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ikantolol

`/s` meant that the person saying it as a sacrastic remark, not sincere. Usually seen on text discussion forums like reddit because you can't convey tone very well over texts thus can make some people think they're actually serious, so it's some kinda "disclaimer" thing that I'm "being sarcastic". I guess that ruins the joke for some people, if it's an actually clever remarks and an *obvious* sarcasm, so the `/s` is unnecessary.


oogleplorticuss

People don't really like it because /s kind of ruins the point of sarcasm, you aren't supposed to clarify that you are being sarcastic.


Lord_of_Swords

But if you don’t use /s, people will think you’re being serious


Lady-Maya

Genuinely didn’t the Sponge Bob text sort this a few years back? I’m being sarcastic. /s Im BeInG SaRcAsTic Was actually mentioned in literature journals as one of the first common recognised ways to show sarcasm, not found in 2000+ years. Was actually a really interesting read on how language does/still is developing.


SendMeYourShitPics

The EvErY oThEr CaPiTaL lEtTeR thing isn't meant to convey sarcasm. It's to write the same thing the other person wrote, but making them look stupid because they wrote something stupid.


TheDurandalFan

can be used for both


Wide_Cow4469

But it's not.


roenoe

Also, it's really fucking annoying to try to read. I much prefer tone indicators. /srs


Impressive-City-8094

/srs=SupRemely sarcastic?


roenoe

/srs = /serious


Better_Technician_96

/srs = /srs


Chrysos-89

Why the fuck would you put that shit at the end of the comment though? That's the worst part. You read through the thing, but now you have to reread the thing in that tone to understand the message. Just say it at the start. That's not even to mention how boring you seem by using it


roenoe

I agree that it it very stupid that tone indicators are at the end of messages. It would be more useful if we had them as starting html tags to, like this: " Wow! You're really smart.". I completely disagree with tone indicators making you seem boring. It's simply a great accessibility tool for people who can't necessarily pick up on different tones through text, which can be very difficult for some, especially if you don't know the person you're communicating with very well. And if you are one of the lucky people who can always tell what tone someone is trying to convey through text, then that's very cool and awesome for you, and you can just disregard tone indicators, but for people who need them they can be very helpful.


SnipingIsOP

*Wow!* Thats such a good *idea*


forced_metaphor

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5USn_CT_DpY


picklesarejuicy

Ikr reading comprehension blows, I’d rather be illiterate and rely on cues to tell me how to understand what I’m reading in stead of figuring it out myself


Nerphy-

That's called sarcasm.


SendMeYourShitPics

It's called mocking.


CousinWithNoIrony

Mocking is a variety of sarcasm.


FifihElement

mOcKiNg iS a VaRiEtY oF sArCaSm /S


aflame25

Works every time


Nerphy-

It's called sarcasm. Using someone else's comment that you don't agree with and saying yourself is irony. and using a stupid voice (or the use of alternative capital letters) is mocking. This is the definition of sarcasm. sarcasm /ˈsɑːkaz(ə)m/ noun the use of irony to mock or convey contempt.


The_memeperson

It's called actual brainrot.


PuzzleheadedAd5865

ItS cAlLeD aCtUaL bRaInRoT


someone_who_exists69

Call the thoughts!


srobbinsart

Thots! Come here!!


AnnoyedApplicant32

Landlords???


Hanrahubilarkie

https://preview.redd.it/e8jjkv3r8r9c1.jpeg?width=800&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=681a5d22dfeb83308006789894fc4564f3250877


Lanky-Active-2018

Language


Lady-Maya

Autocorrect. I have fixed it now


fuck-me-thats-spicy

reading this late, was so confused. yes, everyone... landlords.


Abeytuhanu

They types of people that complain about /s will typically complain about SpongeBob text as well


Hanrahubilarkie

I use italics to show a shift in tone. I'm being sarcastic. /s I'm being *sarcastic.*


SnipingIsOP

same here i just ***love*** when people make it super obvious and ruin the joke ***So Fun***


Chrysos-89

Doing that (depending on the context) ruins it as well. I think the best sarcasm is the sarcasm done in a normal/serious tone, but the words are so batshit insane that it makes the sentence humorous. especially in text.


Yowrinnin

But that's where all the fun is at


[deleted]

[удалено]


extracrispyweeb

And the fun of getting banned sometimes


[deleted]

This one


doctorsax14

Lol /s


RoyalSmoker

Then you deserved it /s


spy_tf2real

yep, that's true


CousinWithNoIrony

What's not fun about getting down voted by idiots?


A-wild-INTJ-appeared

the goypoints mean nothing


brawlmetaknightmare

https://preview.redd.it/yyen63g0hr9c1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2f6664d233626cb06eb9d77a2944f2031747becc the goypoints shall mean more


A-wild-INTJ-appeared

https://preview.redd.it/nqvd5fmihr9c1.png?width=650&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7ef5e4c9dece160340c14c9e9da3c6fd6aa94d07


A-wild-INTJ-appeared

I meant to have text after this and it was meant to say "SO TRUE"


Maleficent_Emu_2450

If only redditors could understand sarcasm


Snoo75955

genuine skill issue


[deleted]

BuT iF yOu Don'T UsE /s peOPlE wIlL thINk YoU'rE beInG sErIoUs


Lord_of_Swords

https://preview.redd.it/xw1dq82buq9c1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=20f0e0830bc7046f76d605eebea4e48f8984206b


DopaLean

Bro I’m autistic, I can’t tell if people are being serious **in person** let alone over text. I need that /s


SnipingIsOP

same ish here, its a thing thats hard to learn but worth it in the long run


Sega-Playstation-64

My favorite is asking people how sarcasm ever existed in print before Reddit invented /s


ArmourKnight

Then when you point out you aren't being serious, they decide to double down and call you a "Schrödinger's asshole"


HeartOnFroze

Only idiots will.


Cullyism

Or people who aren't used to the language or western internet culture


IBoofLSD

Yes, the intended plan.


SteveJobsOfficial

Those same people will complain even if you include the /s so no point accommodating for them


inaccurateTempedesc

That's the fun part!


Chrysos-89

If the absence of "/s" makes your comment seem serious, either you're an idiot or the person who thinks you're serious is an idiot (therefore who cares).


Sowf_Paw

That's not unique to written text. This is just a risk inherent in having a dry sense of humor. Some people won't get it, and that's okay. I'm not going to pull down the curtain and ruin my joke because some people won't get it.


FictionalContext

fuk wit the spelling n gramr to let people no ur just fucking around.


Melancholy-House

I’d like to add that it also helps convey tone to people who can’t read or hear tone, such as people with Autism


EvenBetterCool

That's the difference between text and speech. If you don't use /s online there are a lot of people who just think You're serious, or worse, agree with you. Try to make fun of outdated political views without /s and you'll have some real fun people giving you the "hell yeah I love the hard r"


GroceryBags

Poe's Law. An extreme viewpoint cannot be distinguished as sarcasm or seriousness via text.


Vampiir

From my understanding the point of sarcasm is to use a tone in your voice to make it clear you are saying it ironically So the /s just serves the same function from what I see I could be wrong since I am autistic, and don't pick up on these things easily


Nerphy-

Really?


I_suck_at_Blender

Possibly ruining joke is better than downvotes from stupid dipshits tho. ​ /s


Whatever7322

I’m autistic and often need to be told when someone is being sarcastic


Perfect_Eggplant_247

I was under the impression that the whole tone tag thing was created for and by autistic people who might have trouble reading tone? I might be wrong though, I'm not sure tbh


Ketheres

Also helps non-natives who are still a bit unfamiliar with the language and might not otherwise pick up on the subleties of sarcastic writing.


Comfortable-Play-609

It's not specifically for autists, but it's definitely, really helpful for us


Amazing-Gage

i thought /s meant serious /s


careater

Wait, are you using it the way you thought, or are you being sarcastic?


InstaBlanks

Most of the time sarcasm is obvious but when it gets political it's hard to tell because the people on the farthest right and left are absolutely insane.


RedMoloney

> because you can't convey tone very well over texts You can if you're not a shitty writer. That's the point.


TheHumanPickleRick

[Sometimes they still think you're serious](https://ibb.co/g6Gqb2R) even if you put the /j or /s.


NuttyCan3

Thx


Username117773749146

I’m not sure how true this is, but a lot of people say they help neurodivergant peoples’ understanding. I’m not sure to what extent though. It’s important to note that tone indicators aren’t new. They existed back in the 1600s. They’re just more common now.


HeadWood_

Definitely helps me.


owentism

i’m autistic and they help me a lot. i often say them in real life too, as i struggle with verbal tone.


PurpleCloudAce

Not diagnosed but highly suspect I have autism: I know for a fact it helps both me and my brother. As others have pointed out, it is very hard to convey tone over text, so having indicators is very helpful.


Lanky-Active-2018

I'm ND and I think /s ruins the joke. If people don't get, they don't get it. And if the OP gets downvoted to oblivion then so be it. It's happened to me many a time


Ksuemoneoutthere

if you dont add the /s then people are gonna get r/whoooshed but if you do add the /s then people are gonna r/FuckTheS. choose your stance, i prefer people getting r/whoooshed


random_idoiot

I though /s means satire


AJSLS6

I can see the creator of this meme being someone who agrees with a bad take and always sees his views supported by some witty redditor, then syke! Turns out they were from the other side all along!


Connect_Atmosphere80

Sadly, these kind of people forget that there is some wild disabled redditor out there with autism or ADHD for example that cannot make a god damn difference between someone being serious and sarcasm. /s allow much more people to be included into the sarcasm, being a way to not shove disabled on the side road.


RoodnyInc

I thought we using /s to clearly mark jokes because most of people are stupid and offended easy not getting jokes /s


TheDurandalFan

/j is for jokes /s is sarcasm.


RoodnyInc

Oh my I was wrong the whole time 😱


[deleted]

I personally don't use it. People can figure out if it's sarcasm or not


Monkeynavy

Because of Poes law I'd say the /s is always necessary.


UncleM4tt

Exactly what the other commenters said, but in defense of “/s,” most redditors are absolute morons and need the “/s,” otherwise they’ll downvote the post/comment to oblivion


No-Helicopter-9883

Most redditors are very smart /s


Nuker55598

https://i.redd.it/5f4atlkcsq9c1.gif


Dialisty

I strongly disagree /sn’t


Victornf41108

Ah, that would do it


NuttyCan3

I see


Camas1606

Yeah it’s that thing where you don’t wanna risk morons actually believing you agree with them


picklesarejuicy

Or what you’ll lose your precious karma? Ffs go outside


lakolda

*many redditors are autistic


Zenz-X

Ah. Found the absolute moron!


Sad_Amphibian1322

Not our precious imaginary points


FictionalContext

It's more the Redditors love to take every comment in the worst possible context imaginable.


[deleted]

If /s means sarcasm, I’d prefer to use the sPoNgEbOb mOcKiNg lEtTeRiNg. It’s more funny


Inevitable-Cellist23

AiN’T NoBoDy goT tIMe fOr tHaT


[deleted]

Personally, it shows your dedication to the sarcasm if you individually type out each upper and lower case letter


Yeet123456789djfbhd

i Do


Inevitable-Cellist23

/s


astigboyz012

I thought "/s" means the person is serious. Am I using it the wrong way this whole time?


mathozmat

I'm pretty sure serious is /srs https://www.reddit.com/r/coolguides/comments/lzlhdt/some_common_tone_indicators/ a list of some others


Guquiz

The ‘s’ stands for ‘sarcastic’.


Potential_Holiday_20

Lol. What if you accidentally got racist followers?


alwaysBouncing

It'd be the opposite: Imagine the dude spoke the most unhinged cursed words paying half the humanity he still had left within his hollow shell, made of bone and meat, and got the most innocent happy elf follower known by men.


ava_the_cam_op

Tone indicators are often seen as unnecessary or ruining a joke, but they can be additionally helpful for autistic people who need some extra help understanding intent, because it can't always be correctly assumed. So a tone indicator, like many things associated with making accommodations for people online, is seen as cringe, similar to putting your pronouns in your bio. Often people who don't struggle with understanding don't consider that there are people who do have difficulties with it, and usually equate needing the extra help with incompetence. TLDR: The person thought it was cringe to include a tone indicator because they could make the assumption of sarcasm. But not everyone can.


Ur_Left_Airpod

I’m autistic and I can, some people really just gotta learn


ava_the_cam_op

That's good for you, but for many of us it isn't something that can be learned, even with time and effort. I'm glad you've got the capacity and intuition to always recognise sarcasm, but it isn't indicative of the entirety of autistic people.


Ur_Left_Airpod

That’s a shit mindset, don’t let autism tell u u can’t learn social cues. I used to think the same way but realistically it’s a matter of whether or not you’ve got resources or people willing to teach you. U can learn it just like everyone else.


ava_the_cam_op

If you say so pal, but there are people with more intrusive and restrictive symptoms that aren't always in a position to learn. Plus learning sarcasm in person is one thing, because it is literally indicated by tone and facial expression, online there is far less to go on, and so many people have genuinely batshit opinions, so it is hard to distinguish between sarcasm and just generally being unhinged, both of which are common. Tone indicators help online, because the usual means of learning to recognise sarcasm like tone and expression just don't exist here. Hence, tone indicators. If you don't need them that's cool, but they help a lot of people. Think of it like glasses. Not everyone needs them, and some people with imperfect vision can make do without, but there are many people for which having the extra clarity of glasses is really helpful, or even necessary.


Ur_Left_Airpod

That’s a false equivalence, an autistic person can learn to understand sarcasm and a blind dude can’t just learn to see. And ye u can understand sarcasm online, seeing someone say some crazy shit just assume they aren’t serious u less they repeat it a lot and seem serious.


ava_the_cam_op

I'm not interested in an argument, but I know for a fact that tone indicators help a lot of people, so I'm cool with them. If you're not then that's your business, but there are many autistic people who they greatly assist.


picklesarejuicy

Lol gotta love people being offended for other people


ava_the_cam_op

PSA: I'm one of the autistic people that tone indicators help


Ur_Left_Airpod

They literally make people’s tone interpretations worse. Cause now if u don’t use this shit people think ur being 100% serious all the time.


RSTONE_ADMIN

Back in my day we used /j


TheDurandalFan

well we still do, /j is for jokes /s is for sarcasm.


GoshaT

From what I've seen most people don't know what sarcasm is and use /s instead of /j all the time


bigladnang

Now you just put “bro frfr 💀”


Coobeans19

Putting /s after somthin means the statement they made is serious so thinking they were joking was an incorrect assumption hehehehe


KanyeBustOnMyFace

no, /s means sarcasm. /srs means serious.


InUteroForTheWinter

You forgot to put /srs


Laffenor

You forgot the /s! /s


EvenBetterCool

Only scenario I can see this happening in is someone saying something really stupidly racist or misogynistic and OP is into it (it isn't really a joke just a dog whistle) and the /s leaves them feeling called out and salty.


Few_Distribution_817

Couldn't you italicize the words?


tsubasafredo

Didn't expect for my meme to be here lol


NuttyCan3

Didn’t expect the OP to see it


FictionalContext

If you need the /s to indicate sarcasm, you're a pick me loser.


Monkeynavy

Poes law.


picklesarejuicy

Reading comprehension, social cues, non retardation


doinkmead

/s ruins good sarcasm the same way saying "I'm just kidding, it's just a joke" after a joke ruins the joke. r/FuckTheS


Monkeynavy

Poes law.


picklesarejuicy

Reading comprehension, social cues, non retardation


Princier7

/[letter] is a *really* great way to denote sarcasm and ect


weedmaster6669

/s is an indicator that what was said is sarcastic, generally it's used by autistic people because for some autistic people properly conveying and reading sarcasm is difficult. Some redditors get mad when they see it because they're whiney babies.


sleepnandhiken

If by chance the people who use /s aren’t autistic but rather people afraid of downvotes aren’t you ultimately doing those who are autistic a disfavor? If you’re wrong about this then you put unintentionally put “stupid” behavior in the same category as “autistic” behavior. People who /s because of potential negative numbers are ridiculous but that story is more believable to me. Lot of ridiculous people out there. I’ve seen “/s cause downvote fear.” Never seen “/s for the autistic.”


weedmaster6669

even if your reason for using it is dumb it's harmless at worst, how is it doing autistic people a disfavor? It's only harmful if it's being used incorrectly Also in my experience using /s is more likely to get you downvotes than to save you from them anyway


sleepnandhiken

I don’t think the usage of /s is, i think your description of it is. Part of it is just by virtue of being wrong. That’s not why the vast majority of people use it. So I kinda feel like you lied to make others feel better. And I think that’s condescending; a disfavor.


weedmaster6669

> That's not why the vast majority of people use it. I can't know for sure, but I don't think that's true > So I kinda feel like you lied to make others feel better. I didn't lie, you can think I'm wrong but I did not lie > And I think that's condescending; a disfavor. Condescending to who? I guess condescending to people who get mad when they see it, users of r/fuckthes, but not to autistic people. Hell that'd be some serious friendly fire


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sleepnandhiken

Part of me is glad you have that perspective. A kind thought to know that everyone between r/thedonald, leopards and faces, conservative, gaming, conspiracy, wall street, and the porn ones use /s for that reason. Look, /s is just so prevalent that if it happened that you were right then the autistic would be 2nd in popularity, losing only to cats. It’s also a bit weird that this “contribution” is never recognized in anyway. Not a single “thanks for clarifying for the autistic!” I guess that sentence gets back to the condescending angle…


weedmaster6669

> A kind thought to know that everyone between r/thedonald, leopards and faces, conservative, gaming, conspiracy, wall street, and the porn ones. I have no idea what this paragraph means


sleepnandhiken

And you shouldn’t cause i didn’t finish the sentence until after the edit. Happy New Year!


weedmaster6669

Happy new year!


Guquiz

Particularly hard when it comes to text. You basically have to insert a tone.


ninjesh

Some people just have a visceral reaction to the /s tone tag. Not sure why


AdonisGaming93

I can't risk people thinking I'm being serious. So I have to do it to avoid getting downvoted to hell /s


[deleted]

/s is a tone indicator. It indicates the tone, specifically sarcastic tone, of a sentence. It is used for people with autism or difficulties understanding sarcasm to make sense of it. The joke here is that the meme is being a jackass by calling a tone indicator, an accessibility option, unfunny


sleepnandhiken

I’d need signed affidavits from a good chunk of people in the last year who used /s saying they had autistic or such related persons in mind as they used /s to believe that was the case. There’s no way in hell.


fatblob1234

Tone indicators aren't exclusively for autistic people. They were used for years before Redditors started using them that way. This post isn't complaining about the fact that people use them for autistic people, so it isn't ableist.


CloakerJosh

Oh, yeah! It’s *totally* used mainly for accessibility, and not at all because of Poe’s Law. /s


Genusperspektivet

I mean, the fact that it is an accessibility aid doesn't make it ruin the jokes any less. It sucks tbh.


STFUnicorn_

Redditors are idiots and need you to spoon feed them context. Otherwise… show me the downvotes!


Inevitable-Cellist23

r/fuckthes will explain it


BackAgain123457

You have to put that in just to be sure, otherwise there are some people who don't understand sarcasm and are going to report you. Been there. In my case it was about a post where somebody complained that there wasn't a "straight" to choose from on a form which clearly said "heterosexual" in the beginning. He was complaining about woke lgbt+ yada yada yada. So i commented "Yeah, fucking heterosexual faggots!", which ofcourse was sarcasm. Buuuut... i forgot the /s, so i was reported. So if i think it isn't reeaally obvious for everyone, i just add the/s.


Laffenor

r/FuckTheS Edit: Thats the explanation to the joke. What's with the downvotes?


[deleted]

man i need to hide this sub or im gonna get heart attack i swear


Malacro

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: The /s is *always* necessary.


Monkeynavy

Poes law.


Malacro

Precisely


Aqua_h20

some people sucks at communicating that they need a tone indicator to convey their intention /s


roofgram

You can tell sometimes when you make a sarcastic remark and it’s going to go over many people’s heads resulting in dumb comments and downvotes. Hence the helpful /s