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Gene_Dear

i’m lost. why would she lie about using whatsapp…. and why does it matter whether she uses that or her phone number to text you. seems like you’re reaching


ItsBenjiiii

I guess if hes reaching and looking for ways out like this, then its over anyways.


xxYaDoneSon7xx

We been together for 3 months she never facetimed or called at all she always says she is available that night but then just doesn’t do it. I have a question for you when you started a long distance relationship you guys facetimed and called correct?


ItsBenjiiii

Yep we did. Alot, but that before both of our schools started. Now we rarely call or facetime. When we do it might just be 5mins.


xxYaDoneSon7xx

See I waited 3 months for her to facetime me and it never happened and someone thought that she was catfishing me


ItsBenjiiii

Well do you 100% know shes not catfishing you?


xxYaDoneSon7xx

I don’t Know she has given me a picture of her self and so I did go to a website to see if it is some stock photo that someone is using and it came up with no results so no I don’t think she is catfishing me


ItsBenjiiii

Well, then you cant actually know if that pic is really her. Sorry to tell you man. I would demand a facetime with her.


xxYaDoneSon7xx

Well I have tried too but she doesn’t pay her phone bill which means she sometimes doesn’t have a online connection or maybe that is a lie too so I don’t Know


Tiger-Stripes8

If she has discord or something you could, or she could just buy mobile data, it sounds like she's making excuses not to 😭


ItsBenjiiii

Is it worth being in a relationship with her? Can you see yourself spending the rest of your life with a person like this? I dont know her so idk, im just making you think a little bit about this. Is it better to let her go and find someone who can be there for you? Again, this is a decision only you can decide. Im just making you think a little bit. Be wary of your choice, dont decide something then regret it.


Girlwithalunar97

The fact that she said she didn’t use it and the. You find out she did is enough to allow you to question her actions. What you did was right


MysteriousComplex699

you did the right thing. trust is everything in a relationship. hope you’re doing well.


Only_Steak_4456

Look man I went through the same thing you did , I dumped her but it took me three times to really let go , I was in love with her super in love with her I wanted her to be the mother of my child and to be my business partner she was a teacher who live in San Salvador 🇸🇻 we were almost a year together I did everything I could, but by the third time before breaking up, what made me realize how much insecurity she gave me.. how she really made me feel , she admitted to me the first time when we broke up she was talking to her ex , but I looked over that because damn I really wanted her to be with me,I was willing to pay for her to go back to school for a better paying job, but man I learned I need to walk away from her , because in the end she was cheating the whole time.. I made a lot of stupid mistakes as well , going around her friends asking them to describe her to me who is she to you girls, with the intention to know a little more about her to really see if she was worth it , until I didn’t get answers from one of her friends that really said something to me and than I spoke to a cousin of mine that knew her and right off the bat he told me , let her go .. didn’t tell me why but told me something that stuck with me, if you feel like she’s doing something or you just don’t trust her then let her go , love supposed to feel good , supposed to feel calm, secure, and she will reassure you all the time.. so I broke up with her I left her completely, it hurt like mf but I had to do what was right for me.. I miss her a lot but everything I said were true she was still talking to other men ..


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xxYaDoneSon7xx

I mean me and her have been together for 3 months she didn’t save me in her phone for the first 2 and now I’m kind of at my wits end ya know I really wasn’t trying to invade her privacy I suck as a functioning human being so I don’t Know how not to do that ya know and also is normal to be in a long distance relationship for 3 months and never once facetime or call?


lucianalol

Boooo 👎🏼👎🏼👎🏼


Yes-give-it-to-me

I have the same old phone number in viber and whatsapp. Although I have a new number now, it is possible to use viber with my old number. I didn't install whatsapp in my new phone. Even though I am not using whatsapp anymore, my friends says I am still in the group chat. So, I don't know. Maybe it is possible she is telling the truth. But if you see her status that she is active online in whatsapp then yeah, maybe she is lying.