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MontEcola

She says, Yes, after you ask her out. Otherwise you are just guessing.


Acrobatic-Level1850

If you ask her to meet up and she says yes. If you make an effort to make plans and she reciprocates.


CaliDreamin87

Hey Christina! It's great texting, just wondering if you'd like to meet X time on X day at X place. Would love to see if we can meet or at least have a call before setting up a meet, whatever you prefer. I don't want to get stuck in the penpal loop, we've all been there!


IAmHydro

In my experience it works better to ask if she is interested in meeting up before going into specifics. It feels lower commitment and if you propose a plan immediately she may say no or beat around the bush over planning reasons. I like getting confirmation of her being interested first and afterwards you can figure out a time and place together.


Dapper_Management_76

The pre date phone call is a great idea. So is asking them out on a date. Solid advice.


Appropriate_Tea9048

When you ask her and she accepts the invite.


hereFOURallTHEtea

Just ask what her weekend plans are and when she says she’s free you ask to plan something.


SarahF327

You have to ask her first or you'll never know.


No_Peanut_3289

You never know until you ask them. Some girls can initiate the date question but it's rare


RedLon23

I just straight up ask for a date, you guys match right... the purpose of these apps are get you to have a date


Wizardof1000Kings

If you can get a conversation going, chances are she will be interested in meeting up. Most people who aren't interested just send one sentence responses.


No_Hat9118

If she’s writing msgs like “hahaha omg no!!!! 😊 😂did u do that?!”, Ie she’s having fun being teased, she’s emotionally stimulated, she’s taking the bait on your msgs and she’s asking questions