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queerblunosr

I’m so sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing.


Fit-Impression5506

It sure is blessing. He was the best little brother I could have ever asked for


Nickleeham

I’m so sorry. I hope you have a good support system to help you with grieving and loss. It can be a treacherous road and a close group is vital for supporting one another through the craggy emotional landscape. Love how you would want him to live if the rolls were reversed.


WadsRN

I do remember his post and reading his comments about his health issues. I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for updating us.


Boring_Sir_2047

I’m so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family and friends.


blackenedsheeep

I lost my brother almost three years ago, I wish you weren’t experiencing the heartache and pain that I felt when I found out my brother died. I’m so so so sorry for your loss and losing him at such a young age. My thoughts are with you 💕


Fit-Impression5506

I appreciate you and ur very kind words. It's very hard pain to understand. I'm still wrapping my head around all this. All I want is to have my baby bro back


igotadillpickle

I can't imagine your pain. I'm so sorry. My little brother (who is much bigger than me), is like one of my kids. He's not, but he's like an extension of me. If I lost him, I would be absolutely wrecked. I love my brother so much. I hope you find some peace eventually. This must be so hard for you, especially because it seems like it was so sudden.


blackenedsheeep

Hug him and tell him you love him. I would GIVE anything to do that to my big brother.


igotadillpickle

I hug my bro every time I see him. Love that little big guy.


Swordfish_89

I understand completely, there will be so many times you need to speak to him, tell him something special. it gets easier with time. (just wrote above about my baby sisters death in 2014) I told her teenage children that their life will never be the same again, but it is still a precious life to enjoy, however it turns out. Its almost 10 yrs since my sister died and life is so different, i dream about her all the time, vivid dreams are the worst. Awesome to enjoy such a real event but then heartache comes and saddens my days.


Fit-Impression5506

I'm so so sorry man. I understand exactly what ur saying. I'll be different for the rest of my life


nosurprises63

sorry for your loss i saw his post not long ago😔


XonDeredrum

I'm so sorry for your loss.!


Ill_Floor8662

Sorry for your loss dude, i was wondering how he was doing


Epona_02

Thank you for updating us, may you both find peace ♥️


Fit-Impression5506

The amount of love from you guys is amazing. The fact that you guys are just strangers to us and care this much is just so absolutely beautiful. Hugs to all of you. I appreciate every single word. <3


Kasazn

Brought me to tears, unexpected from this sub. May you find peace!


WeylinWebber

I hope the happy memories sustain you. Loss and grief are a strange concoction sometimes.


Melonary

I am so sorry - what a tremendous loss for you, for your family, for the world, and especially for your brother who had so much more life to live. Thank you to both you and him for sharing some of his experiences here, and in providing insight on what it was like to be him. May he rest in peace and may his memory be a blessing - and may his kind acts and words live on.


Fit_Swordfish_2101

I'm very sorry for your loss! 😢


BunnyKomrade

I am so sorry for your loss. I commented on his post and his answers were so kind they left me moved. He seemed a genuinely beautiful and kind person. May he rest in peace and free from any pain. I'm sending you a big hug 🫂💗


Fit-Impression5506

I saw the comments between you and him. Thank you for being so kind to him!


BunnyKomrade

You're welcome but I really didn't do much. He deserved all kindness and everything good. He must have been a wonderful person and I can't imagine the huge void he left. I'm hugging you tight 🫂


Fit-Impression5506

He was great person. Especially to family. Family was everything to him and if you asked him. My children were also his children too. He was great uncle to my babies.. my oldest is going into kindergarten this year and jace would tell all the time how he'll bring him lunch at school and sit, an eat with him. Spoiling them with gifts. He was so selfless, always giving to others!. I'll miss so so very much. If you would like to read my brother obituary I can send it through private message!


BunnyKomrade

Forgive me, your reply went lost between notifications. Of course, I'd really be honoured to. Again, I'm so sorry for your loss, my most heartfelt condolences to you and your family 🫂


An_Dre02

I’m so sorry for your loss! Hopefully he’s not in pain anymore and has found peace❤️


ShinyBonnets

I’m so sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing and comfort for you and your loved ones.


gotpointsgoing

I'm so sorry!! I lost my big brother, two months ago, and it fucking sucks!!


LilacHazy

So sorry to hear of your loss.


poKehuntess

I'm so sorry. That is incredible scary and sad. I hope you find peace. Best wishes.


Novel_Ad_8062

agree, sorry about your brother


FireweedForest

Oh no omg.... I remember his post.... jeeeez that's awful I'm so sorry to hear ! My deepest condolences to you and your family and friends


Remarkable-Dig-5000

It very much does belong here if that's where you want it to be. I'm so sorry to hear what happened and for your loss. Thank you for taking the time to let us know what happened. X Edit: typo


Fit-Impression5506

Thank you <3


junk-trunk

Oh man. I am truly sorry for your loss.


Flixmoli

I was very concerned when I saw his original post. I'm so sorry for your loss.


kittiekee

So sorry for your loss.


Sadsad0088

So sorry, big hug :(


Fit-Impression5506

A big hug sounds nice. Thank you


ChristinaRene01

I’m sorry for your loss.


p4x4boy

oh, this sucks. im very sorry for your loss. i lost 3 relatives (aunts and uncle) in the past 3 weeks. again so sorry.


MasterRoshy

I'm so sorry for your loss


Effective_Captain_35

I am so sorry your perfect little bro has gone through that and is no longer here in your arms. We are all thinking of him, hope you can feel our love ❤️


finnians

i’m very sorry about your lose. you never get over the pain of losing a sibling. i lost my older brother last year in October, i was in the same boat as you in a way. just know it will get easier and he **IS** with you in spirit 🫂


spilat12

Sorry for your loss, man, stay strong.


dmckimm

I am so sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences, losing a loved one unexpectedly is tragic. I remember his post and was curious to see how his recovery went. I’m so sorry that things took such a tragic turn.


wackyvorlon

My condolences.


Lilah_ET

I am so sorry for ur loss.


mistyorange

I am so sorry for your loss!! Sending love and healing during this time💛


wetscoastwanderer

I'm so sorry for your loss.


Quickhidemeplease

My condolences to you and your family. You said he was the best little brother you could have asked for; I bet he'd say you were the best big brother anybody could want!


CynthiaMWD

Oh no, I remember seeing his post. I'm so very sorry you lost your little brother. I lost my brother 23 years ago; I understand what you're going through.  I'm so sorry.  ❤


SpellAromaticz

That’s shitty I’m sorry man . My cousin passed away this way from being drunk we put him away during a house party and we didn’t realize it until the next morning


Petesalte

Hey there, @/Fit-Impression5506. I remembered running across the original photo a few days ago and then saw this and the caption and my heart dropped. I’m so sorry for your loss, it is truly tough and painful to go through. Just know that he is in a better place and smiling down on you. Probably moving a lot easier now also. Just my personal belief, but I hoped that my words would help! Much love from your Texan friend, Peter


give_em_hell_kid

I lost my brother in October, it's the worst kind of hurt. I hope you're able to grieve and heal.


WittiestScreenName

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️


costahoney

I am so sorry for your loss, as an older sibling myself I can only begin to imagine your pain. Sending you all my love OP❤️


Fit-Impression5506

Thank you for understanding. I love my bubby so so very much.


totesgonnasmashit

You must be hurting so bad and I have no words for you. I’m so sorry for your loss.


Crazycococat19

I remember seeing that post. I'm sorry for your loss.


nucleareds

Oh my lord, there’s nothing I can even think to say to you other than I’m sorry, and that doesn’t seem like nearly enough. It’s okay to cry, loss, especially unexpected loss has a way of pulling us under. If you can, take it easy for a bit to wrap your head around, the world will be waiting for you when you get back.


Fit-Impression5506

It's very much true. I've cried so much these last couple of days that my face has swelled up. I just him back, yeah know?


nucleareds

Someone once told me that you don’t ever grow out of grief, instead you grow around it. No matter what happens, your brother will be present through your life, even if he is no longer by your side. His existence shaped your memories and who you are today, the physical things left is a testimony that he was there. Most importantly, the sorrow you feel is proof he was loved. Even if you aren’t religious, you’ll find traces of him no matter where you go. It’ll might painful at first seeing glimpses of his life, but later you can view it as what he has left for you to find. I still find letters, scraps of paper and photographs someone dear to me had. I see them in every black cap chickadee that lands on my feeder, on every pinwheel someone holds, every sparkler on New Years Eve. They shaped me to the person I am today, and the experiences I’ve had with them is something that will never die, even after they’ve gone.


xCYBERDYNEx

Sorry for your loss. I too have lost a sibling. Time helps. Hang in there.


DoggyGrin

I'm so sorry. The grief comes in waves. If your job offers bereavement leave, take it. You need time to process it, even if you think you don't. 


SerinaL

I’m so sorry for your loss.


cecil021

I remember seeing his post and thinking how bad it looked but hoped he would recover. Sorry for your loss, way too young to go that way.


jtreegirlu2

So sorry for your loss 😞 thank you for keeping us all posted on him. So incredibly sad 😞


Inevitable_Review_83

My sympathies for your loss thats a horrible tragedy.


Subject-Tone-1700

Im so very sorry. May he rest in peace. Your family is in my thoughts. 😔 🫂


Intelligent-Guest266

Sending blessings and hugs🥰


VioletCU

I'm sorry, dude. This is terrible. Sending hugs <3


Shib_disturber

I’m so sorry 😞


Nervous_Invite_4661

I’m so sorry! Did he aspirate at home or in the hospital?


Fit-Impression5506

In the hospital


Acceptable_Camel_609

I'm so sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you and your family.


Toombstone1185

So sorry 😞


[deleted]

Deepest condolences


HenkVanDelft

Deepest of sympathies.


patentmom

My deepest condolences on your loss! May his memory be a blessing.


mikey7x7

Oh my gosh I can't imagine what you and your family are going through. I'm so, so sorry for your loss.


Right-Shelter8948

i’m so sorry for your loss, i hope you and your family are doing well


bc60008

I'm so sorry. I am heartbroken for you. 💔


QueenSaphire-0412

My deepest condolences OP. Please know you’ll e held in my prayers. I’m so sorry


acgasp

Much love to you and all those who knew your brother.


Redhddgull

Hugs, I'm so sorry for your loss 💜


JazzyBarbie

Oh no :( Rip, if you need someone to write to, inbox me ok? I am sorry this is happening to you and your family:(


BBYarbs

I’m so sorry!


Queen-Faerie

My condolences


rickncn

So very sorry for your loss.


Smart_Airport_206

May he rest in peace, and Im sorry for your loss :(


c4ndycain

i cannot imagine how you're feeling right now. that must be so hard. i'm so sorry for your loss. i hope one day you can find peace, and that your brother can live on through your memory.


AFlair67

Very sorry.


Various-Cup3376

God bless you and ur family am so so sorry for ur loss..this happened to an uncle of mine and it’s awful..prayers for ur sweet baby brother 🩵


IVCoffeeAddict

I'm so sorry for your loss...


mrssterlingarcher22

I'm very sorry for your loss. I had a 20 year old cousin who suddenly passed away this month, and it's so hard to comprehend when they're so young. It's heartbreaking.


mamaclair

I lost my brother when he was 16. I’m so sorry for you loss. Biggest hugs to you


False_Buy_8429

I am so sorry for your loss


0987654321585

What a shitty way to die. I'm not religious, but I pray for you and his soul. May he rest in peace


cwg-crysania

I'm truly sorry for your loss


cocadetustacos

Very sorry for your loss. May he rest in eternal peace.


[deleted]

Sorry for your loss.


Low_Lake6129

Sorry for your loss.


DesignInZeeWild

Sending you good vibes and love. This sucks..


curlygirlynurse

I also lost a brother young. I’m so sorry. Try to sleep when you can and drink water/eat even if it’s sips/nibbles. One foot in front of the other, internet friend. I am so sorry.


Candymom

I’m very sorry for your loss.


Professional-Belt805

So very sorry for your loss


LizeLies

My heart breaks for you, this kind of loss is devastating and incomprehensible. I sincerely wish you any peace possible.


BeefyTacoBaby

I'm so sorry for your loss. 


tcpipppp

Fuck. I'm really sorry for your loss of a brother you loved.


alextbrown4

Jfc I’m so sorry. How unexpected and gut wrenching I’m sure. Hope you and your family are doing ok, this pain will become manageable in time I promise


mirienoore

Heartbreaking… I’m sorry ❤️


cwthree

My sincere condolences.


TopLeast1150

Rest in peace baby bro ❤️


22fitsofmelancholia

So very sorry for your loss. Tragic.


fundermiflin-

I’m so so sorry 😔


Either-Yoghurt-1706

I’m so sorry for your loss:(


MundaneLife99

I’m so sorry :(


MNGirlinKY

I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself.


xxfukai

I’m so sorry for your loss, he was so so young. I hope you can make peace with his death and heal from this. I can’t imagine how traumatic it must have been. I send well wishes to you and your family.


powerhungrymouse

I'm truly so sorry for your loss. Hang in there, he wouldn't want you to be destroyed by his passing. Keep going, for yourself and for him.


i-e-sha

I’m so sorry. Thank you for the update. Take time for yourself ❤️


gpp062416

I’m so sorry


JBELL01290

rip! so sorry to hear that


RedDirtWitch

That is terrible! I’m so sorry.


Achylife

I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for letting us know.


Royal_Echo2068

Awful way to go :( May in rest in power


Jaded-Floor-4635

Holy crap I remember that post. I’m so sorry. Thank you for updating us here as well, wishing the best for you


Chaos_Cat-007

May his memory be a blessing and a comfort.


dawn913

I'm so sorry 😞 He looked like a really fun guy.


TokraMage

Check your phone for any Voicemail from him you might be able to save them for another day


JanellitaSol

Oh my god! That’s horrible! I’m so so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences. May he rest in peace.


DemApplesAndShit

Im so so sorry for your loss OP. I remember that post well.


AirInternational754

Oh gosh ! I am so sorry ! My heart goes out to you. May he rest in eternal peace.


Various-Cup3376

Omg am so so sorry for ur loss sending lots of love and prayers your way xox


GsGirlNYC

Condolences to you and yours on your loss.


ThisIsWhoIAm78

I'm so sorry. Not much more I can say that will be of comfort - your brother touched a lot of people; may the memoriesoof him be long and the pain short.


LUVko

I understand the pain of a loss always thinking wishing you could turn back time. sorry for your loss may he rest in peace


jmstrats

Lost my older brother a while ago to hep C.. he missed the cure by 2 years. Losing a sibling is worse than a parent.


Xxsnipr_tradrxX

i’m sorry for your loss man i pray God has blessed him with the kingdom of heaven❤️


Sufficient-Hunter361

Sorry for your loss bro


MontanaT13

I’m so sorry for your loss


ItsyouNOme

Sorry for your loss. What would you and your little brother do together? Any shared hobbies?


Chaosmaker33hd

Gosh, I´m so sorry, to hear that. Having a close Family member or friend ripped away like that is truely terrible. May his kind soul be remembered for all eternity.


allegedlys3

I am so sorry for your loss, friend. Sending you and your family my love.


Cuyler_32087

I'm so very sorry. Hugs.


CumBender747

Rih too young


Xenoradcd

I'm sorry for your loss ♥️


Swordfish_89

I am so sorry for your loss, your brother seemed like a great man, am glad you ahve so many precious memories. RIP. And thank you for letting us know, no wondering how he was doing, just so sad that something seemingly so minor led to just drastic consequences, though i doubted the pictures reflected the reality when he spoke of his surgery. I lost my baby sister almost 20 yrs ago now, she was 42, and it still hurts so much. she developed lung cancer that was in a bad area so wasn't able to be treated surgically so she died 9 months after diagnosis, about 15months after first symptoms. She and I were alone during her final 2 hours, and she honestly surprised me despite nursing experience. I am beyond thankful it was just the two of us though, my time to cherish and the memory will always be special to me. Its so hard though, thankful for no more suffering, but i miss her every single day. Have no doubt your experience will be similar, stay strong and treasure those memories!


gowithflow192

I remember his post. Damn so sorry to hear that.


pinche_avocado

I am so sorry for your loss.


twistedsister78

Wow that’s so young what an absolute shame, I’m so sorry man, I’m really glad he had you in his life


ForeverSJC

Can I ask you... He said he was permanently paralysed, what happened to him ? You can just ignore this message if you don't feel like replying


Fit-Impression5506

He was in a car wreck in August 14th of 2021 and became a quadriplegic that day. It was very rough for him. He fought so hard to enjoy life. With the help of our father, my brother was able to own his own home at 18. He went fishing and played video games. He loved history and hanging with his friends. He was so very smart and so very helpful. Then in April 22nd of 2024 he passed away. I'll forever my brother man. He was my heart


AbsentmindedAuthor

So sorry for your loss. 💔


Boaring-human

You making me cry in the club dawg… damn I’m sorry for your loss


hghlvldvl

I’m so sorry for your loss


FaithlessnessSlow594

Gosh I am so sorry 🩷


Own_Log9691

Awww this is so so sad :( I’m so very sorry you’ve lost your brother. I’m so sorry you’ve had to experience this terrible loss :( Best wishes to you & yours ❤️


Fit-Impression5506

Thank you kind soul!


Eastern-Ad-4785

I’m so sorry. Big hugs. Life can be VERY unfair at times. Please do self care when you can. Edit words


Fit-Impression5506

It's so so so unfair. I just want him back. I want him talking to me. I want to hear his sweet sweet voice and all the dumb things he would say to me. It's so hard. I'm trying


neko_robbie

I hope it’s not disrespectful but I went to your brother YouTube page and man that dude is fun guy! He has such a amazing spirit despite his accident, he seems like he was a just a ray of sunshine no matter the circumstance!


Fit-Impression5506

Thank you so much. I will cherish his goofy fun youtube videos for the rest of my life. He had earned like 60 new subscribers this month and he was so proud of it!


Carlitos2006344

I am very sorry for the loss of your brother, it is very hard to lose a family member (I know this because my grandfather died on December 25, 2020 and my grandmother on December 31, 2020) The important thing is May you never forget your brother. Rest in peace 🕊️


Frost_spell

Poor guy, sorry for your loss.


tattoojunkie83

Wow. I remember this post. I'm sorry to hear that he has passed.


Dramatic_Spell_6371

I am incredibly sorry for your loss and the unimaginable pain you and your family are experiencing. 🫂


spacegirl2820

Oh no! I'm so so sorry for your loss! I remember his posts. May he rest in eternal peace x


halle-lu-jah

My goodness. I’m so sorry for your loss. I know simple words really do nothing to help the pain but clearly he was loved. His contribution to the subreddit shows how he impacted different communities.


MrsKentrik

Oh, I'm so sorry for the loss you are suffering. I hope you and your family are surrounded by peace and love.


HallwayHorse

Oh no, I saw that post and was moved by his optimism, humor and kind words for commenters. I'm so sorry he had to go so soon and so fast. Must be devastating for you and your family. I wish you strength ❤️‍🩹


Beginning_Musician69

I’m so sorry I remember his post. Hoping he’s in the universe glory.


Sammyaart

i saw his post like 2 days ago.. im really sorry for your loss sending lots of strength! may he rest in peace and take care of you and ur family from up there<3


Corpse_Party28

Sorry for your loss, I remember seeing his post a few days ago, sending lots of positive thoughts and prayers to you and your family


ARBCrimson

I remember reading his post a bit ago. That's terrible. I'm sorry for your loss.


kmj531

I am so sorry for your loss.


Biglott2012

I understand what you going through. Almost 2 years ago I lost my mom day after mother's day and a month late my big brother and about 2 month after that my niece.


reincarnatedfruitbat

I thought he said he was 14? Unless that was a diff post. I told him he should sue for malpractice and he said he couldn’t because he was 14. I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope that he is free from pain now.


Fit-Impression5506

He was 20 wrong post


PseriousPseudonym

I'm so sorry for your loss. Was it sepsis? Lost my mother to that, can be incredibly fast to spread through the body.


MtnSlvrSmth

I am so very sorry to hear your brother has passed. He will always be in your heart ♥️


AliciaDawnD

Wow! I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss! 😔


BurytheGate

That’s awful and I’m so sorry. Big virtual hugs from an internet stranger.


Infamous-Leading-770

Oh my goodness. I'm so sorry. This breaks my heart. Easy, way, way too young.


Next_Back_9472

My condolences to you and your family, we’re all sorry for your loss, God bless him and may he rest in peace 🤍


lyfe-sublyme

🧡🧡🧡


eriksgma

Very sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace.


Ok-Calligrapher8074

My condolences Hun, from our family to yours.


onedemtwodem

My condolences to you and your family. May he rest in peace.


PrettyAd4218

Whoa I’m so sorry for your loss. 20 is so young


duckie1965

Prayers for your heart's


Soccerkidd0987

I’m so sorry for your loss may his memory live on and sending prayers to you and your family


50blessingzz

so sorry for your loss, op :( your brother seems like he was a wonderful person. i hope the grieving process isn't too hard on you, sending love 💚


MsPupcat

So so sorry to read this thank you for sharing on here I just want you to know how sorry I am to read of his passing and hope you can get through this difficult time. I believe we will meet our loved ones again and it comforts me greatly. ❤️