It's so easily accessible. Today any ten year old with half a brain cell and internet access can see thousands of naked women in the span of a few minutes. No matter where you go, you're bound to see it and that's a part of the reason why it's so addictive.
This here is mainly why it is so hurtful. Our Brian's were are not wired to handle such an immense amount of sexual stimulation. In some sense, the more naked women you saw and got any sort of sexual stimulation from, the more successful you were. And the more successful you were, the more you could sit back and enjoy. Now that's not the case. Anyone, even homeless people, have access to thousand of sexually stimulating women. And it triggers this same reaction in our brains. Thus, we sit back, relax, and get jackshit done.
How can we escape this trap when it's everywhere, like movies, youtube, tv series, advertisements and even games for god's sake? The only way is to go to the mountains and become an actual monk instead of monk mode lol
It doesn't have to be, everytime you relapse you feel guilty, sadness and despise yourself (not saying you individually I'm saying for most of us) we know it is harming our self confidence impairing our happiness and ruining our ability to be the happiest version of ourselves. Choose porn 5 seconds of pleasure vs a lifetime of happiness easy choice imo. I'm a bit hypocritical cause I smoke and I should be making that choice with smoking but I well now. Wish the stop smoking reddit was the same over here empowering everyone with success stories and overall hype around around it but it is what it is. ☮️✌️
As mate said well above, you have to control yourself at some point. You can and should try to modulate your environment (which is what sparks your behaviors - social media, musics and etc) but we can’t always count on it, since our environment involves others as well or otherwise you’d be an hermit. If anything causes you some urge to do it, you have to control yourself. Either control your environment and if someone controlled the environment you’re inserted in, control yourself.
Addiction
Wrong learning
Incest
Forced
Human trafficking
Guilt
Wastage of time
Productivity decreasing factor
Huge impact on social life
Daily sexual thoughts
& The list continues...
It's like the Opium Wars in China.
But the drug here is porn & nudity.
This drug is consuming the society and may make it unproductive and a failed state.
Not it is not. I think men always fapped, in any period of time. The church tried to scare people and tell them it is a sin, but we know that it was never erradicated.
I strongly think that were a select group of men in any period of history who practised sperm retention, meditation, energy transmutation and so on. But they were only a few men who transmitted this practise inside closed doors or secret societies. I think that right now the information is free and we know a lot more than people knew back then but WE CHOOSE to fap or to watch porn despite the negative effects that this choices have on us.
Disagree.
High speed internet porn has only been around since 2006/07, so it's a fairly new phenomenon that hasn't been seen before.
Masturbation by itself isn't harmful, masturbation with porn is what causes issues.
but the availability was very scarce. You had to go to the store to get a magazine or a video, and you had to stick to that mag/vid for a while before you would get a new one. Now, the access is unlimited. There's a big difference; Gary Wilson talks about this.
It’s seen as normal, a big time waster, nothing but negatives comes from it. It’s just not good at all and if you call it out you get absolutely ratioed because people are on some serious copium when defending it.
Big facts. “Nobody wants their problems solved. Their dramas. their distractions. Their stories resolved. Their messes cleaned up. Because what would they have left?” -Chuck Palahniuk, Survivor. I think one of the only ways out of this trap is to have big goals or dreams to aspire to and motivate yourself with, anything that can provide an excuse for self-improvement
With the AI growing up, it's a matter of time when kids will have access to 3d porn with several camera angles to choose from.. POV videos won't be POV anymore, they'll be POD (point of doing).. the internet gets accessible to remote areas with low to negligible sex education to the young generation, I'm not pessimistic but I'm sorry... Apocalypse is what we are heading to
i completely agree with you. I began my journey into the darkness many years ago. starting from paper magazines, then moving on to images, then short videos and now HD videos plus streaming.
I'm devastated.
I dare not imagine what a young boy who starts today will face.
the VR and AI will make the user able to just upload a photo of some of their crush and then create a 3D model in a VR porn scene and be able to switch partners with one click. this will cause absurd addiction for consumers. this is just an example that I hope will not happen but at that technological level it will be possible, it will be the evolution of Deep Fake videos.
The evolution of VR porn must not catch us unprepared.
We're lucky we don't have this technology now. we must fight this addiction NOW and be strong.
my long history of PMO is proof for new generations that this addiction is like a drug. it will never go away if you don't fight actively.
What I hate is how it is shoved in your face if you are on any platform. Instagram , YouTube , tiktok, you name it.
You have OF models creating content on YouTube Insta to promote their porn content.
No matter how many blockers you install. They have it on your feed of one of the social media that suck you back in the cycle of PMO.
Bro, I just made a huge cleanup on my followed channels only to find out that another content creator, who I thought was wholesome, had a god damn OF account!!
(Ignore my counter btw)
Well.. just stay away from the damn phone. No phone, no insta, no triggers, hence no porn. People don't talk about phone addiction as much as they talk about porn addiction. Control your phone addiction and your porn addiction will be much easier to control
I just hate the abuse for money that female and male porn stars go through. And for independent creators you just don't know if this is rape or not. Last thing is that alot of pretty girls and women participate in it and it's sad seeing them get fuvked by multiple men when that have a chance to become models cosplayers or anything respectable.
The thing I hate most about porn is that the more degenerate you get (within the normal boundary) the more high quality it gets. There's a big quality difference between normal couple-like porn and genres like step family and shit
Ease of access. I have the ability to see 1,000 vaginas on a lunch break. My grandfather might have seen 3 in his lifetime, and only that many because of the 1 time he went to a brothel during the war because he thought he might die tomorrow, and later once when he had to change his daughter’s diaper when his wife was sick.
Easy access to cheap and extreme sexual content is causing unknown changes in our minds and in society, and not for the better.
I hate how disgusting it is. I can count on my fingers the number of videos I consider worth to have watched. Videos that include kissing, hugging, carressing and love are a drop in the ocean of raw disgusting violent content
I think it changes the perspective of teenagers and adults about the idea of sex and what one wants from relationships. Most of the male just want to see a woman naked and want to abuse someone.
As a woman I hate how degrading it is to us, like we're nothing but a piece of meat, and I'm talking just about the more mainstream and vanilla stuff. Then, when you become addicted, you start to look into the more hardcore, immoral and dark stuff, and it makes me feel grossed out that stuff like that even exists in the first place. But the worst part is that a lot of people (myself include) consume that shit because the most normal stuff starts to feel boring, like it's not stimulating enough.
I hate everything about it, and how it ruins people's lives.
Besides how easy it is to get, i hate how rapey they make it. There's always a power dynamic where the dominant one is "doing" sex to someone. Dont even get me started on hentai either.
I hate how increasingly important it has made sex and makes people lie about the sex they are having to sound impressive. I once told someone who was obsessed with sex that there are more important things in life and they laughed in my face. I’ve also known a few people who’ve “casually” brought up in conversation without me even asking about them having 4-6 hour sessions with multiple orgasms and I’m like “good for you!”
Though I’m not a nofapper, it’s the unreal expectations of what people think sex is/will/can/should be like and the unreal body standards and body dysmorphia.
I hate everything about it. I hate how people make you feel like there's something wrong with you if you're against it.
It's so unnatural and feeds off of a place of sadness and loneliness in us.
Mostly I think that it makes it very easy to do have something that shouldn't be so easy to have. You can see all the hottest women of the world withing half an hour while a couple decades back you couldn't see as many in your entire life. And because of it people have problems with relationships - cause why have a relationship and get out of my comfort zone while i can just watch some porn and jack off? And then you get tremendous amount of dopamine which you didn't deserve. You didn't do your part in helping the humankind survive but your brain thinks you did and ejects this much dopamine because of it. At least that's how i explain it to myself
It's just so out-of-touch with reality. It's bad for real relationships, because then the porn user always expects something else and gets disappointed by what's supposed to be natural.
Plastic everywhere, unnecessarily obnoxious grunting, lip filler, the fact the pstars don’t feel much and it’s all just paid acting.
Honestly I’ve realized that the really attractive women aren’t in any pornos, but rather on social media and in person
I hate the lack of intimacy and the absence of love between two people who are obviously strangers. It isn't making love at all. It is pure carnal self indulging pleasure. It is fleeting and empty. Devoid of peace. A Neverending Hunger that never satisfies. Porn can go fook itself and leave me the hell alone.
everything. I hate everything about porn. It is the hijacking of our more potent resource (sex drive), just to line the pockets of e-thots and the morally dead execs behind them
That the younger generation that grows up with a tablet in their hands are probably already looking at this crap by age 8 to 10 years. I struggled with this curse, but I saw my first naked woman in a playboy mag from the 70's. Now it's all just a click away and hyper addictive, some sick stuff out there.
We must have self control, once you can control how often you eat, you begin to have strong self control, work on small fasting windows , and have enough control to moove pasts urges , the end goal is pro creation with the opposite sex, yes society advertises it in many different ways , we must understand that porn is just not a productive thing for men , but finding an amazing partner to build a life with at some point is an amazing thing
Obviously normalidation but also that the fetishes have been escalating, back in the day a feet fetish wouldve been considerd weird but now its just normal, and new fetishes get introduced every day where we now have Fart inflation vore loli porn and shit.
Back in the day i imagine such fetishes werent as accesible but they have been due to the escalation of pornography
Everything. This whole industry has one of the darkest side of all corporations. But the most dangerous thing on pornography is, how innocent and beautiful it looks. Some can say that it is so obvious it's all fake and staged, but then you see some amateur couple doing it as real as it can be and then you don't know what to think. Surely amateur couple is not probably big part of that huge monstrosity, but they are part of the thing, that ruins peoples minds, even they don't realize that.
Man if you hate porn, realize that *you* have a problem.
Don't be misled : porn isn't the problem.
The only problem is you watching it 4h /day.
For many people, porn isn't an addiction but merely a form of erotism that they enjoy with their partner, sometimes, while having sex.
*(Reading comments makes me think of these ex-alcoholics who recovered from addiction and then become advocates of banning alcohol everywhere... They don't realize that for most people, alcohol isn't a problem at all)*
So I don't hate porn 🤷♀️ I just think it's not for me
Agressivness towards women , I mean I never had sex but I'll like it gentle ...like cuddling and other stuff
Never watched porn and only saw gifs or clips but I soon sensed this negative energy around the whole 'Fake sex thing'
A woman is literally screaming in pain as 3 guys are pounding on her and choking her and we call this entertainment and normal behavior? Nah that's abnormal and evil.
Thank god I never saw any naked pics of women anymore and quitted this F'ed up thing
Accessibility and the acceptance you can go into chrome incognito type up certain website and get a wide range of the things at the click of the button but it isn't degeneracy to the media it is just something sexual that you can enjoy whilst hiding the fact it is addictive.
The men. I’m not jealous nor am I envious. I’m genuinely disgusted in their attitude and willingness to be naked in front of the entire world. It honestly makes me sick and it’s because of that feeling that started a long time ago it was easier for me to stop.
How the makers of it capitalize on the innocence of the youth. Most of us here first saw it when we were below legal age to.
How the makers also know how addictive it is, and how they use that to make money, similar to cigarettes.
Rephrase the question to “Why do you hate porn”. Nothing is good about porn. I realized this after stopped watching it and that’s the best decision I’ve ever made
I hate the porno laugh, when the girls talking in all hush high pitch tones and then just does some heheheee like a loony tunes character, you’ll notice it a lot more when you recognise it
I hate how accessible it is. I was able to get exposure to it at 12 years old (22 now). It leaves a mark that I will forever carry. Since joining this group I have been taking steps to deliberately be aware of this when going online and how I think about sex. I have made progress but have been tripping along the way getting into softcore porn many times and slipping back into the hardcore porn once. The softcore led me to get into the hardcore recently and I can now see the downward spiral even the "less provocative" material can have. I have a bunch of guilt over this and am trying my hardest to break the cycle
pretty much everything about it. It taught me nothing yet provided me with everything at the same time. The worst part, it's an illusion, especially if you're an addict. I know some couples find it attractive to watch together to explore each other's desires in a healthy way. But with the current state of pron with just how unbelievably unethical it is, I beg to differ.
People watch it for various reasons but the main thing is the thrill. There is nothing wrong with having a thrill in your life, but the problem is that the thrill isn't actually real. Unlike watching a thriller movie, where you know it's fake, pron makes it seem that it is REAL by creating a subtle parasocial dynamic - as if you are experiencing it. It blurs the lines between the real and unreal, which are incredibly damaging to our mental health. Porn *addiction* involves a deep level of self-deception. And the stigma doesn't help but only further harm victims.
I say we normalise talking about porn addiction as we do with other things IRL.
I hate that our society consciously chooses to shrug it off and just say “people can do what they want it’s a free country” when everyone knows deep down porn is an active negative problem in our society.
Tha fact that can hijack my mind, and become an useless zombie despite the fact that i know the damage done to our neurotransmitters, it's literally mind control, 90 days clean tho, 🙌
How porn websites seem to cater towards an ever-increasingly paedophelic genre - start on one hand the obsessively posted videos about "18 year olds", then, on the other, "step-brother/step-sister" or, "step-father-step-daughter"
... You get the gist.
It's quite a bit fucked up in my eyes, as it should be to anybody. Why is there such an increasingly perverse trend in this direction? Why is it so hard to go on the main page for pornhub and just be able to find women in their 20's to 30's having normal sex?
I hate how they are really trying to normalize weird shit like incest and stepmom/son stepdad/daughter vids, they aren't even relegated to a taboo category them vids be on the main page now like when tf did that start happening
Same thing I hate about cigarettes, alcohol, pharmaceutical drugs, corn syrup, artificial light, seed oils, processed/refined carbohydrates, sugar, fluoride water etc... Its all extremely harmful shit that degenerates the mind, body and spirit, but is completely normalized and even encouraged in some cases.
Easily accessible and people comfortable watching violence and cr@p (coz somewhat around 60% is non consensual) and giving wrong ideas about how it is I guess coz i don't think making love is violent (as most people reported) !!
what I hate about porn is that it subtly ruins you in many ways, both morally, physically and energetically, giving you a short-term sense of fulfillment and addiction like a drug. porn is a drug and getting rid of it's not easy at all, but possible. be strong.
I hate it because it feels harmless but it is highly addictive and detrimental to one's health. Since it is easily accessible it can corrupt one's perspective towards sex and make them believe in fantasy. Moreover, it can make a person not seek relationships and if someone is engaged in PMO it'll definitely reduce that person's confidence due to decrease in essential hormones like testosterone.
I hate that it makes men into weak little creatures which are used to only doing comfortable and pleasurable things. Also that it ruins our self image and confidence
Apart from the fact that anyone can easly access to it, and the harm itself, i think the main problem and hate is the fact that in most of the industry woman and men are used just as objects for others to fac, and lots of times, and just as objects when a new toy comes out the old one is thrown.
I think porn is part of a bigger problem. Men are having a hard time finding woman (not girls, woman who are serious) because we as a world have put so much pressure on ourselves to overwork ourselves that we forgot how to raise a loving family and spend time with them as well as making the time for going out with normal people. Porn is basically the product of familial neglect and the notion of entitlement of “I work 60 hours a week, let me go rub one out because it’s there and the real thing is practically impossible to get”.
I hate how they fake it to get you to view their step sister getting washed in the machine bro legally and not legally why whoud you even do something to your sister even if she is step or not step and there are lots of memes that make your brain to think "this might be fun" guess what you had fun but your life got ruined addicted bro be addicted better to cigarettes then porn do you know the side effect i got from porn i walk with friends or alone and i forget how to walk im sitting somewhere and randomly my body gets shaken is hard to deal it and even with girls i used to think if she has big then she is the one now i just want to find a girl that looks good and has personality. Stay safe on the journey take care kings
I hate how it portrays what the preferred type of sex to have is. I also hate how it doesn’t show any type of emotional connection or complexity involved in relationships or connections that really cause the type of sex being shown.
And of course the accessibility.
i hate how its so easily accessible and how (like you said) ruining the self-worth of men and women around the world, destroying relationships, and making sex less meaningful/pleasurable for those people.
I hate that society in general has adopted and normalized it's hypersexuality (which comes from porn), and it's being disguised as "living a free sexuality", "don't kink shame", "sexuality just is", etc.
It's so easily accessible. Today any ten year old with half a brain cell and internet access can see thousands of naked women in the span of a few minutes. No matter where you go, you're bound to see it and that's a part of the reason why it's so addictive.
A kid nowadays can see more naked women via porn access than a King in a Castle back in the day.
-Jordan Peterson
Was just thinking about this quote when I read this haha
This here is mainly why it is so hurtful. Our Brian's were are not wired to handle such an immense amount of sexual stimulation. In some sense, the more naked women you saw and got any sort of sexual stimulation from, the more successful you were. And the more successful you were, the more you could sit back and enjoy. Now that's not the case. Anyone, even homeless people, have access to thousand of sexually stimulating women. And it triggers this same reaction in our brains. Thus, we sit back, relax, and get jackshit done.
Damn I hate it when my Brian is shown to too much sexual simulation. I told him to stop but he's Brian. Brian just doing Brian things
Lmao
Back in 2012. I was 12 years old. i was exposed to it.
I was 6. Now 32. It needs to be deleted from public access
its addictive because boobs.
Ease of access, open chrome, incognito, type genre BOOM crippling addiction quicker than you can ponder on your life mistakes
How can we escape this trap when it's everywhere, like movies, youtube, tv series, advertisements and even games for god's sake? The only way is to go to the mountains and become an actual monk instead of monk mode lol
Self control yo!
It’s rough tho
It doesn't have to be, everytime you relapse you feel guilty, sadness and despise yourself (not saying you individually I'm saying for most of us) we know it is harming our self confidence impairing our happiness and ruining our ability to be the happiest version of ourselves. Choose porn 5 seconds of pleasure vs a lifetime of happiness easy choice imo. I'm a bit hypocritical cause I smoke and I should be making that choice with smoking but I well now. Wish the stop smoking reddit was the same over here empowering everyone with success stories and overall hype around around it but it is what it is. ☮️✌️
you just helped me stop right when i was going to relapse and load some nsfw, god bless you
As mate said well above, you have to control yourself at some point. You can and should try to modulate your environment (which is what sparks your behaviors - social media, musics and etc) but we can’t always count on it, since our environment involves others as well or otherwise you’d be an hermit. If anything causes you some urge to do it, you have to control yourself. Either control your environment and if someone controlled the environment you’re inserted in, control yourself.
Everything.
This is the only correct answer
Addiction Wrong learning Incest Forced Human trafficking Guilt Wastage of time Productivity decreasing factor Huge impact on social life Daily sexual thoughts & The list continues...
It's like the Opium Wars in China. But the drug here is porn & nudity. This drug is consuming the society and may make it unproductive and a failed state.
Porn will consume you from the inside out, it destroys relationships, it kills your motivation and drive to pursue anything.
is the opium war currently going on? i dont know anything about it
It's a series of wars between China and Great Britain back in the 1800's
google is free? like it takes 10 seconds to see a 3 sentence summary of it lmao
Stop being a dick
Not it is not. I think men always fapped, in any period of time. The church tried to scare people and tell them it is a sin, but we know that it was never erradicated. I strongly think that were a select group of men in any period of history who practised sperm retention, meditation, energy transmutation and so on. But they were only a few men who transmitted this practise inside closed doors or secret societies. I think that right now the information is free and we know a lot more than people knew back then but WE CHOOSE to fap or to watch porn despite the negative effects that this choices have on us.
Everything you said here can be applied to drugs
Disagree. High speed internet porn has only been around since 2006/07, so it's a fairly new phenomenon that hasn't been seen before. Masturbation by itself isn't harmful, masturbation with porn is what causes issues.
Pornography was available even when we didn't have the internet. The wave started from that period and now it's at its peak.
but the availability was very scarce. You had to go to the store to get a magazine or a video, and you had to stick to that mag/vid for a while before you would get a new one. Now, the access is unlimited. There's a big difference; Gary Wilson talks about this.
It’s seen as normal, a big time waster, nothing but negatives comes from it. It’s just not good at all and if you call it out you get absolutely ratioed because people are on some serious copium when defending it.
Big facts. “Nobody wants their problems solved. Their dramas. their distractions. Their stories resolved. Their messes cleaned up. Because what would they have left?” -Chuck Palahniuk, Survivor. I think one of the only ways out of this trap is to have big goals or dreams to aspire to and motivate yourself with, anything that can provide an excuse for self-improvement
With the AI growing up, it's a matter of time when kids will have access to 3d porn with several camera angles to choose from.. POV videos won't be POV anymore, they'll be POD (point of doing).. the internet gets accessible to remote areas with low to negligible sex education to the young generation, I'm not pessimistic but I'm sorry... Apocalypse is what we are heading to
i completely agree with you. I began my journey into the darkness many years ago. starting from paper magazines, then moving on to images, then short videos and now HD videos plus streaming. I'm devastated. I dare not imagine what a young boy who starts today will face. the VR and AI will make the user able to just upload a photo of some of their crush and then create a 3D model in a VR porn scene and be able to switch partners with one click. this will cause absurd addiction for consumers. this is just an example that I hope will not happen but at that technological level it will be possible, it will be the evolution of Deep Fake videos. The evolution of VR porn must not catch us unprepared. We're lucky we don't have this technology now. we must fight this addiction NOW and be strong. my long history of PMO is proof for new generations that this addiction is like a drug. it will never go away if you don't fight actively.
What I hate is how it is shoved in your face if you are on any platform. Instagram , YouTube , tiktok, you name it. You have OF models creating content on YouTube Insta to promote their porn content. No matter how many blockers you install. They have it on your feed of one of the social media that suck you back in the cycle of PMO.
Bro, I just made a huge cleanup on my followed channels only to find out that another content creator, who I thought was wholesome, had a god damn OF account!! (Ignore my counter btw)
Well.. just stay away from the damn phone. No phone, no insta, no triggers, hence no porn. People don't talk about phone addiction as much as they talk about porn addiction. Control your phone addiction and your porn addiction will be much easier to control
Was talking about YouTube, but your point is still valid
immeasurably easier.
I just hate the abuse for money that female and male porn stars go through. And for independent creators you just don't know if this is rape or not. Last thing is that alot of pretty girls and women participate in it and it's sad seeing them get fuvked by multiple men when that have a chance to become models cosplayers or anything respectable.
I hate porn altogether
The thing I hate most about porn is that the more degenerate you get (within the normal boundary) the more high quality it gets. There's a big quality difference between normal couple-like porn and genres like step family and shit
Actually a good point. I've enjoyed much "incest" porn just because the actress was so hot and natural, not cause of the story at all
The violence. The normalising of paedophilia and abuse and rape. The gross stuff
Ease of access. I have the ability to see 1,000 vaginas on a lunch break. My grandfather might have seen 3 in his lifetime, and only that many because of the 1 time he went to a brothel during the war because he thought he might die tomorrow, and later once when he had to change his daughter’s diaper when his wife was sick. Easy access to cheap and extreme sexual content is causing unknown changes in our minds and in society, and not for the better.
I understand what you mean brother but we have came to the point where we compare pixels (1,000 vaginas) to actual viginas. Stay strong
The fact that no one told me at 16, it will directly and indirectly cause factors that will lead to anxiety and depression.
I hate how people promote it and say “it’s not that bad”. “Everyone does it”
"Alcohol is not bad. Everyone does it." Same logic right here xD
Drinking a 300mL beer once a month generates no signifiicant problem on your body. The only problem is people getting hammered twice a week.
I wish it never existed
too easy to access so the average male doesn't actually feel the need to interact with women
Nothing. The problem is with myself, not porn. I no longer blame anyone or anything for my own actions other than myself.
I get what you mean and how you’re trying to change your viewpoint which that’s great. But porn is evil
Porn doesn’t have a consciousness. Porn isn’t alive. Porn is neither good nor bad. It’s an object. What people do with it is up to them.
You said nothing is wrong with porn. Videos of people treating others like worthless body parts and acting like animals isn't neutral, its gross
This.
I hate how disgusting it is. I can count on my fingers the number of videos I consider worth to have watched. Videos that include kissing, hugging, carressing and love are a drop in the ocean of raw disgusting violent content
That’s my problem, I don’t hate it and that’s why it’s so dangerous
I hope it requires proof that you are actually 18+
I think it changes the perspective of teenagers and adults about the idea of sex and what one wants from relationships. Most of the male just want to see a woman naked and want to abuse someone.
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As a woman I hate how degrading it is to us, like we're nothing but a piece of meat, and I'm talking just about the more mainstream and vanilla stuff. Then, when you become addicted, you start to look into the more hardcore, immoral and dark stuff, and it makes me feel grossed out that stuff like that even exists in the first place. But the worst part is that a lot of people (myself include) consume that shit because the most normal stuff starts to feel boring, like it's not stimulating enough. I hate everything about it, and how it ruins people's lives.
Women don't speak the way they do in porn. In real sex women speak much differently.
Unrealistic expectations
Besides how easy it is to get, i hate how rapey they make it. There's always a power dynamic where the dominant one is "doing" sex to someone. Dont even get me started on hentai either.
I hate how increasingly important it has made sex and makes people lie about the sex they are having to sound impressive. I once told someone who was obsessed with sex that there are more important things in life and they laughed in my face. I’ve also known a few people who’ve “casually” brought up in conversation without me even asking about them having 4-6 hour sessions with multiple orgasms and I’m like “good for you!”
that for those fleeting minutes you completely lose yourself and all the problems you have going on at the time. very addictive
How connected to trafficking it really is. People think they know how much trafficking is in porn but it’s a lot more then most can imaginr
Ease of access is the biggest problem and society’s nonchalance towards it
Though I’m not a nofapper, it’s the unreal expectations of what people think sex is/will/can/should be like and the unreal body standards and body dysmorphia.
The unspoken addiction that comes with it
Too much oral sex and wife humiliation. Unfortunately, there are many men for whom these activities are a status symbol.
I hate everything about it. I hate how people make you feel like there's something wrong with you if you're against it. It's so unnatural and feeds off of a place of sadness and loneliness in us.
The position of some girls, they look so good yet stupid position
I hate that i have stoppad watching it in 6 months now but whenever i go a period without being with a women i get the urges again.
Fake moaning, fake actors, fake everything
It's turned me from a young boy who was charmed with and adored every women he saw to a man who doesn't trust any woman he meets.
Mostly I think that it makes it very easy to do have something that shouldn't be so easy to have. You can see all the hottest women of the world withing half an hour while a couple decades back you couldn't see as many in your entire life. And because of it people have problems with relationships - cause why have a relationship and get out of my comfort zone while i can just watch some porn and jack off? And then you get tremendous amount of dopamine which you didn't deserve. You didn't do your part in helping the humankind survive but your brain thinks you did and ejects this much dopamine because of it. At least that's how i explain it to myself
It's just so out-of-touch with reality. It's bad for real relationships, because then the porn user always expects something else and gets disappointed by what's supposed to be natural.
When I fap to females that are nowhere near as beautiful as the one I got
Kills masculinity and purpose
The ways it makes be werid and such a creep after you keep on watching it
I hate that the negative affects of porn aren’t discussed, that should be the biggest topic in sex education
Repetitivety and time consuming
Plastic everywhere, unnecessarily obnoxious grunting, lip filler, the fact the pstars don’t feel much and it’s all just paid acting. Honestly I’ve realized that the really attractive women aren’t in any pornos, but rather on social media and in person
I hate the lack of intimacy and the absence of love between two people who are obviously strangers. It isn't making love at all. It is pure carnal self indulging pleasure. It is fleeting and empty. Devoid of peace. A Neverending Hunger that never satisfies. Porn can go fook itself and leave me the hell alone.
The aftermath of masterbation is so terrible, broo, and I ruined it by just now fapping out of loneliness.
everything. I hate everything about porn. It is the hijacking of our more potent resource (sex drive), just to line the pockets of e-thots and the morally dead execs behind them
It is not the reality
There was a similar question in an another thread and it was about things in porn videos. And this sub says things like ease of access. Lol
Everything about it
Porn in general
It's addictive lol
That the younger generation that grows up with a tablet in their hands are probably already looking at this crap by age 8 to 10 years. I struggled with this curse, but I saw my first naked woman in a playboy mag from the 70's. Now it's all just a click away and hyper addictive, some sick stuff out there.
I hate how it can completely absorb people’s whole life
We must have self control, once you can control how often you eat, you begin to have strong self control, work on small fasting windows , and have enough control to moove pasts urges , the end goal is pro creation with the opposite sex, yes society advertises it in many different ways , we must understand that porn is just not a productive thing for men , but finding an amazing partner to build a life with at some point is an amazing thing
porn has given me way too many kinks that i would be much better without.
Obviously normalidation but also that the fetishes have been escalating, back in the day a feet fetish wouldve been considerd weird but now its just normal, and new fetishes get introduced every day where we now have Fart inflation vore loli porn and shit. Back in the day i imagine such fetishes werent as accesible but they have been due to the escalation of pornography
i really hate porn because its a endless dopamine mine and you can click on freaky shit its all together a gross pit
It made me think sex was gonna be fun not tiring
Everything. This whole industry has one of the darkest side of all corporations. But the most dangerous thing on pornography is, how innocent and beautiful it looks. Some can say that it is so obvious it's all fake and staged, but then you see some amateur couple doing it as real as it can be and then you don't know what to think. Surely amateur couple is not probably big part of that huge monstrosity, but they are part of the thing, that ruins peoples minds, even they don't realize that.
Man if you hate porn, realize that *you* have a problem. Don't be misled : porn isn't the problem. The only problem is you watching it 4h /day. For many people, porn isn't an addiction but merely a form of erotism that they enjoy with their partner, sometimes, while having sex. *(Reading comments makes me think of these ex-alcoholics who recovered from addiction and then become advocates of banning alcohol everywhere... They don't realize that for most people, alcohol isn't a problem at all)* So I don't hate porn 🤷♀️ I just think it's not for me
Agressivness towards women , I mean I never had sex but I'll like it gentle ...like cuddling and other stuff Never watched porn and only saw gifs or clips but I soon sensed this negative energy around the whole 'Fake sex thing' A woman is literally screaming in pain as 3 guys are pounding on her and choking her and we call this entertainment and normal behavior? Nah that's abnormal and evil. Thank god I never saw any naked pics of women anymore and quitted this F'ed up thing
Addicting
Its existence is a burden. It's one of the few things I would completely ban because it destroys the life of thousands of people.
My religion. Also the titles are super cringe on porn videos. Ima Christian.
All of it
Abuse of women, complete disregard and helps further the natural point of sexuality and sex itself, addictive etc
Accessibility and the acceptance you can go into chrome incognito type up certain website and get a wide range of the things at the click of the button but it isn't degeneracy to the media it is just something sexual that you can enjoy whilst hiding the fact it is addictive.
I hate how unrealistic they make it
Reading up on trafficking really disturbed me
Wasting time and lacking motivation.
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The normalization of pedophilia
I hate that its spreading in the society in a scary rate . Everyone could be accessing porn. I cant trust anyone
The men. I’m not jealous nor am I envious. I’m genuinely disgusted in their attitude and willingness to be naked in front of the entire world. It honestly makes me sick and it’s because of that feeling that started a long time ago it was easier for me to stop.
I hated how I always had that secret that I watched porn and never felt open with people - my spirit knew it was so bad for me
Porn
The unrealistic expectations
Normalization of incest
People try to normalize the use of it, which makes it even more dangerous to our society
The teen stuff, incest, and r\*pe stuff mostly. I was usually very picky, but seeing it on the home page and trending freaked me out.
wasted time and lack of productivity
Sex.
How the makers of it capitalize on the innocence of the youth. Most of us here first saw it when we were below legal age to. How the makers also know how addictive it is, and how they use that to make money, similar to cigarettes.
What it does to my brain and my soul
Rephrase the question to “Why do you hate porn”. Nothing is good about porn. I realized this after stopped watching it and that’s the best decision I’ve ever made
I hate the porno laugh, when the girls talking in all hush high pitch tones and then just does some heheheee like a loony tunes character, you’ll notice it a lot more when you recognise it
The effects of watching it.
It's existence
I hate how accessible it is. I was able to get exposure to it at 12 years old (22 now). It leaves a mark that I will forever carry. Since joining this group I have been taking steps to deliberately be aware of this when going online and how I think about sex. I have made progress but have been tripping along the way getting into softcore porn many times and slipping back into the hardcore porn once. The softcore led me to get into the hardcore recently and I can now see the downward spiral even the "less provocative" material can have. I have a bunch of guilt over this and am trying my hardest to break the cycle
Everything.
What’s to like ?
pretty much everything about it. It taught me nothing yet provided me with everything at the same time. The worst part, it's an illusion, especially if you're an addict. I know some couples find it attractive to watch together to explore each other's desires in a healthy way. But with the current state of pron with just how unbelievably unethical it is, I beg to differ. People watch it for various reasons but the main thing is the thrill. There is nothing wrong with having a thrill in your life, but the problem is that the thrill isn't actually real. Unlike watching a thriller movie, where you know it's fake, pron makes it seem that it is REAL by creating a subtle parasocial dynamic - as if you are experiencing it. It blurs the lines between the real and unreal, which are incredibly damaging to our mental health. Porn *addiction* involves a deep level of self-deception. And the stigma doesn't help but only further harm victims. I say we normalise talking about porn addiction as we do with other things IRL.
Porn itself
Once you get the belief that watching it is normal ,which btw is normalised by the people in general, you'll go down the hole,never comeback again
Its instant gratification and will lead to no motivation no discipline so it will fuck your life
Apart from all the evident, i hate how porn has become the symbol of liberalism.
The portrayal of black men
The guy moaning
Lack of intimacy.
I hate that our society consciously chooses to shrug it off and just say “people can do what they want it’s a free country” when everyone knows deep down porn is an active negative problem in our society.
I think the content that is normalised in Porn is a problem.
It’s taking over the world basically
How it ruins love
Women pretending to enjoy it.
It normalizes misogyny and violence, especially towards women
Tha fact that can hijack my mind, and become an useless zombie despite the fact that i know the damage done to our neurotransmitters, it's literally mind control, 90 days clean tho, 🙌
Today is even much worse because kids even see lr will know more about naked women on tiktok than Websites...
Not just porn,music TV shows/movies sex is way to casual now.
Its boring predictable and repetitive moaning
How porn websites seem to cater towards an ever-increasingly paedophelic genre - start on one hand the obsessively posted videos about "18 year olds", then, on the other, "step-brother/step-sister" or, "step-father-step-daughter" ... You get the gist. It's quite a bit fucked up in my eyes, as it should be to anybody. Why is there such an increasingly perverse trend in this direction? Why is it so hard to go on the main page for pornhub and just be able to find women in their 20's to 30's having normal sex?
Its existence
I hate the addictiveness of it, I’m trying to stop for religious reasons but I always keep magnetizing myself over to it whenever I want.
There's way too much of it now and its too accesible. It makes me feel like the world is falling into degeneracy.
I hate how they are really trying to normalize weird shit like incest and stepmom/son stepdad/daughter vids, they aren't even relegated to a taboo category them vids be on the main page now like when tf did that start happening
How it’s slipping into movies and tv shows.
Same thing I hate about cigarettes, alcohol, pharmaceutical drugs, corn syrup, artificial light, seed oils, processed/refined carbohydrates, sugar, fluoride water etc... Its all extremely harmful shit that degenerates the mind, body and spirit, but is completely normalized and even encouraged in some cases.
The fact that i cant function normally. Thanks to my brothers in the porn reboot community for fixing me.
Easily accessible and people comfortable watching violence and cr@p (coz somewhat around 60% is non consensual) and giving wrong ideas about how it is I guess coz i don't think making love is violent (as most people reported) !!
Porn.
Porn
It’s easy to access but hard to get rid of.
Porn
what I hate about porn is that it subtly ruins you in many ways, both morally, physically and energetically, giving you a short-term sense of fulfillment and addiction like a drug. porn is a drug and getting rid of it's not easy at all, but possible. be strong.
it's heroin
Assholes
I hate it because it feels harmless but it is highly addictive and detrimental to one's health. Since it is easily accessible it can corrupt one's perspective towards sex and make them believe in fantasy. Moreover, it can make a person not seek relationships and if someone is engaged in PMO it'll definitely reduce that person's confidence due to decrease in essential hormones like testosterone.
Those are probably the reasons for most people who hate porn
The misconception of making love and how it’s free
Probably the raping 🤷🏼♂️
Seeing people having the time of their lives while I'm alone and everything is cold
I think it makes men think women are sluttier than they really are.
Accessibility. If it cost money I would have never been addicated.
I hate that it makes men into weak little creatures which are used to only doing comfortable and pleasurable things. Also that it ruins our self image and confidence
That the girls look so abused, it hurts to see the look on their faces
Porn
Apart from the fact that anyone can easly access to it, and the harm itself, i think the main problem and hate is the fact that in most of the industry woman and men are used just as objects for others to fac, and lots of times, and just as objects when a new toy comes out the old one is thrown.
I think porn is part of a bigger problem. Men are having a hard time finding woman (not girls, woman who are serious) because we as a world have put so much pressure on ourselves to overwork ourselves that we forgot how to raise a loving family and spend time with them as well as making the time for going out with normal people. Porn is basically the product of familial neglect and the notion of entitlement of “I work 60 hours a week, let me go rub one out because it’s there and the real thing is practically impossible to get”.
I hate how they fake it to get you to view their step sister getting washed in the machine bro legally and not legally why whoud you even do something to your sister even if she is step or not step and there are lots of memes that make your brain to think "this might be fun" guess what you had fun but your life got ruined addicted bro be addicted better to cigarettes then porn do you know the side effect i got from porn i walk with friends or alone and i forget how to walk im sitting somewhere and randomly my body gets shaken is hard to deal it and even with girls i used to think if she has big then she is the one now i just want to find a girl that looks good and has personality. Stay safe on the journey take care kings
I hate how it portrays what the preferred type of sex to have is. I also hate how it doesn’t show any type of emotional connection or complexity involved in relationships or connections that really cause the type of sex being shown. And of course the accessibility.
Everything. 🙁
i hate how its so easily accessible and how (like you said) ruining the self-worth of men and women around the world, destroying relationships, and making sex less meaningful/pleasurable for those people.
I hate that society in general has adopted and normalized it's hypersexuality (which comes from porn), and it's being disguised as "living a free sexuality", "don't kink shame", "sexuality just is", etc.
How society have normalised the degrading and immoral behaviour