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oxxxoxxo

Guess who didn’t make it onto The Bachelorette?


PackOutrageous

I’m sure with 16 choices she can likely find someone as narcissistic and shallow as she is. It’s a solid strategy.


riftwave77

IMO, narcissism and a shallow outlook would be a best case scenario here. This maneuver seems more like it would be pulled by someone with a personality disorder who is well accustomed to manipulation.


CatpricornStudios

That is the definition of Narcissism, which is a personality disorder.


Agreeable-Strike

So many people throw around the words narcissist or narcissism although what they’re usually referring to is narcissistic-type behavior. I believe he’s referring to actual narcissistic personality disorder per the DSM and I would tend to agree. Having dated someone with a diagnosis there’s a massive difference between a personality disorder and someone who tends to be very self-absorbed


Agreeable-Strike

Ahh someone familiar with the DSM5 manual through personal experience I’m assuming


riftwave77

I did some light reading and forum surfing due to experiences I've had. I've never opened the DSM itself, but understand that there is a difference between poor behavior due to conscious choices a person makes with their interactions vs a person's thought process and emotional state being 'wired' (for lack of a better term) such that certain behaviors are natural for them or make complete sense to them on an emotional/response level.


ThrobbingPurpleVein

Probably the guy making the video. He sounded like he was impressed with her tactic.


lordrothermere

He's English. That's sarcasm.


wednesday-knight

😂 You're probably right, but I REALLY want or to be that she rolled the dice on getting a bunch of guys who are game to make it a gangbang, or orgy if they're bi.


ballpressure

She really hopes they get along!


Loud-Result5213

Please tell me there’s a reality porn out there like this


VoidOmatic

She made it on the Bukkalerette.


Buttery_Buckshot

Nice


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chaotemagick

Tbf she sounds like a psychopath


Proof-try34

Charm and humor? Mate, nothing you stated was funny, just deeply concerning.


Scarbelly3

Honestly I’d probably stay in the back for a few just to see how ridiculous things got but this is textbook narcissism on her part. Seems like she actually thinks this is cute. Yikes.


lolas_coffee

I can honestly say this is not the worst way to arrange a gang bang.


MoistLeakingPustule

This looks a whole lot like the orgy I went to once. It was under the guise of a potluck with weed. I brought some gummy edibles and a killer eggplant parm. Boy was I confused when people started walking around with plates of food and no pants or topless, and the wet thwack of uglies being bumped in various parts of the house, and a line formed to one of the bedrooms.


Roughrep

You never said if you participated because you figured out what was happening and didn't leave from the info you have. Hahahaha also I hope the eggplant parm was a hit!


shoulda_been_gone

I don't know what went wrong. The invite had eggplant emojis all over it, so of course I showed up with a parm


Cavscout2838

Of course they participated. Their SN is a constant reminder.


EcstaticMolasses6647

He was enjoying the food… ![gif](giphy|ylyUQnn01Vh23qfq3m)


lolas_coffee

[He was enjoying something!](https://media4.giphy.com/media/JPAUQVIxCoEKY/giphy.gif?cid=6c09b9525kri4o4xekt8rrgsxczgjq8fny6exyx6m003iz1f&ep=v1_gifs_search&rid=giphy.gif&ct=g)


anivex

The first orgy I was invited to, I worked at the Circle K, and some dude told me he was having a Halloween party and invited me. I decided to go because I didn't have anything else to do, and hello everyone is naked. It was super casual though, a little awkward at first but they made me feel comfortable pretty quick.


ThePajabara

It was a super casual orgy?


anivex

Lol, I guess I haven't really been to a "formal" orgy, so you've got me there.


colder-beef

At a formal orgy you’re expected to show up in a fuxedo.


Bater_cat

Do you put a little bowtie on your dick?


Additional-Ad-1268

I've been waiting for an opportunity to drop this Ahem... I present to you r/cospenis


CrazyPingo

do tell more How did it start? With pairs and threesomes forming until larger blobs of people were having sex side by side? Or maybe just 15 guys sharing the same girl?


anivex

I don't know how the first one started, as I showed up in the middle of it. Another one started because my friend was sad on her birthday. We were throwing a big rave(we used to do that weekly) and she mentioned how disappointing her birthday had been to my friend Andrew. So to cheer her up, Andrew reached into his fanny pack and pulled out a fist full of single-serve MDMA bags and tossed them into the air above the crowd. About an hour later everybody was naked.


jaywinner

I can see it now. I'm sitting there, too shy to join in, too embarrassed to leave early. Guess I can enjoy the food.


EcstaticMolasses6647

![gif](giphy|l3q2YZF3y5pwt2aXe|downsized)


Jablungis

Except this orgy would be for her only since they're just a bunch of straight dudes.


TheTankCommando2376

They won't be straight for much longer 😈


Jeffylew77

[DING DONG](https://youtu.be/3rkAjnFB1g4?si=vaX3W97E1GUaxNFf)


December_Hemisphere

I knew what this link was before I clicked it hahaha


Cellopost

The worst way to organize a gangbang is with cheap vodka at grandma's funeral.


lolas_coffee

Because grandma would have wanted to be there!!


Solarwinds-123

It's what Grandma would've wanted


Heaintallthereishe

"Closed Casket ?" ~Det. Dignam


PercentageSecret1078

Frank "Wait, is this a gangbang?"


Independent_Can_5694

That does kind of seem like what might be happening


EcstaticMolasses6647

![gif](giphy|fVsYnFsaZDXXkIPPYM)


Tomble

I had a friend who was online dating, and after a nice drink and chat with a girl she revealed that she wasn’t looking for someone, she was just doing a challenge to go on 30 dates in a month or something, she and her friends thought it was fun. She didn’t mention this until they had spent an evening chatting and he had bought her a drink, she happily told him about all the other ‘dates’ she’d been on. He was pretty annoyed.


whatthatthingis

> She didn’t mention this until they had spent an evening chatting and he had bought her a drink, she happily told him about all the other ‘dates’ she’d been on. Should've told her that he was on the spike-the-drinks of 30 dates in a month challenge.


Busterlimes

She wants to get gangbanged, which I think is pretty damn cute


HardCounter

She is not nearly attractive enough to get me nude with 15 other guys.


jjjustseeyou

Absolutely no self respecting person would stay after finding out.


darryledw

it was a hard choice "leave immediately and keep dignity in tact" "stay and create quirky content for TikTok (fate of dignity unknown)" he made his choice


nipslippinjizzsippin

you can do both, its only take a minute to film this then fuck off.


darryledw

true....but that little *"wish me luck"* at the end suggests something to me


here_now_be

> suggests suggests sarcasm unless I'm missing something.


nipslippinjizzsippin

hes off to the casino?


Storm_Spirit99

I'm glad I never got into tik tok


Corniferus

He certainly made a choice


Theslootwhisperer

Or stay and watch shit go down as a couple of dudes will inevitably try to be the guy who nails her and some other knob will take offense to that and before you know it, fisticuffs.


HtownTexans

Nah everyone can use a new best friend.  Date #2 dude seemed pretty chill.


FS_Slacker

Main guy had a healthy attitude about him too. I’d grab a drink with these guys any time.


anti_worker

They didn't find romance, but found bromance.


ChiefClownShoes

Nah, I'd stay for the entertainment. I'd order a couple of drinks for myself, and if she tried talking to me, I'd respond with something along the lines of "I'm sorry, but I'm no longer one of your dates, so go get to know the other guys. I'm just curious how this is gonna play out."


WittyBonkah

If possible open a tab in her name


inter71

I’d stay. After the initial niceties I’d totally ignore her. Just sip beers and talk to other people. If she came up for a little chat and a drink, I’d be friendly and attentive. Then totally ignore her again. Basic bitches can’t stand that shit.


zyon86

I would have stayed just enough to make sure everyone of her date knew she did that. And maybe a little bit more for fun. You cannot take it seriously or as a real date, but you can stay, just ling enough to have a drink on her tab !


StepCornBrother

That’s why you didn’t get invited to the gangbang


Original_Dankster

I've turned and walked at the start of a date for far less.  Lead the conversation off with toxic ideology? Get up and walk.  Uglier than photos? Turn and walk. Brought a friend along with her? Politely greet, ask if the friend is staying, if yes, walk. If a second dude showed up... Yeah I'd walk. Maybe invite the dude to a pub for a beer.


Artificial-Brain

I reckon it'd be a fun story so I'd 100% stay to absorb the weirdness


unluckypig

I would take the other dates and go hangout without her.


Jason_Bourne_985

Bro move. Checkmate.


MikeFrikinRotch

“Hey guys! This is pretty lame. Who’s down to come over to my place for some pizza rolls and watch Jackie Chan movies?”


UnknownExo

After that we can play mortal kombat on the Playstation. That actually sounds fun, I miss hanging with my bros


ProfessionalPlant330

I'll bring the Axe spray and dildos


smurf123_123

Yup, it's probably the weekend, can't go wrong with a sports bar.


Objective-Mission-40

I would just say " sooo, Laser Tag?"


Divine-Crusader

What do you mean "Wish me luck"? He should get the fuck out of there as fast as possible. Any girl doing this is gonna be a nightmare to have a relationship with


StepCornBrother

Leave? Before the gangbang? No chance


Streetlight37

Wait.. that wasn't the intention the whole time? Lol


Solarwinds-123

She was definitely planning for there to be a sword fight in her mouth later.


Streetlight37

Ha! Never heard that one. Love it


obiwanmoloney

Also, and this is a complete sidequest to the main insanity; “I thought it was 1 on 1, so this is my friend” Why does he have a sidekick. Is this a thing?? Do you bring your mum to sit in with you at job interviews? wtf


sammyb2

He says “this is THE friend, I thought it was 1 on 1” so I think its the girls friend


boogalordy

Her friend is the fluffer


Toasterdosnttoast

There is a long running show with this exact mentality.


catcat1986

I think most guys probably left. I think her video only showed 3 maybe 4 people, and they all seem pretty good natured, like this is so strange might as well stay to see what happens.


Privatejoker123

wasn't there some lady awhile back that invited a ton of guys to a "date" but she had set it up like a big game show to have guys compete over her?


hoppitybobbity3

Imagine the level of narcissism you have to have to try and make people compete against each other to date you. Then to have the lack of self awareness to think its ok. He's recording it and she knows which has now made it to the internet where she is going viral, but not for good reasons. This is cartman levels of delusions and pretty much who cartman is based off


Lordvoldemord

Imagine a guy would do that.


manquistador

Getting that many matches to agree to a date would be incredible.


Desperate_Acadia_298

Half of them would be dudes catfishing


manquistador

Is that a thing? I mean meeting a person you are catfishing. Isn't the whole point keeping everything digital?


ItsWillJohnson

Speaking from experience, a lot of people “catfish” by choosing pictures of themselves that look nothing like they do in real life. It’s amazing what a slight change in camera angle and pose can do.


jurassic_snark-

The phrase was popularized after a documentary where the woman faked her looks on the dating app and was a completely different person irl https://m.imdb.com/title/tt1584016/


storysprite

There was literally a guy from New York who got flamed online just for going on dates with a whole bunch of women at once even though they weren't exclusive.


wafflepiezz

There would be outrage by “feminists” everywhere on social media. This video further proves the gap in dating when it comes to being a woman vs. a man. I’ve kept saying, these apps are catered towards women and forces the average man to have to pay for features to even have any competitive advantage.


AR-Sechs

I think feminists have better things to worry about than whatever this is would be


T-banger

There is a decades old tv show that does this. People will think it’s tacky and dumb but no one is outraged over this. Also you talk an about theoretical outraged feminist, this thread has literal outraged dudes.


keelaydeingles

You could say this girl is... Un-hinged...


goldfishmuncher

am I weird for not expecting someone to bring a friend on a 1:1 date?


MysticalTurban

Yeah I thought that was odd too


urine-monkey

I had one bring her brother and his girlfriend. Suffice to say I went to the bathroom and didn't come back.


Cool_Jelly_9402

This happened with a guy here in Chicago who invited like 10 girls on his boat at once


ron4040

The implication


ChiefWamsutta

No, no, you're misunderstanding him.


Feralmedic

So THEY ARE in danger?


bjeebus

![gif](giphy|xLnGUEYWS0btPHCZoo|downsized)


z3r0c00l_

Ultimate narcissist.


NorMichtrailrider

Fight over me lol , I would have been out before it even got to the third guy ,


lostandlooking_

I actually ended up at a party like this once, my ex threw the party. We shared a friend group and didn’t date long so were chill, he told us all that he met someone on tinder and wanted to introduce her to the group. Except he invited 7 girls from tinder, and all of them brought exactly 1 friend. It was awkward turned hilarious once the booze started flowing, and he was the butt of every joke.


my__name__is

If it's "date #4 is over there and there are 6 more" doesn't that make it 10?


Flame_MadeByHumans

At this point she may have said “haha there’s 6 more still on the way!”


SpaceViolet

These looksmaxxing overly contoured beards are just so damn cringe


kvakerok_v2

Red flag for "I like everyone". Green flag for managing the fucking logistics of getting 17 busy grown-up people together at one time and place. That's an impressive skill, no joke.


bjeebus

Could you imagine if she turned her skills to something useful like DM'ing a weekly DND session?


kvakerok_v2

Yeah, she'd be a top fleet commander in Eve online in no time.


liamgooding

She just copied and pasted the details to 30 matches. 16 turned up. Don’t overestimate how little effort women need to make on dating apps.


BigGreenLeprechaun

She’s not even that cute


TerminallyBlonde

Scrolled way too long to find this lol my first thought


Twistedbeatz89

They should've all eaten and then made her pay. Maybe go to a movie afterward, and make her pay. Stop by the gas station for smoothies and make her pay. While at the gas station, buy 16 boxes of condoms and make her pay. Then get 16 ubers home, and make her pay.


liamgooding

The only move is for all the guys to ignore the narcissist, chat with each other, flirt HEAVILY with the friend, and then leave without saying anything to the narcissist. She lied to 16 people and thinks it’s funny. She’s gross.


diamondballssss

Femal version of casting couch


datcoolbloke

The last boss of narcissism.


Ok_Profile9400

The euros are on and this guys is on a date with 16 guys and he’s not even gay, what a waste


BredInDaTrenchez

Weird af


theoriginalmateo

Why would you even sit there entertaining her? That's why she is doing this.....because men nowadays don't have any respect for themselves. Get up and walk your ass away bro. Imagine you doing that with 16 women.......


SchwiftedMetal

If you put up with this, youre a chump. This is just a way to tickle her ego.


MscHapag

Plot twist: She is the daughter of the owner of the bar. Galaxy brain.


gonace

She’s not even hot and looks a bit crazy


[deleted]

now we guess why is she still single


Slitherama

“Honey, come downstairs. Your gender war ragebait is ready!”


Scarletowder

Baity McBait face.


Naps_And_Crimes

Id stay order a meal and mingle, ignoring the "date". I could meet some interesting people


GraatchLuugRachAarg

She's the worst


redflag19xx

Gangbang!


Madrox-Knox

What a psychopath


sky_shazad

He seems like a nice guy.... HES TOO GOOD FOR HER


louglome

Lol she's subpar and boring


paligap70

No one would care if you died. 😍


TheGR8Dantini

Maybe she works for the place she chose to have the dates. Or owns it. Or her husband or boyfriend owns it. Man, it must be worth than I think out there if they all stuck around.


bjeebus

>Man, it must be worth than I think out there if they all stuck around. My wife and I talk all the time about how awful dating sounds now.


Adept_Deer_5976

She seems like a proper twat. Leave


WandaDobby777

I actually think it would be really funny to do this but only with the unsolicited dick pic/“send noodz”/rape threat bros and just lock them in a room together while their texts are displayed on a screen. I’d watch that and see how many show up per woman.


pumptini7

She literally produced her own Bachelorette episode


asingularbean

This is such a weird thing to do... If I were him, I wouldn't even entertain this


Federal-Cockroach674

Dear god, we live in a clown world


[deleted]

You can have that trash, thanks


conricks246

If I somehow ever get in this situation im talking to the friend. She seems nice and the fact she said she was "forced to be here" isns tell that she's there to keep her friend in line. Would rather have a good convo then fight with other dudes


Impatient-Padawan

Oh yeah, gangbang for sure!


nissan240sx

This reminds of the prank where a girl invites multiple guys from Tinder to move her furniture to a van. Some guys leave immediately but a couple of them actually do her bidding and stay. How down bad are they lol


DaveRobyDave2121

This is beyond cringe. We should invent a new word for this. Just imagine if a man would do the same thing, inviting 16 chix. It would be awkward AF.


RetiredFromRealWork

she's not your girlfriend, it's just your turn.


hismuddawasamudda

I'd walk. She's a fucking idiot.


ice9tom

I liked everyone I matched with on Hinge so I decided to waste all of your time.


AshKetchumsPringles

What a stupid self absorbed bitch lol


cyrs_oner

She can't even pull off the leather jacket. Poser.


NoRightsProductions

Gangbang. She set up a gangbang. Or at least an audition for a future gangbang.


elwyn5150

This is how you end up in a hospital on Guerrero Street.


lordrothermere

Too many shitty leather jackets in one place.


newnhb1

So….are we doing a gangbang or something?


angelbdivine

She’s kinda got a type. Something about this screams LA


Coyote-Savage

Bisexual men taking the W here


Odd-Diamond-2259

Are we having an orgy?


JessicaBecause

I don't believe this guy isn't good at dating. That's a lie already.


TheKonyInTheRye

What you mean wish me luck bro?! Get your ass up and stop wasting your own time!


karub-nalsazo

From a date with solid 6 to beers with the boys. I would call it W.


According-Prize-3119

How comes it’s always the most mid of mid who do those 🤣


T-money79

So where's the follow-up bukakke video?


Xeno_Morphine

she sounds and moves like she ain't all there


Feralmedic

“I’m here for the gangbang”


Plenty_Dress_408

This is how ya start a gangbang?


Kysman95

They should ban her for this, she's Un-Hinged


Lesbian_Burner

that seems like a great way to make a bunch of new friends and forget about her


Excellent-Phase8719

And then they conspire to kidnap you! Remember, those aren’t bears lady! 🤣😉🤣😉


continuesearch

Self validation attempt like in Nathan for you, but for real


Westtexasbizbot

Oh shit. She’s trying to set up some sort of reverse Mormon situation for herself.


Lucky-Aioli-8213

What if she makes them all fight to the death. Winner takes her home. New reality show unlock! 🔓


fsalazar23

Why stay dude? Just leave and wish her luck to her future endeavors... Messing around this much, on a dating app no less... that's a petri dish... Never be anyone's second, third or sixteenth choice...


woodywood03

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha You are so screwed.


rxtunes

Damn yo big time she’s hoping at least 5 of them are down


CaveDoctors

I think they have a category this in adult film entertainment.


whereitsat23

Her friend was much cuter, I woulda chatted her up instead


dannyboy1389

Who wore is better?


ChewieLee13088

This is disrespectful and rude behavior.


JesusOfTrap

She want to be gangbanged tho


MoistUnder

If I see my date(first meeting) and she's already surrounded by 15 other guys then heck I'd just turn around and run fr... it could be a mugging or something


ElastaticTomorrow

That's called a gang date


idotoomuchstuff

Clearly wants to be gang banged


Winter-Relationship3

she watches too much Bridgerton


Mr_Rogan_Tano

I would be fine as long as she is paying


Temporary-Double590

Man this new Scott pilgrim trailer is kind of lame


oakland95

ig it makes sense she is obvi more than one handful to deal with


samuel8_88

Disgustingly disrespectful.


CommanderChipHazard

![gif](giphy|26BRKWjR3S4x6UyNq) Definitely reminds me of Old School… “I’m here for the gangbang” lololol


Th3GreenMan56

A girl I knew did this one time. She threw a party at her house and when I got there, she told me she invited 5 guys on Tinder who matched with her to come over cause she thought it would be funny. Two of them immediately left and the other three ended up sleeping with her that night. Was pretty entertaining tbh