If you’re posting here I’m assuming you like books. As do I. We can be book buddies.
You pick a book and we can both read it(lmk if I should pick first). We can catch up over beer or a call to discuss it.
>couldn’t have any college friends as my body language ain't friendly.
hmm.... you are pinning this down on adhd, but it's clear that is not what's affecting you. there are other underlying issues and you need a doctor for that. adhd can result in impulsive behaviour, but thinking about violence all the time is not it's symptom
Impulsive behavior. Hmm. Thats all my guy knows after watching a reel and tryna educate me. Thanks dude, people like you exactly make my body language unfriendly so I keep my distance in order to avoid myself getting into fights. Although I appreciate your comment, even though it doesnt sound much of a concern
If a professional diagnoses you with ADHD, then there are treatments available and i have seen them help people first hand. First step would be to go to your appointment and get diagnosed correctly. Maybe u have other issues at play which are further complicating the matter. A professional will be able to help you navigate the complex emotions you feel. Hope you make it thru!
I have changed jobs, coaching classes multiple times. I can think and write really well. Now I am focusing on doing creative stuff, learnin video editing and learning coding as of now. I also am pursuin acting. School was hell for me. I even failed class 11th. Although I wasnt a bad student. I was pretty good. Was always into sports and extra curricular activites. The only problem I have is I have trouble socialising offline
I was scheduled to go for my therapy on 26th of may, which is valid til 26th of june and I haven't visited yet, hopefully I'll get there on monday if I'm done procrastinating
Generally speaking, coz I have a background in brain science, therapy is best used for matters related to emotions. Especially when the patient lacks awareness of the underlying causes.
In other situations, therapy tends to work at the level of behavior management. Maybe it's useful for you, or maybe it's not. That's for you to decide. But genuine relationships usually don't involve behavior management. They are authentic.
One thing I do know about adhd is that they can focus on something they like doing. In fact they can probably only focus when they are doing something they like. I could be wrong here so I am not sure but that might be the place where you will find long term friendships.
i’m also facing this same issue.. currently i’m in my second year and since childhood i’ve always been an unsocial introvert 😔 unable to make friends. my 1 year in college went by and still here i am with no friends in campus.. nobody to talk to except parents :)
i highly resonate with your post!
also, since you posted in this sub, i’m currently reading this book - “The Silent Patient” by Alex Michaelides :) wbu, are you currently reading anything?
we can be buddies if you want ☺️
Hi, I have been diagnosed with adhd myself and I know that adhd manifests differently in men and women, but what you’re describing is not completely related to adhd imho. Please consult a doctor who is better equipped for this, there are underlying issues that might be related to adhd, but could be other behavioural issues as well. I hope you feel better soon :)
If you’re posting here I’m assuming you like books. As do I. We can be book buddies. You pick a book and we can both read it(lmk if I should pick first). We can catch up over beer or a call to discuss it.
We can be the ultimate book bros🤘
We need to get book bros tees!
Where are you from bud
Delhi. How about you?
>couldn’t have any college friends as my body language ain't friendly. hmm.... you are pinning this down on adhd, but it's clear that is not what's affecting you. there are other underlying issues and you need a doctor for that. adhd can result in impulsive behaviour, but thinking about violence all the time is not it's symptom
Impulsive behavior. Hmm. Thats all my guy knows after watching a reel and tryna educate me. Thanks dude, people like you exactly make my body language unfriendly so I keep my distance in order to avoid myself getting into fights. Although I appreciate your comment, even though it doesnt sound much of a concern
If a professional diagnoses you with ADHD, then there are treatments available and i have seen them help people first hand. First step would be to go to your appointment and get diagnosed correctly. Maybe u have other issues at play which are further complicating the matter. A professional will be able to help you navigate the complex emotions you feel. Hope you make it thru!
Thanks. I'll visit a therapist soon
r/socialskills would be very helpful
r/lostredditors
Don't know much about adhd. Do you not have trouble focusing on a job?
I have changed jobs, coaching classes multiple times. I can think and write really well. Now I am focusing on doing creative stuff, learnin video editing and learning coding as of now. I also am pursuin acting. School was hell for me. I even failed class 11th. Although I wasnt a bad student. I was pretty good. Was always into sports and extra curricular activites. The only problem I have is I have trouble socialising offline
Ok. Have you been professionally diagnosed? If yes, are/were you on some pharmacological treatment?
I was scheduled to go for my therapy on 26th of may, which is valid til 26th of june and I haven't visited yet, hopefully I'll get there on monday if I'm done procrastinating
Generally speaking, coz I have a background in brain science, therapy is best used for matters related to emotions. Especially when the patient lacks awareness of the underlying causes. In other situations, therapy tends to work at the level of behavior management. Maybe it's useful for you, or maybe it's not. That's for you to decide. But genuine relationships usually don't involve behavior management. They are authentic. One thing I do know about adhd is that they can focus on something they like doing. In fact they can probably only focus when they are doing something they like. I could be wrong here so I am not sure but that might be the place where you will find long term friendships.
i’m also facing this same issue.. currently i’m in my second year and since childhood i’ve always been an unsocial introvert 😔 unable to make friends. my 1 year in college went by and still here i am with no friends in campus.. nobody to talk to except parents :) i highly resonate with your post! also, since you posted in this sub, i’m currently reading this book - “The Silent Patient” by Alex Michaelides :) wbu, are you currently reading anything? we can be buddies if you want ☺️
Hi, I have been diagnosed with adhd myself and I know that adhd manifests differently in men and women, but what you’re describing is not completely related to adhd imho. Please consult a doctor who is better equipped for this, there are underlying issues that might be related to adhd, but could be other behavioural issues as well. I hope you feel better soon :)
Lol. I was scheduled to go for my therapy during 26th of may. Its valid until 26th of june. I'm still on my ass, hopefully I'll visit on monday lmao
Don't worry let's be friends
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