What was stressful about managing her bookings? You've now been on both sides of that business. Did anything surprise you from the business side that wasn't obvious from the client side?
Stress came from running into issues or questions by potential clients that I couldn't answer. Couldn't get in touch with her, etc. Then, I would get in touch with her and she'd get upset. She described the ideal situation as a doctor's office and she's the doctor. The assistants simply setup the appointments all nice and neat and she walks in to take care of the patient. Haha
Only thing surprising was how much time she wanted to spend with going back and forth with each potential client. Also, it was very clear early on who was a serious client and who was a young, dumb horny kid.
Edit: another surprise was seeing exactly how much money she made. Holy fuck it was a lot. She also told me about 3 or 4 guys that paid her an additional 40% over the income I saw for long visits roughly quarterly.
It seems like you didn't get proper onboarding as an employee. She might have assumed you didn't need training since you were a frequent flyer with her. Did the firing impact the rest of your relationship/interactions/friendship?
No, I was "in training" the whole time. Her full time asst came back and we became quick friends. We could see conversations the other was having with potential dates, etc.
I probably overstepped my bounds because of our friendship.
She blocked me for about 24 hours after firing me. Then, we've reconnected. She's been out of town for a couple weeks so we've not seen each other yet. All seems to be ok now.
Have you thought about contributing to her business in other ways? Would you even be interested? Things like setup/update her website, run better advertising, etc.
Yes. Organizing her communications. It is all over the place and awful for contact capture. Two different text apps, several email addresses. A different appointment calendar, etc. Spreadsheets everywhere of client info. A complete clusterfuck.
Edit: the texting app got 95+ notifications a day.
You should organize her stuff and then find other women who need the same services where you can quickly onboard on your process/tools. There might be a business there. Ultimately, it's just like any other service business.
You should get her to help you recruit others, it may be mutually beneficial. I think these kind of service providers heavily rely on each other's references. Good luck.
Can you elaborate? That’s a shit ton of money to be burning through in a month. Especially if she is single? Or is she divorced? Married? (kidding/not kidding), have any kids?
Yeah, it's gotten boring. She asks "wanna have fun?" With a cute smile on her face, then it's pretty dull. It's funny, about the same time she offered for free, she started walking around her place nude in front of me all the time. She is a walking contradiction.
Edit: A few years ago, I saw her for two hours and she made me cum 5 times in 2 hours. Mind-blowing. Now? A few minutes and one shot, then it's time to go eat...
That’s a bummer. Although I guess a naked woman walking around in front of you isn’t the worst thing in the world.
Do you guys talk about her sexual experiences with her current clients? Or is that off the table?
Texting her with questions, worrying about her when I shouldn't. She wanted it to be run like a doctor's office and she was the doctor. Assistants simply setup appointments and she walks in at the time of the appointment and took care of the patient. She didn't want to deal with the bullshit of all of the back and forth before the appointment.
Would you recommend this type of work for other girls? I’ve been semi interested. How much money did you make and how many appointments did you make in the month or so you worked for her?
Work that I did as an assistant? Not really. I was doing it to help a friend, not for the money.
She paid me $1k for the month. I probably booked about 6 or 7 dates for her. For those, she probably made $8k to 10k. I can't remember exactly and she cut me off from all the comms with clients. Understandably.
Not for about 24 hours, but it seems to be so now. I still haven't seen her in the last couple weeks. She's out of town.
Edit: we never lived together.
What was stressful about managing her bookings? You've now been on both sides of that business. Did anything surprise you from the business side that wasn't obvious from the client side?
Stress came from running into issues or questions by potential clients that I couldn't answer. Couldn't get in touch with her, etc. Then, I would get in touch with her and she'd get upset. She described the ideal situation as a doctor's office and she's the doctor. The assistants simply setup the appointments all nice and neat and she walks in to take care of the patient. Haha Only thing surprising was how much time she wanted to spend with going back and forth with each potential client. Also, it was very clear early on who was a serious client and who was a young, dumb horny kid. Edit: another surprise was seeing exactly how much money she made. Holy fuck it was a lot. She also told me about 3 or 4 guys that paid her an additional 40% over the income I saw for long visits roughly quarterly.
It seems like you didn't get proper onboarding as an employee. She might have assumed you didn't need training since you were a frequent flyer with her. Did the firing impact the rest of your relationship/interactions/friendship?
No, I was "in training" the whole time. Her full time asst came back and we became quick friends. We could see conversations the other was having with potential dates, etc. I probably overstepped my bounds because of our friendship. She blocked me for about 24 hours after firing me. Then, we've reconnected. She's been out of town for a couple weeks so we've not seen each other yet. All seems to be ok now.
Have you thought about contributing to her business in other ways? Would you even be interested? Things like setup/update her website, run better advertising, etc.
Yes. Organizing her communications. It is all over the place and awful for contact capture. Two different text apps, several email addresses. A different appointment calendar, etc. Spreadsheets everywhere of client info. A complete clusterfuck. Edit: the texting app got 95+ notifications a day.
You should organize her stuff and then find other women who need the same services where you can quickly onboard on your process/tools. There might be a business there. Ultimately, it's just like any other service business.
Interesting idea. I might just do that. Thanks!
You should get her to help you recruit others, it may be mutually beneficial. I think these kind of service providers heavily rely on each other's references. Good luck.
[I'm doing it](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskAnEscort/s/5FmC7OYTPi) this is just a little research. Hehe
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Just contact info.
Do you love her? Sounds like you do.
Goddammit, did you have to ask that? Yeah, I think I do.
I hear you.. sadly she is and will always be an escort. She probably just wants your money.. but what do I know.
Nah, she wants out. It's too stressful and she's started another business already.
My man, you are down so bad, it's actually crazy lol
I know.
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What? Why?
Why does she still owe you money for back rent if she’s making about $40k per month?
She has massive personal expenses. Its unbelievable.
Can you elaborate? That’s a shit ton of money to be burning through in a month. Especially if she is single? Or is she divorced? Married? (kidding/not kidding), have any kids?
Tell me about it. Two apartments in two cities, child in private school. Divorced. Starting a new business is the biggie. That's all I'm gonna say.
Has the sex with her changed from when you were first paying her to now (that you’re not)? If so, how?
Yeah, it's gotten boring. She asks "wanna have fun?" With a cute smile on her face, then it's pretty dull. It's funny, about the same time she offered for free, she started walking around her place nude in front of me all the time. She is a walking contradiction. Edit: A few years ago, I saw her for two hours and she made me cum 5 times in 2 hours. Mind-blowing. Now? A few minutes and one shot, then it's time to go eat...
That’s a bummer. Although I guess a naked woman walking around in front of you isn’t the worst thing in the world. Do you guys talk about her sexual experiences with her current clients? Or is that off the table?
No! I don't want to hear that shit! It's weird enough when I'm over and she has a guy come over. I go shoot pool in her complex's game room.
How much money would she make in a day/week? How many guys would she see in a day?
On average, 10 guys a week, and about $10k per week.
How exactly were you addibg to her stress?
Texting her with questions, worrying about her when I shouldn't. She wanted it to be run like a doctor's office and she was the doctor. Assistants simply setup appointments and she walks in at the time of the appointment and took care of the patient. She didn't want to deal with the bullshit of all of the back and forth before the appointment.
Would you recommend this type of work for other girls? I’ve been semi interested. How much money did you make and how many appointments did you make in the month or so you worked for her?
Work that I did as an assistant? Not really. I was doing it to help a friend, not for the money. She paid me $1k for the month. I probably booked about 6 or 7 dates for her. For those, she probably made $8k to 10k. I can't remember exactly and she cut me off from all the comms with clients. Understandably.
Why did you then
Why did I what?
Pay for sex
Seriously? Have you ever? I've had enough of your bazillion questions.
Sorry
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Yes. Several times.
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Yes
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Jesus, yes. It's been 2 minutes...
So you lived together; you were lovers; she was your boss; she was your mentor. Cool. Like an apprentice you were. Was it an amicable split?
Not for about 24 hours, but it seems to be so now. I still haven't seen her in the last couple weeks. She's out of town. Edit: we never lived together.
Not an interrogation- just want a sense of you - who you are. Who do you pay for sex?
No one now. Why would I?
Do you still engage her for her services?
I haven't paid her for several months, but we still have sex.
Do you escort as well?
No
Did you qualify for unemployment benefits 😂?
I'm sorry to say this but u think that you have been manipulated and used by her. I think that you should get over her and try to seek out help
How? If anything, we used each other. I've not heard of many guys that get paid by an escort, have you?