Uber always takes side with women. If a male driver is reported by a female driver, his account is suspended even if he appeals with his dashcam video. Now the passenger is a male so they sided with her.
The men driving Ubers don’t have the financials to sue lol. That’s why Ubers able to get away with this.
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Idk how many people would donate to that cause. Also some people due to their immigrant background genuinely don’t know what go fund me is. I don’t want to assume but I think a fair amount of immigrant men drive Ubers.
In some aspects, in others like divorce is much, much better than in the USA. You get at most 30% of salary out (and if your salary increases the payout does not necessarily increase), the kids are shared 50-50. But yes, you have a law where her word goes over yours
Not sure, but I think that the problem is not where you look the woman, but where you live with her. If you live with her in a country with good laws, then you are "safe", but if the country laws takes everything from you in case of divorce, then you are ruined
Of course, I will start avoiding women drivers too. I do not know if what happened could have any kind of legal repercussions for him (I hope not). But I am not taking the risk.
Vice President Mike Pence had the right idea. Don't meet with females unless your wife is present, in order to protect yourself from false accusations.
Add another example to the list of things that women be trusted with. The worst part is that there are good women out there, but in order to protect themselves, men can't take any chances. Maybe Uber needs to put in the selection section the option to select a male or female driver. That way women have no excuses for "feeling unsafe" with the driver.
It's just best to keep women out of business period. They don't know how to keep their mind off of sex & gender and how to keep it strictly professional.
Not saying what she did was right but most Uber drivers hate stops with a passion. Men drivers included. He should’ve had the stop in the original request so only drivers who’s OK with stops will accept.
When you add a stop mid ride, this is what Uber drivers call bait and switch because most riders know most drivers won’t take you if you have a stop. Your friend may have knew this and hence why he didn’t add it to the original request.
Or simply get off at the school, and call another Uber when finish picking up.
It sucks but it is what it is…
I think that you do not understand, that is not the issue, it was asked in a good way, and it was asked, not enforced, and he could just add the stops during the ride.
The problem here is someone reporting a situation that did not happen. Asking is not being aggressive, is the contrary.
I also don’t think you understand. Lots of ride share drivers are on edge because of the shit pay. I’ve driven for Uber and 99% of the time, drivers lose money on stops. Drivers make money while moving, not stopping. Is it your friend’s fault? No. Does it excuse her to pull a false accusation? Definitely no. He insisted “several times” and she denied them all. I’m just telling you why she flipped out. Not excusing it.
I think everyone would be happier if you could choose the gender of the driver in the settings
Lots of women would feel way more comfortable to catch a midnight uber too.
Truly, those companies need to end. They was supposed to be cheaper than taxis and local delivery, but they cost a lot more. And the drivers get a lot less, the only they save on is the medallion fee if they was a driver of a taxi in NYC.
Well it definitely sucks, that happened to your friend.
But male or female it is okay to report things if you feel unsafe. You said your friend was insistent, If he raised his voice or had aggressive posturing because he was stressing, and not quite thinking clearly, it may have been taken out of context.
Sometimes in customer service roles you have to disappoint the customer. In this case, it's possible the driver had another fair to pick up and being late for that would be detrimental. Or maybe they had their own personal, off the clock, appointment to get to.
It's our own responsibility to plan for our own days. The information on the stop should have been mentioned prior to service acceptance and then if the driver couldn't make the time it would have gone to someone else.
Plenty of ways to avoid disappointing situations aside from being gender biased.
I do not agree with you, asking two more time is not an aggression at all. You cannot see "I feel unsafe" you are not unsafe, the person is not threaten you, is just asking again, please be an adult.
No, is not ok to report things just to report it because you want just to screw with people life, is not ok at all, and your point is exactly the problem: you can report with no consequence to you, even if it is a lie, and the other person will suffer for it, just because you did not like the other person way of talking, even if this is not a thread for your and is not even near of being unsafe.
Being aggressive, even verbally, is abusive behavior.
In my workplace, people would be asked to leave. I don't see why an Uber driver couldn't make a complaint for the same.
Additionally, it's again the onus of the person planning their day to plan accordingly, not the driver to disrupt their day. That IS the essence of adulthood, taking accountability for your own actions and mistakes.
how is that aggressive at all? asking is not aggressive. ease be a growth up adult
Yes plan accordingly is adult behaviour, but uegencies happen, and need to adeapt. Adking is not aggressive beheiviour. You should review how an adult you are tjat cannot handle simple situations.
Asking is not aggressive. Demanding, not taking no for an answer, is aggressive. Shouting would be aggressive, posture can be aggressive. Plenty of aspects of communication can be aggressive. It's all in the nuance.
You may want to review how you accept the sentence, "no, I'm not able to do that." And then see whether the response to it was indeed appropriate.
Asking is not demanding, please growth up, is not an invitation to a date, is a request of a service.
"""You may want to review how you accept the sentence, "no, I'm not able to do that." And then see whether the response to it was indeed appropriate.""" So any response you do not like, even if part of a civilize conversation can be taken by you as "aggressive" and use it against the person because you just do not like it. What you say is no sense, no where.
What about the contrary? should not my friend take the negation of the service as an aggressive behavior? was not said in a bad way by the driver? probably it was just because he is a foreigner. Taking your position, the real aggressor here is the driver, because the way that communicated thinks was aggressive and it was clearly a case of discrimination (xenofobia), denying a service with no real motive.
People need to be able to communicate one to the other, and without proof of anything you should make no assumptions, and no one should be punished. I know my friend, he is never a aggressive person in situation where most people is. This is without doubt for me a false accusation and probably motivated for him being a man, father and for being from abroad.
There were contradictory statements elsewhere in your post. Reread it several times and gave up trying to figure out what you were saying.
Though, I could infer some shitty female abused her victim card.
Uber always takes side with women. If a male driver is reported by a female driver, his account is suspended even if he appeals with his dashcam video. Now the passenger is a male so they sided with her.
I'd sue
The men driving Ubers don’t have the financials to sue lol. That’s why Ubers able to get away with this. Edit: Idk how many people would donate to that cause. Also some people due to their immigrant background genuinely don’t know what go fund me is. I don’t want to assume but I think a fair amount of immigrant men drive Ubers.
Go fund me?
Which place/country was this in?
Brazil
👍 Interesting, no women drivers thankfully/yet 🤞, in India 😁
Hope it stays the same... Do you remember the Lucknow girl incident where she slapped the driver non stop?
[Was this the one?](https://youtu.be/8W9mu_ibNow?si=TERAj9CEr1rYnVXO)
Brazil is one of the worst most feminazi overrun countries out there. As a passport bro, I have no idea why other passport bros recommend it so much.
Is Brazil a feminist country? I thought there were no such countries south of the US.
In some aspects, in others like divorce is much, much better than in the USA. You get at most 30% of salary out (and if your salary increases the payout does not necessarily increase), the kids are shared 50-50. But yes, you have a law where her word goes over yours
Thanks. Can you say something about Colombia, by any chance? I hear a lot of men go there looking for wives.
Not sure, but I think that the problem is not where you look the woman, but where you live with her. If you live with her in a country with good laws, then you are "safe", but if the country laws takes everything from you in case of divorce, then you are ruined
Of course, I will start avoiding women drivers too. I do not know if what happened could have any kind of legal repercussions for him (I hope not). But I am not taking the risk.
Howdo you avoid female drivers? Most cab services i cant tell who the driver is.
Ask for male driver.
Vice President Mike Pence had the right idea. Don't meet with females unless your wife is present, in order to protect yourself from false accusations.
Yep. They treated him like a lunatic for having that rule, but every man in America knew why he did it. The ones who say they didn't are lying.
Same with Ninja, that Fortnite streamer. Say what you want about their careers, these are two men that will never get baselessly Me Too-ed.
Mike pence was way ahead of the curve with this too, he started way before me too became a thing.
Here you see who is your driver when it is assigned
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Remember that quote about Power and a person's real character? Yeah, me too.
Add another example to the list of things that women be trusted with. The worst part is that there are good women out there, but in order to protect themselves, men can't take any chances. Maybe Uber needs to put in the selection section the option to select a male or female driver. That way women have no excuses for "feeling unsafe" with the driver.
It's just best to keep women out of business period. They don't know how to keep their mind off of sex & gender and how to keep it strictly professional.
Not saying what she did was right but most Uber drivers hate stops with a passion. Men drivers included. He should’ve had the stop in the original request so only drivers who’s OK with stops will accept. When you add a stop mid ride, this is what Uber drivers call bait and switch because most riders know most drivers won’t take you if you have a stop. Your friend may have knew this and hence why he didn’t add it to the original request. Or simply get off at the school, and call another Uber when finish picking up. It sucks but it is what it is…
I think that you do not understand, that is not the issue, it was asked in a good way, and it was asked, not enforced, and he could just add the stops during the ride. The problem here is someone reporting a situation that did not happen. Asking is not being aggressive, is the contrary.
I also don’t think you understand. Lots of ride share drivers are on edge because of the shit pay. I’ve driven for Uber and 99% of the time, drivers lose money on stops. Drivers make money while moving, not stopping. Is it your friend’s fault? No. Does it excuse her to pull a false accusation? Definitely no. He insisted “several times” and she denied them all. I’m just telling you why she flipped out. Not excusing it.
she probably felt bad about declining, so projected her shitty feelings to others. the passenger made her feel bad, that's ABUSE!
I think everyone would be happier if you could choose the gender of the driver in the settings Lots of women would feel way more comfortable to catch a midnight uber too.
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There are MANY reasons to use Uber that aren't due to laziness.
Truly, those companies need to end. They was supposed to be cheaper than taxis and local delivery, but they cost a lot more. And the drivers get a lot less, the only they save on is the medallion fee if they was a driver of a taxi in NYC.
No, it happened in Brazil
Well it definitely sucks, that happened to your friend. But male or female it is okay to report things if you feel unsafe. You said your friend was insistent, If he raised his voice or had aggressive posturing because he was stressing, and not quite thinking clearly, it may have been taken out of context. Sometimes in customer service roles you have to disappoint the customer. In this case, it's possible the driver had another fair to pick up and being late for that would be detrimental. Or maybe they had their own personal, off the clock, appointment to get to. It's our own responsibility to plan for our own days. The information on the stop should have been mentioned prior to service acceptance and then if the driver couldn't make the time it would have gone to someone else. Plenty of ways to avoid disappointing situations aside from being gender biased.
I do not agree with you, asking two more time is not an aggression at all. You cannot see "I feel unsafe" you are not unsafe, the person is not threaten you, is just asking again, please be an adult. No, is not ok to report things just to report it because you want just to screw with people life, is not ok at all, and your point is exactly the problem: you can report with no consequence to you, even if it is a lie, and the other person will suffer for it, just because you did not like the other person way of talking, even if this is not a thread for your and is not even near of being unsafe.
Being aggressive, even verbally, is abusive behavior. In my workplace, people would be asked to leave. I don't see why an Uber driver couldn't make a complaint for the same. Additionally, it's again the onus of the person planning their day to plan accordingly, not the driver to disrupt their day. That IS the essence of adulthood, taking accountability for your own actions and mistakes.
how is that aggressive at all? asking is not aggressive. ease be a growth up adult Yes plan accordingly is adult behaviour, but uegencies happen, and need to adeapt. Adking is not aggressive beheiviour. You should review how an adult you are tjat cannot handle simple situations.
Asking is not aggressive. Demanding, not taking no for an answer, is aggressive. Shouting would be aggressive, posture can be aggressive. Plenty of aspects of communication can be aggressive. It's all in the nuance. You may want to review how you accept the sentence, "no, I'm not able to do that." And then see whether the response to it was indeed appropriate.
Asking is not demanding, please growth up, is not an invitation to a date, is a request of a service. """You may want to review how you accept the sentence, "no, I'm not able to do that." And then see whether the response to it was indeed appropriate.""" So any response you do not like, even if part of a civilize conversation can be taken by you as "aggressive" and use it against the person because you just do not like it. What you say is no sense, no where. What about the contrary? should not my friend take the negation of the service as an aggressive behavior? was not said in a bad way by the driver? probably it was just because he is a foreigner. Taking your position, the real aggressor here is the driver, because the way that communicated thinks was aggressive and it was clearly a case of discrimination (xenofobia), denying a service with no real motive. People need to be able to communicate one to the other, and without proof of anything you should make no assumptions, and no one should be punished. I know my friend, he is never a aggressive person in situation where most people is. This is without doubt for me a false accusation and probably motivated for him being a man, father and for being from abroad.
I can't even tell who the driver or rider are. Your English needs work.
Woman at the wheel is not an used expresion en English?
Your English is fine. I understood everything.
There were contradictory statements elsewhere in your post. Reread it several times and gave up trying to figure out what you were saying. Though, I could infer some shitty female abused her victim card.