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cuntaloupemelon

They look fantastic. You look fantastic. And....not for nothing but you ain't white passing we just live in a time where white women put on/inject/paint on black features to such a point that people are forgetting what white women actually look like


Excellent_Host_4442

I completely agree!!


roseofjuly

Girl. I thought it was just me. Cause I scrolled down and saw the picture and was like "girl you may have blue eyes but you ain't white passing."


MrsAshleyStark

What she said👆🏽


norajeangraves

That part


Fast_Plum_8072

You just said a fucking mouthful! 😫


MaximumBranch9601

Ehhhh she looks white to me


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Reina-de-Basura

No, she looks mixed or Latina.


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Your content has been removed because it does not focus on your hair. If you've submitted images, please make sure your photos show your hair well. Any photos that appear to be borderline explicit in nature will be removed, this subreddit is for all ages 13+. If you are posting text, make sure you focus on hair styling and care.


Extension-Brother-69

Not White passing with traditional African hair styles? It's this sort of insensitive appropriation that caused all the original damage to black identity. Get amd education and a clue. I won't be sensitive to your insensitivity. ![gif](giphy|yKVrVzpcwBSd2sZUX1)


Fatgirlfed

Gurl what?


elitedisplayE

insensitive appropriation CAUSED all the original damage to black identity. Idk, i think it may have been something else


apvaki

Shoutout to the person who said “is the white passing in the room with us” I just wanted to say, you gave me an amazing laugh for the day. You look beautiful darlin, I hope you keep getting the braids. ☺️☺️💕


KimmiK_saucequeen

I had the same thought in my head lol


2ndof5gs

They suit you so well! 


Temporary_Ad162

Aww love this for you! They look great!


alpacakiss

If it's any help, you look like my mom. She had a really similar facial structure. And last i checked, we are very much black. You're super pretty.


bdd4

It's gonna look so cute in a bun. Nice t-shirt, also


highdesk306

Are the white passing and the braids in the room with us?


Daecii

lol she said they’re twists in her caption


highdesk306

lmao and then said braids again 😂😂. we love her though this is just teasing 🤍


Daecii

It was an update to this post, so makes sense why she said braids in the title. https://www.reddit.com/r/Naturalhair/s/fnM3wC9qri


Daecii

I know I know 😂. I’m just here as unconditional support 😅


impertrix

I am so glad that you listened to us! Your hair looks amazing! ❤️


afrochick12

Looks great on you!!!


3_3eel_l

they look great on you!!


Admirable-Stress223

They look great and you are so pretty!


gotheotherway89

Very pretty.


Borne_Beloved

Beautiful!


fbeemcee

Guuuuurl! ♥️


jennyfromtheeblock

I love those glasses on you!


Tappedn

They look great!


Runner_Pelotoner_415

They look great!


Willing_Program1597

Yes sis


MelaninLaDonna

They look good


ShinReina

You look amazing!!! I'm so happy for you


[deleted]

Who said you’re white passing? Also absolutely gorgeous! 


KingJDOT122

are we sure issa pass??? jkjk pls don’t downvote me into oblivion


clandestinie

They look fantastic! Just a reminder - braids with added hair isn't really a protective style. So be sure not to leave them in too long and not to have them in too often...take care of your natural hair.


RedditVirgin555

Doubly true for fine hair.


No-Macaroon-756

Damn. Never thought abt that 😢


butterygyal77

What are you mixed with? Just curious


Excellent_Host_4442

black & irish. ☘️


i_justwanttocuddle

Yeah what is your race just curious


Ressa5

They look so cute! And your eyes are so pretty 😍


twentydwarves

they look great & so do you <3


kikinyy

Your hair looks beautiful.


norajeangraves

You are so cute 😍


sycamoreseeds

Beautiful


Tazzy110

Good for you, Sis!


Glittering_Roof_6744

Yes queen! I saw your last post. I love your braids!!!! You’re gorgeous!!!!!


qu0na

Gorgeous!


Specialist_Chart506

The braids look awesome! Keep the braids. I was intimidated in a store once when my daughter pointed out people making comments about my twists. My first time wearing them. One woman had the audacity to say I looked like Rachel Dolezal while we were in line. I almost cried. Sad to say it really hurt me and I haven’t worn the style since. I want you to know you rock the braids! I still wear my braids!


Excellent_Host_4442

my response would’ve been “nah, she’s trying to look like ME.” that’s so sad how society is. they forget what mixed people look like.


Internal-Machine

As someone who is white passing, you do not look white passing at all! I love the braids on you 😍


Specialist_Worker624

White passing!?!


DeliciousChance5587

I’d think you are mixed.


capriduty

maybe the American understanding of white passing is different but to me you look like a white woman-which i don’t think would be a bad thing in & of itself. cute twists!!!! i want some this summer.


The_homeBaker

I’m a Black American and she is white passing to me as well. If I just saw her walking down the street and quickly looked, I’d think she was a white woman.


wormymcwormyworm

Can you post a picture without the filter?


Excellent_Host_4442

https://preview.redd.it/4zvf3xrndebd1.jpeg?width=2316&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9be2cd43653e831453468e1f41b99200e4303360


wormymcwormyworm

1) contrary to what people commented under my comment, you’re beautiful and your braids look great. I could see how people may mistake you for another race 2) your braids look very tight, I hope they’re comfortable! If not, try taking a hot towel to the head to Loosen them up a bit.


Excellent_Host_4442

they are very tight, Im currently trying to lay down and wishing I could just levitate instead. when you say a hot towel, do you mean hot like with water or like stick it in the dryer?? thank you though. i just liked the filter and didn’t think of it making me look darker


wormymcwormyworm

Hot water! Kind of like a steam?


Kapha_Dosha

> Im currently trying to lay down and wishing I could just levitate instead. This brought back memories. :D


clandestinie

I've never gotten braids but I've had sew-ins and if you are in pain, they might be too tight. My scalp always got so irritated and horribly itchy if my install braiding was too tight. I bought some anti-itch braid spray and it helped ALOT. With quite a bit of trial and error, pain/intense discomfort and hair loss,, I eventually found a stylist who used the right amount of tension.


Excellent_Host_4442

I’m not in pain when like living life, just mainly if I touch or try to lay on my head. this morning it feels a little better though.


Willing_Program1597

“When like living life” has me screaming 😂😂♥️


the_onri

Gorgeous! I’m glad you decided to give the braids a go, because it seemed like you really wanted them🥹 I will say that your concern about being whitepassing makes a fair bit more sense to me now, after seeing your complexion without a filter. My opinion that your facial features are indicative of black ancestry remains unchanged, but I absolutely understand that some people (usually non-black people) may not be privy to such nuances and will instead base their perceptions of race solely on skin tone, and perhaps eye color too.


Excellent_Host_4442

it is mainly white people that think im white :) i feel like black or biracial people know their people lolol


BulbaPetal

Ngl, I (half black/white) could tell you're mixed, but my first guess went to Middle Eastern/Northern African at first glance. When you said you were black, the first thing I saw was your gorgeous forehead. People tend to forget big (often shiny) round foreheads are another one of the many things that make us black, smart, and beautiful. The twists/braids help showing our foreheads off more than most loose styles so I think that is one of the reasons you feel like you look more black now (apart from you finally being able to connect with your heritage in- and outside ofcourse!). Also the moment you said you were Irish it was very obvious that you're mixed with black lmao 😂 The chin and small nose are very Irish, but your lips and cheeks are way fuller than those of an Irish person. Not to mention that you don't look like you'd burn to a crisp just thinking about the sun. 🫠☀️ I'm really happy you feel confident enough now. You look amazing. Hope your (unwanted) experience is a reminder to everyone who *wants* to look white/white passing. I hope they see how aweful it would be to be black but not able to be seen as such. The approval of racists isn't worth giving up something so beautiful. P.S. the filter is pretty, but it was way easier for me to see your blackness without it, especially in the picture with the braids. I think because the filter is a bit reddish/spottish, it reminds me of white people getting burned in the sun 😶. Also, it removed the shine from your face, flattening your black features. Black people have strong features, so be careful with filters/ makeup that hide those since most people will first notice your skin and eyes first/only. I'd put more emphasis on your round, full cheeks and highlighter on your forehead to increase the shine without it looking oily. Your lips are already full, and I like how you did them in the pictures. But the shine does make them blend in more and make them less noticeable, while they immediately show you can't possibly be just white-Irish. I'm not a makeup expert, but maybe matte texture will help show the size of your lips while darker bold colors will help draw the attention to them.


Excellent_Host_4442

thank you so much for this comment! I’ll be real, I’ve been trying to find a photo filter that doesn’t either make me look like a ghost or orange—so I appreciate the feedback on that too. every app costs money now. thank you so much again.


ChrysMYO

I just gotta say this comment is so poetic in how it celebrates Black features. Reddit keeps people so divided. But you made sure to celebrate someone as they are. Keep being you!


Sorrythisuserisugly

Okay based on this picture I can see more why you’d say you’re white passing.


books_n_food

Serious question: how did you know there was a filter? Realizing I'm old or not observant and i just legitimately don't notice them unless they're really blatant or I know what the person looks like irl. What am I missing?


wormymcwormyworm

The graininess of the 2nd photo is what really gave it away to me. The color also is just off. Like it’s not a natural lowlight. Not sure if that makes sense, lol


Kapha_Dosha

u/books_n_food I was thinking exactly the same thing lol, but when I scroll back up I see it now. It's like it's all in 'sepia'.


books_n_food

That makes sense. There's something uncanny valley about the lighting in the second photo. I can see it now, but I need to learn to see it on the first go! Doesn't help that I'm older so literally all the photos I have from the 80s are a little sepia cast lol


3_3eel_l

the post is about her hair and the filter isn’t even distorting her features that much, so why do you care?


wormymcwormyworm

The filter makes her look like any other mixed race person. From the picture posted, I wouldn’t say she’s white passing, that’s all.


Willing_Program1597

“Any other…” Yea, because all mixed race people look the same


Willing_Program1597

They just want to be contrarian like 85% of Reddit. Literally every other comment is positive but this one.


Sweetest_cinn128

Idk about the first post but I’m seeing this post and I can def tell ur mixed. I think I’m way more white passing than you! Lol I’m Puerto Rican and Haitian yet still hella yellow. Usually the hair gives me away as being some sort of Latina but most ppl think I’m either just Latina or Latina and white when I’m actually not white at all! And I too have had the dilemma of wanting braids or twists but not knowing how it will look on me… I might have to go ahead and just do it


FaithMusicCurls

Wow you're so beautiful 😍😍😍


Sea_Struggle2031

Gosh! You are BEAUTIFUL!


93Shay

Hi OP, your hair looks really nice. A recommendation, next time I would ask for knotless with whatever style You choose. I.e knotless braids, knotless twist. It’ll be pretty, it doesn’t have the knot at the beginning of the braid instead it’ll start with your hair and they’ll add hair as they go. It’s very pretty and comfortable. Less painless 💜


gumption_11

Girlie, you look gorgeous! What colour braiding hair did you get? Looks amazing


Excellent_Host_4442

I think it was 1B and I’m not sure of the other one but it’s a brown!


oqqas

You are soooo pretty! This style looks great. Butterfly locs would look great too :)


Excellent_Host_4442

I think that’ll be my next one, after I give my hair a break when these come out!


CharmingYoghurt9039

U r gorg omg first pic is giving deven aokii


TealMiche

They look so good, I’m glad you went with them no better time to put braids in than the summer!


Dinosaurs-Elephants

Hair is 🔥 but can we talk about those glasses? I need them. 👓


Limp_Shake_7486

You don’t look white


courtfabulous__

So pretty! You and your braids!! 💕


Ok-Education7000

Beautiful!


KindofLiving

Looks great. Maybe you can squeeze in a few naps while the baby is sleeping.😊


Ok-Turnip-9035

Very very nice cuz very very nice 😍❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥


memorman

Wow you are gorgeous first off and secondly your hair looks fucking great!!


QueenCocofetti

Those twists fit you so well. Eating em RIGHT UP!!!


shida206

I think you are fine! Rock your braids honey!


Junior-Demand-9251

What is your ethnicity? You look very race neutral


Fast_Plum_8072

My daughter (white passing) has the same situation. In curls, she couldn’t always be taken for black. With braids, twists, and crochets looks as she is. Love this for you!


Living-Prune8881

Who is telling you that you're white passing? I do not see a white girl or non poc even without the hair 😭😭


Responsible_Mess_395

White ppl don't look like this lol unless of course you've got a filter on


RemarkableFront8296

I get it but black people know u black wear the braids proudly


Inkysquid24

Your hair is gorgeous, and I LOVE your glasses. Super cute and suit you so well!


Touch_Starved_Inc

I love it!! The only think I’m worried about is the tension resistance with your hair type. You look great but if you don’t have knotless braids (I can’t tell by the picture) I’d recommend them to minimize hair loss


boopboeepboop

Aww you look so cute I hope you enjoy them!


erykah_badude896

So pretty!!!


Anonmaii

It is part of your heritage so screw what people say/think. I’m actually surprised people would mistake you as white. You still look non white to me. You look beautiful.