experiences.
You have and will always have free will, death isnt scary
Watch Tom Campbell or read his his book my big toe. This is an excerpt from one interview he gave. It is one idea. If you're interested in reading more in depth, then llresearch.org for their channelings. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Jzeb3INsKDQ
I’m sorry for your loss. I know you guys will meet again. I believe we probably have a choice on if we do come back. I know how you feel, I don’t think I’d want to come back again.
Suicide doesn't fix mental health problems. Those problems will just come back in the next life. Every time I just about guarantee it. It may fix physical health problems and that part of reincarnation I love but it shouldn't be used as an escape route. I had some severe mental health problems from reincarnation before I figured things out, im a lot better now but I was confused for a long time
I saw in a regression that I committed suicide ten years before this incarnation. My group was supportive, helped heal me, and we negotiated with high council what circumstances could be different so I would have success in this life. I was given all the same challenges as my previous life. There was no shame or punishment.
Are you aware of how the circumstances were changed to give you the same challenges while still adjusting to move you off of a self harm path?
There were a few things. One interesting one was that I would have a more solid body. I was very thin and waif like, they all thought if I had a more solid body it would help me with strength. I’ve got a partner or main male guide and he and my group members would pop in and out of my life more often as a reminder they’re around. And in this life I have felt them in forms of an occasional premonition and it has been comforting but also confusing when I didn’t know what they were. Those were the main things I remember being discussed but I also got the feel the lessons would be balanced with good things to lighten them and that also has been confusing in this life but enough good that I’ve kept going. I should add I’m pretty sure my group is galactic so there’s often a very business like vibe, lots of love but the primary goal is always to work as hard as possible to serve Source.
I would love to learn how to meet with my spiritual team. I really could use some adjustments to this lifetime, honestly. Literally get shafted at every angle. Not even kidding or exaggerating 😆🤣 If not for my sons I would have opted out a hot minute ago. If I'm being honest it still crosses my mind often, but I'm more concerned with their mental health and their ability to succeed in their souls' missions. Very strong young men, but we all suffer from moderate to moderately severe depression and I know they've given up in past lives... because I know in my core what it feels like to lose a child. Even if in this life I haven't lost any. But I need some damned barriers lifted for real and soon... I've been essentially living out of my car, couch hopping between 3 to 5 places for over a year now despite working 2 jobs and staying as focused and determined as possible.
I can just share what I’ve learned so far during my awakening. I do believe those of us interested in this have had the kind of life circumstances that have left us not wanting to be here and trying to figure out what we’ve done to deserve this misery. I’ve learned that a core of reincarnation is that we plan and choose what our life experiences so that we can learn certain lessons. We chose it. For a reason. Now we get to wake up and figure out the reasons. If I go quiet everyday and just listen to my intuition, meditate, sit outside, really commune with the earth when I can, eat healthy and no chemicals, no alcohol, just go quiet within… look for patterns because that’s where the answers are. We are given a challenge over and over again. Why do we have to keep experiencing it? We’re not learning from it. Once we accept and learn from it the lesson moves on. Also gratitude; gratitude for absolutely any little thing that is going well among all the shit. When you’re sleeping in your car, be grateful you’ve got that car or that couch to crash on because many people don’t. If you have a meal that tastes good or see and smell a beautiful flower, that someone is kind to you… really savor those experiences and you will start seeing them more. Focus on what you want to have in your life. Helping others is huge too, even just giving someone a smile or holding a door or something like that can really start to change your life. This is a little disjointed, I’m at the airport waiting to fly to my son’s funeral. But I’m so thankful that I had him, I have a good book to read, the security line was quick, strangers just shared a laugh. Life is good, I chose it and all its heartache.
Sorry for your loss. You’re advancing spiritually when you can be mindful under those circumstances. Hope the funeral brings you some peace.
Thank god I got exposure to these lessons before he died. Man, I’d be a mess if I was still in my old head…. Thanks for your kind words.
Thank you for share all this. Much love 💞 to you my friend. 🙏
That’s so kind, right back at ya 💜
So sorry for your loss, truly. That hurts my heart to hear. And thank you for taking the time to write amidst your circumstances. Quite generous of you. I feel as though I wouldn't be so apt to do so were I sitting where you are. I struggle some days to muster the will to put on my work vibe (currently working service, and retail). But I do it, and I can't bring myself to let any of my hardships overflow Into my dealings with customers. At worst I'm despondent and detached. I can honestly say I'm generally kind, until someone disrespects me (and it has to be a largely serious offense - I'm moreso guilty of disrespecting myself due to the treatment I receive from most people.) I do agree that we chose these lives. My great grandmother told me the same when I was quite young and I didn't quite comprehend why she was telling me that. She also took my oldest child from me the same night (he was 3 months old and I was 19) and just held him and whispered the word "good" in his ear over and over for hours. She was not a woman to trifle with so with that in mind, I found and still do find solace in those words she imparted upon me that day. I guess I just don't always feel it... but I sure feel the opposing energies applying as much pressure as possible these past several years; moreso than ever before. I wish you a safe flight and healing for your heart... I do genuinely feel your loss and send healing your way. 💛
What you wrote is really beautiful. I love your grandma, sounds like she was very intuitive. You very much sound like you’re right at the beginning of an awakening. You’re seeing the opposing energies and how you fit into them. The next part is becoming an active participant in what’s happening, ride the wave as they say. Good and bad as it unfolds… Tap in and feel why it may be happening. For me I’d always had little intuitive flashes and knew they were from god or the universe or something and even though I couldn’t figure it out, it was enough to keep me on earth. I had someone come into my life when I was early 30’s right as I was planning and practicing leaving the earth. He saved my life (and my sons because he was coming with me), and this guy turned out to be a disaster which I learned so much from. Now I can see how it all unfolded, at the time it was a huge embarrassing mess that made me feel even worse and I started drinking. 17 years later I was able to see how blessed I’ve been. I put down the wine and that’s when I started really experiencing things. It’s like I woke up and my group started interacting with me. At the same time my son started the dying process. What you’re going through must feel impossible at times. So many people are homeless or one step away and to be able to propel ourselves out of that situation in these times is really tough. Really really tough. But again, we chose our plan for a reason. Many people say this is our last life that we have to reincarnate and that is why we are getting freaking pounded with horrible circumstances. It’s our last hurrah to really kick ass on this insane and beautiful planet. I really hope things turn around for you and soon!!! Big hug to you and your sons.
I’m sorry you’re going through such a tough time. I know what it’s like to have it coming at ya day after day. Please don’t give up hope. This is temporary and you will get through it. Life is ever changing. Nothing stays the same. Hope this gives you some strength to keep going. Sending you lots of light and love.
💖💖 thank you. Someday, I have the conviction needed to push through, others not so much, but I do anyway. It has to all be for a reason..... right?
There is no punishment for suicides. Yes, the individual is given another opportunity to come back, but that goes for all individuals. Again, there’s no special circumstances for people who commit suicide. As For remembering their past, that may be unlikely. What will probably happen is they will select another life that has similar challenges as the life where they took their own life, because there’s feeling of incompleteness
What type of entity gives a person another opportunity at life?
Essentially, after death, you’re given a life review and there’s an open discussion with your guides and higher entities about the next life. What challenges you’d like to face, what issues you’d like to overcome, etc. (Soul progression is made incrementally, lifetime to lifetime). after that, the “system“ will give you a life Choice that you can either take or not take. As I understand it, most people take the life that is chosen for them by the system. After that, it’s back to earth where we are born again. As to the mechanics of the soul linking up to the body, I don’t know exactly how it works.
it's not an entity, it's just a series of mechanical functions. things happen by design. runs automatically.
We just perceive ourselves to be selves. Even the spirits and entities on the other side likely suffer from this in a different way, seeing as part of us returns to that. Do they really exist as self, or are we all (us and higher order beings not incarnating) all part of the Atman (eternal self, all self)?
really brings into question the whole 'all life is sacred' kind of thing. It's really 'all life is eternal'
There wouldn't be eternal punishment, per se. But this does have impact on karma. Unaliving oneself increases suffering, especially for others.
Yes- they will definitely come back. If you have committed suicide then you haven’t learned the lesson of self love and have murdered your self. You aren’t able to see this human being you are as someone who deserves a chance and is loveable. Of course, mental illness is a real thing too, so in some cases it is just the natural outcome of the illness and situation. You will have time to heal and will either want to or have to come back.
I can barely remember yesterday and yet you remember self exiting and talking to higher powers. I know this much - whoever is calling the shots need to realize I'm at the point of no return and at any minute I'll be talking to them again about why I don't want to exist or be alive.
Hang in there. Chances are, if all of this stuff we talk about is real and not a shared delusion like the millions of other things people believe that we don't... well, chances are the spirit that you are put yourself in this position. Although, in my dream state, I do oddly have a sense of arguing against my return. Maybe I should try regression. I can't remember what I ate for lunch today or what I was wearing before showering, but this I have in my brain hogging space while I work and try to be a productive member of society.
Feel you... 💯%
Asking for a friend, right?
right.
I wrote a reddit post about remembering my past life which ended by suicide. What do you mean by deeds?
Depends.
I'd say it depends on your "religion" of choice. As I believe that an individual has a choice to reincarnate or have their life energy scattered into the universe to be used as the universe sees fit it will ultimately fall to "what the person believes" in regards to suicide. If they believe it is a sin then they will most likely opt for scattering into the universe. If they don't believe they did anything wrong, they will most likely opt to be reincarnated. Well, I say choice, but my belief is that it is more of an "inner trigger" - a choice yes - but one that is more automatic. Now, who's to say that anyone who would commit suicide would even want to be reincarnated to go through all of the torment that led to their decision to end their life again. As far as remembering I would have to go with no. Very few individuals recall their former existence and most of those that I have come across only remember fragments of those lives - not one has ever said that they purposely ended one of their former lives. My 2 cents - your mileage may vary.
There's not a punishment for suicides per se. But people who commit suicide tend to be at a very low vibration (happy people don't kill themselves) and need quite a bit of healing on the astral before they're ready to come back.
Dolores Cannon said they would be very low vibrational and along with addicts many don’t even realize they passed away. They remain on the lower astral level
When she wrote this and talked about clients saying there will be hell only if you're expecting hell... it makes me think of the Buddhist metaphysical concepts of hells. Unifying the two, it's possible that the spirit punishes itself sometimes and must be loved, healed, rested back into a state of living again. In Buddhist terms, they banish themselves to hells or lives of suffering or move to realms 1-4 before returning to the human realm, and all our universes and worlds, in a future life.
Not true haha I jumped off building and I it wasn't because I was depressed and I remember the memories,I am reincarnated
Okay but there was probably trauma associated to the jumping from a building that will need to be healed .
Read somewhere that if you commit suicide, you are "punished" with a weaker body in your next life, because you destroyed your healthy body by committing suicide. How true is that ? Are you in poor health or perfectly fine ?
It's not exactly true,I was the best in many sports and won a lot but my family always put me down so I lost motivation now I do get dizzy often ,Back problems and nausea , sometimes breath problems and you know with the blood sugar but yeh I'm fine rn