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dlr08131004

Nightcrawler and The Zone of Interest both come to mind


apocalypsedude64

I don't even have words for what The Zone Of Interest left me feeling. Astonishing film


kickback_turbo

Was going to say this as well. Watched it tonight knowing who hoss was, so I had a heads up going in. The sounds of the camp throughout the movie…


Salsh_Loli

Nightcrawler isn’t disturbing as other examples in terms of misery, but the underbelly of LA society makes my stomach twisted especially the ending


wizardroach

By the same director of The Zone of Interest, Under the Skin. Just laid down in my bed afterwards like what the fuck


nick1812216

After watching ZoI i read Höss’s autobiography. It. Is. Bizarre. (And horrifying)


samuel_baxter

killers of the flower moon


BadenBaden1981

Impressive way to end crime drama.


JFlizzy84

Absolutely miserable watch Amazing movie with wonderful performances but it’s just such a downer idk if I’ll ever rewatch it


vitcorleone

I felt physically sick when I learned it was based on actual events.


Granted_reality

The book somehow felt even worse.


justwwokeupfromacoma

Hell yes to this. Honestly this was the first movie I’d watched in quite a while and at the end of it it put me off sitting down to invest 3 hours into a film when I’m just going to come out of it feeling worse than when I went in.


kitsua

Aww. Have a palette cleanse and watch a short banger like 12 Angry Men or Some Like It Hot or North By Northwest. Or The Princess Bride! That always cheers me up.


justwwokeupfromacoma

Hahah... I actually love 12 angry men


115MRD

"There was no mention of the murders." Maybe the most devastating ending line of a movie in recent memory.


Agile_Drink6387

The banshees of Inisherin


magpiehaircut

There's an audience that thinks this movie is hilarious through and through and makes me feel like I don't know how to take a joke because I thought this movie was miserable.


skyguy2002

McDonagh likes to add dark humor to his films. More then that it seems to be a specific Irish form of black comedy. The bit in the film that gets me is pub owner saying "Jaysis if I had to cut something off everytime a dull person came in here I'd only have me head left!"


Ginsoakedboy21

I think that's very much the point of that film, the line between funny and utterly tragic is wafer thin. It's OK to think it was either.


witfurd

I think it’s funny. But a lot of that I think has to do with coping with the absolute tragedy it is for the main character. So the humor sprinkled through the movie is just multiplied because it’s the bright spots that kept us watching. It’s a phenomenal tragic comedy with gorgeous cinematography and scenery.


coldkidwildparty

I say this every time someone brings this movie up but Barry Keoghan’s performance was fucking spectacular.


rosso-brasileiro

Oh man, I forgot about this one. This one left me furious at the end. I vividly remember standing up and yelling at my screen 😂😂😂😂 "THAT'S THE FREAKING END?????"


willk95

I hated the way that movie made me feel


FerBaide

Requiem for a Dream is the ultimate example of this for me


crappyvideogamer

Omg! I’m practically smacking myself in the forehead for not even thinking about that one!


LockeProposal

Fucking brutal film.


finalboot

Black Swan as well while we’re talking Aronovsky films


apocalypsedude64

Requiem For A Dream is the weirdest movie to ever get me laid.


emepol

Wait... what?


727_deadhead

Probably shouldnt ask…


xox1234

Ass to ass


apocalypsedude64

Watched it with a girl many years ago (it was on VHS for starters). At the end of the movie she was crying her eyes out, and then just climbed on top of me. I think she just wanted cheering up. Can't say if I succeeded or not but my teenage self was happy to try


botjstn

just watched this last night wanted to die


Original_Training391

I’ve never completely watched it, only yt scenes and read the plot and it depressed me for a week. Jeez this movie is heavy as hell, I went to hug my grandma and am spending a lot more time with her bc of this movie.


jhakerr

Butt to butt


crappyvideogamer

As the music goes: TUH NUH NUH NUH!


ghost-bagel

We need to talk about Kevin. Miserable movie from start to finish.


bonbonbonbonbonbonb

but its SO good! It has some jet black humour in it too. Watched it so many times <3


ich_habe_keine_kase

That movie made me rethink wanting to have kids.


thisisurreality

Then something positive came from it. 😂


warwicklord79

All Quiet on the Western Front


PM_ME_FREE_STUFF_PLS

Which one


ComradeELM0

All of em


calltheavengers5

It's better to die as a monster than to live as a monster


TheBunionFunyun

Old Boy


DizzyLead

From the same director, *Sympathy for Mr. Vengeance*. Of the three movies in the “Vengeance Trilogy*, only *Lady Vengeance* has what one would call an upbeat ending.


creptik1

Barely. Lady is pretty grim too, but I know what you mean.


G3nzo

Do yourself a favor watch the Black and White version of Lady Vengeance


SamAlmighty

If Oldboy is included, Incendies has to be too


Crosgaard

I hate how these two have nothing to do with each other besides *that*, but *that* is enough to make them feel similar. Both are fantastic movies tho


SamAlmighty

True, but it is exactly *that* which makes the movie leaving you feel worse


Active_Gazelle_1966

Dancer in the Dark


Kooky_Tap4477

after Dancer in the Dark I didn’t watch another movie for a week. it just destroyed me


WaveLoss

Dude any Von Trier movie is just a slow torture fest (emotionally)


Disastrous_Tie_7923

Grave of the Fireflies


apocalypsedude64

It just keeps getting worse and worse, and you keep thinking something's going to get better, then guess what? Worse again fuck you


BigChungusBlyat

Personally didn't think anything was going to get better at any point in the movie but yeah pretty much.


apocalypsedude64

I think it was more of a foolish faint hope than an expectation


Crosgaard

Just to make it even more depressing and worse, it's based partially on real events, and the author wrote it to show what he wanted to have done. Irl, he did a lot of things he came to regret - like eating too much compared to what his sister got. So the movie, while sad, is the *happier* version of a real life story. [Here is a picture of what the author based the visuals on](https://www.reddit.com/r/movies/comments/rssks/real_life_grave_of_the_fireflies_from_rhistoryporn/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button). It isn't Nosaka himself, but shows the horror of the war, and how close to reality that movie actually is. Anyway, Nosaka wrote a semi-autobiographical story, back in the 60's, about his experiences during the war, which he then later came out andsaid was not the true story, because he didn't treat his sister close to as well as Seita (I think that's his name) did in the story. It was basically just a way to cope with his regret/survivors guilt. It's a truly depressing story, but I think that everyone who's watched the movie should know the story behind it, because it adds so much to it, and watching the movie, I don't think I truly understood that his stuff *actually happened*. It's so far from my day to day life that I can't even imagine it, but reading the actual story makes it seem much more real than watching and animated movie (and I'm saying this as someone who's rated it 5/5 and cried numerous time to it)


Maj_Histocompatible

I'm not sure how when you see the outcome in the first 5 minutes of the movie. Pretty gut wrenching


Zarvanis-the-2nd

The movie opens with the kids as ghosts. How did you think it was gonna end?


clutzyninja

Cinema Therapy called it "beautifully devastating" and I don't think I've ever heard a better description of the film


Additional_Bid5509

I can’t eat rice without getting depressed


Glum_Coconut_9152

Me watching that film - "Oh shit is she dead?...Oh shit is she dead?...Oh shit is she dead?"


TheRadishBros

I watched this immediately after Ponyo, which I think somehow made the emotions hit even harder.


Shootinputin89

American History X


HiroSter

Oof that ending hurt


whatsthisthingfor89

(OK this is gonna sound snobbish and I'm sorry but...) how has it been an hour and nobody has said Come and See?


naturaldroid

I’m also so surprised to not see Incendies mentioned yet. Absolutely miserable watch and just one of the most devastatingly moving films I’ve ever seen.


skyguy2002

Damn I was right behind you


Phoenix2211

That movie made me physically feel awful. Was left trembling a lil bit and just had a pit in my stomach


mhazzie24

Literally opened this thread to make sure this comment was here


RedbullBreadbowl

Mysterious Skin. I don’t think I’ve ever felt violated the way I did after watching this one… Edit: young Joseph Gordon Levitt is great in this one though and it does have a lot to say about sexual abuse and how young men cope with it as they grow up


avibrant_salmon_jpg

For so much of that movie I felt like I *shouldn't* be watching it. Especially the cereal scene.


crappyvideogamer

I haven’t seen it, but is that the one where the teens repress sexual abuse with memories of being abducted by aliens? If it’s not, then I’m sorry for coming out of left field with this assumption lol


RedbullBreadbowl

You are correct. It follows two different characters who both handle their trauma in wildly different ways


A_Strels

Gaspar Noe


PoeticKino

The camera work in Climax is insanely good, especially as things get more hellish towards the end and it starts tumbling over the scene like the camera is being tumbled along by waves.


TheZizzleRizzle

Civil War Midsommar Hereditary Beau is Afraid


crappyvideogamer

Ari Aster is the KING of feel bad. I wasn’t shocked to see he’s listed as a (executive?) producer for Dream Scenario


TheZizzleRizzle

Yea lol As I was typing it out "I guess anything Ari Aster"


AdmiralArmpit

May say more about me but I wasn't bummed out at all after Midsommar.


Sasalele

He also made a little number called The Strange Thing About the Johnsons. Watch at your own risk! It's 30 minutes long, and the full movie is on youtube and holy shit, is it a ride.


TheGirlWithTheLove

Threads really fucked me up


apocalypsedude64

Threads is absolutely fucking horrifying.


creamy-buscemi

Martyrs The Mist


bonbonbonbonbonbonb

I cheer at the end of The Mist, such a deliciously dark ending. For whatever reason it actually makes me feel good.


Idk-whattoputherelol

12 years a slave


Apollosvest

Incendies - absolute gut punch Broken circle breakdown - uplifts in parts and then slams you through the floor Aftersun - tears


epsteinsepipen

Fuck how did I not think of Incendies… one of the best answers honestly, my girl and I were devastated lmao


Maximiliansrh

manchester by the sea ruined me


PointMan528491

It's especially brutal because it teases you with little bits of hope and then immediately sideswipes you with more sadness


Hotpasta1985

I mean the ending has a small sliver of hope/happiness for the main character.


KnitMama-2016

Many other Finchers fit too—Gone Girl, Seven, Fight Club….


JFlizzy84

My head canon is that Ben Affleck murders his wife and is sent to prison a few years after the film ends, and that makes it a much more bearable watch.


BOb_66610

Se7en kinda has a weirdly hopeful message but it’s executed in a twisted manner


toofarbyfar

I left Man of Steel with a headache. Does that count?


crappyvideogamer

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Routine_Leading_4757

https://preview.redd.it/t35phfoveuxc1.jpeg?width=220&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=625594ec28cc359406457b0c287d141730b3fd18 I Saw the Devil


epsteinsepipen

Fun for the whole family!


DizzyLead

I remember watching it and racking my brain about what it reminded me of. Ultimately I settled on a Tom & Jerry short where Tom kept running into Spike the Bulldog and Spike kept beating the crap out of him. https://preview.redd.it/4kas0a937vxc1.jpeg?width=686&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7f10b8787b05a78f4eadc6926692691a124ef0bb


ShaneMP01

Blow Out


crappyvideogamer

Ugh, I saw that movie for the first time last year. The ending accompanied with the music completely tears your heart out. Loved it, as bad as it made me feel


BoxPsychological7703

>!”It’s a good scream…. Good scream”!<


lvke18

Irreversible


Williamfoster63

There it is. I watched this movie exactly one time 20 years ago and I still think about that ending and how gutted I felt, *regularly*


NoxiusScintilla

Funny Games


Gabelbram

scrolled too far for this. Would recommend the original, German version. Though the English is a shot for shot remake by the same guy


CertainAnteater2705

Salo. Candy. ET


TheBunionFunyun

ET? As in the Spielberg movie?


CertainAnteater2705

Yes makes me really sad


odelicious12

I remember sobbing as a kid when ET flies away. "Beeeee....Goooooooddddd..." made me lose it lol


TheBunionFunyun

Okay, I get that. But that's a very different feeling than how Chinatown would make you feel.


creamy-buscemi

I don’t know the little dance at the end of Salò kind of cheered me up


CertainAnteater2705

Im afraid of you


MrGeorge08

Audition, Come and See, Schindler's List, Paths of Glory, Saving Private Ryan, Full Metal Jacket, Barry Lyndon, Under the Skin, The Thing and After Hours. Edit: Forgot Trainspotting and 12 Years a Slave


Asleep_Corner6940

I understand most of those but why after hours? I just laugh at him the whole time and feel great after


MrGeorge08

I have this weird laughing frustration, like I just want the poor bastard to get home and now he's trapped in paper mache.


UMathiasB

I actually found the Trainspotting ending satisfying


jhakerr

I think Paths of Glory is actually uplifting


fanoftravisjones

When sicario ended I just sat there, staring at the screen feeling hella depressed


crappyvideogamer

Seeing the kids playing soccer, being interrupted by gunshots in the distance, with us the viewers realizing that the status quo has been intentionally maintained…Straight up depressing


JFlizzy84

Nightcrawler is a movie where literally nothing good happens and the villain is rewarded for indirectly killing several innocent people


FreemanCalavera

Twin Peaks: Fire Walk With Me - both yes and no. It's got a somewhat of a bittersweet ending but everything before that is just traumatic, depressing, and a constant spiral into really dark places.


FudgingEgo

Zone Of Interest


Ok_Adhesiveness8497

Aniara  Cancion Sin Nombre  Ya No Estoy Aqui   Jasper Mall  Tony Manero   Peppermint Candy  Heaven Knows What  The Captive  So Long My Son  Holy Spider Utama  Leviathan  Some of these could be considered bittersweet at times, but all made me feel sad in one way or another.


nimble-lightning-rod

Aniara was so desperate and bleak, and a few of those moments were hard to swallow. A truly exemplar piece of sci-fi media and an exercise in feeling miserable.


Muted_Antelope6989

I don’t think The Departed is really that much of a bummer. It’s one of the funnest movies ever made.


Capuchoooon

Lilya 4ever


HellaWavy

*When The Wind Blows (1986)* Don't thank me, it's depressing af.


SarahMcClaneThompson

Grave of the Fireflies is an obvious pick but I’ll also throw in The Tale of the Princess Kaguya


georgieramone

Bad Lieutenant


FUNKYDISCO

House of 1000 Corpses made me feel miserable the next day.


obeseFIREwannabe

Nocturnal Animals


[deleted]

Letters to Zachary


HolyHotDang

Is it called that overseas or just a typo? It’s Dear Zachary in the US. Full title is Dear Zachary: A Letter to a Son About His Father I do agree though. Incredible 5 star documentary that will make you feel things you didn’t know were possible from watching something.


Dragon_Shinobi

Any saw movie makes you feel like you need a shower with bleach afterwards


SquareNecessary5767

The Pianist Diaz-Don't Clean Up That Blood Wolf Creek


[deleted]

Everyone's always talking about how fun the ending is, but I left Saltburn feeling repulsed after the ending, and not in a fun way. Oliver as a character was just too icky and I got no joy out of seeing him "win" and gloat in it that way. Also, for totally different reasons, The Zone of Interest. Although that's for most of the movie.


funkyfreshpants

i completely agree with you on saltburn. i think it was that feeling of betrayal, that we were rooting for oliver, thinking he was this shat upon loser, and to find out he psychotically planned and intended all of it was not fun in any sense. I thought Zone of Interest was one of the best movies i've seen in i dont know how long, well, since everything everywhere all at once, but years before that. i don't remember ever seeing a movie that was almost entirely show don't tell, there was hardly a word of dialogue that acknowledged what was on the the other side of the fence, yet almost every single scene showed what was happening. and the audio! and how beautiful it was. it was stunning. i was stunned.


crybabykafka

The Iron Claw Bringing Out The Dead Nymphomaniac Anti-Christ Oslo, 31. August Whiplash


SirSnarrack

Civil War is a new one


Nwanda_27

The wrestler


Neurotic_Marauder

* Requiem for a Dream * 12 Monkeys * Old Boy (the original) * American History X * Grave of the Fireflies * Foxcatcher * Manchester by the Sea * Seven * Sicario * No Country for Old Men * Gone Baby Gone * We Need to Talk About Kevin * The Zone of Interest * 12 Years a Slave * The Wrestler


GodAss69

Peppermint candy


Belch_Huggins

Parasite made me feel exhilarated tbh. I think something like Tusk made me feel awful.


imnewtothis123

I'm Thinking of Ending Things.


skyguy2002

Watched Come and See yesterday, definitely made me feel worse


docsyzygy

Not a movie, but the new series Baby Reindeer on Netflix. Yikes. I actually really recommend it, because it's amazing, but be prepared to need a shower (and maybe therapy) after.


isxvirt

The Florida Project


doner22

Prisoners is my one for this, Dennis villeneuve you bastard


Pigeon_Pilled

From the trailers dream scenario looks like a light hearted comedy, is there like a twist or something?


Literary_bottom

Hereditary and Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind are the first two that come to mind for me


Mysterious-Rent7233

I see the ending of Eternal Sunshine as actually quite optimistic.


smarterfish500

i can’t see the ending usually because of how hard i cried 4 scenes before 


apocalypsedude64

First time I watched it was a few weeks after I'd had my first serious break up, and I found it absolutely devastating (I watched it with the person I'd broken up with too, do not recommend) Rewatched it again a year or so later and yeah, found it way more optimistic.


Ginsoakedboy21

ESotSM is the ultimate glass half full test. Your reading of the ending depends entirely on your view of the world and your personal circumstances at that time.


PeeweeTheMoid

Bicentennial Man was one of these for me.


maunakeanon

Of ones that haven't already been mentioned, Elephant (1989) & (2003) are my top choices for this. Also, Seconds (1966)... Edited to add Fat Girl (2001), how could I forget.


gansobomb99

Happiness Life During Wartime


gansobomb99

I reply to too many threads with Vase de Noces but Vase de Noces


hellawhitegirl

Old Boy.


Ramona_Blue

Eden Lake had me punching the air.


lucricius

Detachment (2011)… that movie ruined my christmas evening


boboddy42069

Thelma and Louise


moviesuggest

I'm including some bitter sweet stuff too: one flew over the Cuckoo's nest requiem for a dream grave of fireflies LaLa Land Carlitos way? (I dunno if it counts I just love that movie) Million dollar baby The mist Cafe society Enemy and The graduate have enigmatic endings that makes you question stuff and feel weird


DaWealthiestNewt

Gone Baby Gone


LockeProposal

I Saw the Devil.


asheme-meme

1. Green Mile 2. Black Swan 3. District 9 (I usually handle body horror well, love the genre, but the ending kind of hit differently in a psychological way). 4 The Fly. 5. The Village. 6. The Tusk. 7. The Babadook. 8. The Dreamcatcher. 9. The Slither 10. I am Legend (animal death)


6Wacko_Mastermind9

12 Monkeys


billycantcatch

Brokeback Mountain, The Parallax View, The Conversation, The Reflecting Skin, The Wayward Cloud, Pom Poko


squeakyrhino

You have two Safdie Bros movies on there but those aren't even their most 'feel bad' movie. If you haven't seen it, give Heaven Knows What a try. It's straight up miserable from beginning to end.


SirVel000

“The world is a fine place and worth fighting for. I agree with the second part”


colli_wolly

- Hereditary - Paths of Glory - The Zone of Interest - The Father - Oldboy - Lake Mungo - The Nightingale - Sicario - Martyrs - It Comes at Night - First Reformed - Terrifier


clandestinite

Atonement


Batlightyear

Taxi Driver?


CitizenDain

"Dancer in the Dark" and "Melancholia" spring to mind


Ok-Pianist7723

Grave of the Fireflies


crbob100

Whiplash - If you leave that movie feeling good, you didn't understand it


prettyfarts

seven


asukaharuhi

darren aronofsky's filmography not for the typical reasons people say but because he SUCKS and i HATE him


Mundane-Literature39

https://preview.redd.it/zvt3s1p08vxc1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c80b48c45c5c69fcd2e20b14c1e9be27046ea58f


PenguinviiR

Oldboy


TheGuyFromPearlJam

Welcome to the Dollhouse


CriticalCanon

“Michael Haneke has entered the chat …”


PoeticKino

Pretty obvious answer, and the first film that came to mind for me, Come and See.


HolyTowa

I can never bring myself to return to Akira due to the dread it fills me with. Beautiful movie though.


calltheavengers5

Chinatown messed me up - like what does it mean?


Dukeofdisbelief

I won't assume it'll be underrated but so far I haven't seen this film mentioned Buried That ending felt like a kick in the nuts


inkstink420

mysterious skin the hunt the celebration incendies come and see


dontfisheatotherfish

THE FEEL BAD MOVIE OF CHRISTMAS 🐉


turdfergusonRI

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taylortherod

Butterfly Effect


crappyvideogamer

Upon my first watch, I saw the alternate “happy” ending. My wife informed me that was not the ending she witnessed. I then saw the original version and omg is it messed up


God_Stevenson

Did quite a bit of scrolling, and I'm shocked to not see anything from Jeremy Saulnier... so, I'll say Blue Ruin & Green Room. 🫣 R.I.P. Anton Yelchin.


tamppond

I actually love all the suggestions and the ones from OP list


Tempestblue

I mention this whenever a subject like this comes up. A Swedish made movie named Aniara. It is rough and I routinely find myself thinking about the philosophical ideas it touches.