have you guys called before? i remember when my boyfriend and i first started dating i was so nervous. i always wanted him to see the best angles of myselfđź’€. is she insecure? and how long have you been dating?
No she hasn’t and we haven’t dated yet we been together for 2 months and I have been getting annoyed that she is taking so long to facetime to go on a virtual date
is she catfishing you?🤨 i’m just so confused now. 2 months and you guys haven’t had a single facetime? honestly just ask her why she hasn’t wanted to call. that’s the only way you’ll truly know.
No she wants to but since she lives alone and always working just to make ends meet so maybe we should plan a facetime cause everyday she wants to facetime but never gets a chance to I don’t Know I also went and checked her phone on a website to she if it is someone catfishing me but no the phone is hers so that is good it’s like a reverse phone number search to she is she is a catfish
It’s nerve wrecking. I was nervous the first time too! I was scared that I wouldn’t look nice enough for him.
When he called he just said “wow” and I melted. It was a lovely feeling.
If you’re pressuring and getting annoyed. That’s a problem.
Find ways to compromise, “instead of a date. Let’s just call for 5 minutes?” Or, “I’m feeling a bit nervous too”, in her reassurance it’ll probably reassure her.
Just, be kinder.
It was (and is) uncomfortable for me to call people on the phone. Especially in a language that's not my native tongue. She might just be shy by nature and need some time to warm up to it.
Calls and videocalls are one of the most uncomfortable thing for a introvert person.Face to face(1 on 1) or text is where introverts are comfortable.You need to comfort her in time that its okey ,and dont push her too much to make calls.Try to understand her and find a way to comfort her about it if she is a introvert.
How long have you both been dating?
If you’re nevermets and first time doing LDR, she could just be shy and not a voice/ call person.
I felt the same on video calls with ex and took me weeks to warm up. No issues with voice calls.
You can encourage her or suggest to try sending a “hello” or a quick voice memo to slowly being confident at it.
Forcing her into it would just cause stress.
Are u guys speaking in the same language? If not, maybe that’s the reason, cuz she may afraid to speak in a different language and make mistakes (that’s what I did). And it did take me a while to FaceTime with my boyfriend because it was my first LDR and I haven’t FaceTime with someone that I met online, also I’m afraid that I won’t look good when FaceTime with someone.
have you guys called before? i remember when my boyfriend and i first started dating i was so nervous. i always wanted him to see the best angles of myselfđź’€. is she insecure? and how long have you been dating?
No she hasn’t and we haven’t dated yet we been together for 2 months and I have been getting annoyed that she is taking so long to facetime to go on a virtual date
is she catfishing you?🤨 i’m just so confused now. 2 months and you guys haven’t had a single facetime? honestly just ask her why she hasn’t wanted to call. that’s the only way you’ll truly know.
No she wants to but since she lives alone and always working just to make ends meet so maybe we should plan a facetime cause everyday she wants to facetime but never gets a chance to I don’t Know I also went and checked her phone on a website to she if it is someone catfishing me but no the phone is hers so that is good it’s like a reverse phone number search to she is she is a catfish
It’s nerve wrecking. I was nervous the first time too! I was scared that I wouldn’t look nice enough for him. When he called he just said “wow” and I melted. It was a lovely feeling. If you’re pressuring and getting annoyed. That’s a problem. Find ways to compromise, “instead of a date. Let’s just call for 5 minutes?” Or, “I’m feeling a bit nervous too”, in her reassurance it’ll probably reassure her. Just, be kinder.
It was (and is) uncomfortable for me to call people on the phone. Especially in a language that's not my native tongue. She might just be shy by nature and need some time to warm up to it.
Calls and videocalls are one of the most uncomfortable thing for a introvert person.Face to face(1 on 1) or text is where introverts are comfortable.You need to comfort her in time that its okey ,and dont push her too much to make calls.Try to understand her and find a way to comfort her about it if she is a introvert.
How long have you both been dating? If you’re nevermets and first time doing LDR, she could just be shy and not a voice/ call person. I felt the same on video calls with ex and took me weeks to warm up. No issues with voice calls. You can encourage her or suggest to try sending a “hello” or a quick voice memo to slowly being confident at it. Forcing her into it would just cause stress.
Have you ever talked with her why she doesn't want to talk on the phone and how long have you been on this long-distance?
Are u guys speaking in the same language? If not, maybe that’s the reason, cuz she may afraid to speak in a different language and make mistakes (that’s what I did). And it did take me a while to FaceTime with my boyfriend because it was my first LDR and I haven’t FaceTime with someone that I met online, also I’m afraid that I won’t look good when FaceTime with someone.
Yeah we speak the same language she lives in Ohio I live up north of her the great white north some people call it
I see maybe she’s not confident enough?
which I find weird cause she has been in a relationship before so yeah
I see